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Coooloooo:
Relationship is not for me—-
Even though I am kind of always lonely.
I think I love it that way. Tho people around me think i not normal.

I have actually tried the relationship thingy but I get turned off by slight things(which I later regret )

I think i am ok but people around keep saying things

Coooloooo:
✓ Relationship is not for me—-
Even though I am kind of always lonely.
I think I love it that way. Tho people around me think i not normal.
I have actually tried the relationship thingy but I get turned off by slight things(which I later regret )
I think i am ok but people around keep saying things

JASONjnr:
My brother, try and find a mentally stable girl to date and build with..... You can never be okay with being single.

I used to feel this way and stayed for long without s3x. But when I finally found s girl, I was almost unable to satisfy her.....it took me years to get back my games...

dollytino4real:
Check ur sef n ur mind sef b4 new one

nnamdi640:
Honestly, I think it is hard to get mentally stable girl in this present generation

SpencerForbes:
That mindset is gonna wreck your relationship , LOL. 😂
If you’re thinking about tying the knot, you seriously need to dial back those expectations of people. Everyone changes! When you first start dating, you’re all pumped up, and that adrenaline totally blinds you—you miss all the flaws. Then, once you get comfy, you realize she’s not the person you started with. She's different, and then you get bored.
Hmm
Most times I keep it low…

But this ladies will take it has I don’t show them enough love. Maybe it’s a manipulative way of love bombing

But really I am mentally tired of the stress of thinking of some else.

Seeem I am built to be a loner.


Actually my parents have been putting this kind of pressure on me…. And I blatantly told them that they should not expect anyone

So, here’s the move: keep your dating expectations low and don't get too familiar too fast. Chill out for a few days, don't text, and focus on your own stuff. When she’s around, cool, she’s yours. But the second she’s busy? Go live your life. After about three years, you two will probably figure each other out and settle into a routine.

nnamdi640:
I'm in thesame state with Mr op, but this thing you said now struck me, I have dated 7 ladies and non worked out, I know the fault is from me, but can't figure out what I'm doing wrong, sometimes, I sit to analyse the whole situation and still can figure it out... I'm the type that easily get bored when a lady starts proving hard to get. Imagine a lady of 33yrs proving hard to get

dollytino4real:
ok because she is 33 make she jump enter ur gbola like fish wen catch hook abi

nnamdi640:
Must everything sounds sex to you, I meant having normal conversations, you sent her a message and the message is left unread for hours and you expect someone like me not to get bored.

dollytino4real:
maybe the text is not worthy of reply