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Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by Islie: 4:46pm On Mar 16
Until a few months ago, Azeezat Popoola and her lover and businessman, Kabir Ademola, were in a sizzling romance. So much so that the two were like an item. Ademola, a haulage operator with a fleet of trucks transporting goods for a multinational food and beverage company in the Ota area of Ogun State, showered Azeezat, a mother of three and lotto agency operator, with money and gifts, and was said to have thrown a lavish birthday party for her where even his family members and friends were guests.

However, Azeezat’s life took a dramatic turn from joy to sorrow after Ademola allegedly parted ways with her. At the moment, her bubbly mien has been eclipsed by a strange illness that has rendered her speech incoherent, while she has also drastically emaciated.

Azeezat’s family alleged that Ademola has a hand in her worsening mental health problem. Her father, Chief Rasaq Popoola, a community leader and chieftain of the Oodua People’s Congress (OPC) in Abule Egba area of Lagos State, said he suspected that Ademola might have a hand in his daughter’s illness.

He said: “My name is Rasaq Popoola, a native of Ilero, Oyo State. I am disturbed by my daughter’s sudden strange sickness which started about a year ago.

“Three years ago, Azeezat brought Ademola Kabir to me while I was hosting a meeting of my colleagues (OPC members) in the Agbado/OkeOdo LCDA.

“As soon as the chairman of my (OPC) zone sighted Ademola, he said he should leave, saying that he had a strange negative aura.

About six months later, I received numerous calls from people that my daughter has started emaciating and acting in a manner that suggests she has been afflicted with mental illness.

“When I visited her at the place where she was running a lotto office, she ran away after uttering incoherent words. She also said that Ademola was responsible for her deteriorating mental health.

She looked like someone that had been used for rituals, hence I want Ademola to explain what he has done to my daughter and release her from bondage, if he is the one behind it.

Speaking at a parish of a Celestial Church of Christ where she was taken to for healing, Azeezat spoke lucidly but suddenly became incoherent, rendering her explanation inconsistent.

She said: “I was brought to this church by my father in January this year.

“They said I was acting funny, but I know what I am doing.

“They beat me up and took me on a motorcycle to a spiritualist in Joke Ayo area of Alagbado.

“On the contrary, I am hale and hearty; nothing is wrong with me.

“I am currently pregnant for Ademola. I am carrying a pregnancy of twins and the babies talk to me every day, acknowledging that Ademola, the alfa and king of Oyo, is their father.

“I have not done any pregnancy test, but I know that I’ve been pregnant for Ademola since last year.

“They just took me on Sunday and brought me to this church despite the fact that I was doing well in my business before now.

“I have never met Ademola before apart from seeing him in a photograph, but he impregnated me. He is a transporter.

“Like I said, I haven’t seen or met him before, but the twin babies are moving in my belly and having conversations with me.

“I also shared a bowl of pepper soup with a man called Elepo. But the pepper soup was spiked with a poisonous substance after which I began to experience failing health.

“I do not know the man that gave me the pepper soup, but I became relieved after prayers.

“I became pregnant in October 2023 after Ademola slept with me in March.

“Ademola’s wives were the ones behind my problem and sickness.”

One of the prophetesses at the church where Azeezat was undergoing healing said: “Azeezat used to be a good lady until her sickness started and she started acting funny.

“She would stand up when other members of our church were praying and would not comply with what members of the church were asked to do.

“The strange illness worsened after she became a recluse and we went to her house and prayed for her.

“We later brought her to the church for further prayers but she suddenly left on foot and we asked some members to trace her to her house where we later found her.”

Ademola, however, said he had no hand in Azeezat’s misfortune, saying that he only dated her for a few years before they parted ways shortly after the 2023 general election.

“Azeezat is my former girlfriend. She took me to one woman, a prophetess on a Valentine’s Day.

“The woman asked me to buy a set of chairs for her church but I declined because of my Islamic faith.

