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There was this married woman who used to call me very often. I wanted to test her if she was getting attached to me so I always said I had to tell her something. Anytime we spoke I would postpone this supposed message and she always asked me about it.

One day, she asked me to get an item from her husband for her — when I delivered the item, she took me in her car and asked me about the message I had for her. I asked her to visit me in my house but she declined it and asked me to tell her what I had to tell her there and then.

Then all of a sudden, she laughed out loud and asked "why do you love me? I will be hurt if you love me because you are my friend." I smiled and asked why she thought that. She was angry and said what message was it that I was still not able to tell her. I smiled and insisted I could not deliver the message there. She got angry but I asked her to call me anytime she was ready to visit me. For three months she never called me and I didn't call her. She called me today and I didn't answer.

Did I do anything wrong?
Why is she calling me after this long?
Was she interested in me?
How do I react now?

...Mr home-breaker ... Take your eyes off a married woman.. Don't tempt her, forget about her and mind your biz..

badaru911:
...Mr home-breaker ... Take your eyes off a married woman.. Don't tempt her, forget about her and mind your biz..

What did I do wrong please

BUSHYANUS:
✓ There was this married woman who used to call me very often. I wanted to test her if she was getting attached to me so I always said I had to tell her something. Anytime we spoke I would postpone this supposed message and she always asked me about it.
One day, she asked me to get an item from her husband for her — when I delivered the item, she took me in her car and asked me about the message I had for her. I asked her to visit me in my house but she declined it and asked me to tell her what I had to tell her there and then.

Then all of a sudden, she laughed out loud and asked "why do you love me? I will be hurt if you love me because you are my friend." I smiled and asked why she thought that. She was angry and said what message was it that I was still not able to tell her. I smiled and insisted I could not deliver the message there. She got angry but I asked her to call me anytime she was ready to visit me. For three months she never called me and I didn't call her. She called me today and I didn't answer.
Did I do anything wrong?
Why is she calling me after this long?
Was she interested in me?
How do I react now?

If you cannot be just friends with the woman, don't contact her again. I can't for the iife of me understand why you would feel the need to supposedly test someone who only seems interested in platonic friendship with you? Heck, thinking you should test someone you happen to be in romantic relationship with is considered an insult let alone someone whom you have no strong ties with. 🥱🥱

It seems from your description, that what you have is a work sort of friendship -- you said she asked you to get items from her husband for her. Why you decided from that that it would be right for you to rudely invite her to your home after that or feel a need to test her is beyond me. She may still wish to keep just the work-friendship she had after that rudeness of yours. If I were around her, I would advise her to avoid that you completely as what is clear is you have little to no respect for her at this.

My honest opinion is you have a lot of growing up to do -- emotionally, mentally and socially.

BUSHYANUS:
There was this married woman who used to call me very often. I wanted to test her if she was getting attached to me so I always said I had to tell her something. Anytime we spoke I would postpone this supposed message and she always asked me about it.

One day, she asked me to get an item from her husband for her — when I delivered the item, she took me in her car and asked me about the message I had for her. I asked her to visit me in my house but she declined it and asked me to tell her what I had to tell her there and then.

Then all of a sudden, she laughed out loud and asked "why do you love me? I will be hurt if you love me because you are my friend." I smiled and asked why she thought that. She was angry and said what message was it that I was still not able to tell her. I smiled and insisted I could not deliver the message there. She got angry but I asked her to call me anytime she was ready to visit me. For three months she never called me and I didn't call her. She called me today and I didn't answer.

Did I do anything wrong?
Why is she calling me after this long?
Was she interested in me?
How do I react now?

Smiling and trying to taste test a married woman should be the last thing you should be caught doing sir.
You don't really know what you escaped from by her cutting you off.

Demetrix:
Smiling and trying to taste test a married woman should be the last thing you should be caught doing sir.
You don't really know what you escaped from by her cutting you off.

What did I escape?
I didn't intend tasting her

BUSHYANUS:
What did I escape?
I didn't intend tasting her

A lot bro, alot.
Leave her alone and focus on other things. You will be fine.

Demetrix:
A lot bro, alot.
Leave her alone and focus on other things. You will be fine.

I was never interested in her
I haven't contacted her after 3 months
I didn't pick her call

Na this useless matter be the sensitive matter oga single girls full everywhere live person wife and forget the nonsense when dey ur mind to tell her for your house.

BUSHYANUS:
I was never interested in her
I haven't contacted her after 3 months
I didn't pick her call

If you were not interested in her, why testing her level of attachment with you sir?

Demetrix:
If you were not interested in her, why testing her level of attachment with you sir?

Because she was always calling me
Sometimes late evening
Discussed virtual everything with me
Even her husband
One time playfully said she would give me condoms

Don't worry, Dem go do the same to your married wife

You might also be preparing to return back to the village as the opportunities holding you are about to be missed

E good like that. Make una two forget each other. God gave you a sign to pull out and you want to dig your stubborn head there. No make me fold arms look you.

BUSHYANUS:
There was this married woman who used to call me very often. I wanted to test her if she was getting attached to me so I always said I had to tell her something. Anytime we spoke I would postpone this supposed message and she always asked me about it.

One day, she asked me to get an item from her husband for her — when I delivered the item, she took me in her car and asked me about the message I had for her. I asked her to visit me in my house but she declined it and asked me to tell her what I had to tell her there and then.

Then all of a sudden, she laughed out loud and asked "why do you love me? I will be hurt if you love me because you are my friend." I smiled and asked why she thought that. She was angry and said what message was it that I was still not able to tell her. I smiled and insisted I could not deliver the message there. She got angry but I asked her to call me anytime she was ready to visit me. For three months she never called me and I didn't call her. She called me today and I didn't answer.

Did I do anything wrong?
Why is she calling me after this long?
Was she interested in me?
How do I react now?

You want die young