₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
Let me help you with the little advice! If any woman— irrespective of where she comes from or is going to on this planet— you are interested in DOES NOT with her mouth admit to being interested in you, take it that you would be no different from a rapist and an abuser if you took it on yourself in that situation to help yourself to her body and time without her consent.

And yes, there are a lot of Nigerian men who think that forcing themselves on women, either through coercion or force, is some sort of birthright of theirs because of that extra piece of meat hanging between their legs. I can tell you without mincing words that such men are simply rapists and abusers allowed to roam free in Nigeria because of the lack of oversight in that country.

Dzzzz:
➜You sound like a 50yr old Virgin..She’s giving him hints cause she won’t say it directly and that’s how women operate..

AlphaBoy:
Nairaland, abeg help me judge this matter because I no wan deceive myself.
There’s this female friend of mine in school. We read together, buy snacks for each other, gist, and I usually walk her home after night class. Cool friendship, nothing serious… or so I thought.
But recently, she has been acting somehow:
One day she told me she feels blessed to have me and even called me her role model.
Anytime we finish reading late, she insists I must walk her home.
One night, she pointed at a bus stop and said she once saw a couple kissing there. Then she faced me and dropped this line: “It’s you that don’t want to love.”
If I ghost her small, na she go enter my DM first like, “You no wan talk to me again?”
And one day she directly asked me: “Why are you running from me?”
Make una no forget — I liked her initially but didn't want to push it yet , I don’t know if she’s catching feelings.
So nairalanders, make una talk true:
This girl like me abi she just dey whine me?
Or na me dey overthink am?

UniQue84:
See my guy make I advise you and go ..you are still young and a student not earning yet ..your future is paramount not relationship it will derail you from your purpose at this stage ..you need to come out of that school with honours and flying colours.

So at this stage you just need to knack her once or twice and let her be..no string attached...cos if you do the boyfriend thing na billing, headache resulting from jealousy over seeing her with another guy and so on and so forth..this will affect your emotions negatively and impact on your academics negatively too.

My take..dont be a lover boy in campus be a player ..lover boys dey carry last and end with premium tears .....if u like hear na u know.

PS .,use condom oo if u must knack

KingDashx:
Where that SpencerForbes
Come and learn from the big players

AlphaBoy:
Nairaland, abeg help me judge this matter because I no wan deceive myself.
There’s this female friend of mine in school. We read together, buy snacks for each other, gist, and I usually walk her home after night class. Cool friendship, nothing serious… or so I thought.
But recently, she has been acting somehow:
One day she told me she feels blessed to have me and even called me her role model.
Anytime we finish reading late, she insists I must walk her home.
One night, she pointed at a bus stop and said she once saw a couple kissing there. Then she faced me and dropped this line: “It’s you that don’t want to love.”
If I ghost her small, na she go enter my DM first like, “You no wan talk to me again?”
And one day she directly asked me: “Why are you running from me?”
Make una no forget — I liked her initially but didn't want to push it yet , I don’t know if she’s catching feelings
So nairalanders, make una talk true:
This girl like me abi she just dey whine me?
Or na me dey overthink am?

Dzzzz:
You sound like a 50yr old Virgin..She’s giving him hints cause she won’t say it directly and that’s how women operate..

Kobojunkie:
The only way you can ever know if a woman or man likes you is if you ask directly, and you get the answer straight from the horse's mouth. Never take it on yourself to conclude that you know or can read the mind of another human. That is not only rude but a direct insult to their intelligence. Even those so-called clues people tell you can be 90% of the time. So, if you must know whether she likes you or not, ask her directly and get your answer from her mouth.

Seriously, many people have ended up in jail for sexual assault, rape, or even stalking, all because they took it upon themselves to conclude they had mind-reading abilities where it concerns the opposite sex. Don't do it, no matter how much you are tempted to. Always ask the other party directly to learn whether the feelings you have are mutual or not. And respect whatever answer you are given.🤔🤔

Also, since you no longer like that, what does it matter then whether she likes you or not? Just stick to being friends and let it be.

Kobojunkie:
The only way you can ever know if a woman or man likes you is if you ask directly, and you get the answer straight from the horse's mouth. Never take it on yourself to conclude that you know or can read the mind of another human. That is not only rude but a direct insult to their intelligence. Even those so-called clues people tell you can be 90% of the time. So, if you must know whether she likes you or not, ask her directly and get your answer from her mouth.

Seriously, many people have ended up in jail for sexual assault, rape, or even stalking, all because they took it upon themselves to conclude they had mind-reading abilities where it concerns the opposite sex. Don't do it, no matter how much you are tempted to. Always ask the other party directly to learn whether the feelings you have are mutual or not. And respect whatever answer you are given.🤔🤔

Also, since you no longer like that, what does it matter then whether she likes you or not? Just stick to being friends and let it be.

