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Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by HustlaOfLagos: 11:10am On Dec 07, 2025
lavida001:
The matter tie wrapper.
Well, next year, we will see how they will lay everything bare.

Not like warning signs were not there for all and sundry in the lead up to all the brouhaha

smiley
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by HustlaOfLagos: 11:14am On Dec 07, 2025
justwise:
[b]

Obviously you have not been paying attention about Trump ICE operations
The good thing is that Trump and his folks will likely disappear after his tenure ends and things will return to normal. I am also sure immigrants including hispanics who thought themselves special have all learnt vital lessons and will vote with sense in the next elections.

Issue is that the UK does not seem to have immigration policies set in stone and simply wing it as they go. The next gov can as well extend ILR to 700 years and it will still be accepted.

In the midst of all the rogbodiyan, I still have friends and family, students and citizens, moving back and forth US without issues
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Raalsalghul: 11:48am On Dec 07, 2025
HustlaOfLagos:
1. The bolded is not true.. well maybe true for those who are not willing to research and do some work.

Canada has tested the waters with their PR care route. Got subscribed to in 24 hrs and it will be officially introduced in 2026. I suspect Australia will also follow suite. US also has EB3

2. Still doesn"t negate the fact that most people will just use them as a stepping stone. A lot of people have more options than they think but are they willing to work towards them? That is another story on its own.
For care / support in the UK, one can work towards career as a care coordinator, in CAMHS etc which is what I have always preached. Its not like the care coordinators have any special skills that cant be gotten within 2-3 yrs but then, you know our people and being unwilling to take risks.
At your point number two, facts.

And for those that will stay, there's still a choice for them to just stay and work. Nothing else! Direct all investments towards somewhere else or put it in such a liquid form that's it's easy to cart away incase shit hits the fan.

Amidst all this brouhaha, na the small savings wey dey my account dey give me small confidence.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Raalsalghul: 11:58am On Dec 07, 2025
HustlaOfLagos:
Well, next year, we will see how they will lay everything bare.

Not like warning signs were not there for all and sundry in the lead up to all the brouhaha

smiley
Another thing is that there's a huge percentage of immigrants that are not clued up about all these proposed policies and how it will change their lives.

They're politically unaware. Their own na to go shift and come back. grin
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by RodgersAkpafu: 12:37pm On Dec 07, 2025
HustlaOfLagos:
1. The bolded is not true.. well maybe true for those who are not willing to research and do some work.

Canada has tested the waters with their PR care route. Got subscribed to in 24 hrs and it will be officially introduced in 2026. I suspect Australia will also follow suite. US also has EB3

2. Still doesn"t negate the fact that most people will just use them as a stepping stone. A lot of people have more options than they think but are they willing to work towards them? That is another story on its own.

For care / support in the UK, one can work towards career as a care coordinator, in CAMHS etc which is what I have always preached. Its not like the care coordinators have any special skills that cant be gotten within 2-3 yrs but then, you know our people and being unwilling to take risks.
The reality is more complex than this sha
That one i know
Some will definitely find a way to move
BUT for the vast majority, its not that easy

Immigration is now tough
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by directonpc(m): 4:47pm On Dec 07, 2025
RodgersAkpafu:
I didn't mean third world residents as a dlur though
The way you framed it makes it appear like a slur

That said, there will always find a way.
And let's be real
Most developing countries are currently fked
Most who are here wont be going back home unless they have no choice
Most ambitious and creative people will find opportunities elsewhere (including back at home).

Those that will never want to go back are people who think they have nothing elsewhere (the opposite of your assumption). Or sold everything they had to come here and can't go back empty handed and you can't blame them.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by jedisco(m): 12:48am On Dec 08, 2025
Logged on to catch up with the mentions. Folks don build me duplex for their head - all rent-free. Abeg those building should include a swimming pool. If not, I no go collect
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by jedisco(m): 12:50am On Dec 08, 2025
Goke7:
So this is really who you are? Doing cheap blackmail like Mtn (everywhere you go) 😂
Hehe... the trash people say.
Later, they'd hide under building Nigeria but are unable to structure a sentence on how to go about it.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by lavida001: 1:02am On Dec 08, 2025
Young people will be stripped of their right to claim benefits if they refuse a taxpayer-funded job after 18 months without a job, the work and pensions secretary says.

Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by jedisco(m):
Saccharine:
Jedisco if na boasting, boast dey go, I'm loving it as it gingers me like crazy! Don't know about others but I love to read about accomplishments and people doing well for themselves . I always look forward to your canny updates.

There's posts here for everyone..misery club, boasters club,humble club, rich club, poor club, striving club, riffraff club, oyibo can't do wrong club,Nigerians are evil club.. No problem, just concentrate on the posts that fit you, me, I fix my eyes on the posts that give me life

Una just too funny cheesy grin
Thanks for the nice words. At least the feedback was good. Na me be patron for utopia club

Interestingly, my posts aren't primarily aimed to motivate or ginger folks. I just get tired seeing a narrative that diminishes us being repeated and type to challenge that.

Progress is being made. Take a step back and even here, the narrative is changing.

