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Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by MikaelDare(op): 11:25pm On Dec 18, 2025
Having read different write ups about ladies who were wooed either by their friends or family on behalf of someone else. I thought to create a topic to hear from them.
Ladies, especially, have you ever been wooed on behalf of someone else? How did it go?
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by chatinent: 11:44pm On Dec 18, 2025
Yes.

In 2012. But it's a long time..
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by eepeepook: 12:55am On Dec 19, 2025
Are you asking Tunde whose account name is TinaSoFine, Kunle whose account name is BodaciousVixen or Remi whose username is LusciousLipLepa?

Woman no dey Nairaland. Don’t waste your time.

MikaelDare:
Having read different write ups about ladies who were wooed either by their friends or family on behalf of someone else. I thought to create a topic to hear from them.
Ladies, especially, have you ever been wooed on behalf of someone else? How did it go?
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by Double0h7(f): 1:26am On Dec 19, 2025
Once you get to a certain age It’s never ever a fine, strong, rich man, but always a skinny, broke, religious man. It use to be the fine boy when we were teenagers but after 20; it’s never Him! That’s my experience anyway.
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by Bwilliam(m): 6:54am On Dec 19, 2025
Double0h7:
Once you get to a certain age It’s never ever a fine, strong, rich man, but always a skinny, broke, religious man. It use to be the fine boy when we were teenagers but after 20; it’s never Him! That’s my experience anyway.
Maybe you should have settled down with one of those fine boys, or did you think you'll always have suitors pursuing after you for ever?
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by Zonefree(m): 6:55am On Dec 19, 2025
Double0h7:
Once you get to a certain age It’s never ever a fine, strong, rich man, but always a skinny, broke, religious man. It use to be the fine boy when we were teenagers but after 20; it’s never Him! That’s my experience anyway.
Are you expecting a fine, strong and rich man to woo a broke ENP? undecided
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by Silentgroper(m): 7:24am On Dec 19, 2025
For a guy


YES..

Twice...
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by Double0h7(f): 8:14am On Dec 19, 2025
Zonefree:
Are you expecting a fine, strong and rich man to woo a broke ENP? undecided
Awe, you’re so adorable! That wasn’t the question nor the answer but I hope you find peace in your life ☺️
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by Double0h7(f): 8:16am On Dec 19, 2025
Bwilliam:
Maybe you should have settled down with one of those fine boys, or did you think you'll always have suitors pursuing after you for ever?
Another one 😂. Do y’all just wake up miserable? It will never be well with APC 🤣🤣🤣
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by Samantha125(f): 8:30am On Dec 19, 2025
I have been wooed on behalf of someone else on two occasions and also wooed on behalf of others on two occasions as well.
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by Pootle:
yes systematically my secretary i was about to get married then, and i work late into the night, it started as message calling me lovey names like babe, sweetheart etc i told her i do not approve such just refer to me officially, na there e worst o, sending and telling me story of her life me i just try tell her to focus i guess as that one no work one good day as work close i was compiling my report for the day she came into my office to drop some receipts i requested na so aunty turn come my side of the table hold my me o, i swear for my life time e never happen to me like that before. omo i jump up o change am for her real good. omo i request for her transfer o asap
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by Tenrack: 10:46am On Dec 19, 2025
Double0h7:
Once you get to a certain age It’s never ever a fine, strong, rich man, but always a skinny, broke, religious man. It use to be the fine boy when we were teenagers but after 20; it’s never Him! That’s my experience anyway.
grin cheesy
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by AllBlack: 11:17am On Dec 19, 2025
For some reason beyond anyone's imagination, the thread turned into a nice female bashing arena. Well done guys
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by Bwilliam(m): 12:18pm On Dec 19, 2025
Double0h7:
Another one 😂. Do y’all just wake up miserable? It will never be well with APC 🤣🤣🤣
Lol. I hit a nerve, huh.

I'm not miserable. Nothing APC does affects me, because I dream dreams and was able to see the signs on time.

From your write up, you sound like you squandered your youthful years, because you thought you'd be forever young/beautiful and have eligible men chasing after you forever.
You obviously didn't break the mirror on time, and now, either you're with a man that you don't actually like or you still think you can do better than the men that are still pursuing you. Delusional.
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by MikaelDare(op): 12:35pm On Dec 19, 2025
chatinent:
Yes.

In 2012. But it's a long time..
Okay, please share.
It's what will make the thread interesting.
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by MikaelDare(op): 12:37pm On Dec 19, 2025
Silentgroper:
For a guy


YES..

Twice...
Please share, it's what will make the thread interesting, and others to learn. Thanks
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by MikaelDare(op): 12:37pm On Dec 19, 2025
Samantha125:
I have been wooed on behalf of someone else on two occasions and also wooed on behalf of others on two occasions as well.
Please share, it's what will make the thread interesting, and others to learn. Thanks.
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by Double0h7(f): 1:03pm On Dec 19, 2025
Bwilliam:
Lol. I hit a nerve, huh.

I'm not miserable. Nothing APC does affects me, because I dream dreams and was able to see the signs on time.

