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Who also get worried and hopes his sisters gets married off the street to a good man in no distant time? And not suffer the dreaded husband search syndrome of 30+ ladies.. Imagine that your innocent god fearing little sister

Omo how time flies, those sweet little sisters of 16, 17 of yesterday are now hitting 30. Looks unreal. Already graduates, one has Msc

Although they are doing well job wise for themselves paying their own bills, but I see myself praying for them to get good husband. Am I the only one having this feeling as a brother. More like I've started counting time for them.
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God abeg o, favour my sisters, They are too young for husband wahala abeg. Even at 29/30 , in my eyes they still feel young and naive.
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I can feel your pain bro..

It's not easy to see one's sisters come of age only to see them being chewed and smashed by different men for free of charge

God wil definitely send their own Moses to come and rescue them

Every phase in life with their issues.

University admission, employment wahala, marriage wahala.

The reason we must prepare our kids for these phases and not allow the phase meet them so suddenly that they struggle with it.

They should become intentional about getting a man and I pray God answer your prayers on them..

Sonnobax15:

I can feel your pain bro..

It's not easy to see one's sisters come of age only to see them being chewed and smashed by different men for free of charge

God wil definitely send their own Moses to come and rescue them

Nairaland clown, I no say na wetin go come ur head be this.
Naso dem dey chew ur sister ba? Repent bro, and be good example to your younger ones

I’m of the opinion that matters like this are better kept as a secret. Don’t be surprised if the 'Nairaland Feminist Association' and the toxic banter crew bookmark this post and start using it against you tomorrow. You know how this place can get when people look for ammunition.

As for your sisters, if they can just calm down and get their priorities right, they’ll definitely find good men. Just keep hoping for the best and stay positive for them.

SpencerForbes:
I’m of the opinion that matters like this are better kept as a secret. Don’t be surprised if the 'Nairaland Feminist Association' and the toxic banter crew bookmark this post and start using it against you tomorrow. You know how this place can get when people look for ammunition.

As for your sisters, if they can just calm down and get their priorities right, they’ll definitely find good men. Just keep hoping for the best and stay positive for them.

Yes that's a concern but i hardly get into rough brawl with anyone here. I don't know why I feel so about them lately

NiRfreak:
Nairaland clown, I no say na wetin go come ur head be this.
Naso dem dey chew ur sister ba? Repent bro, and be good example to your younger ones

. I'm a good example to my younger ones bro .

NiRfreak:
Yes that's a concern but i hardly get into rough brawl with anyone here. I don't know why I feel so about them lately

It’s a natural thing to feel concerned, but honestly, I suspect they might be the ones holding themselves back. Forget all the 'anti-marriage' talk you see here on the forum; the reality is that weddings are still happening every single Saturday. If they aren't part of that trend yet, it’s likely due to a few things: maybe they are focused on their education, dealing with fear or high expectations, or perhaps it’s just a personal choice they’ve made.

Since you’re their senior, you should approach them with wisdom. You don’t have to be blunt or confrontational to find out where their heads are at. If you find out it’s a deliberate personal decision, then it’s best to let it go. In this day and age, they might even have alternative plans for the future, like surrogacy or other paths.

Besides, if they are as comfortable and 'okay' as you say, they probably don't see any reason to rush into a commitment.

My advice? Try to understand the 'why' behind their status first. If it's a personal choice, respect it. Just be careful not to overstep—if you aren't smart about how you handle it, it’ll come off as meddling and they’ll end up feeling disrespected.

Worry about yourself alone. Their fate will most definitely meet them at the point they have prepared themselves for.

Honestly, at 29/30 yo, their chances of finding good husbands have become limited as no decent young man with his masculinity intact would want to wife any lady above 27yo.

Their best baits is to search from among widowers, single dads and polygamous men. That's the consequences of not setting one's priorities right and hooking up a decent man when they were much younger. They must have been deceiving themselves that they could get a man whenever they want to marry

Jman06:
Honestly, at 29/30 yo, their chances of finding good husbands have become limited as no decent young man with his masculinity intact would want to wife any lady above 27yo.