When was the last time folks blamed migrants here for not being able to see their GP or for the state of the rental market? I remember unfoundly being accused of 'insulting Brits' like they were a different specie. Chai! we don see things. Whisper that today and you'd have to tell me what cohort I'm insulting. Story was that we no go fit make am elsewhere.. them no know say God rewards hard and smart work.... Finally, na God dey boil out water.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by jedisco(m):
Jamesclooney:
Baba shift enter Canada thread abeg.

You’re not the guy you think you are. Other people on this thread, don achieve pass you, but na you proud pass (on top faceless forum oo 😂). You don’t have monopoly on “wisdom” or whatever you think you have upstairs. Every small thing, “mental rigmarole”…”I can’t imagine seeing life through your lenses”. Free advice: Stop pontificating!
You too, I hope this is not the brain you want to use in Canada? If not those Indians would mess you up.
Quite pathetic. Is this your response to my question to point out where I was hauty? In todays world where immigrants are looked at with disdain, stating I contribute is fact not pride.


You'd be the third person (after Zahra and lavidaloca) asking me to go to the Canada thread perhaps in a hurry to look down on yourselves/Nigerians. Eitherway, that's quite rich given we're having this discussion on a Nigerian-based fora. They stopped a while ago after seeing the folly in it. I'd tell you what I told them- as far as the UK goes, by virtue of contribution and investment, I have been invited in and would forever be part of the British society. Today, one of my yearly holidays is reserved for the UK, if not for anything, to inspect my rentals. When I have kids, they'd be entitled to Britain by birth and their fathers sweat. When they are considering higer education, top British universities would be part of the options on the menu. I can return at any point I see fit and God willing when I retire, Britain would definitely be one of the options on my buffet.


Indians... interesting but not surprising you brought that up. What's it with a particular cohort of Nigerians and Indians? I've worked and work with them in multiple capacities and have never seen them as a threat- tell me about your hidden concern about them
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by jedisco(m):
lavida001:
He is quick to shut people down I remember when he called me rat and all. Then noBody said a word, everybody just throw away face but if na lavida na then man like wilberforce go suddenly come out of retirement to ask for admin to remove me.

Na our people we dey accommodate him. No one here has the balls to say it as it is. Just like someone said here some moons ago that he is a politician he knows how to bamboozle our people.

Come online post about couple of houses and cars and brag about the imaginary millions in acccount and watch how naija people become loyal to you and they see no wrong in what you do. You become their mini god.

Him no go try am for CA forum , those ones no get joy. Them go position am for his corner.
Lavidaloca my compatriot, nobody called you a rat.
Like I said, the fact we want to build Nigeria is not the reason to lineup behind a rat. That was in response of your constant belittling of peoples hardwork- thesame group who are actively contributing to Nigeria's growth.
After all this time, I am still waiting for you to elaborate on how we should build Nigeria.


That said. I have noticed a phenonenom among those switching countries. Yes, access to opportunities matter but a lizard doesn't automatically become a crocodile by changing countries. Someone struggling in Nigeria moves to the UK and suddenly becomes a philosopher and starts chorusing 'give back'. Oga, hold body first. The reverse is also true. A first gen born abroad who was virtually scrapping the bottom of their society moves to Nigeria and think they're now an Einstein. Nigeria might have its problems but we're not that bereft.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by jedisco(m): 6:07am On Dec 08, 2025
Banter aside and thinking through, I notice there's an animosity/dread some Nigerians have towards Indians.

Having worked in the NHS, I'm no stranger to working with Indians in different capacities. Even in Cana, dem full and I interract with them as colleagues, staff, patients and in wider settings e.g sales people, realtors e.t.c. infact, one even floated the idea of opening a clinic together.

I see them as just any other cohort - having the good, bad and ugly all of which I've experienced both with them and other demographies. They aggressively seek business- just like most immigrants would and should. Of late, they've had alot of negative media directed at them most of which is driven by hate. I know Nigerians would have come under same fire if we were that visible.

I don't share most of the narrative but given some things have been often repeated by my people, I wonder if there's something I'm missing. I know it'd be anecdotal, I'm keen to know what peoples experience with them has been.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Zahra29: 12:42pm On Dec 08, 2025
jedisco:
You'd be the third person ([b] after Zahra [/b]and lavidaloca) asking me to go to the Canada thread perhaps in a hurry to look down on yourselves/Nigerians. Eitherway, that's quite rich given we're having this discussion on a Nigerian-based fora. They stopped a while ago after seeing the folly in it. I'd tell you what I told them- as far as the UK goes, by virtue of contribution and investment, I have been invited in and would forever be part of the British society. Today, one of my yearly holidays is reserved for the UK, if not for anything, to inspect my rentals. When I have kids, they'd be entitled to Britain by birth and their fathers sweat. When they are considering higer education, top British universities would be part of the options on the menu. I can return at any point I see fit and God willing when I retire, Britain would definitely be one of the options on my buffet.


Indians... interesting but not surprising you brought that up. What's it with a particular cohort of Nigerians and Indians? I've worked and work with them in multiple capacities and have never seen them as a threat- tell me about your hidden concern about them
Ehhh? huh Pray tell, when I asked you to leave this thread and go to the CA thread? I don't police people here and I have no idea whether or not you are now on the CA (or any other) thread because I really am not bothered, although you've tried many a time to get my attention 🤣

If I remember correctly, you are the one who used to harass me and try to slur me with the "anchor baby" tag. Thankfully you appear to have "seen the folly in it" and stopped.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Mcleo007(m): 12:44pm On Dec 08, 2025
jedisco:
Banter aside and thinking through, I notice there's an animosity/dread some Nigerians have towards Indians.

