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Re: The Woman I Want To Marry Hates Kissing by zyphr(m): 3:43pm On Dec 11, 2025

It is normal
I've met 3 different girls that don't like kissing. They find it irritating. It was a deal breaker for me though, so I didn't pursue a serious relationship with them.
For me, Love-making without kissing feels like there is no intimacy .

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Re: The Woman I Want To Marry Hates Kissing by AKWATGOLD1(m): 5:16pm On Dec 11, 2025

Dating a lady for for two months and planning marriage just like that. My guy, i pray you should not fall in to woman trap.

ekeneokwologu:
I have been dating this girl for 2 months now. But I noticed she doesn’t like kissing and we are also planning marriage. I need ur advice on this thanks. Pls move it to front page.

Re: The Woman I Want To Marry Hates Kissing by pansophist(m): 12:21am On Dec 12, 2025*

If she likes you, everything is free. If she doesn’t, everything has a fee.

It is only you that is discussing marriage, not her. You want to privatise a girl that don’t give a sheet about you.

Also, she likes to kiss, but she don’t want to kiss you.

No dey deceive yourself. Remove yourself from the cast, make she be with who she cherish.

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Re: The Woman I Want To Marry Hates Kissing by Nnamdipapa(m): 1:59am On Dec 12, 2025

kissing is not our culture. Even Kobojunkie will agree with me on this

Re: The Woman I Want To Marry Hates Kissing by Kobojunkie: 2:04am On Dec 12, 2025

Nnamdipapa:
kissing is not our culture. Even Kobojunkie will agree with me on this

Don't drag me down with you in that nonsense! Most everything you celebrate as culture today is borrowed from one part of the world or another. Even garri and stockfish wey una dey eat na other parts of the world they come from. undecided

If he wants someone to kiss, the sane thing for him to do is to get himself a girl who wouldn't mind kissing him. Clinging to a girl who does not like being kissed by him makes no sense! undecided

Re: The Woman I Want To Marry Hates Kissing by Nnamdipapa(m): 2:42am On Dec 12, 2025

Kobojunkie:
Don't drag me down with you in that nonsense! Most everything you celebrate as culture today is borrowed from one part of the world or another. Even garri and stockfish wey una dey eat na other parts of the world they come from.

If he wants someone to kiss, the sane thing for him to do is to get himself a girl who wouldn't mind kissing him. Clinging to a girl who does not like being kissed by him makes no sense!

How many African couple do you know who love to kiss? I can bet you would find none. We only do that to copy the whites but deep down, kissing is never our ways of showing affections as Africans and, I have done a deep study on this. We no dey kiss abeg! Who wan kiss after eating ogbono and okro soup?

Re: The Woman I Want To Marry Hates Kissing by Kobojunkie: 2:55am On Dec 12, 2025

Nnamdipapa:
➜How many African couple do you know who love to kiss? I can bet you would find none.
➜ We only do that to copy the whites but deep down, kissing is never our ways of showing affections as Africans and, I have done a deep study on this.
➜ We no dey kiss abeg! Who wan kiss after eating ogbono and okro soup?

Of my generation, I know no man or woman who does not know that kissing is a part of romance. undecided

2. Dude, speak for yourself, abeg! Since my college days in Nigeria— I am talking of the mid-to-late 90s here —, kissing has been part and parcel of romance culture in Nigeria. I don't know where you are coming from at all. undecided

3. Even back in my younger days, ageberos for the lagos took kissing seriously. I no know wetin you dey talk, abeg! undecided

Re: The Woman I Want To Marry Hates Kissing by brain54(m): 3:49am On Dec 12, 2025

Kobojunkie:
Of my generation, I know no man or woman who does not know that kissing is a part of romance.

2. Dude, speak for yourself, abeg! Since my college days in Nigeria— I am talking of the mid-to-late 90s here —, kissing has been part and parcel of romance culture in Nigeria. I don't know where you are coming from at all.

3. Even back in my younger days, ageberos for the lagos took kissing seriously. I no know wetin you dey talk, abeg!

He is being sarcastic with you...

Re: The Woman I Want To Marry Hates Kissing by Kobojunkie: 4:05am On Dec 12, 2025

brain54:
➜He is being sarcastic with you...

I am being straight up just in case because there are actually people out there who never did kiss... I knew some older couples from back in the day — churches like Deeper Life — who thought kissing was just disgusting behavior. (So long as you are dealing with Africans, I say you can't be too sure of these things.) I am certain some of those folks must have passed their mentality forward to their children or others like them out there. Kissing is a big deal for those for whom it is, and should not be considered lightly. undecided

Re: The Woman I Want To Marry Hates Kissing by brain54(m): 9:25am On Dec 12, 2025

Kobojunkie:
I am being straight up just in case because there are actually people out there who never did kiss... I knew some older couples from back in the day — churches like Deeper Life — who thought kissing was just disgusting behavior. (So long as you are dealing with Africans, I say you can't be too sure of these things.) I am certain some of those folks must have passed their mentality forward to their children or others like them out there. Kissing is a big deal for those for whom it is, and should not be considered lightly.

You are right no doubt...

But I can add that not only some Africans find kissing disgusting behavior.

And you mentioned a church. Sometimes it isn't tied to church behavior or has nothing to do with being churcheous. That may be so in certain circumstances but some people are also just wired that way!

Re: The Woman I Want To Marry Hates Kissing by Gerrard59(m): 11:45am On Dec 12, 2025

everythingtall3:
Don't worry you won't need kissing in marriage after 1 year.

To be fair, though, romance is subjective. So, what is her romance language? And what is yours too? Also, women rate kissing higher than men. So for she to avoid kissing you says a lot. But planning marriage within two months? shocked

You also change brushes every two weeks? shocked

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