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Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Fiscus105(op): 3:13pm On Dec 10, 2025
A lady on X queries that why guy staring but unable to approach, she said , she met a guy in mall in which, he was staring and staring back, but doesn't have enough ball to toast her.


I think, men are loosing confident day by day to approach women for relationship, in recent times, no thanks to independence of several ladies now, unlike before.


I met this guy at the mall yesterday. He kept staring, and I was also staring because he was actually fine. I was expecting him to say hi or something, but he just paid for his groceries and left.

What’s wrong with men these days? It seems y’all expect women to do the wooing.
Please take me back to when men were men.
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Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Nobody:
The second you say 'hi' to them, they immediately start sending you vibes. Two days later, her gas runs out, and then suddenly she's 'not feeling well.' Whenever I see a beautiful woman, my brain just goes, 'Wow, that's God's masterpiece,' quickly followed by, 'And that's a one-way ticket to financial black hole.'

Seriously, If a girl tells you she doesn't care about your money, that's a HUGE red flag! You need to RUN ! Like, 98 times out of 100, she's actually going to end up 'billing' you way more than any other girl.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by brain54(m):
A guy can have a lot of reasons for staring...

Doesn't absolutely means it's because he likes you. I could be looking at you because you remind me of someone, your teeth looks weird, I like your dress very plenty reasons etc.

Not necessarily because I want to approach you. Girls most times get that wrong!
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Fiscus105(op):
brain54:
A guy can have a lot of reasons for staring...

Doesn't absolutely means it's because he likes you. I could be looking at you because you remind me of someone, your teeth looks weird, I like your dress very plenty reasons etc.

Not necessarily because I want to talk to you. Girls most times get that wrong!
You staring from head to leg, boobs, hips, curves and Ur 3rd legs raising inside ur trousers, yet, you have so many reasons not to approach her.

Why can't you look and remove your eyes immediately?

I'm ashamed of u.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by kpankpangolo: 4:00pm On Dec 10, 2025
She didn’t play her cards right. On to the next.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by brain54(m): 4:12pm On Dec 10, 2025
Fiscus105:
You staring from head to leg and Ur 3rd legs raised inside Ur trousers, yet you have so many reasons not to approach.
How do you know my 3rd legs is raised inside my trousers...


Are you in my trousers. Your 3rd legs raise by staring in a public place?
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Fiscus105(op): 4:14pm On Dec 10, 2025
brain54:
How do you know my 3rd legs is raised inside my trousers...


Are you in my trousers. Your 3rd legs raise by staring in a public place?
Wen men staring on ladies, 8/10 of such guys, their 3rd legs already tormenting them.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by brain54(m): 4:18pm On Dec 10, 2025
Fiscus105:
Wen men staring on ladies, 8/10 of such guys, their 3rd legs already tormenting them.
Where did you get the statistics from...?


Anyway, if you noticed my comment I was speaking for myself and not for guys.

I wonder how a guy would see a girl in a public space and start staring because his leg is tormenting him already.

Because I was even thinking the topic had to do with liking the girl in the first place and shooting shots. Not even where you are taking the matter to!
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by shilenji(m): 4:31pm On Dec 10, 2025
Not every beautiful goods in the supermarket you buy, some you just check and leave.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Samantha125(f): 4:48pm On Dec 10, 2025
In fact, I'm hungry, can you send me an urgent 2k? grin grin grin
SpencerForbes:
The second you say 'hi' to them, they immediately start sending you vibes. Two days later, her gas runs out, and then suddenly she's 'not feeling well.' Whenever I see a beautiful woman, my brain just goes, 'Wow, that's God's masterpiece,' quickly followed by, 'And that's a one-way ticket to financial black hole.'
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Samantha125(f): 4:51pm On Dec 10, 2025
Wotowotofy him... grin grin grin
brain54:
How do you know my 3rd legs is raised inside my trousers...


Are you in my trousers. Your 3rd legs raise by staring in a public place?
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by truespeak: 4:53pm On Dec 10, 2025
shilenji:
Not every beautiful goods in the supermarket you buy, some you just check and leave.
True talk
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by brain54(m): 4:56pm On Dec 10, 2025
Samantha125:
Wotowotofy him... grin grin grin
Is this pedi...?
grin
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Samantha125(f): 5:01pm On Dec 10, 2025
It's Nigerian with some Sepedi touch to it... grin grin grin... Nipedi pidgin... grin grin cheesy
brain54:
Is this pedi...?
grin
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by brain54(m): 5:03pm On Dec 10, 2025
Samantha125:
It's Nigerian with some Sepedi touch to it... grin grin grin... Nipedi pidgin... grin grin cheesy
You would have to teach me more ma...
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Samantha125(f): 5:11pm On Dec 10, 2025
Well, I'm a lady and you know we ladies don't like offering our services free of charge, we're always hungry... grin grin grin
brain54:
You would have to teach me more ma...
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by brain54(m): 5:13pm On Dec 10, 2025
Samantha125:
Well, I'm a lady and you know we ladies don't like offering our services free of charge, we're always hungry... grin grin grin
Ok, I can spare 2k to fill your gas...