Their best baits is to search from among widowers, single dads and polygamous men. That's the consequences of not setting one's priorities right and hooking up a decent man when they were much younger. They must have been deceiving themselves that they could get a man whenever they want to marry

Funny thing is we men are quick to generalize that any woman above 26/27 should not be considered again, I used to be so, but on a closer reflection, if I meet a lady of my sisters age, edu, outlook, character, job, religious & dating history, I will gladly marry her even if she's 30.
The reality of my sisters now makes me understand that not all 29 or 30 year old are Bad or Ashana...... But to know 29/30 year old who are still okay is the problem.... unless you talk and relate to understand their psyche

NiRfreak:
Funny thing is we men are quick to generalize that any woman above 26/27 should not be considered again, I used to be so, but on a closer reflection, if I meet any lady of my ladies age, habit, character, financial discipline and job, I will marry her even if she's 30
The reality of my sisters now make me understand that not all 29 or 30 year old are Bad or Ashana...... But to know 29/30 year old who are still okay is the problem.... unless you talk and relate to understand their psyche

I personally won't marry any lady who is above 25years old. I'll rather marry an illiterate girl between 18 and 25 yo than marry any old lady. I have my marital goals clearly spelt out and I don't need a lady above 25 to achieve those goals regardless how rich or educated she is

NiRfreak:
Funny thing is we men are quick to generalize that any woman above 26/27 should not be considered again, I used to be so, but on a closer reflection, if I meet any lady of my ladies age, habit, character, financial discipline and job, I will marry her even if she's 30
The reality of my sisters now make me understand that not all 29 or 30 year old are Bad or Ashana...... But to know 29/30 year old who are still okay is the problem.... unless you talk and relate to understand their psyche

i liked your post

but also know say good things no dey tey for market....except if they hide am

it's either your sisters aren't good enough or they have been hiding themselves

it will be hard for an introverted lady to find a man.

They themselves will only start getting worried in their 30s when only divorcees and married men look their way. Women have time-table, but they will never accept!

NiRfreak:
Who also get worried and hopes her sister gets married to a good man in no distant time? And not suffer for husband. Imagine that your innocent god fearing little sister

OMO, like play, like play, those little sisters of 16, 17 of yesterday are now hitting 30. Looks unreal. Already graduates, one has Msc

Although they are doing well job wise for themselves but I see myself praying for them to get good husband. Am I the only one having this feeling as a brother. It's like I've started counting time for them.
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God abeg o, favour my sisters, They are too young for husband wahala abeg. Even at 29/30 , to my eyes they feel young.
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Can I meet them?

God has answered your prayers. thank him.
here is me a good husband to one of them if you can join me with one of them.
my only issue is dat i am jobless and i play sportyb for a living but I be confirm husband material

NiRfreak:
➜Who also get worried and hopes her sister gets married to a good man in no distant time? And not suffer for husband. Imagine that your innocent god fearing little sister
OMO, like play, like play, those little sisters of 16, 17 of yesterday are now hitting 30. Looks unreal. Already graduates, one has Msc. Although they are doing well job wise for themselves but I see myself praying for them to get good husband. Am I the only one having this feeling as a brother. It's like I've started counting time for them. God abeg o, favour my sisters, They are too young for husband wahala abeg. Even at 29/30 , to my eyes they feel young.

Expect that they will get the same thing you doled out to other men... that seems to be how that god you all pray to works the most.

You are better off having your sisters develop essential life skills like emotional and social intelligence, which will go a long way in helping them develop self-love while they are still single. That way, they forgo settling for the wrong man, choosing to protect their peace and happiness against all predators out there, no matter how long they have to wait.

Some of the worst things that can happen to a woman are marriage to a bad man and having children with a lowlife. A woman is better off single, childfree, and happy than having to carry such miserable scars for the rest of her life.

They'll be fine..

Another thread that will hit front page tomorrow with my comment deleted.