Having worked in the NHS, I'm no stranger to working with Indians in different capacities. Even in Cana, dem full and I interract with them as colleagues, staff, patients and in wider settings e.g sales people, realtors e.t.c. infact, one even floated the idea of opening a clinic together.

I see them as just any other cohort - having the good, bad and ugly all of which I've experienced both with them and other demographies. They aggressively seek business- just like most immigrants would and should. Of late, they've had alot of negative media directed at them most of which is driven by hate. I know Nigerians would have come under same fire if we were that visible.

I don't share most of the narrative but given some things have been often repeated by my people, I wonder if there's something I'm missing. I know it'd be anecdotal, I'm keen to know what peoples experience with them has been.
Most people despise them because of the quoted. They are adept at identifying gaps and seizing opportunities. Generally a good thing, but most people don't like it to be them.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by HustlaOfLagos: 12:47pm On Dec 08, 2025
Raalsalghul:
Another thing is that there's a huge percentage of immigrants that are not clued up about all these proposed policies and how it will change their lives.

They're politically unaware. Their own na to go shift and come back. grin
Then they deserve whatever it is that is coming their way

smiley
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Zahra29: 12:55pm On Dec 08, 2025
Some universities are coming to the realisation that that not all "business" is good business:

UK universities are increasingly shutting their doors to applicants from Pakistan and Bangladesh amid concerns over visa abuses and tighter Home Office rules, leaving thousands of prospective students in uncertainty.
Reports indicate that at least nine higher education institutions have temporarily restricted recruitment from these “high-risk” countries as universities face mounting pressure to ensure they are enrolling genuine students, not those exploiting the system to settle in Britain.
The clampdown follows a surge in asylum claims from international students, prompting Border Security Minister Dame Angela Eagle to stress that the student visa route “must not be used as a backdoor” to settling in the UK. Pakistan, in particular, topped the list of asylum-seeking countries last year.
Universities that have taken restrictive measures include the University of Chester, which has suspended recruitment from Pakistan until autumn 2026, citing a “recent and unexpected rise in visa refusals.” Similarly, the University of Wolverhampton is not accepting undergraduate applicants from Pakistan and Bangladesh, while the University of East London has paused recruitment from Pakistan.
Sunderland and Coventry universities have also suspended enrolment from both countries. The University of Sunderland defended its stance, stating it made “no apologies” for prioritizing the integrity of the student visa system.

Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by RodgersAkpafu: 1:19pm On Dec 08, 2025
Zahra29:
Some universities are coming to the realisation that that not all "business" is good business:

UK universities are increasingly shutting their doors to applicants from Pakistan and Bangladesh amid concerns over visa abuses and tighter Home Office rules, leaving thousands of prospective students in uncertainty.
Reports indicate that at least nine higher education institutions have temporarily restricted recruitment from these “high-risk” countries as universities face mounting pressure to ensure they are enrolling genuine students, not those exploiting the system to settle in Britain.
The clampdown follows a surge in asylum claims from international students, prompting Border Security Minister Dame Angela Eagle to stress that the student visa route “must not be used as a backdoor” to settling in the UK. Pakistan, in particular, topped the list of asylum-seeking countries last year.
Universities that have taken restrictive measures include the University of Chester, which has suspended recruitment from Pakistan until autumn 2026, citing a “recent and unexpected rise in visa refusals.” Similarly, the University of Wolverhampton is not accepting undergraduate applicants from Pakistan and Bangladesh, while the University of East London has paused recruitment from Pakistan.
Sunderland and Coventry universities have also suspended enrolment from both countries. The University of Sunderland defended its stance, stating it made “no apologies” for prioritizing the integrity of the student visa system.
Your opening paragraph get as e be sha undecided
I interpreted it some kind of way in my head cos thats how it sounds
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Ralphlauren(m): 1:35pm On Dec 08, 2025
lavida001:
He is quick to shut people down I remember when he called me rat and all. Then noBody said a word, everybody just throw away face but if na lavida na then man like wilberforce go suddenly come out of retirement to ask for admin to remove me.

Na our people we dey accommodate him. No one here has the balls to say it as it is. Just like someone said here some moons ago that he is a politician he knows how to bamboozle our people.

Come online post about couple of houses and cars and brag about the imaginary millions in acccount and watch how naija people become loyal to you and they see no wrong in what you do. You become their mini god.