This one you are hungry, I'm sure they is something you are cooking and you would soon run out of gas!
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Samantha125(f): 5:20pm On Dec 10, 2025
Gas is not an issue, but a girl has got to eat and look good afterwards... cheesy cheesy cheesy
brain54:
Ok, I can spare 2k to fill your gas...

This one you are hungry, I'm sure they is something you are cooking and you would soon run out of gas!
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Goodmarlian: 5:27pm On Dec 10, 2025
Women instinctively like men with guts and control, I did some experiment some few months ago,I approached some pretty ladies with extreme confidence and some with fear , I notice most of the ones I approached with extreme Confidence surrendered Instantly to my advances even though they wanted to do shakara but their resistance was weak grin,and after getting their numbers they responded well to my chats and calls,but you see the ones I approached as a sissy they gave me their numbers but didn't pick my calls or reply my chats, women simply want a man that can trigger attraction in them but they are not even aware of this.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by brain54(m): 5:35pm On Dec 10, 2025
Samantha125:
Gas is not an issue, but a girl has got to eat and look good afterwards... cheesy cheesy cheesy
Chai...

This sepedi girl from Limpopo you are becoming too Nigerian o!
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by everythingtall3: 5:49pm On Dec 10, 2025
Sometimes you just think about the talking stage and all energy and stress.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Nobody: 5:54pm On Dec 10, 2025
Samantha125:
In fact, I'm hungry, can you send me an urgent 2k? grin grin grin
Do you mean 2k Naira or 2k rand😳😂
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Samantha125(f): 6:05pm On Dec 10, 2025
Well, you said it yourself, I'm a Limpopofied Pedi girl from Bapedi land, men in our land have never been known to be stingy... That's why we Bapedi ladies tend to get hungry more often, we're used to being fed.

I've lost count of a number of times they offered to buy me lunch, dinner, or a quick snack out of nowhere... grin grin grin
brain54:
Chai...

This sepedi girl from Limpopo you are becoming too Nigerian o!
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Samantha125(f): 6:08pm On Dec 10, 2025
R2000, Naira wouldn't buy me anything.
SpencerForbes:
Do you mean 2k Naira or 2k rand😳😂
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Nobody: 6:17pm On Dec 10, 2025
Samantha125:
R2000, Naira wouldn't buy me anything.
R2000 is 172k😳 Are you sure you’re only hungry or there’s something else you want to buy🤔

I’m just confused🤔🤔🤔
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Nobody: 6:31pm On Dec 10, 2025
Samantha125:
R2000, Naira wouldn't buy me anything.
I can’t send rand through my account. Bank issues. Sorry🤦‍♂️
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Flangelo12: 6:38pm On Dec 10, 2025
E fit just dey pity your life.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by APOPTOSIS: 6:38pm On Dec 10, 2025
Trouble Looming.
Every woman comes with her baggage of troubles.
If you must choose, choose the one with added values attached to her.
You shouldn't lose out entirely.
Choose that woman that has something to lose too
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Switruth: 6:39pm On Dec 10, 2025
I dey look well well oh both fine and ugly ladies.... It's just a way to keep my heart happy without paying.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by SAMBARRY: 6:40pm On Dec 10, 2025
Msheww

Everybody with wetin dey do am.if a man stares at you so it automatically means he likes you?I stare at the water on 3rd mainland bridge everytime I pass there so does it mean that I like the water?
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Samantha125(f): 6:41pm On Dec 10, 2025
Hunger is too much, girl has to chop chop... grin grin grin
SpencerForbes:
R2000 is 172k😳 Are you sure you’re only hungry or there’s something else you want to buy🤔

I’m just confused🤔🤔🤔
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by SmartPolician:
SpencerForbes:
The second you say 'hi' to them, they immediately start sending you vibes. Two days later, her gas runs out, and then suddenly she's 'not feeling well.' Whenever I see a beautiful woman, my brain just goes, 'Wow, that's God's masterpiece,' quickly followed by, 'And that's a one-way ticket to financial black hole.'
Those useless ones on social media are the most irritating females
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