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A woman makes poor choices in relationships and ends up damaged. She tells you: "if you love me you will stay with me." No. It is not your responsibility to suffer for the consequences of her stupidity and bad choices.

So, you make her a single mother and then claim she made bad choices by letting you get her pregnant?

I wonder who's being stupid and irresponsible here, and who's making bad choices that will damage them and which they may latter regret when it's too late!

Odebayo4010:
A woman makes poor choices in relationships and ends up damaged. She tells you: "if you love me you will stay with me." No. It is not your responsibility to suffer for the consequences of her stupidity and bad choices.

She made herself a single mother Well they are human her type will still locate her

Odebayo4010:
➜A woman makes poor choices in relationships and ends up damaged. She tells you: "if you love me you will stay with me." No. It is not your responsibility to suffer for the consequences of her stupidity and bad choices.

Sometimes, I think many of you are simply daft or on the spectrum. 😫😫

If you don't like single mothers, why keep searching them out only to come whine about what they say to you? Which kain mumu-ism be this one? Leave them alone, and they will leave you alone! 🥱🥱

Why don't you leave her alone? If you don't do single mothers, go for single ladies and let the men who cant take them do that? Men don't complain like this. They set standards and hold to it.

budaatum:
So, you make her a single mother and then claim she made bad choices by letting you get her pregnant?

I wonder who's being stupid and irresponsible here, and who's making bad choices that will damage them and which they may latter regret when it's too late!

Strong women in your context are women who are incapable of attracting or keeping a man. So funny you people only act strong in the day, but cry all night in pain and regrets.

Amumaigwe:
➜Strong women in your context are women who are incapable of attracting or keeping a man. So funny you people only act strong in the day, but cry all night in pain and regrets.

Wow... I can't believe a grown man, in the year 2025, still believes the myth that single women cry all night in pain and regret? 🥱🥱🥱

I guess Scott Galloway has yet to reach out to this one about how that myth was created by men to scare women into wanting them.

Kobojunkie:
Wow... I can't believe a grown man, in the year 2025, still believes the myth that single women cry all night in pain and regret? 🥱🥱🥱

I guess Scott Galloway has yet to reach out to this one about how that myth was created by men to scare women into wanting them.

Junkie junkie😆😆

budaatum:
So, you make her a single mother and then claim she made bad choices by letting you get her pregnant?

I wonder who's being stupid and irresponsible here, and who's making bad choices that will damage them and which they may latter regret when it's too late!

What a load of BS.

What's with "letting you get her get pregnant" Is she a kid, that she doesn't know how to make sure the guy use a rubber? Or she doesn't know how to take the morning after pill? Come on.

This isn't the case of stupidity, but a clear case of intent. A smart woman who gets shagged by a loser without using protection doesn't need to be told what to do.

When you realize your standards in life, you can never mingle below your vibrational frequency. It's leads to the entire glitch of your soul.



The women you attract as a man, defines your quality.

It's both genders thing.

SixSeven:
Why don't you leave her alone? If you don't do single mothers, go for single ladies and let the men who cant take them do that? Men don't complain like this. They set standards and hold to it.

you just spoke my mind. Allow single mother rest

Wetin single mother do una?

Odebayo4010:
A woman makes poor choices in relationships and ends up damaged. She tells you: "if you love me you will stay with me." No. It is not your responsibility to suffer for the consequences of her stupidity and bad choices.

Gbam! Let her who hath eyes, heed. If you like make yourself the saviour. You go suffer ehn. Body go tell you. Leave the damaged single mom to go after the man who impregnated her.

Don't turn yourself to a tool to be used to paper cracks. Enough said.

budaatum:
So, you make her a single mother and then claim she made bad choices by letting you get her pregnant?

I wonder who's being stupid and irresponsible here, and who's making bad choices that will damage them and which they may latter regret when it's too late!

You mean strong single mom? I see them everywhere.

dollytino4real:
She made herself a single mother Well they are human her type will still locate her

God bless you. They should go for single fathers. Makes better sense. Not hoping some young man would come and be their slave or puppet.

Amumaigwe:
Strong women in your context are women who are incapable of attracting or keeping a man. So funny you people only act strong in the day, but cry all night in pain and regrets.

strong women wey go still need man presence in their lives.

ManknowThyself:
When you realize your standards in life, you can never mingle below your vibrational frequency. It's leads to the entire glitch of your soul.



The women you attract as a man, defines your quality.

It's both genders thing.

indeed. Wish I took this seriously. E get some mess you no suppose attract at all based on your principle and person. We fvxk up gan

Tenrack:
indeed. Wish I took this seriously. E get some mess you no suppose attract at all based on your principle and person. We fvxk up gan

For you to realize, you are man of principles.

joseph1832:
What a load of BS.

