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Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by Diamond098454(f): 4:27pm On Dec 07, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Can you please explain why you think like that?
no man remains single forever
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by stainzville: 4:35pm On Dec 07, 2025
In marriage, no such thing as rape
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by immortalcrown(m): 5:26pm On Dec 07, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
See you used the word "consent".

So you see, it becomes rape when that consent is not there.

"Not in the mood" is not the same as lack of consent. Not in the mood in marriage means implied consent. So uncle as every husband does, still has and enjoys the right to stimulate and put her in the mood while he is already in her after all the mood always kicks in when the match has started.

But this is different from the one that she says "No" and has closed her legs and run to another room where you pursue her and beat her and tear her clothes and pant and penetrate her, all with force. That is Rape!
The consent is one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage. Stop twisting things unnecessarily.
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by Samantha125(f): 5:44pm On Dec 07, 2025
Will you also provide her with feel good hormones and neurotransmitters to get her relaxed and ready?
Gotocourt:
Olive annionting oil will get her read. Spitting on it will get the job done angry
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by Nobody: 5:56pm On Dec 07, 2025
Diamond098454:
no man remains single forever
That’s very true, Diamond. Does getting married truly guarantee that I will have a partner until I die? We already see many married men who lose their wives, either through separation, changing life circumstances or the unfortunate reality of death.

I don’t think marriage offers any guarantee of a lifelong partner.
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by Diamond098454(f): 6:08pm On Dec 07, 2025
SpencerForbes:
That’s very true, Diamond. Does getting married truly guarantee that I will have a partner until I die? We already see many married men who lose their wives, either through separation, changing life circumstances or the unfortunate reality of death.

I don’t think marriage offers any guarantee of a lifelong partner.
see who is talking, very soon you will fall in love and wouldn't want to waste time in getting married

2026 you will give us invitation card for your wedding
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by Nobody: 6:14pm On Dec 07, 2025
Diamond098454:
see who is talking, very soon you will fall in love and wouldn't want to waste time in getting married

2026 you will give us invitation card for your wedding
Amen 🙌🙌🙌 only for you and Samantha125😂 exclusive invitation 😂
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by Diamond098454(f): 6:16pm On Dec 07, 2025
[quote author=SpencerForbes post=137720392]Amen 🙌🙌🙌 only for you and Samantha125😂 exclusive invitation 😂[/quotes) hahaha🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by Dtruthspeaker: 8:04pm On Dec 07, 2025
immortalcrown:
The consent is one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage. Stop twisting things unnecessarily.
Was the consent given for rape? No
Did you marry your wife with a mind of raping her and you told her that your marriage includes you raping her? (Na only you fit answer this question?)

And this is The Law, no one can consent to a crime.
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by immortalcrown(m): 8:38pm On Dec 07, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Was the consent given for rape? No
Did you marry your wife with a mind of raping her and you told her that your marriage includes you raping her? (Na only you fit answer this question?)

And this is The Law, no one can consent to a crime.
No part of my comment supports rape. Continue to twist things to suit yourself.
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by Dtruthspeaker: 8:43pm On Dec 07, 2025
immortalcrown:
No part of my comment supports rape. Continue to twist things to suit yourself.
It did when you said "consent is one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage". Meanwhile rape comes up much after in the marriage
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by immortalcrown(m): 8:53pm On Dec 07, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
It did when you said "consent is one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage". Meanwhile rape comes up much after in the marriage
Can you quote any law that contradicts my comment?
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by Dtruthspeaker: 8:55pm On Dec 07, 2025
immortalcrown:
Can you quote any law that contradicts my comment?
I did that already you are just moving post
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by immortalcrown(m): 8:56pm On Dec 07, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
I did that already you are just moving post
You never did.

Quote any law that says that consent to sex in marriage is to be sought each the couple wants to have sex.

Also, show me where the constitution says that a man can do to his wife something that can be legally or religiously interpreted as rape.
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by Dtruthspeaker: 9:08pm On Dec 07, 2025
immortalcrown:
You never did.

Quote any law that says that consent to sex in marriage is to be sought each the couple wants to have sex.

Also, show me where the constitution says that a man can do to his wife something that can be legally or religiously interpreted as rape.
You said "Can you quote any law that contradicts my comment?"

Now you have changed post again to "Quote any law that says that consent to sex in marriage is to be sought each the couple wants to have sex"

When you are the one saying that a husband can rape his wife so long as the wife gave her consent, an everlasting one-time thing given at their beginning of their marriage.

"consent is one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage."

So, according to you, he can rape her since she has exhausted her one and only consent. The only consent she has in the whole world, according to you.
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by immortalcrown(m): 9:26pm On Dec 07, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
You said "Can you quote any law that contradicts my comment?"