The first set of Gen Z will be twenty-nine years old next year. Some of them are already mothers of children on Nairaland. For some reason, children here will keep calling ten year olds “Gen Z.” I knew this forum and intelligence didn’t go together when a member called Olusegun Obasanjo Gen Z. It meant many people here use terms that they’re too lazy to Google their definitions.

May ignorance not be our portion.

always247:
God has answered your prayers. thank him.
here is me a good husband to one of them if you can join me with one of them.
my only issue is dat i am jobless and i play sportyb for a living but I be confirm husband material

Bro, if na your sister, Shay you go fit recommend a jobless betnaija player. You can do better, I pray God answer your call next year

Tohsynetita1:
Can I meet them?

Of course, you might have to meet me first , while after passing the first vetting, you might be cleared to speak with one.

NiRfreak:
Of course, you might have to meet me first , while after passing the first vetting, you might be cleared to speak with one.

I know this is a double edged sword. Is this why they have not been married? Are you the one vetting the men who are interested in them?

Are you also married? You know how we do things here. They could be waiting for you to go ahead first since you are the senior.

I thought all NL guys sisters are married to rich nice men and driving limousine o. At least you are truthful. Your comrades are still living in their delusion.

Please don't worry about your sisters because marriage doesn't even benefit men. So I wonder which man you expect to be entrapped with them. They will be fine.

pocohantas:
I thought all NL guys sisters are married to rich nice men and driving limousine o. At least you are truthful. Your comrades are still living in their delusion.

Please don't worry about your sisters because marriage doesn't even benefit men. So I wonder which man you expect to be entrapped with them. They will be fine.

This your sarcasm is already stale. You can do better.

NiRfreak:
Of course, you might have to meet me first , while after passing the first vetting, you might be cleared to speak with one.

Can I have your contact?

NiRfreak:
Who also get worried and hopes her sister gets married to a good man in no distant time? And not suffer for husband. Imagine that your innocent god fearing little sister

OMO, like play, like play, those little sisters of 16, 17 of yesterday are now hitting 30. Looks unreal. Already graduates, one has Msc

Although they are doing well job wise for themselves but I see myself praying for them to get good husband. Am I the only one having this feeling as a brother. It's like I've started counting time for them.
.
God abeg o, favour my sisters, They are too young for husband wahala abeg. Even at 29/30 , to my eyes they feel young.
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If you’re so confident in the quality of persons they’ve become and remained, recommend them to your trusted friends and colleagues and family friends

Yankee101:
If you’re so confident in the quality of persons they’ve become and remained, recommend them to your trusted friends and colleagues and family friends

How many people will confidently state that they have sisters with bad characters?
Everyone has good sisters o
Smh

Tohsynetita1:
Can I have your contact?

mail--------> wifelymail@gmail.com

SixSeven:
I know this is a double edged sword. Is this why they have not been married? Are you the one vetting the men who are interested in them?

Are you also married? You know how we do things here. They could be waiting for you to go ahead first since you are the senior.

The post is more like sharing my feelings about their milestone age
I never actually envisaged that people wud ask about them. feels somehow though

they re becoming evening news papers

You're not alone. But you know what's sad? I can't type now but it's sad. The powers that be are using these lUnatics and lesbians parading as feminists to destroy the concept of marriage. People still marry but a lot of us are losing the scope of what marriage actually is, a lot of us do not even think of marriage anymore or give it the reverence it once had.

Once the devil wants to destroy something, he find a dUMb bItCH with no brain. It hurts the most when you actually have sisters that this virus might affect. I have sisters, female friends, and daughters. I have women that want me but I don't find relationship appealing.

These Nigerian "feminists" are destroying the one thing that draws a man to a beautiful woman — feminity. You might not see the result of this social media madness now but give it time. It's slowly germinating... That is why I keep preaching about the stupidity of man-hating that has been disguised as feminism.

Nigerian females and males have screwed up mentality and only time can tell if they can stand each other. Sometimes, I felt sorry for my son and daughters, strong men created the peace we enjoy today, until the weak men and women who want what they never worked for came around.