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One uncomfortable truth many don't like to talk about is the real health risk that comes with multiple sexual partners especially when basic sexual health practices are ignored.

When people move from partner to partner without regular testing or proper treatment, infections don’t just disappear on their own. Untreated STIs can linger, worsen, and become easily transmissible.
Sometimes, you don’t even need a diagnosis to sense that something isn’t right : unusual odors, discomfort, or recurring symptoms are warning signals, not “normal.”

This reality has made many people cautious not out of judgment, but out of self-preservation. The fear of contracting an infection is real, and it’s valid. Sexual freedom without responsibility eventually creates consequences for everyone involved.

This isn’t about shaming any gender. It’s about accountability, hygiene, and health discipline.

Regular testing. Prompt treatment. Honest communication. Respect for your partner’s well-being.

Those are the real markers of sexual maturity.

Ignoring infections doesn’t make them disappear, it spreads risk. And no moment of pleasure is worth long-term health damage.

If we want healthier dating and sexual environments, responsibility has to be part of the conversation not an afterthought.

Keep riding on


You only speak harsh truth

Human can't do without sex and people hardly stay out of sexual relationship but despite how sweet love making can be, the truth remains valid

Good morals, self control and self discipline is the best way to stay safe.

Shout out to those guys/men that don't sleep with anything on skirt despite the strong and powerful sexual urge.

Having multiple partner isn't an achievement but then everyone is free to make a choice and live their life.

T0BY:
Shout out to those guys/men that don't sleep with anything on skirt despite the strong and powerful sexual urge.

Having multiple partner isn't an achievement but then everyone is free to make a choice and live their life.

Indeed.
You said it all.

Diamond098454:
Human can't do without sex and people hardly stay out of sexual relationship but despite how sweet love making can be, the truth remains valid

Good morals, self control and self discipline is the best way to stay safe.

Though it can be difficult and challenging but self control is still the best way to avoid the risk.

Dpsychologist:
Though it can be difficult and challenging but self control is still the best way to avoid the risk.

Self control or self service 🙄😏


Let’s all be honest Abeg

Dpsychologist:
Though it can be difficult and challenging but self control is still the best way to avoid the risk.

Very very difficult for men but we women can control ourselves not 100 percent but we can resist a difficult situation

U

Diamond098454:
Very very difficult for men but we women can control ourselves not 100 percent but we can resist a difficult situation

Yes. But i believe out of 100 ladies only 60% have that self control.

Yet masturbators are still attacked like they've committed a grievous offense..... isn't their method a sort of solution to some extent?. .

Mattswaggz:
Yet masturbators are still attacked like they've committed a grievous offense..... isn't their method a sort of solution to some extent?. .

Even masturbation is not safe.

Once got thick semen stuck at the base of my urethra. I was unaware for 2 days until I started having difficulty urinating.
Instead of masturbating again, I started forcing it out gradually with several urinations not knowing I was irritating my urethra.

The burning pain started the following day. If I was sexually active, I would have concluded I had an infection - the only difference was there was no discharge.

The irritation disappeared after a week without treatment.

Moral of the story is - No enjoyment without risk. Life is short and something must kill a man. STDs are overrated and usually treatable.

Mattswaggz:
Yet masturbators are still attacked like they've committed a grievous offense..... isn't their method a sort of solution to some extent?. .

Masturbation does a lot of harm spiritually.

Chronic masturbation can affect your self esteem, confidence and purpose.

Dpsychologist:
U

Yes. But i believe out of 100 ladies only 60% have that self control.

smile smile smile smile not 60 but let say 99

Which i come first smile smile smile

Dpsychologist:
One uncomfortable truth many don't like to talk about is the real health risk that comes with multiple sexual partners especially when basic sexual health practices are ignored.

When people move from partner to partner without regular testing or proper treatment, infections don’t just disappear on their own. Untreated STIs can linger, worsen, and become easily transmissible.
Sometimes, you don’t even need a diagnosis to sense that something isn’t right : unusual odors, discomfort, or recurring symptoms are warning signals, not “normal.”

This reality has made many people cautious not out of judgment, but out of self-preservation. The fear of contracting an infection is real, and it’s valid. Sexual freedom without responsibility eventually creates consequences for everyone involved.

This isn’t about shaming any gender. It’s about accountability, hygiene, and health discipline.

Regular testing. Prompt treatment. Honest communication. Respect for your partner’s well-being.

Those are the real markers of sexual maturity.

Ignoring infections doesn’t make them disappear, it spreads risk. And no moment of pleasure is worth long-term health damage.

