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| Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by Kelle443(op): 3:06pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OO06XRM9OgE?si=M8ULjUTCumkea-Qa A woman has ignited massive online debate after boldly sharing her thoughts on marriage and motherhood. In a viral post, she revealed that it was only after getting married and having a child that she realized men benefit more from marriage than women. Her statement has sparked intense conversations across social media, with many women agreeing while others strongly disagree. Is marriage truly fair to women, or is this just a personal experience? Watch the full story and join the conversation as Nigerians and social media users react to this controversial take on marriage, relationships, and motherhood. |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by kpankpangolo: 3:13pm On Dec 15, 2025*. Modified: 5:33pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
Last week, I wondered when out in a supermarket “who is knacking all these beautiful women I’m seeing everywhere?” The truth is, not many men. If men and women were as active knacking, one wouldn’t come across social media trolls of both sexes disturbing our peace. A pocketful of people knack many and each other. The rest settle with porn and toys. Frustration from their incel lifestyles causes all these many opinions and debates one comes across online. Kelle443: |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by immortalcrown(m): 3:22pm On Dec 15, 2025*. Modified: 9:33pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
Later, she will snatch another woman's husband out of desperation. |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by ednut1(m): 4:39pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
But who goes to shiloh and jerry eze life to pray for husband? Women |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by Sermwell(m): 4:40pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
Sense is far from her!! Have you seen men attending Shiloh or hallelujah challenge praying and fasting for wife? |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by Wickedtruths: 4:41pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
Na Kobojunkie be that. I wrapper, 5 years. |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by fmlala: 4:42pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
She is a tik0tokker marriage always favour women, why are women fighting to stay in marriage? |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by Wickedtruths: 4:42pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
kpankpangolo:Don't go through the corner, go straight to the point. Kobojunkie, they are calling you. |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by ajalawole(m): 4:42pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
What does most woman bring to the table then sex. No matter how rich a woman is, she will still need a mans money.... In fact she can still offer her body for SE even if she has billions. |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by Felicity0001: 4:42pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
This one has totally gone gaga... I pity her husband |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by ReacherSaidNoth: 4:43pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
I'm not going to waste my data viewing someone with a smooth brain. |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by SixSeven: 4:44pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
Marriage benefits who Men are dispensable and disposable.The marriage institution was necessary to protect society. What we have today is the result of letting women go freely and do as they want or wish. Left to women, they could go on having children for 6-7 men without thinking about the consequences. Women do not like men who keep to structure because it checks their 'freedom'. Women are the source of life on earth so men figured that the society needs to protect this privilege if the owners don't know the importance of what they carry in their wombs.
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| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by AntiChristian: 4:44pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
That's untrue! Children remembers the mother more in most cases! Train them well...sha! |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by muyico(m): 4:44pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
She wanna trend! Anything wey go bring money do am, no matter d content |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by okoliobinna84(m): 4:44pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
This girl has not tasted the security of being with a man....like the peace of mind associated with being with a "man" knowing fully that your back is covered. |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by seanery: 4:45pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
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| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by Olamideayomide(m): 4:45pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
She dey jonz... But I reserve my comment for another thread |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by shadrach77: 4:46pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
Any goat will just come online to yarn dust just to trend. You have been noticed. Bye! |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by Aidoko2: 4:47pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
Useless as f**k. But I see her as agent of doom who is out to further confirm what her gender have been wondering. |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by DeltaBachelor(m): 4:48pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
Hmmm. For me, it benefits both parties. Man for lineage and name, then women for protection |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by pocohantas(f): 4:48pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
ednut1:Normally e dey sweet when you never enter. When you enter, you go come calm down. ![]() |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by Kingpele(m): 4:50pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
The lady just want to trend simple as man I have come to understand that if God is not with u as a man ,u will marry empty brains like this lady above and live a miserable life ....as a man u have to take care of family bills even if you are having one challenge or the other you are expected to handle it as a man ...this is why they're many widows then widowers...the pressure of just being a man especially in today's Nigeria is not easy whether u get money or u are poor |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by Fountainofyouth(f): 4:50pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
💯 But watch them hyperventilate that's it's not true |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by Forexcampuses: 4:50pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
SixSeven:You've Written With Wisdom! |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by fredoooooo: 4:52pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
In Africa yes.. in the West NO ... |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by Fountainofyouth(f): 4:52pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
Aidoko2:Say hello to your mother for me, she must be from another gender for u to insult her breed like that. |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by SixSeven: 4:54pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
There's nothing women do that's not to their favor. Women are very cold and calculating. They don't take any decisions that does not involve their survival. Even when Buchi who used to write about women and their liberation talked about polygamy as a way of marriage, it was still about the WOMAN. Always the woman. That's why women are not best friends as in laws. They know themselves too well. Always looking for control. And the man who is the price, prize and source is the resource. Yesterday I read one Nairalander who said she married her husband thinking she would have fair children or light skinned children. I read that message and smh because in the man's mind he had no idea he was a launchpad to get what she really wanted. Women are always looking for a means of survival, don't pay attention to them. Watch what they do not what they say. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8YZJ3pohooM If women loved themselves, they would easily produce the next president and Governor because they have the numbers but they never want to admit their own scam. Always looking at blaming men or not accepting responsibility for their own faults.
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| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by kpankpangolo: 4:55pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
Kobojunkie is a bald middle-aged man who debates concerning anything. Whether it’s pregnancy, periods, old age or menopause, he has arguments ready. His opinions are jumbled into scientifically researched facts in his head. It’s best to steer clear from him. Wickedtruths: |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by Gerrard59(m): 4:56pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
kpankpangolo:Agreed, including declining living standards and a harsh economic climate. But how would they have adequate sex when they have brainwashed themselves that sex is bad? You have men refusing to sexually satisfy their wives because of so-called tradition, and women arrogantly asking their husbands, "If sex is food?" Some, if not most of them just married to fulfil societal rites, but continue their sexual affairs with people outside their marriages. They deserve whatever they get. |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by Shedrack777: 4:56pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
I'm going to support her so that if she see my comment she can give me small knacks |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by SixSeven: 4:56pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
muyico:Rage bait is the word of the year. Brain rot is the currency of social media. |
| Re: Lady Stirs Controversy As She Says Marriage Benefits Men More by SixSeven: 5:01pm On Dec 15, 2025*. Modified: 5:53pm On Dec 15, 2025 |
Gerrard59:There is nothing, absolutely nothing you can do to satisfy women 100%. Once you know this, protect your energy. That's why men whose wives cheat on them should thank God for showing her the way out. A man should live up to his responsibility emotionally, financially and everything but he must not try to overdo it because a woman who will never be satisfied will never be. That's why it's more important to choose a woman who's crazy over you than you her over her. E get why. Women's minds get easily distracted by comparing themselves to one another. That's their flaw. You can be doing well but just because she sees onean doing better than you, you become the problem or you are not doing well enough. As a king, you must know your worth and most importantly, choose a virtuous woman. E get why. Watch this 10 mins video on secret people. You will learn more about women's manipulation using sex and appearing vulnerable as a control tool for men https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-TDNCKQfJyc
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Men are dispensable and disposable.