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I have been dating this girl for 2 months now. But I noticed she doesn’t like kissing and we are also planning marriage. I need ur advice on this thanks. Pls move it to front page.

Don't worry you won't need kissing in marriage after 1 year.

ekeneokwologu:
I have been dating this girl for 2 months now. But I noticed she doesn’t like kissing and we are also planning marriage. I need ur advice on this thanks. Pls move it to front page.

you will get used to it.. There's more to marriage than kissing

The only thing I would tell you is...


No go start wetin you no fit finish!

ekeneokwologu:
I have been dating this girl for 2 months now. But I noticed she doesn’t like kissing and we are also planning marriage. I need ur advice on this thanks. Pls move it to front page.

No offense, but how are you sure she's not seeing someone else?
If she isn't then you both will have to talk about it. However, one thing i know is that women don't hesitate to kiss who they are attracted to.

Op,you never tell us the real thing wey dey xup

Abi you get mouth odour wey the banny dey complain about . Talk truth.

I was talking to a girl, and she actually thought you could catch HIV from kissing! 🤦 😂 It took me a solid 30 minutes to lay down the facts about how HIV is really contracted.

Now, about your situation... you should probably try to figure out why she's so anti-kissing. Just a thought, maybe your breath isn't the best. Or, you could be dating a girl who isn't really worldly or knowledgeable about these things or she’s just local.

You are INZAIN!

JUST 2 months of dating and you are already planning MARRIAGE?

What is WRONG with youuu?!

On the kissing:

Kissing is the PEAK of intimacy.
It is more SENSUAL and INTIMATE than sex.

That's why pro.stitutes in brothels will puck a guy RAW and blow a gasket if the guy tries to kiss them.

If you LOVE someone, kissing is NON-NEGOTIABLE.

So, it's either she DOES NOT love you as much as you think. She most likely DOESN'T. Planning marriage after 2 months of dating reeks of DESPERATION.
That could KILL attraction.

Or one of you is SICK.
Could be extreme HALITOSIS or bad teeth on your part.
Or you GF is one of those people who have GENUINE mental illnesses like germophobia, philemaphobia, etc. This is UNLIKELY.

Most likely option is she HATES your guts and she's just SETTLING for you 'cause she's getting old and desperate for marriage too.

Either way, END the charade!

Kissing is clearly IMPORTANT to you since you seem bothered that she's refusing your advances.

End it and find someone who's interested in kissing you as much as you are in kissing her.

If you let this NONSENSE go and proceed with marriage, you will only see her pants in the bathroom.

ekeneokwologu:
I have been dating this girl for 2 months now. But I noticed she doesn’t like kissing and we are also planning marriage. I need ur advice on this thanks. Pls move it to front page.

Dem take kissing swear for you ?

[quote author=Sonnobax15 post=137752428]
Op,you never tell us the real thing wey dey xup

Abi you get mouth odour wey the banny dey complain about. I don’t have mouth odour. I brush twice a day. And she said I have a good breath.

[quote author=SpencerForbes post=137752650]I was talking to a girl, and she actually thought you could catch HIV from kissing! 🤦 😂 It took me a solid 30 minutes to lay down the facts about how HIV is really contracted.

Now, about your situation... you should probably try to figure out why she's so anti-kissing. Just a thought, maybe your breath isn't the best. Or, you could be dating a girl who isn't really worldly or knowledgeable about these things or she’s just local.

I hate kissing too; it's personal preference. Some people cringe at the thought of exchanging saliva...ewww

I don’t have a bad breath. Infact I brush twice every day. She told me my breath is good. I do change my toothbrush every 2 weeks.

I know not everyone loves kissing that much but if it's something you're looking at before marrying a woman, just know that married people do not even kiss that much

Hop3:
I know not everyone loves kissing that much but if it's something you're looking at before marrying a woman, just know that married people do not even kiss that much

You can only speak for yourself...


How many married people have you interviewed to make this conclusion?

Maybe you have mouth odor that's why she's trying to avoid kissing you.

She doesn’t like you enough to kiss you


Yet you hellbent on taking her to the Altar



Goodluck to you.

I really understand her predicament. A man must be physically attractive for some women to kiss them. Without kissing there's no romance. And for you to make love to that your heartbeat there must be hot kiss, hot romance and some other things involved before getting into the main business

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ekeneokwologu:
I don’t have a bad breath. Infact I brush twice every day. She told me my breath is good. I do change my toothbrush every 2 weeks.

Wait, you're already thinking about marriage with someone you just met, like, two months ago? 😂 Seriously, if she's not into kissing, just let it go. Kissing shouldn't be a dealbreaker for dating, and you need to put those marriage thoughts on hold for now. If you keep obsessing over marriage this early, she'll probably start acting weird, and you'll end up so invested you won't be able to walk away.

So, just chill, enjoy the relationship, and don't try to change her. She might adapt while you're dating, but trust me, if you end up marrying her, she'll just go right back to her default settings. If she's truly the one for you, you'll figure that out eventually.

She doesn't like kissing or one of you have mouth odour? I noticed you guys haven't had a conversation about it.

She told me from our first date that kissing is not her thing. We both have good breaths. I am kind of a little bit worried about the kissing thing.

everythingtall3:
Don't worry you won't need kissing in marriage after 1 year.

Ahswearugad. You’re correct

ekeneokwologu:
She told me from our first date that kissing is not her thing. We both have good breaths. I am kind of a little bit worried about the kissing thing.

You will let nairalanders confuse you with advice...


If she already told you from day one she doesn't like kissing then what else are you looking for?


Not everyone likes kissing. Just like not everyone like sex. Some people don't even like too much physical contact. As little as hugs irritate certain people.


If you know it's something that is important to you and you can't cope with in the long run then just let the relationship slide.

Don't get into it thinking you can change her. You can't. If it's important to you then you would probably live the rest of your life complaining and being miserable about it. And her excuse would be I told you from the day one



Like I said don't start what you can't finish.


Chikena!

Leave her ASAP

Na normal thing, me myself I no like kissing even though I am a guy.

ekeneokwologu:
I have been dating this girl for 2 months now. But I noticed she doesn’t like kissing and we are also planning marriage. I need ur advice on this thanks. Pls move it to front page.

It's either of 2 things for a woman.

She doesn't like kissing you or somebody don kiss wetin no good comot for her body.

If kissing is what you need in a relationship dump her..

I think it's high time you check how you smell 👄, something might be wrong form your side.

ekeneokwologu:
I have been dating this girl for 2 months now. But I noticed she doesn’t like kissing and we are also planning marriage. I need ur advice on this thanks. Pls move it to front page.

From experience only hookup girls and os no dey Kiss because partners plenty and they are detached from such intimate habit.

She hates kissing you.

ekeneokwologu:
I have been dating this girl for 2 months now. But I noticed she doesn’t like kissing and we are also planning marriage. I need ur advice on this thanks. Pls move it to front page.

You no no wetin God do for you