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Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by Nobody: 9:58am On Dec 15, 2025
PulaPower:
But sha, whenever they’re with Yoruba guys, most of dem dey behave well. I’m speaking from experience..
I observe that too and most of those ladies didn't grew up either in Igbo land or around Igbos
Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by Threedoorsdown: 9:59am On Dec 15, 2025
Very true
Ediko1:
You're right but the truth is that the Igbos hates the truth about them but are always quick to stereotype and insult other tribes freely
Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by Nobody: 10:00am On Dec 15, 2025
Baronthecelebri:
You're right bro
Yeah
Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by Nobody: 10:01am On Dec 15, 2025
keemsleek:
This is not true. South west and south south are the worst if the packs. Yes igbo men might influence women with money but when it comes to divorce they have the lowest rate. But you see south west and south south women hallelujah just pray you marry well. Check online most feminist are yoruba, those that talk rubbish and misbehave most are yoruba cos they believed they liberal and woke and the painful thing is igbo women are beginning to follow the trends and coung the woke and liberal style of south West and south south women.
You're very funny.
How many bitter women from South west and south south are moving around the internet recruiting young ladies to hate men compared to the ones from South east?
Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by keemsleek(m): 10:09am On Dec 15, 2025
Ediko1:
You're very funny.
How many bitter women from South west and south south are moving around the internet recruiting young ladies to hate men compared to the ones from South east?
Read well.... who mentioned bitterness? We talking about divorce rate. I no kuku be igbo. So you can't say anything. Let call spade a spade.
Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by Nobody: 10:11am On Dec 15, 2025
Jman06:
When an inexperienced person makes a post, it is always easier to spot.

Igbos actually have the strongest marriages that stand the test of time because such marriages were not just based on mere emotions but on something stronger than emotional feelings! Emotional feelings don't sustain marriages because they're ephemeral and fleeting!

On the other hand, strong family ties, great character and wealth actually sustain marriages as they play longer-lasting roles than mere feelings!

Tonto Dike and Churchill were in love and even went as far as locking their so called love at a certain place far away from Nigeria. Tuface and Annie were also in "love" but we all know how their so called love ended. These are just examples to let you know that what the youths of this generation refer to as "love" doesn't sustain marriages!

The fact that some frustrated feminists gang up against marriages so they can get many young women into having similar fate as them doesn't make it right for you to smear a whole tribe because of the actions of a few ladies.
The above bolded is out of point.
Let me ask you if marriages last based on financial persuasion as the major foundation of the marriage then why are many young Igbo ladies leaving their older odogwu after gathering money they can use to take care of themselves?

Why will an odogwu wife be deeply connected to one struggling young man?

The are many questions but time won't permit me to type all
Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by Nobody: 10:12am On Dec 15, 2025
SamuraiXXX:
I thought you left Nairaland for good?

So you're back with your lies and your women-hating threads angry
I noticed there are more simps in NL so I had to step in to elevate the gospel.
Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by MartinCorridon: 10:40am On Dec 15, 2025
And the Igbo ladies ALWAYS upgrade by hunting YooRubber guys grin
Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by Dzzzz: 11:16am On Dec 15, 2025
This one na BEER PARLOR ARGUMENT..
Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by faceland: 11:28am On Dec 15, 2025
My grandparents would disagree with this post. I can remember my 80+ years old grandma saying Igbo don't divorce (May be this 20+ years old blogger has more experience than her)... Igbo men marry late and usually stay with that one woman till the end. Usually.

I don't know whats going on in UK sha.
Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by shortgun(m): 11:41am On Dec 15, 2025
So a video made by an illiterate residing in the UK is all it takes to make you show the world that you are mentally static
Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by lilyheaven: 1:20pm On Dec 15, 2025
budaatum:
You are going to need to provide better evidence than a video you watched for this to be accepted as any sort of fact, because most of us will not accept pigs fly just because we watched a video of flying pigs.