What's with "letting you get her get pregnant" Is she a kid, that she doesn't know how to make sure the guy use a rubber? Or she doesn't know how to take the morning after pill? Come on.

This isn't the case of stupidity, but a clear case of intent. A smart woman who gets shagged by a loser without using protection doesn't need to be told what to do.

I think she wouldn't sleep with you at all if she knew you were a loser and you weren't lying to deceive her.

ManknowThyself:
For you to realize, you are man of principles.

Thanks man. But I let myself down before. I've forgiven myself sha. Never again. Have a blessed day, man.

budaatum:
So, you make her a single mother and then claim she made bad choices by letting you get her pregnant?

I wonder who's being stupid and irresponsible here, and who's making bad choices that will damage them and which they may latter regret when it's too late!

She let herself get pregnant...men no de carry belle...

Do we blame women for eating a man's money till he goes broke ... have u seen any man or men say , after u have made him broke , u the woman should take responsibility...

As men are on their own , if that woman they took care of and became broke abandon them...

Same thing for women that got pregnant and the man abandoned them...


Women will say did she force him to give her money... men can equally say, did he rape her to get pregnant...men are wiser now , those narrative and emotional blackmail no de work again.... protect ur finance as a man...protect ur womb as a woman...full stop

Kobojunkie:
Wow... I can't believe a grown man, in the year 2025, still believes the myth that single women cry all night in pain and regret? 🥱🥱🥱

I guess Scott Galloway has yet to reach out to this one about how that myth was created by men to scare women into wanting them.

But one cried to me on phone about a couple of months ago

joseph1832:
What a load of BS.

What's with "letting you get her get pregnant" Is she a kid, that she doesn't know how to make sure the guy use a rubber? Or she doesn't know how to take the morning after pill? Come on.

This isn't the case of stupidity, but a clear case of intent. A smart woman who gets shagged by a loser without using protection doesn't need to be told what to do.

Leave that onuku ... a woman only gets pregnant for who she wants to get pregnant for ...they now try to manipulate their way into his life...when it backfires they wanna blame men.. . Some will not even let the man know she's pregnant till its to late or till she gives birth ..and then will wanna force that child on him .. that alone should be a crime

Tenrack:
Thanks man. But I let myself down before. I've forgiven myself sha. Never again. Have a blessed day, man.

Enjoy the rest of your day brother

ManknowThyself:
Enjoy the rest of your day brother

I don't understand you people issues with single mothers. Is it not men like us that made them single mothers? In every circle there are always few good ones. What about single fathers or girls that committed several abortions or una single babes that are into runs etc. There are still few good single mothers 100% better than una single girls.

I don't understand you people issues with single mothers. Is it not men like us that made them single mothers? In every circle there are always few good ones. What about single fathers or girls that committed several abortions or una single babes that are into runs etc. There are still few good single mothers 100% better than una single girls.

keemsleek:
I don't understand you people issues with single mothers. Is it not men like us that made them single mothers? In every circle there are always few good ones. What about single fathers or girls that committed several abortions or una single babes that are into runs etc. There are still few good single mothers 100% better than una single girls.

My brother i never spoke or stereotype single mothers in any of my post.

All I did was exchanging ideas with a wise brother about the little i understand about life.

No one is perfect but we all should be always responsible for our life decisions and choice.


Nor let anyone gaslight you!
My clarity is mine freedom.

I'm a free modern king in a modern world with ancient cultural values and principles of life.


Have a great day brother

budaatum:
I think she wouldn't sleep with you at all if she knew you were a loser and you weren't lying to deceive her.

I damn well know there are ways in making a woman _cum, without using ones penis_ talkless of not wearing any prophylactic. Have you ever heard of 'tongue tornado'?

Hehehe

Tenrack:
You mean strong single mom? I see them everywhere.

Many are better off than being with a man who is just another child.

Amumaigwe:
Strong women in your context are women who are incapable of attracting or keeping a man. So funny you people only act strong in the day, but cry all night in pain and regrets.

Some of you are not worth keeping and are best thrown out with the thrash.

Thankfully, we see you a mile off.

dollytino4real:
She made herself a single mother Well they are human her type will still locate her

She should look for the man who made her single mother. They shouldn't be used and dumped by one nigga and expect an innocent guy to come carry her burden.

Jman06:
She should look for the man who made her single mother. They shouldn't be used and dumped by one nigga and expect an innocent guy to come carry her burden.

some thing made her to be single mum