“She (Azeezat) was always disturbing me for money to pay tithes in the church, and I warned her against such obligation because she was just coming up as an entrepreneur.

“She would shake her body intermittently as if something was tormenting her, and at a point she asked me not to share same bed with her in her apartment.

“When I started noticing that she had health issues, I alerted one of her sisters to it but I didn’t know what happened to her thereafter.

“Her sister told me that she was having problems with her business and that might be the reasons for her health issues.

“But I insisted that there was more to her illness than meets the eye.

“All my warnings to her were the reason she took me as her enemy. I know my wife very well that she could not harm Azeezat.

“What actually led to our break-up is that around the last general election, she told me that she was asked to do seclusion at the church and requested that I visit her at the church because she was sick. But I refused.

“I told her that if she was sick and admitted in a hospital, I would visit her there, but I would not visit her in a church because a church is not a hospital where sicknesses are treated.

“When she left the church after her seclusion, she sent me one of my clothes and food flask left in her apartment.

“But I have a friend who lives around her neighbourhood and he was always seeing her whenever he was passing through her street.

“That friend of mine was the one that alerted me to her deteriorating health one day, and advised me to submit myself for medical test because he noticed that Azeezat had emaciated drastically.

“I told my friend that I had parted ways with Azeezat and that I could not have contracted any disease from her since we are no longer together as lovers.

“However, when people close to us continued to urge me to find out what was wrong with her, I visited her at the place she was using as lotto office and she cried while sharing her plight with me.

“She explained to me that she was battling hunger arising from loss of patronage of her business as customers were no longer coming to her office.

“She said she had to borrow the uniform her son, El-Amin wore to school and that she could not even complete the payment of her children’s school fees totalling N15,000.

“I requested for her bank account number and paid the money into the account so she could defray the fees.

“She also explained that she had no foodstuff at home and that she would need my assistance. I promised that I would send her some money for foodstuff and left her office.

“She had a row with a young PoS operator beside her office and I settled the matter for them and urged her to be friendly with her neighbour.

“The following day, I learnt that she was still keeping malice with the girl, and when I demanded an explanation for her recalcitrance, she rained curses on me.

“Out of anger, I told her that I could eject her from the office she was using for business since I was the one that paid for it.

“I asked her to refund the money that I gave her the previous day. She said she had spent the money and I left.

“I pray that God gives her a perfect healing, because she told me that she dated a man after she fell out with me and that she took pepper soup with the man, not knowing that the meal was laced with poison that made her to stool uncontrollably for hours at night.

“I can swear by taking radiator water that Ogun (Yoruba god of iron) should deal with me if I have a hand in Azeezat’s mental problem.

“I don’t have a hand in her health crisis and I am ready to swear by anything.”

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by JayyXXX(m): 4:48pm On Mar 16
Ungrateful family.


When their daughter was enjoying life with the man, none of those miscreants came out to talk, now that he left their daughter who couldn't handle the breakup and slide into partial madness, they're now accusing him of Ritual.

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by Omihanifa: 4:56pm On Mar 16
The man don use her undecided

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by Jeon(f): 4:56pm On Mar 16
Which kind story be this?.

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by Righteousness2(m): 5:00pm On Mar 16
“I can swear by taking radiator water that Ogun (Yoruba god of iron) should deal with me if I have a hand in Azeezat’s mental problem.

This got me almost falling off. grin grin

Meanwhile carry the woman to the GOD of CHOSEN. Whatsoever is wrong with her will take off.

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by Omihanifa: 5:50pm On Mar 16
Righteousness2:


This got me almost falling off. grin grin

Meanwhile carry the woman to the GOD of CHOSEN. Whatsoever is wrong with her will take off.

Most transporters believe in such practice. Same way drummers swear by their talking drums.

olosho also believe in Dipping their hands into their honeypot to swear for bad customers or rippers

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by Jennyclay(f): 8:36pm On Mar 16
Men are scum sad

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by Mindlog: 9:37pm On Mar 16
Her family should get her admitted into Yaba or Aro Neuropsychiatric Hospital to first stabilize her.

