₦airaland Forum

NiRfreak:
➜How many times did your mother or her generation billed your father for initiating conversation.
➜Foreign women don't behave this way. Its a cultural problem that got worse over time.

I would ask you if you go out there seeking your mother in every woman you are interested in. That is more of a concern to me.

2. How many foreign women do you know of? Let's start with that.

dollypi:
She disgraced herself publicly

No she didn't.

Lots of hungry girls lurking around

lilsmart:
You no dey see their belle??

Somehow that belle no dey stop una wey dey get interest in them, but the moment they demand you pay for the interest — simple demand and supply logic which is foreign to beggars, by the way— na then you go remember their belle? Nonsense! 🥱🥱🥱

FYI: Beggars go around asking for something for nothing, while business-minded individuals know to use demand-and-supply to their advantage. And another clue, the lady is not the beggar in this case.

all the exams wey I don write for school and professional exams wey person still dey write don do me. She can keep her TEST SCRIPT TO HERSELF.

The only question here should be; why is she pained by the mans refusing to buy her food that she had to set ring light to make a post about it

Kobojunkieee:
1. That is only if you want to marry her, which I doubt, so why is that your concern at this point when you never even passed the test to gain her interest?

2. Storyland! Again, stop pretending all women must like you and offer themselves up to you for free. Go find those you can afford, and leave those that you can't. 🥱🥱🥱

3. Again, religious bullsheet! Which God? They god of your poverty abi na which one? 🥱🥱🥱

4. Kai... ignorance is a sickness!

The girl required the man to at least buy her a meal— a base value — before he could access her time and attention. Obviously, she values her time and attention as being above the reach of those men who would not at least pay for her meals. 🥱🥱🥱

5. It is sort of like the same home training that taught you to value women's time and attention as a value for you to freely access on your own terms? That poverty home training that is left you all frazzled by this one woman's temerity that you pay for instead? Seems your hometraining has left you of little worth.

Kobojunkie:
It is Ok not to pay for her food. She took that to mean that he was not interested. So, the problem only arose when he called her afterwards.🤣🤣🤣🤣

he gave her a text he did not call her

emperorz:
he gave her a text he did not call her

That OP image showed that he did try to call her before he then sent a text stating he was the guy who met up with her at the restaurant.

lilsmart:
all the exams wey I don write for school and professional exams wey person still dey write don do me. She can keep her TEST SCRIPT TO HERSELF. The only question here should be; why is she pained by the mans refusing to buy her food that she had to set ring light to make a post about it

You no dey read? She expected that someone interested in her would at least pay for her food. 🥱

Here are the basics you need to understand and finally realize about relationships. Relationships are transactional, whether or not your mother and father told you of this or not. That some people out there would rather feign ignorance of this does not change this fact. Stop trying to carry what you obviously can't afford or know much of for your head and move on.🥱🥱

See how kobojunkie carry ijeoma matter for head like a big calabash.🥱

Kobojunkie:
That OP image showed that he did try to call her before he then sent a text stating he was the guy who met up with her at the restaurant.

read the text she said it herself ,she was triggered by the fact that he texted her after the whole scenario....me I won't argue with someone like u cos it's pointless u way i sabi well well nothing way them tell you fit make u reason well ...may we not jam problem in our lives o amen

emperorz:
✓ read the text she said it herself ,she was triggered by the fact that he texted her after the whole scenario....me I won't argue with someone like u cos it's pointless u way i sabi well well nothing way them tell you fit make u reason well ...may we not jam problem in our lives o amen

🥱🥱🥱🥱

Namaster:
GREEDY FHOOL!

Someone she just met THAT day.
NEVER even talked for up to an hour.
But she immediately assumed he should bear the BURDEN of feeding her.

All because he EXPRESSED interest in her.

In the mind of the average Nigerian lady, ordinary "hello" from a man is sufficient grounds for BILLING.

That's why I LAUGHED about the post on FP yesterday where a girl was beetching about a handsome guy that was staring at her inside a SHOPPING MALL without saying "Hi".

Now, this one said "Hi".
But he didn't say it with MONEY.

This level of ENTITLEMENT is why Shiloh is such a profitable hit year after YEAR.

MANY of them will D.I.E in SHILOH!

A man says Hi and you automatically expected him to SPONSOR your lunch.

MADNESS!

the shiloh part had me in stitches

Kobojunkieee:
I would ask you if you go out there seeking your mother in every woman you are interested in. That is more of a concern to me.