Him no go try am for CA forum , those ones no get joy. Them go position am for his corner.
Lol @ inaginary houses and billions. cheesy grin grin

His stories, timeline from when he relocated to UK, wealth generated/accumulated doesn't add up. cool

For someone that claims to be a "medical doctor", the time he spends on his forum is quite a lot grin
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Santa2:
Apologies if this turns out to be a long post. This Nairaland is like a market place. You come and buy (and sometimes sell) the goods you want and use it to cook a delicious meal or dump it in the trash. I have always know always believed that two truths can exist. There will always supposed 'high fliers' and there would always be those that stick with the norm. I personally believe that both are necessary for a healthy community. One just has to choose where one falls under and in that process not look down on the next man because you think he is not striving to be better himself. Its ok if the next man to stay 15 years for ILR if that gives him peace, While it might might not be ok for me, I need to respect the next man's choice because we are not fighting the same battles. What prompted this post the issue where someone said @jedisco was boasting about his achievement. I actually think the opposite is the case. I don't think we showcase enough the path of a successful immigrant so other can get inspiration. I have learnt a lot from Nairaland and still keep learning, Over 14 years ago, nairaland was were I ran to when I wanted have our kid in the US and thankfully it provided me the information I needed and the community. When it was time to build our house back then in Nigeria, the housing/building thread was a valuable resource. In 2020 when I decided it was time for my masters study in the UK, Nairaland was the best resource.

I came in as student, Nairaland thread was were I went to for settling down tips, housing, banks accounts, building credit profile etc. I came in at the height of covid when we had to quarantine when we arrive. I got all I tips I needed. While I was a student I did part time care work, I was able to save almost £4000 living frugally, My spouse and kids joined me several month later and she got a very good job here (as she had extensive experience). while the company said they wouldn't sponsor, six month down the line as our visa was expiring they did sponsor her. I got a job after study with a subsidiary of the NHS that offered full remote work and didn't pay as much as I would have liked. I initially gave myself six month to stay in that job but I slowly settled into that job and started to see my self as not being able to earn more than that. I applied to other jobs but didn't get much traction. Through that period my wife and I applied for a mortgage got approved and bought a new build 4 bedroom terrace house and was thanks to guidance from the nairaland mortgage thread (thanks to rent money is dead money conversation that some fought against). When the mortgage payment hit I slowly realised that I would need to double my hustle. Enter in Nairaland again, I had already identified an area I wanted to pivot into but wasn't doing as much action as I would have liked. Then I stumbled on a comment from @copershun ( I hope I got her handle right) on recruiters reaching out to her for roles 70k to 80k, I contacted her and found out that it was the same Data Management/Quality I was play around with that she was referring to. I got serious and did the work, and a few month later started a managerial role in this area. Almost a year into the role I have already identified the next niche I want to play in . Someone might say I am here bragging or what's not but I just hope it inspires some to take step and action and build the type of life you want for yourself. I still am on a journey of self discovery, @chukwuma's post on entrepreneurship has also sparked another fire that I am looking to explore in the next year. Once I again I state that Nairaland is a marketplace, You come here and choose the ingredients you want, and the type of soup you want to use it to cook. Selah
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by HustlaOfLagos: 2:13pm On Dec 08, 2025
Zahra29:
Some universities are coming to the realisation that that not all "business" is good business:

UK universities are increasingly shutting their doors to applicants from Pakistan and Bangladesh amid concerns over visa abuses and tighter Home Office rules, leaving thousands of prospective students in uncertainty.
Easy solution - Add a law which says "The last visa of someone seeking asylum must not be a student or visitor visa" in addition to making it 20 yrs to ILR

Problem solved
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Goke7:
Santa2:
Apologies if this turns out to be a long post. This Nairaland is like a market place. You come and buy (and sometimes sell) the goods you want and use it to cook a delicious meal or dump it in the trash. I have always know always believed that two truths can exist. There will always supposed 'high fliers' and there would always be those that stick with the norm. I personally believe that both are necessary for a healthy community. One just has to choose where one falls under and in that process not look down on the next man because you think he is not striving to be better himself. Its ok if the next man to stay 15 years for ILR if that gives him peace, While it might might not be ok for me, I need to respect the next man's choice because we are not fighting the same battles. What prompted this post the issue where someone said @jedisco was boasting about his achievement. I actually think the opposite is the case. I don't think we showcase enough the path of a successful immigrant so other can get inspiration. I have learnt a lot from Nairaland and still keep learning, Over 14 years ago nairaland was were I ran to when I want have our kid in the US and thankfully it provided me the information I needed and the community, When it was time to build our house back then in nigeria, the housing/building thread was a valuable resource, In 2020 when I decided it was time for my masters study in the UK, Nairaland was the best resource.

I came in as student, Nairaland thread was were I went to for settling down tips, housing, banks accounts, building credit profile etc. I came in at the height of covid when we had to quarantine when we arrive. I got all I tips I needed. While I was a student I did part time carework, I was able to save almost £4000 living frugally, my spouse and kids joined me several month later and she got a very good job here (as she had extensive experience). while the company said they wouldn't sponsor, six month down the line as our visa was expiring they did sponsor her. I got a job after study with a subsidiary of the NHS that offered full remote work and didn't pay as much as I would have liked. I initially gave myself six month to stay in that job but I slowly settled into that job and started to see my self as not being able to earn more that that. I applied to other jobs but didn't get much traction. Through that period my wife and I applied for a mortgage got approved and bought a new build 4 bedroom terrace house and thanks to guidance from the nairaland mortgage thread (thanks to rent money is dead money who some fought against). When the mortgage payment hit I slowly realised that I would need to double my hustle. Enter in Nairaland again, I had already identified an area I wanted to pivot into but wasn't doing as mush action as I would have liked. Then I stumbled on a comment from @copershun ( I hope I got her handle right) on recruiters reaching out to her for roles 70k to 80k, I contacted her and found out that it was the same Data Management/Quality I was play around with that she was referring to. I got serious and did the work, and a few month later started a managerial role in this area. Almost a year into the role I have already identified the next niche I want to play in . Someone might say I am here bragging or what's not but I just hope it inspires some to take step and action and build the type of life you want for yourself. I still am on a journey of self discovery, @chukwuma's post on entrepreneurship has also sparked another fire that I am looking to explore in the next year. Once I again I state that Nairaland is a marketplace, You come here and choose the ingredients you want, and the type of soup you want to use it to cook. Selah
These are kind of stories me I love to see, read and thanks for sharing. More wins ahead and please come back to share more.

