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Married men in the house did you cohabit before getting married

Sirchiboy:
Married men in the house did you cohabit before getting married

I see no need for that whatsoever.

I never did cohabited with my husband before getting married, I'd just visit and come back home.

I wasn't going to perform any full time wifely duties when I wasn't married and my family is against it.

Samantha125:
I never did cohabited with my husband before getting married, I'd just visit and come back home.

I wasn't going to perform any full time wifely duties when I wasn't married and my family is against it.

When did you become a man

If nairaland men can fill up threads meant for women, then I'm also entitled to comment in any thread I like.

And already some of your brothers have been accusing me of being a man disguised as a female, so might as well embrace it...

tydi:
When did you become a man

Samantha125:
If nairaland men can fill up threads meant for women, then I'm also entitled to comment in any thread I like.

And already some of your brothers have been accusing me of being a man disguised as a female, so might as well embrace it...

On men thread you're not as knowledgeable as you thought

Do those men cohabit with each other?🤔🤔🤔

tydi:
On men thread you're not as knowledgeable as you thought

No, I don't do that. Why should you when you are not married to her?

No, not sure if it's the best

If u want to know the true color of a woman that is the best approach cohabitate.

Forgot wetin anybody will tell you.
If u survive for one year u are qualified to marry.

If you started your relationship with friendship, then cohabiting should be easy

During the friendship process, you should be able to know if the person is someone you can cohabit with. If you stick with your love map, anything from 60% should be okay

We used to be role model to other couples during end of tertiary. We no dey get any issue as we both understand each other. God bless the lady wherever she is

Sirchiboy:
Married men in the house did you cohabit before getting married

That is a very reckless and disgraceful practice. It's called "iyawo saara" in Yoruba.

If anything happens to you or her, you and your family become the butt of jokes and shame in the extended family and neighborhood.

That's why till date, I will never recommend some schools, especially most polytechnics, some state universities and Federal schools located in villages and towns. They used that horrible culture to wreck the lives of a lot of young people by creating a school culture that permits and promote cohabitation.

Don't do it please.

There are many "married in school and single at home". Stop it now before you are consumed.

Samantha125:
I never did cohabited with my husband before getting married, I'd just visit and come back home.

I wasn't going to perform any full time wifely duties when I wasn't married and my family is against it.

Are you sure you don't involve in Easybuy package women...
Just like
Iyatola
Cleverly and those sets

dawnomike:
I see no need for that whatsoever.

You're right

Some are of the opinion that it help in familiarization, but it 3a lie... Our culture is not in support of it and also the scripture


I have heard of people who were together for 10 years and their wedding never lasted a month.

Yes I did and i even gave birth to my first child first before doing the marriage proper.Don't blame me I needed to be sure the engine was working fine and today we have 4 without any child birth hospital wahala.

No I did not cohabit in any way

Am single, I dey service engines on a steady. Different size, shape, color, taste,looks,. Enjoy the glory and move on

No, I did not.

The bed should be undefiled

Cohabiting is a sin. Dont do it!

No.

Cohabitation can lead to fornication and the Bible says in Hebrews 13:4 - “ Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.”

No, she moved in after the trad rites.

nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo. we didnt. there is no joy or honour in doing that

Without cohabiting its like going on to buy a car without testing 😩

In modern time it's the best. Many youth renting up flats. And doing it full time or partially.

If you live in a nice apartment like flat. Many girls will not want to go back home. Probably she is from I face you and you face me kind of house, so why would she want to go back home. It's the trend now.

Except her parent is in full control of her decisions.

Truth be told if a girl can live with you for more than 2 years with any fight or differences. You are on the right track. Because nowadays its difficult to date a girl more than 3=4 months.

Numbers full phone, person done tire.

Yes , for a few months but every relationship depends on circumstances .

FreeStuffsNG:
That is a very reckless practice. It's called iyawo saara in Yoruba

it's called
Easybuy wife in English language 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dem go even chop bitten severely during cohabiting period and the guy may not or mostly not responsible ...
We see alot during school days

openmyway:
Yes I did and i even gave birth to my first child first before doing the marriage proper.Don't blame me I needed to be sure the engine was working fine and today we have 4 without any child birth hospital wahala.

What if you are the lady or it's your sister or daughter 🤔

Most marriages that started with cohabitation rarely end up in Divorce.

Take this advice to the Bank.

Nope... What would be the point of getting married to someone that has already served as a "wife"?!!

Cohabitation is the see finish premiere to open your yansh before marriage. If you have self respect, you'll wife that woman. Bring her to your house after following all the necessary rites have been performed and even her family tells her, "go to your husband's house" or "go and do that in your own house". When you have the right to bring her into the house and don't have to look behind you because you want to gbensh her. You don't cohabit in your own house, that's like kidnapping another person's child without their parent's permission. It means you couldn't control yourself, you think she's giving you free sxx but you are the one not showing yourself as a man, a leader who follows the process.

If you want her to call you ‘your sExcellency’, the process that brought her into your house must be ‘excellent’ abi who's the man of the house again?