2. How many foreign women do you know of? Let's start with that.

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One of the most foolish question an adult would ask.
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Even if you assume I'm resident in Nigeria. Ur head should tell you. I should have friends and relatives abroad. And if your head doesn't do that, then you should know I should have foreign friends online and belong to foreign platforms. And if that is too intuitive for you, at least you should know I read books and watch movies, and I also belong to a global community. How you don't see an irrelevant question bothers me

Relationship are not transactional, businesses are
Know this today

Kobojunkie:
You no dey read? She expected that someone interested in her would at least pay for her food. 🥱

Here are the basics you need to understand and finally realize about relationships. Relationships are transactional, whether or not your mother and father told you of this or not. That some people out there would rather feign ignorance of this does not change this fact. Stop trying to carry what you obviously can't afford or know much of for your head and move on.🥱🥱

Fake story. Life continues.

lilsmart:
Relationship are not transactional, businesses are Know this today

I suggest you get yourself some well needed education at this point in time. If you have yet to grasp even the basic things by this point in your life, it explains a whole lot about your mentality so far.

So the relationship you have with you parent and siblings are transactional. I don hear you oooo.

Kobojunkie:
I suggest you get yourself some well needed education at this point in time. If you have yet to grasp even the basic things by this point in your life, it explains a whole lot about your mentality so far.

lilsmart:
So the relationship you have with you parent and siblings are transactional. I don here you oooo.

it is sad that even babies understand this simple fact but a grown up like you remains clueless to it. 🥱😩🥱

Answer the question

Kobojunkie:
it is sad that even babies understand this simple fact but a grown up like you remains clueless to it. 🥱😩🥱

lilsmart:
Answer the question

Please, make Google your friend. 🥱🥱🥱

You see your life. You dey even contradict yourself


FYI: Beggars go around asking for something for nothing, while business-minded individuals know to use demand-and-supply to their advantage. And another clue, the lady is not the beggar in this case. [/quote]AS YOU RIGHTFULLY SAID BUSINESS MINDED INDIVIDUALS

REMIND (because it like you have short time memories)

Relationship are not transactional, businesses are[b][/b]

Na ds gal make me no say no b my writing English mean say u get sense.. Una get time de reply person wey de yabaleft

missjekyll:
It does sound somehow,doesnt it? At least buy her a fanta just to show willing.

I would have done the same thing in Nigeria

You would have done the same thing in Nigeria but won't try that abroad because nobody would send you abroad. It is only here in Nigeria that women still expect men to spend on them. They still cling to older cultural practices that benefit women but only protest against those ones that favour men. That's double standard abeg

Jman06:
You would have done the same thing in Nigeria but won't try that abroad because nobody would send you abroad. It is only here in Nigeria that women still expect men to spend on them. They still cling to older cultural practices that benefit women but only protest against those ones that favour men. That's double standard abeg

. Stop lying to them. Which abroad you dey talk sef? The one wey we know abi the one wey we no know?

lilsmart:
You see your life. You dey even contradict yourself

. Always take time to learn the correct meaning and use of a term before you go around attempting to fashion it as a weapon against others.

This one no get Shame ooo...avoid girls from poverty homes....their brain and system is already damaged

Kobojunkie:
First there are no hard and fast rules for what people should do when interested in others. So, she is free to expect that the man should have at least paid for her meal if he was in fact interested in her.
Something tells me that if he has captured and posted the video from when they met at the restaurant, we would have clearly seen that the girl had expected him to have paid but he, according to her, pretended not to know her at all, making his calling her later only even funnier. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

So if u approach a guy u like at the poolside of a hotel during a pool party in ur bikini and during ur quick conversion, he tells u he is lodged alone in one of the rooms , so u exchange contacts ...so he should expect u to immediately offer him ur body to knack in one of the rooms....now imagine calling him the next day and he starts to insult u that u should have at least given him a BJ in hotel room ....how u go take reason the guy .... women in this country need to unlearn alot of nonsense...that's why they fail woefully in relationships...and reason men now see u women as sex objects.... the way women feel disgusted when men ask for sex on first date , is same way men feel disgusted when women ask for money on first dates...

Kobojunkie:
Wrong! Women have a right and reason to bill men for their attention and energy. It is simple as that.🥱🥱

2. You are always free to find yourself only those ladies who are cheaper to engage with. That is how any market works. That don't make the costlier ones bad; just means they are those you cannot afford. 🥱🤐🤐

Men have the right to demand for sex for their attention, energy and money spent

cr7lomo:
✓ Men have the right to demand for sex for their attention, energy and money spent

Na rape?

Kobojunkie:
Na rape?

Na extortion??

✓ Na extortion??

just because you no fit afford am no mean say na bad thing. In not too distant past, people literally sold their sheet and pee to farmers in places like Japan. Demand and supply is at the core of every transaction out there.🥴🥴🥴

If you can't afford to pay for the attention and energy of a woman, then move on from her. Simple! 🥱🥴

lilsmart:
all the exams wey I don write for school and professional exams wey person still dey write don do me. She can keep her TEST SCRIPT TO HERSELF.

The only question here should be; why is she pained by the mans refusing to buy her food that she had to set ring light to make a post about it

I heard she requested for an extra piece of turkey to her portion. .. with the hope that the guy was going to pay. Before the guy gave her a shocker ..
I have never seen such crazy entitlement like that.
Less than an hour of meeting.. billing has started.