However, for some others, they don’t like to hear or see such things. What they want to hear is how immigrants will be driven out to go back to Naija and suffer, hence, when they read anyone doing well, they are angry and will start all manner of accusations of being boastful, proud or looking down on others. They became angrier to hear that immigrants were migrating to other places too, to do even better 😂 (that’s the one that amazes me the most, despite them leaving their precious UK for them). The stories they want to see are the next set of restrictions or rules to send people away. Only those who aren’t discerning enough think they wish others well when it’s actually the opposite. (They will deceptively claim they are not against immigration, bla bla bl, and all other crap 😂)

Once again, congratulations on your huge achievement, and I'm encouraged to know that folks on this thread are beginning to see through all those who post out of a genuine concern for the advancement of immigrants. Cheers, and I can’t wait to hear more success stories from you and others as well.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Goodenoch: 2:24pm On Dec 08, 2025
Santa2:
Apologies if this turns out to be a long post. This Nairaland is like a market place. You come and buy (and sometimes sell) the goods you want and use it to cook a delicious meal or dump it in the trash. I have always know always believed that two truths can exist. There will always supposed 'high fliers' and there would always be those that stick with the norm. I personally believe that both are necessary for a healthy community. One just has to choose where one falls under and in that process not look down on the next man because you think he is not striving to be better himself. Its ok if the next man to stay 15 years for ILR if that gives him peace, While it might might not be ok for me, I need to respect the next man's choice because we are not fighting the same battles. What prompted this post the issue where someone said @jedisco was boasting about his achievement. I actually think the opposite is the case. I don't think we showcase enough the path of a successful immigrant so other can get inspiration. I have learnt a lot from Nairaland and still keep learning, Over 14 years ago nairaland was were I ran to when I want have our kid in the US and thankfully it provided me the information I needed and the community, When it was time to build our house back then in nigeria, the housing/building thread was a valuable resource, In 2020 when I decided it was time for my masters study in the UK, Nairaland was the best resource.

I came in as student, Nairaland thread was were I went to for settling down tips, housing, banks accounts, building credit profile etc. I came in at the height of covid when we had to quarantine when we arrive. I got all I tips I needed. While I was a student I did part time carework, I was able to save almost £4000 living frugally, my spouse and kids joined me several month later and she got a very good job here (as she had extensive experience). while the company said they wouldn't sponsor, six month down the line as our visa was expiring they did sponsor her. I got a job after study with a subsidiary of the NHS that offered full remote work and didn't pay as much as I would have liked. I initially gave myself six month to stay in that job but I slowly settled into that job and started to see my self as not being able to earn more that that. I applied to other jobs but didn't get much traction. Through that period my wife and I applied for a mortgage got approved and bought a new build 4 bedroom terrace house and thanks to guidance from the nairaland mortgage thread (thanks to rent money is dead money who some fought against). When the mortgage payment hit I slowly realised that I would need to double my hustle. Enter in Nairaland again, I had already identified an area I wanted to pivot into but wasn't doing as mush action as I would have liked. Then I stumbled on a comment from @copershun ( I hope I got her handle right) on recruiters reaching out to her for roles 70k to 80k, I contacted her and found out that it was the same Data Management/Quality I was play around with that she was referring to. I got serious and did the work, and a few month later started a managerial role in this area. Almost a year into the role I have already identified the next niche I want to play in . Someone might say I am here bragging or what's not but I just hope it inspires some to take step and action and build the type of life you want for yourself. I still am on a journey of self discovery, @chukwuma's post on entrepreneurship has also sparked another fire that I am looking to explore in the next year. Once I again I state that Nairaland is a marketplace, You come here and choose the ingredients you want, and the type of soup you want to use it to cook. Selah
Well done and congratulations on everything! Thank you for sharing as well.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by willyede(m): 2:56pm On Dec 08, 2025
Santa2:
Apologies if this turns out to be a long post. This Nairaland is like a market place. You come and buy (and sometimes sell) the goods you want and use it to cook a delicious meal or dump it in the trash. I have always know always believed that two truths can exist. There will always supposed 'high fliers' and there would always be those that stick with the norm. I personally believe that both are necessary for a healthy community. One just has to choose where one falls under and in that process not look down on the next man because you think he is not striving to be better himself. Its ok if the next man to stay 15 years for ILR if that gives him peace, While it might might not be ok for me, I need to respect the next man's choice because we are not fighting the same battles. What prompted this post the issue where someone said @jedisco was boasting about his achievement. I actually think the opposite is the case. I don't think we showcase enough the path of a successful immigrant so other can get inspiration. I have learnt a lot from Nairaland and still keep learning, Over 14 years ago nairaland was were I ran to when I want have our kid in the US and thankfully it provided me the information I needed and the community, When it was time to build our house back then in nigeria, the housing/building thread was a valuable resource, In 2020 when I decided it was time for my masters study in the UK, Nairaland was the best resource.