From your write up, you sound like you squandered your youthful years, because you thought you'd be forever young/beautiful and have eligible men chasing after you forever.
You obviously didn't break the mirror on time, and now, either you're with a man that you don't actually like or you still think you can do better than the men that are still pursuing you. Delusional.
Are you serious right now? Do you know how lame you sound? Are you normal at all? Have you eaten this morning? The frustration coming off you is sad! You can’t possibly be a normal functioning adult 🤣🤣🤣
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by Double0h7(f): 1:05pm On Dec 19, 2025
MikaelDare:
Please share, it's what will make the thread interesting, and others to learn. Thanks.
So incels could practice their English on her? This thread is an example of why nairaland could never return to its glory when people logged on to laugh and have meaningful discussions. BAN have taken over.
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by MONEY247: 1:35pm On Dec 19, 2025
There are no females on nairaland...
You know it, I know it
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by MONEY247: 1:36pm On Dec 19, 2025
Any moniker claiming to be female..
It's AI
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by Bwilliam(m): 4:25pm On Dec 19, 2025
Double0h7:
Are you serious right now? Do you know how lame you sound? Are you normal at all? Have you eaten this morning? The frustration coming off you is sad! You can’t possibly be a normal functioning adult 🤣🤣🤣
You're showing signs of arrested development, like you're still not fully mentally matured, stuck at an age wherein abuse/trauma took place.
I hope you begin your healing journey, Sis.

You keep projecting what you are/were lacking in your life on me - Food: "Have you eaten this morning?"
It feels like growing up, having what to eat was a major struggle for you.

I'm currently at the top of Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Feel free to google it.
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by Samantha125(f): 5:46pm On Dec 19, 2025
This is unnecessary and you guys are ruining this thread.

Thanks to you, now more ladies would just view and pass the thread instead of sharing their experiences... Why do you guys always see the need to be attacking ladies for sharing their experiences?

And why is the op not doing anything about it? You want us to share our experiences while allowing your brothers to derail this thread with their hateful comments towards women, why? Why aren't you blocking them from your thread?
Bwilliam:
You're showing signs of arrested development, like you're still not fully mentally matured, stuck at an age wherein abuse/trauma took place.
I hope you begin your healing journey, Sis.

You keep projecting what you are/were lacking in your life on me - Food: "Have you eaten this morning?"
It feels like growing up, having what to eat was a major struggle for you.

I'm currently at the top of Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Feel free to google it.
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by Samantha125(f):
I'll only share once you block these trolls targeting women on your thread.
MikaelDare:
Please share, it's what will make the thread interesting, and others to learn. Thanks.
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by Diamond098454(f): 8:52pm On Dec 19, 2025
My dad told me to introduce my boyfriend to him, I told him am not in a relationship

He said since i don't have one that he has someone for me that i should get ready to meet the young man and his family.

I was surprised
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by Double0h7(f): 10:04pm On Dec 19, 2025
Bwilliam:
You're showing signs of arrested development, like you're still not fully mentally matured, stuck at an age wherein abuse/trauma took place.
I hope you begin your healing journey, Sis.

You keep projecting what you are/were lacking in your life on me - Food: "Have you eaten this morning?"
It feels like growing up, having what to eat was a major struggle for you.

I'm currently at the top of Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Feel free to google it.
Man said Google Maslow 😂😂😂😂

Okay, you’re right. Can we move on now?
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by MikaelDare(op): 4:20am On Dec 20, 2025
Samantha125:
I'll only share once you block these trolls targeting women on your thread.
I am so sorry, I had a very busy day at work yesterday and couldn't log in to check the thread. I have blocked them already. I believe blocking them stops them from commenting on my threads, right?

So you can share now.
Thanks.
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by MikaelDare(op): 4:21am On Dec 20, 2025
Double0h7:
So incels could practice their English on her? This thread is an example of why nairaland could never return to its glory when people logged on to laugh and have meaningful discussions. BAN have taken over.
We can make Nairaland civil again by ensuring we have meaningful discussions irrespective of the trolls. I have blocked them already, which I believe would stop them from commenting on my thread.
Thank you.
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by Bwilliam(m): 7:19am On Dec 20, 2025
Samantha125:
This is unnecessary and you guys are ruining this thread.

Thanks to you, now more ladies would just view and pass the thread instead of sharing their experiences... Why do you guys always see the need to be attacking ladies for sharing their experiences?

And why is the op not doing anything about it? You want us to share our experiences while allowing your brothers to derail this thread with their hateful comments towards women, why? Why aren't you blocking them from your thread?
You this supposed south African woman, please tell your pot bellied brothers that came in this month for our projects' pit stop, to stop buying all the Coca-Cola soda in the bar.
Ever since they came over, all the do is drink Coca-cola and ask that we fly in women they can Lêkker maak.
Re: Have You Ever Been Wooed/toasted On Behalf Of Someone Else by Silentgroper(m): 8:06am On Dec 20, 2025
MONEY247:
There are no females on nairaland...
You know it, I know it
I don think the bread was directed to females only..
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