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30+ ladies desperately in need of husband will beg to disagree.

Some Pple do NOT know the value of what they have.

ednut1:
But who goes to shiloh and jerry eze life to pray for husband? Women

If u ask me,.Na who I go ask Na my brother.

Tins hard. Depression wan kpai me right now.

Victim mentality.

look at the way you are contradicting yourself with reality, the same you said your Son give you joy

Sermwell:
Sense is far from her!! Have you seen men attending Shiloh or hallelujah challenge praying and fasting for wife?

She is not the one who is far from sense. Studies have, in fact, shown that marriage benefits men more than it does women.

ebenezary:
look at the way you are contradicting yourself with reality, the same you said your Son give you joy

Are you sure you are OK?

Vinnie2000:
30+ ladies desperately in need of husband will beg to disagree. Some Pple do NOT know the value of what they have.

Desperation stemming from brainwashing of women from childhood does not change the facts, which is that marriage benefits men more than women. Numerous studies have revealed this on so many levels.

fmlala:
She is a tik0tokker marriage always favour women, why are women fighting to stay in marriage?

Wrong! Studies have, in fact, shown that marriage benefits men more than it does women. Married men live much longer than single men do. Why? This is primarily because of the free labor— unpaid, uncompensated labor that has been calculated to be worth trillions of dollars each year — that married men can mine from the women they are married to.

ajalawole:
➜What does most woman bring to the table then sex. No matter how rich a woman is, she will still need a mans money....In fact, she can still offer her body for SE even if she has billions.

The average woman brings to her relationships emotional, mental, and physical labor that she is rarely ever adequately compensated for.
Watch from 7:00 to 7:36

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NX-9563ylWI?si=XpjQ-wLErzPk6Leu

Just to trend, did your mum not go through pains to give birth to you or why comlain about the pain of childbirth without refusing the pleasure of the coitus that brought about the pregnancy in the first place?

Felicity0001:
This one has totally gone gaga... I pity her husband

. She is actually more informed than you are. You pity her husband because you don't think a woman deserves pity when she states a fact, right?

ednut1:
But who goes to shiloh and jerry eze life to pray for husband? Women

Post of the year..

Wickedtruths:
Na Kobojunkie be that. I wrapper, 5 years.

You have started again ooooooooo with your savage and brutal response ooooooooo mucheche Hahaha 😂

pocohantas:
Normally e dey sweet when you never enter.
When you enter, you go come calm down.

😂😂

The woman didn't lie. I can see that over 90% of the comments are from male monikers trying so hard to debunk what is clearly the truth.

When a man gets married, his wife automatically becomes his cook, dry cleaner, house maid, nanny, and compulsory sex mate. She then risks her life to give him a baby that will answer his name, and continue his lineage.

On the other hand, the woman gets nothing. And their desperation to get married is because the jobless and archaic men we have in our society are always marriage shaming women.

Kingpele:
➜The lady just want to trend simple as man I have come to understand that if God is not with u as a man ,
➜ u will marry empty brains like this lady above and live a miserable life ....
➜ as a man u have to take care of family bills even if you are having one challenge or the other you are expected to handle it as a man ...this is why they're many widows then widowers...
➜ the pressure of just being a man especially in today's Nigeria is not easy whether u get money or u are poor

She is not just trending but repeating a fact that has been thoroughly studied and now known to be a fact. Marriage actually benefits men more than it does women. If you are in doubt, make Google your friend, as this is no longer a secret.

2. Marrying an empty brain as you refer to your wife is a choice that is wholly yours— no gun to your head in that. That does not remove from the fact that one of the reasons you choose that empty brain is so that you can mine labor and energy, for free, from that individual, much to your own benefit and not to hers.

3. That is only if you choose to get married and if you choose to have kids. Note that these have always been options/choices available to both men and women. (Society has never placed a gun to the heads of those who decided to choose otherwise.)