I came in as student, Nairaland thread was were I went to for settling down tips, housing, banks accounts, building credit profile etc. I came in at the height of covid when we had to quarantine when we arrive. I got all I tips I needed. While I was a student I did part time carework, I was able to save almost £4000 living frugally, my spouse and kids joined me several month later and she got a very good job here (as she had extensive experience). while the company said they wouldn't sponsor, six month down the line as our visa was expiring they did sponsor her. I got a job after study with a subsidiary of the NHS that offered full remote work and didn't pay as much as I would have liked. I initially gave myself six month to stay in that job but I slowly settled into that job and started to see my self as not being able to earn more that that. I applied to other jobs but didn't get much traction. Through that period my wife and I applied for a mortgage got approved and bought a new build 4 bedroom terrace house and thanks to guidance from the nairaland mortgage thread (thanks to rent money is dead money who some fought against). When the mortgage payment hit I slowly realised that I would need to double my hustle. Enter in Nairaland again, I had already identified an area I wanted to pivot into but wasn't doing as mush action as I would have liked. Then I stumbled on a comment from @copershun ( I hope I got her handle right) on recruiters reaching out to her for roles 70k to 80k, I contacted her and found out that it was the same Data Management/Quality I was play around with that she was referring to. I got serious and did the work, and a few month later started a managerial role in this area. Almost a year into the role I have already identified the next niche I want to play in . Someone might say I am here bragging or what's not but I just hope it inspires some to take step and action and build the type of life you want for yourself. I still am on a journey of self discovery, @chukwuma's post on entrepreneurship has also sparked another fire that I am looking to explore in the next year. Once I again I state that Nairaland is a marketplace, You come here and choose the ingredients you want, and the type of soup you want to use it to cook. Selah
This is an excellent post and exactly what this thread is meant to achieve: helping us improve and get better here. Everything learned so far has been from Nairaland, and it helps to stay with threads that are relevant to personal circumstances and the examples already shared.

That is why it is important for the moderators to keep the thread focused, and for everyone to stick to its original purpose. The thread is truly inspirational, and the key is to keep looking ahead and making the most of every opportunity in whatever country we find ourselves.

Those who are already well established here are encouraged to keep sharing their experiences and guidance. It is very powerful and motivating.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Raalsalghul: 6:13pm On Dec 08, 2025
HustlaOfLagos:
Easy solution - Add a law which says "The last visa of someone seeking asylum must not be a student or visitor visa" in addition to making it 20 yrs to ILR

Problem solved
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Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Raalsalghul: 6:26pm On Dec 08, 2025
Goke7:
These are kind of stories me I love to see, read and thanks for sharing. More wins ahead and please come back to share more.

However, for some others, they don’t like to hear or see such things. What they want to hear is how immigrants will be driven out to go back to Naija and suffer, hence, when they read anyone doing well, they are angry and will start all manner of accusations of being boastful, proud or looking down on others. They became angrier to hear that immigrants were migrating to other places too, to do even better 😂 (that’s the one that amazes me the most, despite them leaving their precious UK for them). The stories they want to see are the next set of restrictions or rules to send people away. Only those who aren’t discerning enough think they wish others well when it’s actually the opposite. (They will deceptively claim they are not against immigration, bla bla bl, and all other crap 😂)

Once again, congratulations on your huge achievement, and I'm encouraged to know that folks on this thread are beginning to see through all those who post out of a genuine concern for the advancement of immigrants. Cheers, and I can’t wait to hear more success stories from you and others as well.
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Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by HustlaOfLagos: 6:36pm On Dec 08, 2025
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by RodgersAkpafu: 7:41pm On Dec 08, 2025
HustlaOfLagos:
Easy solution - Add a law which says "The last visa of someone seeking asylum must not be a student or visitor visa" in addition to making it 20 yrs to ILR

Problem solved
yes
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by lavida001: 8:58pm On Dec 08, 2025
Santa2:
Apologies if this turns out to be a long post. This Nairaland is like a market place. You come and buy (and sometimes sell) the goods you want and use it to cook a delicious meal or dump it in the trash. I have always know always believed that two truths can exist. There will always supposed 'high fliers' and there would always be those that stick with the norm. I personally believe that both are necessary for a healthy community. One just has to choose where one falls under and in that process not look down on the next man because you think he is not striving to be better himself. Its ok if the next man to stay 15 years for ILR if that gives him peace, While it might might not be ok for me, I need to respect the next man's choice because we are not fighting the same battles. What prompted this post the issue where someone said @jedisco was boasting about his achievement. I actually think the opposite is the case. I don't think we showcase enough the path of a successful immigrant so other can get inspiration. I have learnt a lot from Nairaland and still keep learning, Over 14 years ago, nairaland was were I ran to when I wanted have our kid in the US and thankfully it provided me the information I needed and the community. When it was time to build our house back then in Nigeria, the housing/building thread was a valuable resource. In 2020 when I decided it was time for my masters study in the UK, Nairaland was the best resource.