Now you have changed post again to "Quote any law that says that consent to sex in marriage is to be sought each the couple wants to have sex"

When you are the one saying that a husband can rape his wife so long as the wife gave her consent, an everlasting one-time thing given at their beginning of their marriage.

"consent is one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage."

So, according to you, he can rape her since she has exhausted her one and only consent. The only consent she has in the whole world, according to you.
Can you quote any law that says that consent to sex in marriage is not one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage?

Also, show me where the constitution says that a man can do to his wife something that can be legally or religiously interpreted as rape.
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by Dtruthspeaker: 10:01pm On Dec 07, 2025
immortalcrown:
Can you quote any law that says that consent to sex in marriage is not one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage?

Also, show me where the constitution says that a man can do to his wife something that can be legally or religiously interpreted as rape.
Not interested

As long as this thread proves that you are rape supporter in that a husband can rape his wife so long as the wife gave her consent, an everlasting one-time thing which she gave at the beginning of their marriage.

"consent is one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage."

So, according to you, he can rape her since she has exhausted her one and only consent. The only consent she has in the whole world, according to you.
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by immortalcrown(m): 10:25pm On Dec 07, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Not interested

As long as this thread proves that you are rape supporter in that a husband can rape his wife so long as the wife gave her consent, an everlasting one-time thing which she gave at the beginning of their marriage.

"consent is one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage."

So, according to you, he can rape her since she has exhausted her one and only consent. The only consent she has in the whole world, according to you.
Can you quote any law that says that consent to sex in marriage is not one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage?

Also, show me where the constitution says that a man can do to his wife something that can be legally or religiously interpreted as rape.

Answer these questions or remain a liar.
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by BAILMONEY: 10:36pm On Dec 07, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Let’s call a spade a spade.
It’s rape.

“Rape is a form of sexual assault where you're forced to engage in sexual acts (vaginal, anal or oral) against your will or without giving consent”.

That’s why polygamy should be allowed.They’ll both want to comport themselves because they know what’s at stake or you can get a side chick.

Polygamy definitely has downsides, like the inevitable envy and jealousy, which means you better have serious money before jumping in. And just for the record, guys are victims of rape too.

But society acts like men can't be victims, so who is going to actually believe a man? We've only just started getting real about domestic violence against men; acknowledging male rape is still way behind.
POLYGAMY IS A BAE
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by BAILMONEY: 10:39pm On Dec 07, 2025
kiddaz:
I see... Continue
The Samantha girl is a MAN, the original nairaland canceller
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by Dtruthspeaker: 11:51pm On Dec 07, 2025
immortalcrown:
Can you quote any law that says that consent to sex in marriage is not one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage?

Also, show me where the constitution says that a man can do to his wife something that can be legally or religiously interpreted as rape.

Answer these questions or remain a liar.
The thread shows that you have been moving post since you could not find any sensible thing to say again while proving that you
that you say a husband can rape his wife so long as the wife gave her consent, an everlasting one-time thing which she gave at the beginning of their marriage.

"consent is one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage."

So, according to you, he can rape her since she has exhausted her one and only consent. The only consent she has in the whole world, according to you.
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by Kobojunkie:
bmd1010:
This is just up to a short debate or just your opinion, no need for insult.
2. But i for one don't think its should be called rape, same way there are different kind of murder, and it seem to be a one sided situation, d wife cries rape and the husband cries what?? Or wait we hardly or can't remember hearing the case of a man getting raped by the wife.
3. Am just saying wat i feel, feel free to say urs
A woman is a human being, complete with bodily autonomy until even after her death. According to Merriam Webster, Rape is unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury against a person's will or with a person who is beneath a certain age or incapable of valid consent because of mental illness, mental deficiency, intoxication, unconsciousness, or deception. 😕

2. Note that the term used is the same regardless of how the rapist was able to take advantage of the victim forcibly. 😕

3. Would you feel the same way if it had been your mother, sister, or maybe even your own daughter who came to you with their experience? 😕😕


What do Nigerian laws say about rape? See below! undecided

Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by Williampisces: 4:56am On Dec 08, 2025
immortalcrown:
Can you quote any law that says that consent to sex in marriage is not one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage?

Also, show me where the constitution says that a man can do to his wife something that can be legally or religiously interpreted as rape.

Answer these questions or remain a liar.
(mu) mu .. immature crown... Na your type i dey use shine for court.. keep writing rubbish... Consent to sex is a one-time voucher bawo..
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by Baronthecelebri(m): 5:31am On Dec 08, 2025
God bless you
immortalcrown:
No!

Acceptance of marriage means mutual consent to intercourse, both legally and religiously.

In marriage, the partners owe each other the responsibility of sexual pleasure. You carry out your responsibility as long as you are able (healthy and available) to do so, whether it pleases you or not.