4. Well, even that so-called pressure has been a choice from the get-go. There are many men & women out there who go unmarried and childfree throughout their lives — about 25% of the population remain childfree and unmarried, despite the so-called pressure.

gulfer:
➜Just to trend, did your mum not go through pains to give birth to you
➜ or why comlain about the pain of childbirth without refusing the pleasure of the coitus that brought about the pregnancy in the first place?

Is she her mother that she should live her life according to the same choices that her mother made? What sort of education did you get to think that a child should behave and make the exact same choices their parents before them made?

2. Oh, WOW.... Are you sure you are OK in the head?

In a relationship, woman is the dependable party.

They gain more

Is not late to divorce now that she has known everything Abi her mama still dey cover her eyes from seeing the word, DIVORCE?

There’s no need to watch the video because everything she says is just bulls**t.

SixSeven:
There's nothing women do that's not to their favor. Women are very cold and calculating. They don't take any decisions that does not involve their survival. Even when Buchi who used to write about women and their liberation talked about polygamy as a way of marriage, it was still about the WOMAN. Always the woman. That's why women are not best friends as in laws. They know themselves too well. Always looking for control. And the man who is the price, prize and source is the resource.

Yesterday I read one Nairalander who said she married her husband thinking she would have fair children or light skinned children. I read that message and smh because in the man's mind he had no idea he was a launchpad to get what she really wanted. Women are always looking for a means of survival, don't pay attention to them. Watch what they do not what they say.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8YZJ3pohooM


If women loved themselves, they would easily produce the next president and Governor because they have the numbers but they never want to admit their own scam. Always looking at blaming men or not accepting responsibility for their own faults.

How can I get this book PDF or Hard copy

The controversy will be if she said otherwise.

Marriage is a system created by God to fulfill the needs of men.

All through the Bible, at no point was the benefit of marriage to a woman mentioned.

Kelle443:
➜A woman has ignited massive online debate after boldly sharing her thoughts on marriage and motherhood. In a viral post, she revealed that it was only after getting married and having a child that she realized men benefit more from marriage than women. Her statement has sparked intense conversations across social media, with many women agreeing while others strongly disagree. Is marriage truly fair to women, or is this just a personal experience? Watch the full story and join the conversation as Nigerians and social media users react to this controversial take on marriage, relationships, and motherhood.

Marriage(the default contract) was never designed for women but more for men. Even the children whom you are told you are to have only in marriage have, on the most part, do not benefit as much from the two individuals in the configuration. It is left up to the woman to design/configure for herself the kind of marriage contract that will at least give her near equal(if not completely equal) benefits as the man in the marriage, while at the same time ensuring the children produced during the union gain more than they would ordinarily gain from the former contract.

bukatyne:
The controversy will be if she said otherwise. Marriage is a system created by God to fulfill the needs of men. All through the Bible, at no point was the benefit of marriage to a woman mentioned.

Marriage was created by men for the sake of men. NO God out there created what you all bow to as marriage. 🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Marriage was created by men for the sake of men. NO God out there created what you all bow to as marriage. 🥱🥱

Genesis 2:18 And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.

bukatyne:
➜Genesis 2:18 And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.

The man in question— the him that the statement clarified that the statement was made in regards to— was Adam— the only man that existed at the time the statement was supposedly made—, not your husband or all of the men in your village. The helpmeet was made for Adam, and we all know it was Eve who was literally cloned from Adam. (Yes, Eve was a clone of Adam.) Again, none of what you call marriage today is related to that book. 🥱🥱🥱

DeltaBachelor:
Hmmm. For me, it benefits both parties. Man for lineage and name, then women for protection

When you're dead, you're dead.

What benefit does the dead enjoy from lineage?

okoliobinna84:
This girl has not tasted the security of being with a man....like the peace of mind associated with being with a "man" knowing fully that your back is covered.

How funny which security,my neighbor husband runs at the sight of a snake.

Exactly 💯 I no waste my data at all.

Nature na nature w no get as u twist am women are the benefactor of marriages

ReacherSaidNoth:
I'm not going to waste my data viewing someone with a smooth brain.