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Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by Jman06(m): 3:19pm On Dec 15, 2025
Ediko1:
The above bolded is out of point.
Let me ask you if marriages last based on financial persuasion as the major foundation of the marriage then why are many young Igbo ladies leaving their older odogwu after gathering money they can use to take care of themselves?

Why will an odogwu wife be deeply connected to one struggling young man?

The are many questions but time won't permit me to type all
There are more women cheating on their husbands today due to lack of funds. In fact, the majority of women cheat because their husbands lack funds to care for them. The fact that perhaps a few married women cheat on their wealthy husbands doesn't make that the norm and this cuts across tribes!
Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by Nobody: 3:52pm On Dec 15, 2025
Jman06:
There are more women cheating on their husbands today due to lack of funds. In fact, the majority of women cheat because their husbands lack funds to care for them. The fact that perhaps a few married women cheat on their wealthy husbands doesn't make that the norm and this cuts across tribes!
Anyway, you're Igbo so you can never change your mindset about this. But you're very funny if you're still having that mentality and it shows you're still naive. You know the amount of young guys enjoying married women's money? You know how many married I've ran from their free knack offer including the ones I knacked without knowing they're married ?

If you like enter into the mouth of lion to find money all to please your wife or go to Malaysia to push drug to please your wife family thinking say you fit buy emotional connection via that. When a relationship wasn't build on emotional connection you'll remain a simp and you'll simp till you vanish from the earth.

Your wife will be busy thinking about another guy out there not because of money
Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by Helpout12345: 5:38pm On Dec 15, 2025
I have not noticed the divorce rate and I will be observing that going forward.

BUT I can confirm that majority of toxic feminists or misandrists are igbo women on the internet.
Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by budaatum: 5:45pm On Dec 15, 2025
keemsleek:
This is not true. South west and south south are the worst if the packs. Yes igbo men might influence women with money but when it comes to divorce they have the lowest rate. But you see south west and south south women hallelujah just pray you marry well. Check online most feminist are yoruba, those that talk rubbish and misbehave most are yoruba cos they believed they liberal and woke and the painful thing is igbo women are beginning to follow the trends and coung the woke and liberal style of south West and south south women.
I must say, Yoruba women are very enlightened, and our men can be rather backward, such that any attempt to feed our men the fruits of knowledge usually ends in refusal for fear they might die. And honestly, which woman would want to remain with a man in chains when she can free herself from him and his slavery?

Ref: https://www.nairaland.com/7351620/story-adam-eve-makes-sense#117003826

Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by Jman06(m): 5:47pm On Dec 15, 2025
Up
Ediko1:
Anyway, you're Igbo so you can never change your mindset about this. But you're very funny if you're still having that mentality and it shows you're still naive. You know the amount of young guys enjoying married women's money? You know how many married I've ran from their free knack offer including the ones I knacked without knowing they're married ?

If you like enter into the mouth of lion to find money all to please your wife or go to Malaysia to push drug to please your wife family thinking say you fit buy emotional connection via that. When a relationship wasn't build on emotional connection you'll remain a simp and you'll simp till you vanish from the earth.

Your wife will be busy thinking about another guy out there not because of money
This is how some of you create false beliefs in your heads and base your lives on them until they come to bite you. Statistics and evidence around has shown that more married women cheat on their husbands because of lack of funds to care for them. If you like, go and marry a slay queen when you don't have money to maintain her, that is when you'll understand what's up. The thing you call "love" or "emotional connection" like you put it is too fleeting to sustain a marriage! It crumbles when poverty and lacks set in in any relationship or marriage! Stop thinking like a small boy and embrace reality from someone who has seen things better than you!
Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by edunaragold(f): 12:01am On Dec 17, 2025
Ediko1:
Without any doubt divorce in marriages between Igbo partners or an Igbo lady to a man from another tribe constitute the highest rate of divorce in Nigeria. I recently watched a video where a Nigerian lady who reside in the UK said about 90% of divorce in Nigerian marriages in the UK involve Igbo women.

