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A Nigerian man, Onyelike Darlington, has shared an ‘update’ five years after he praised his wife for her submissiveness, loyalty and humility.



He took to Facebook on Monday, December 8, 2025 to share a screenshot of his post dated 2020.



“Na me write this?” he captioned the post.

You have learnt well. Congratulations

Hahahahah he has seen Obon of calamari.

The honeymoon phase is now long gone...

You dey look camera, your new wife mind dey her choir master boyfriend for village ..😂
dem say love is blind, but na marriage dey cure the blindness ..
Las Las your eyes don open 😂🤣

He’s finally seen the light! 😂 Truth is, there are way more happy marriages than broken ones; the problem is the fails are always super loud and the wins are silent. Forget chasing a girl just because she’s pretty, goes to church, or is curvy —the point is finding someone you can build a genuine, long-term life with.

Harass TV should invite the man for an interview.... I want Rufai to interview him so i can call to ask him some questions

Marriage nah black market
You can knw what is inside
Till you buy am, enter house
Check am

Lol..😂😂😂😂😂..who he dey ask😂 now!!,
🤷,na still d same person write ham oo🙄..but experience den say is d Best teacher 💯🤷..
Asking such a rhetorical question shows he has know better now...📍📌😀Welcome 2 d world of reality bro..

Newlymarried:
A Nigerian man, Onyelike Darlington, has shared an ‘update’ five years after he praised his wife for her submissiveness, loyalty and humility.



He took to Facebook on Monday, December 8, 2025 to share a screenshot of his post dated 2020.



“Na me write this?” he captioned the post.

Zero context whatsoever. “Na me write this?” could mean anything. I will not jump into a conclusion.

His eyes is clear now. 😂


From the look on her face, she looks like a troublesome person.

kpankpangolo:
Zero context whatsoever. “Na me write this?” could mean anything. I will not jump into a conclusion.

Nah, it can't mean anything; it totally means something. You wouldn't confuse that with something simple like 'I can eat' or 'I can write.' It definitely has a specific interpretation that you need to find. Saying it means nothing is the wrong way to look at it.

Na Kobojunkie get time to debate aimlessly. I’ve said my own.

SpencerForbes:
Nah, it can't mean anything; it totally means something. You wouldn't confuse that with something simple like 'I can eat' or 'I can write.' It definitely has a specific interpretation that you need to find. Saying it means nothing is the wrong way to look at it.

kpankpangolo:
Na Kobojunkie get time to debate aimlessly. I’ve said my own.

Nah…. It isn’t about debating aimlessly but about logic and use of English which you abused.

Kobojunkie is coming.

SpencerForbes:
Nah…. It isn’t about debating aimlessly but about logic and use of English which you abused.

After listing out all her qualities which endeared her to him, did he reciprocate in ways that would make her want to uphold these qualities? She's humble, respectful, loyal blablabla, are you humble and loyal yourself?

The eyes....Chico.
Looking at her eyes and her facial expression, it is broad to see that she's unhappy in that marriage. Even if she smiles all the time, that shot showed her true mindset. Even if the guy noticed it, love is blind. But like they say, marriage will cure the blindness

Na me write this?



Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

why do nigerian women like marrying bald men

.. e be like say day don break, eye don clear!

Warrior in disguise, change in priorities makes them show their ugly selves 🤷🏿.

Samantha125:
The honeymoon phase is now long gone...

Your eyes have cleared too

dominique:
After listing out all her qualities which endeared her to him, did he reciprocate in ways that would make her want to uphold these qualities? She's humble, respectful, loyal blablabla, are you humble and loyal yourself?

keep quiet

Portiphaaa:
You dey look camera your newly married wife mind dey her choir master boyfriend for village ..

Las Las your eyes don open

Their ladies prefer YourRubber men because of higher test0 sterone.

Not the ones who borrow skirts to hide every Monday

Some men need serious psychiatric evaluation. You disrespect your wife by cheating on her, hitting her, and still expects her to respect you.

Just by looking at the picture, that lady doesn't look like someone that will allow a man to trample on her. The man is the dumb one here.

Eyes see pepper or pepper enter the eye

Marriage na scam for men, you gain nothing, absolutely nothing but trouble and bills,

PapaNnamdi:
Marriage na scam for men, you gain nothing, absolutely nothing but trouble and bills,

Yet, you can't stay without marrying.

His eyes are now widely opened. It shall be well.

Without context, this post is useless. He's not saying he's denouncing the post. So what do we make of this?