A woman saying she was raped by her husband just because he slept with her when she was not in the mood for sex is like a man saying that his family enslaves him because the struggles he goes through to feed the family do not please him.

But if a man can hold himself when his wife says no, it is very good. He should also be considerate to let the wife be when he knows that she is stressed out. One of the major problems with our society is that we want to eat our cake and have it. Morally, a man insisting on sleeping with his wife when she is not in the mood is better than he cheating on the wife. But to those who who misunderstand the meaning of marriage, a man cheating on his wife is better than he sleeping with the wife when the wife is not in the mood for sex. The craziest part is that some women after claiming that they are not in the mood and denying their husbands sex will still persecute the husbands for meeting another woman. This paragraph is not trying to justify infidelity in marriage. This paragraph only tries to project the madness of our society.

Most of the women who believe that a man can rape his wife are still the ones cheating on their husbands. They claim it is because they still love the exes.

When I try to explain to people that sex is not part of love, they say I am crazy. Love is what you owe everyone including strangers. Love does not have types. Love is just one. Love is immeasurable. There is nothing like, "I love John and Peter but I love John more than I love Peter". Love does not come in degrees. People misinterpret responsibility as love. Sex is a matrimonial responsibility, not love. If sex is love, then it is right for every single person to offer sex to all the people around him or her.

Love alone cannot keep marriage. Being diligent in carrying out matrimonial responsibilities keeps marriage. Giving one's spouse sexual pleasure when the spouse needs it is part of matrimonial responsibilities.
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by immortalcrown(m): 6:54am On Dec 08, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
The thread shows that you have been moving post since you could not find any sensible thing to say again while proving that you
that you say a husband can rape his wife so long as the wife gave her consent, an everlasting one-time thing which she gave at the beginning of their marriage.

"consent is one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage."

So, according to you, he can rape her since she has exhausted her one and only consent. The only consent she has in the whole world, according to you.
Can you quote any law that says that consent to sex in marriage is not one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage?

Also, show me where the constitution says that a man can do to his wife something that can be legally or religiously interpreted as rape.

Answer these questions or remain a liar.
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by immortalcrown(m): 6:56am On Dec 08, 2025
Williampisces:
(mu) mu .. immature crown... Na your type i dey use shine for court.. keep writing rubbish... Consent to sex is a one-time voucher bawo..
If you shine in court and you are not the biggest mumu, do the following:

1.
Quote any law that says that consent to sex in marriage is not one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage.

2.
Show me where the constitution says that a man can do to his wife something that can be legally or religiously interpreted as rape.

Answer these questions or remain a liar.
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by Dtruthspeaker: 7:15am On Dec 08, 2025
Williampisces:
(mu) mu .. immature crown... Na your type i dey use shine for court.. keep writing rubbish... Consent to sex is a one-time voucher bawo..
Another "you don know law" funny guy
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by Dtruthspeaker: 7:18am On Dec 08, 2025
immortalcrown:
If you shine in court and you are not the biggest mumu, do the following:

1.
Quote any law that says that consent to sex in marriage is not one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage.

2.
Show me where the constitution says that a man can do to his wife something that can be legally or religiously interpreted as rape.

Answer these questions or remain a liar.
The thread shows you moving post since you could not find any sensible thing to say again while proving that you
that you say a husband can rape his wife so long as the wife gave her consent, an everlasting one-time thing which she gave at the beginning of their marriage.

"consent is one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage."

So, according to you, he can rape her since she has exhausted her one and only consent. The only consent she has in the whole world, according to you.

Another you don know law has started.
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by joeyswift(m): 7:25am On Dec 08, 2025
Even in marriage, a man can rape his wife. When the woman doesnt want sex and you forcefully have your way, you have raped her.
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by immortalcrown(m): 8:57am On Dec 08, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
The thread shows you moving post since you could not find any sensible thing to say again while proving that you
that you say a husband can rape his wife so long as the wife gave her consent, an everlasting one-time thing which she gave at the beginning of their marriage.

"consent is one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage."

So, according to you, he can rape her since she has exhausted her one and only consent. The only consent she has in the whole world, according to you.

Another you don know law has started.
If you shine in court and you are not the biggest mumu, do the following:

1.
Quote any law that says that consent to sex in marriage is not one-time and given at the beginning of the marriage.

2.
Show me where the constitution says that a man can do to his wife something that can be legally or religiously interpreted as rape.

Answer these questions or remain a liar.
Re: I Know This Is A Sensitive Topic But Can A Man Rape His Wife by seanery: 11:52am On Dec 08, 2025
SOME PANSH DEY BE LIKE RAPE AT TIME.., WITH THE WAY D MAN GO HANG HIN WIFE LEGS ( 1 AT THE WINDOW, THE OTHER AT THE CEILING FAN ).
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