Igbo men are the main cause of divorce in marriages involving Igbo ladies. Why? They believe money is everything (the beginning and end) in the relationship. Since they mostly worship money, they also believe everyone worship money or should worship money.

Igbo men are the men who sold the mentality of transactional relationship and marriage to their women.

Igbo men are men that believe with money you can marry a lady against her wish. An Igbo man will approach a lady for marriage and the lady will clearly tell her NO to his marriage proposal but the man will go to any length to spend money in order to lure the lady into marriage. He can spend heavily on the ladies family members, open business for parents and siblings etc. They end up using money to marry a lady with zero emotional connection to them after selling a transactional mentality to the lady and here's where the trouble start from day one.

The lady was never in love with you. Please understand that I'm not saying a man shouldn't provide for his wife or money isn't good o. Money makes relationship sweet and sweeter but a relationship build solely on money won't last because it always lack emotional connection from the side of the lady.

There are men that provides heaven and earth for their wife yet their physical presence irritates their wife and you mostly find Igbo men in this category. Igbo man can go to any length including soling his hands in dirty acts to make money in order to impress madam yet madam have zero emotional connection with oga.

Most stories about how a young man will suffer, struggle and send his girlfriend to school and the lady will later refuse to marry to man citing class imbalance are found among Igbo men.

How about the men who suffer, commit crimes to make money abroad come back to Nigeria to spend almost all their saving on a girl and her family to marry the girl only for the lady to divorce him within few months or years when she get abroad ? Most are Igbos.

I watched a podcast where a lady praised Igbo men for always prioritising their women over themselves, in the podcast she said an Igbo man can look haggard but for you to confirm if he has money go and checkout the wife.

Majority of the bitter feminist online recruiting young ladies to hate men are Igbo ladies and my question is:

If Igbo men pride themselves as the best when it comes to taking care of their wives then why the high rate of divorce among Igbo marriages?
Why are Igbo ladies exhibiting bitterness everywhere in the name of feminism ?

UPDATE:

I forgot to add that one of the main reason an Igbo men will spend heaven on earth to get a lady is that they believe it puts them in charge to dominate and control not just the lady but her family. But the funny reality is it usually don't work the way they think.

Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by Nobody: 12:54am On Dec 17, 2025
Jman06:
Up This is how some of you create false beliefs in your heads and base your lives on them until they come to bite you. Statistics and evidence around has shown that more married women cheat on their husbands because of lack of funds to care for them. If you like, go and marry a slay queen when you don't have money to maintain her, that is when you'll understand what's up. The thing you call "love" or "emotional connection" like you put it is too fleeting to sustain a marriage! It crumbles when poverty and lacks set in in any relationship or marriage! Stop thinking like a small boy and embrace reality from someone who has seen things better than you!
You have Doris Ogala's ex husband's attitude. The lady said she clearly told her ex husband that she has more love for Pastor Chris Okafor than him and the man claimed that the love will come as the marriage continue which I strongly believe he was referring to the fact that the love will come as her spends on the Doris Ogala who was already an old kago before he was favoured and picked off the streets.
Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by Antivirus92(m): 10:30pm On Dec 17, 2025
shortgun:
So a video made by an illiterate residing in the UK is all it takes to make you show the world that you are mentally static
ah swear, very static.
Every bingo has an opinion about igbo s...
Re: Igbos Have The Highest Rate Of Divorce & It's Caused By Igbo Men by Antivirus92(m): 10:34pm On Dec 17, 2025
Helpout12345:
I have not noticed the divorce rate and I will be observing that going forward.

BUT I can confirm that majority of toxic feminists or misandrists are igbo women on the internet.
you're right....

Igbo is a nation blessed with great people. The men continued from where our ancestors stopped in achieving greatness while lot of our women today (though not all) chose to be plainly STUPID.

We have the most foolish and unreasonable set of young ladies today. Their cases are pathetic...
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