AlphaBoy:
Nairaland, abeg help me judge this matter because I no wan deceive myself.
There’s this female friend of mine in school. We read together, buy snacks for each other, gist, and I usually walk her home after night class. Cool friendship, nothing serious… or so I thought.
But recently, she has been acting somehow:
One day she told me she feels blessed to have me and even called me her role model.
Anytime we finish reading late, she insists I must walk her home.
One night, she pointed at a bus stop and said she once saw a couple kissing there. Then she faced me and dropped this line: “It’s you that don’t want to love.”
If I ghost her small, na she go enter my DM first like, “You no wan talk to me again?”
And one day she directly asked me: “Why are you running from me?”
Make una no forget — I liked her initially but didn't want to push it yet , I don’t know if she’s catching feelings
So nairalanders, make una talk true:
This girl like me abi she just dey whine me?
Or na me dey overthink am?

Uptheante:
➜As if una dey ever admit say una like man 🤔
➜ With una too much pride & pretentious nature, it's almost impossible for you as Nigerian women to admit that

AlphaBoy:
Nairaland, abeg help me judge this matter because I no wan deceive myself.

There’s this female friend of mine in school. We read together, buy snacks for each other, gist, and I usually walk her home after night class. Cool friendship, nothing serious… or so I thought.

But recently, she has been acting somehow:
One day she told me she feels blessed to have me and even called me her role model.
Anytime we finish reading late, she insists I must walk her home.

One night, she pointed at a bus stop and said she once saw a couple kissing there. Then she faced me and dropped this line: “It’s you that don’t want to love.”

If I ghost her small, na she go enter my DM first like, “You no wan talk to me again?”
And one day she directly asked me: “Why are you running from me?”

Make una no forget — I liked her initially but didn't want to push it yet , I don’t know if she’s catching feelings.

So nairalanders, make una talk true:
This girl like me abi she just dey whine me?
Or na me dey overthink am?

brain54:
Make I re echo her words...

It's you that don't want to love!

brain54:
Make I re echo her words...

It's you that don't want to love!

Kobojunkie:
The only way you can ever know if a woman or man likes you is if you ask directly, and you get the answer straight from the horse's mouth. Never take it on yourself to conclude that you know or can read the mind of another human. That is not only rude but a direct insult to their intelligence. Even those so-called clues people tell you can be 90% of the time. So, if you must know whether she likes you or not, ask her directly and get your answer from her mouth.

Seriously, many people have ended up in jail for sexual assault, rape, or even stalking, all because they took it upon themselves to conclude they had mind-reading abilities where it concerns the opposite sex. Don't do it, no matter how much you are tempted to. Always ask the other party directly to learn whether the feelings you have are mutual or not. And respect whatever answer you are given.🤔🤔

Also, since you no longer like that, what does it matter then whether she likes you or not? Just stick to being friends and let it be.

AlphaBoy:
Nairaland, abeg help me judge this matter because I no wan deceive myself.

There’s this female friend of mine in school. We read together, buy snacks for each other, gist, and I usually walk her home after night class. Cool friendship, nothing serious… or so I thought.

But recently, she has been acting somehow:
One day she told me she feels blessed to have me and even called me her role model.
Anytime we finish reading late, she insists I must walk her home.

One night, she pointed at a bus stop and said she once saw a couple kissing there. Then she faced me and dropped this line: “It’s you that don’t want to love.”

If I ghost her small, na she go enter my DM first like, “You no wan talk to me again?”
And one day she directly asked me: “Why are you running from me?”

Make una no forget — I liked her initially but didn't want to push it yet , I don’t know if she’s catching feelings.

So nairalanders, make una talk true:
This girl like me abi she just dey whine me?
Or na me dey overthink am?

AlphaBoy:
Nairaland, abeg help me judge this matter because I no wan deceive myself.

There’s this female friend of mine in school. We read together, buy snacks for each other, gist, and I usually walk her home after night class. Cool friendship, nothing serious… or so I thought.

But recently, she has been acting somehow:
One day she told me she feels blessed to have me and even called me her role model.
Anytime we finish reading late, she insists I must walk her home.

One night, she pointed at a bus stop and said she once saw a couple kissing there. Then she faced me and dropped this line: “It’s you that don’t want to love.”

If I ghost her small, na she go enter my DM first like, “You no wan talk to me again?”
And one day she directly asked me: “Why are you running from me?”

Make una no forget — I liked her initially but didn't want to push it yet , I don’t know if she’s catching feelings.

So nairalanders, make una talk true:
This girl like me abi she just dey whine me?
Or na me dey overthink am?