I came in as student, Nairaland thread was were I went to for settling down tips, housing, banks accounts, building credit profile etc. I came in at the height of covid when we had to quarantine when we arrive. I got all I tips I needed. While I was a student I did part time care work, I was able to save almost £4000 living frugally, My spouse and kids joined me several month later and she got a very good job here (as she had extensive experience). while the company said they wouldn't sponsor, six month down the line as our visa was expiring they did sponsor her. I got a job after study with a subsidiary of the NHS that offered full remote work and didn't pay as much as I would have liked. I initially gave myself six month to stay in that job but I slowly settled into that job and started to see my self as not being able to earn more than that. I applied to other jobs but didn't get much traction. Through that period my wife and I applied for a mortgage got approved and bought a new build 4 bedroom terrace house and was thanks to guidance from the nairaland mortgage thread (thanks to rent money is dead money conversation that some fought against). When the mortgage payment hit I slowly realised that I would need to double my hustle. Enter in Nairaland again, I had already identified an area I wanted to pivot into but wasn't doing as much action as I would have liked. Then I stumbled on a comment from @copershun ( I hope I got her handle right) on recruiters reaching out to her for roles 70k to 80k, I contacted her and found out that it was the same Data Management/Quality I was play around with that she was referring to. I got serious and did the work, and a few month later started a managerial role in this area. Almost a year into the role I have already identified the next niche I want to play in . Someone might say I am here bragging or what's not but I just hope it inspires some to take step and action and build the type of life you want for yourself. I still am on a journey of self discovery, @chukwuma's post on entrepreneurship has also sparked another fire that I am looking to explore in the next year. Once I again I state that Nairaland is a marketplace, You come here and choose the ingredients you want, and the type of soup you want to use it to cook. Selah
Well said. Kindly drop step by step approach on how you secure these roles. What are your recommended courses and blueprints for newbies like me to follow.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by AKALAMAGBO: 9:05pm On Dec 08, 2025
Goke7:
These are kind of stories me I love to see, read and thanks for sharing. More wins ahead and please come back to share more.

However, for some others, they don’t like to hear or see such things. What they want to hear is how immigrants will be driven out to go back to Naija and suffer, hence, when they read anyone doing well, they are angry and will start all manner of accusations of being boastful, proud or looking down on others. They became angrier to hear that immigrants were migrating to other places too, to do even better 😂 (that’s the one that amazes me the most, despite them leaving their precious UK for them). The stories they want to see are the next set of restrictions or rules to send people away. Only those who aren’t discerning enough think they wish others well when it’s actually the opposite. (They will deceptively claim they are not against immigration, bla bla bl, and all other crap 😂)

Once again, congratulations on your huge achievement, and I'm encouraged to know that folks on this thread are beginning to see through all those who post out of a genuine concern for the advancement of immigrants. Cheers, and I can’t wait to hear more success stories from you and others as well.
In the midst of all these brouhaha (immigrations stuff and vilification of Boris wave), we completed on the 27th of November and got the keys to our house. All thanks to the “Rent money is dead money” by LexusGS.

Honestly, it doesn’t scare me a bit as people panic on immigration whatever… I can’t continue paying rent for the next 3 years whilst on skilled worker visa if I have the means to buy. I know if push comes to shove, I can sell in 2 years considering I only took 2 years fixed term anyways, and please don’t tell me it’s easier said than done! I have weighed my pros and cons and I am happy with whatever decision I make as an adult.

Life goes on, don’t delay your plans for the fear of the unknown.

Nuggets from people like Jedisco also informed my decision on stock and shares ISA with InvestEngine. Truthfully, I wish I started early.

I like seeing posts from Zahra because they do contain immigration informations which are legit.
Also, her sound response to questions about things are unmatched here. Though, I still think Zahra and Jedisco should meet for a cuppa 😅😅

Peace ✌🏻
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Jamesclooney: 9:52pm On Dec 08, 2025
Santa2:
Apologies if this turns out to be a long post. This Nairaland is like a market place. You come and buy (and sometimes sell) the goods you want and use it to cook a delicious meal or dump it in the trash. I have always know always believed that two truths can exist. There will always supposed 'high fliers' and there would always be those that stick with the norm. I personally believe that both are necessary for a healthy community. One just has to choose where one falls under and in that process not look down on the next man because you think he is not striving to be better himself. Its ok if the next man to stay 15 years for ILR if that gives him peace, While it might might not be ok for me, I need to respect the next man's choice because we are not fighting the same battles. What prompted this post the issue where someone said @jedisco was boasting about his achievement. I actually think the opposite is the case. I don't think we showcase enough the path of a successful immigrant so other can get inspiration. I have learnt a lot from Nairaland and still keep learning, Over 14 years ago, nairaland was were I ran to when I wanted have our kid in the US and thankfully it provided me the information I needed and the community. When it was time to build our house back then in Nigeria, the housing/building thread was a valuable resource. In 2020 when I decided it was time for my masters study in the UK, Nairaland was the best resource.