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by 4tomandchi: 12:40pm On Mar 18
You no see any man to marry for your church na Alfa she go marry she never chichon thing

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by meobizy(f): 12:42pm On Mar 18
If you read the whole article, consider your life, you are totally jobless.

She ran mad. Why the man no go abandon her? Nobody can care for four liabilities.

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by tuoyoojo(m): 12:42pm On Mar 18
Man and woman matter eh

Nor be everyone get Mind to withstand breakup
Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by Zooposki(f): 12:42pm On Mar 18
What kind of love will make you cry over a man? I don’t understand. Love yourself that way and you won’t let external love define you. It’s not that hard.
Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by Benrosaria(m): 12:42pm On Mar 18
It is either a sexually related disease or enjoyment wey don run her belle shege

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by Talkisneeded: 12:43pm On Mar 18
Omihanifa:


Most transporters believe in such practice. Same way drummers swear by their talking drums.

olosho also believe in Dipping their hands into their honeypot to swear for bad customers or rippers

It does work, same way a pastor will swear by a bible,an imam with a quran, a soldier by gun,brothers by the covenant of brotherhood...
You can only swear by what aids your survival the most as a man

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by MrDoGood(m): 12:45pm On Mar 18
Ungrateful family.

The lifestyle is gone!

See heartbreak and illness at once grin

Money na your mate ?

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by money121(m): 12:45pm On Mar 18
Men dey suffer

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by slipperyanus07: 12:47pm On Mar 18
He slept with me in march and i get pregnant in october grin grin werey

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by CONOR17: 12:47pm On Mar 18
Fear women angry

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by CONOR17: 12:49pm On Mar 18
Jennyclay:
Men are scum sad
Rest, just be lesbian then mumu

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by FireUpNow(m): 12:51pm On Mar 18
Life is very dey. Mystics
Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by Franzinni: 12:53pm On Mar 18
Zooposki:
What kind of love will make you cry over a man? I don’t understand. Love yourself that way and you won’t let external love define you. It’s not that hard.
you think ...

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by theamazonguru(m): 12:55pm On Mar 18
One thing is undisputable, someone has a hand in her illness.
Even tho she was incoherent she said she took pepper soup with a man and she started falling ill.

She also told the Ademola the man she was dating before that after they fell out, she dated another man and they had pepper soup together and she stool all night and started falling ill.

This is the only constant in all the story.

I suggest the said 2nd man friend should be investigated not also ignoring the Ademola guy.
Anything is possible.

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by NeoWanZaeed(m): 12:57pm On Mar 18
As a woman..

You must have your own money!!

So this won't happen to you.

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by callmevirus(m): 12:57pm On Mar 18
Nothing concern me but E dey mind
Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by MaziObinnaokija: 12:58pm On Mar 18
sad I believe this Kabir ADEMOLA.
U dnt toy with swearing especially the gods.May God heal her

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by NeoWanZaeed(m): 12:59pm On Mar 18
money121:
Men dey suffer

Stupid man dey suffer.

You get money.. Just go for fine lady.. Fine lady too marry man because of money

That's the result

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by PerfectStranger(m): 12:59pm On Mar 18
Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by Goodlady(f): 1:05pm On Mar 18
Mental illness, counsellor
Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by ppogba: 1:08pm On Mar 18
Wetin dey sweet Sabi kill sharp Sharp.

Dem.don take sharwama exchange for glory.
Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by jiz: 1:10pm On Mar 18
Pray she receives healing so she can take care of her children

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Re: Controversy As Mother Of 3 Dumped By Business Man Lover Battles Mental Illness by bestman09(m): 1:14pm On Mar 18
wink
Stupi.d family and people. Instead of taking her to a hospital first to ascertain if she is sick or going through depression, they are looking for whom to blame.

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