I came in as student, Nairaland thread was were I went to for settling down tips, housing, banks accounts, building credit profile etc. I came in at the height of covid when we had to quarantine when we arrive. I got all I tips I needed. While I was a student I did part time care work, I was able to save almost £4000 living frugally, My spouse and kids joined me several month later and she got a very good job here (as she had extensive experience). while the company said they wouldn't sponsor, six month down the line as our visa was expiring they did sponsor her. I got a job after study with a subsidiary of the NHS that offered full remote work and didn't pay as much as I would have liked. I initially gave myself six month to stay in that job but I slowly settled into that job and started to see my self as not being able to earn more than that. I applied to other jobs but didn't get much traction. Through that period my wife and I applied for a mortgage got approved and bought a new build 4 bedroom terrace house and was thanks to guidance from the nairaland mortgage thread (thanks to rent money is dead money conversation that some fought against). When the mortgage payment hit I slowly realised that I would need to double my hustle. Enter in Nairaland again, I had already identified an area I wanted to pivot into but wasn't doing as much action as I would have liked. Then I stumbled on a comment from @copershun ( I hope I got her handle right) on recruiters reaching out to her for roles 70k to 80k, I contacted her and found out that it was the same Data Management/Quality I was play around with that she was referring to. I got serious and did the work, and a few month later started a managerial role in this area. Almost a year into the role I have already identified the next niche I want to play in . Someone might say I am here bragging or what's not but I just hope it inspires some to take step and action and build the type of life you want for yourself. I still am on a journey of self discovery, @chukwuma's post on entrepreneurship has also sparked another fire that I am looking to explore in the next year. Once I again I state that Nairaland is a marketplace, You come here and choose the ingredients you want, and the type of soup you want to use it to cook. Selah
Great post Santa2. Long but good…well worth the read.

Like you, I’ve greatly benefited from Nairaland. It’s been a treasure trove and a reservoir of knowledge for me. Nairaland helped me secure my first job with a multinational, donkey years ago. From SHL prep to all the assessment centre and interview tips for multiple companies. (I was almost always surprised by how generous some posters were, even with direct competitors, but that’s a story for another day 😂.)

Time to japa, NL helped me with firsthand realtime info on schools for MSc. Upon admission, I balanced for UK visa thread (I still refer to it till now to advise friends and family that come visiting). Or is it house purchase, or general settling in the UK, the list is endless. NL has been a sure plug (big S/o to Seun).

I’ve always believed in and bowed to superior knowledge, so I’m genuinely interested in other people’s opinions. Like I said earlier, I’ve only been loyal to Nairaland, and this thread in particular, because of the gems you won’t find elsewhere (and also the anonymity which allows people to be candid).

Where I take exception with some people is the holier than thou attitude. Raising shoulders. Belittling people who don’t have the vision to japa 2.0 or generally the “mental rigmarole” or the “I’m sorry for you with your worldview” comments etc. Simply put, there’s guy no sabi talk (IMHO).

I even recall an encounter months back when I was waiting for feedback on my Canada visitor visa process, and I came here to see if anyone was in the same boat as me and his comment was something along the lines of Canada visa process is superior to UK visa due to the length of visa and more cost effective. But Oga, I applied because I was going for my sisters graduation which was time bound, how does giving me a visa one year after even help me? It defeats the purpose of my application. Baba kept quiet. And so many more interactions with others.

I recall when I was japa’ing to the UK, I had dozens of colleagues who japa’d around the same time, to both UK and Canada. A lot of my friends tried to persuade me to take the Canada option. In the end, I opted for the UK, and a few years later, I can say hand on heart, no regrets. In fact, compared to the friends in CA, it’s been a mixed bag for some of them. While some found jobs immediately upon landing or even from Nigeria, some struggled to find work for more than a year. The point I’m making is: what worked for Mr A, won’t necessarily work for Mr B.

Ultimately, there’s no fixed formula in life. You do your due diligence, make a decision, and pray to your God for the stars to align in your favour. There’s no need for the condescending attitude or treating others as less than. No one knows tomorrow. We are all winging it in this life and so everyone needs to chill.
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Goke7: 10:57pm On Dec 08, 2025
AKALAMAGBO:
In the midst of all these brouhaha (immigrations stuff and vilification of Boris wave), we completed on the 27th of November and got the keys to our house. All thanks to the “Rent money is dead money” by LexusGS.

Honestly, it doesn’t scare me a bit as people panic on immigration whatever… I can’t continue paying rent for the next 3 years whilst on skilled worker visa if I have the means to buy. I know if push comes to shove, I can sell in 2 years considering I only took 2 years fixed term anyways, and please don’t tell me it’s easier said than done! I have weighed my pros and cons and I am happy with whatever decision I make as an adult.

Life goes on, don’t delay your plans for the fear of the unknown.

Nuggets from people like Jedisco also informed my decision on stock and shares ISA with InvestEngine. Truthfully, I wish I started early.

I like seeing posts from Zahra because they do contain immigration informations which are legit.
Also, her sound response to questions about things are unmatched here. Though, I still think Zahra and Jedisco should meet for a cuppa 😅😅

Peace ✌🏻
Congratulations and wishing you more replicated wins. Cheers!

Oga Lexus where are you o, your disciples are increasing and you their deserve tithes and prophetic seeds!
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