If we want healthier dating and sexual environments, responsibility has to be part of the conversation not an afterthought.

If your submission is to be taken seriously, 95% of people in the world would have contacted the deadly disease.

If you you know the amount of multiple sex partners, every mature man and woman have.

God said… go yee into the world .. be fruitful and multiply…..

That statement is hormonal in nature for human body functions .. (The testosterone and estrogen) playing vital role in sexual health can’t be underrated....

If you don’t have sex for a long time .. you will be f^cked upp….

F^ck and have rest of mind…. Before konji kee you…

Just try to do your best trying to prevent STD.

Use condom always. If you use condom, you don reduce your chance by nearly 90%. If you now contact contact something despite your condom, na your fate be that, something must kill a man.

Sex is good. Enjoy your life.

TheWebbers:
Just try to do your best trying to prevent STD.

Use condom always. If you use condom, you don reduce your chance by nearly 90%. If you now contact contact something despite your condom, na your fate be that, something must kill a man.

Sex is good. Enjoy your life.

Condoms would reduce your chance of skin to skin contact STDs like HPV, Herpes, Syphillis, Crabs etc by 90%? Ok fire on. 👊🏽

oxygenlove:
God said… go yee into the world .. be fruitful and multiply…..

That statement is hormonal in nature for human body functions .. (The testosterone and estrogen) playing vital role in sexual health can’t be underrated....

If you don’t have sex for a long time .. you will be f^cked upp….

F^ck and have rest of mind…. Before konji kee you…

You people only know how to twist scripture when you want to satisfy your selfish desires. If you read your bible well you should know that you should only have sex lawfully in marriage and not with multiple people but you will still try and argue ur folly with me. Smh

judewrites:
Masturbation does a lot of harm spiritually.

Chronic masturbation can affect your self esteem, confidence and purpose.

Una can lie with confidence

[quote author=Diamond098454 post=137848253]smile smile smile smile not 60 but let say 99

Which i co

Casual sex leads to casual STI and STDs.

Kalulu44:
Una can lie with confidence

Masturbation fc don show ….same you would be embarrassed if a cat walked you and saw you doing that embarrassing act…shey you feel more like a man after committing the act Abi? Continue.

judewrites:
Masturbation does a lot of harm spiritually.

Chronic masturbation can affect your self esteem, confidence and purpose.

Spiritually, in what way?

Fiscus105:
Hi


If your submission to be taken seriously, 95% of people in the world would have contacted the deadly disease.

If you you know the amount of multiple sex partners, every mature man and woman have.

So you saying just because they didn't contact life threatening disease. It is very okay to have multiple partners without proper protection and safe practices.

Diamond098454:
smile smile smile smile not 60 but let say 99

Which i come first smile smile smile

99 what?

Hmmmm!

Try and fear God small na sister!

You just demonized men and paint woman white as the angels they are abi?

Nawaoo!

oxygenlove:
God said… go yee into the world .. be fruitful and multiply…..

That statement is hormonal in nature for human body functions .. (The testosterone and estrogen) playing vital role in sexual health can’t be underrated....

If you don’t have sex for a long time .. you will be f^cked upp….
F^ck and have rest of mind…. Before konji kee you…

Come and elaborate on this ooo

oxygenlove:
God said… go yee into the world .. be fruitful and multiply…..

That statement is hormonal in nature for human body functions .. (The testosterone and estrogen) playing vital role in sexual health can’t be underrated....

If you don’t have sex for a long time .. you will be f^cked upp….

F^ck and have rest of mind…. Before konji kee you…

Fcked up in what way or how?

Diamond098454:
smile smile smile smile not 60 but let say 99

Which i come first smile smile smile

As if we haven't been with ladies before and know how they crave for sex.

lordwoz:
Spiritually, in what way?

When a man releases his seed, it comes out with a lot of spiritual energy.

This spiritual energy has a lot of good purposes, but all that be wasted when it's channeled wrongly especially through masturbation.

udder:
Even masturbation is not safe.

Once got thick semen stuck at the base of my urethra. I was unaware for 2 days until I started having difficulty urinating.
Instead of masturbating again, I started forcing it out gradually with several urinations not knowing I was irritating my urethra.

The burning pain started the following day. If I was sexually active, I would have concluded I had an infection - the only difference was there was no discharge.

The irritation disappeared after a week without treatment.

Moral of the story is - No enjoyment without risk. Life is short and something must kill a man. STDs are overrated and usually treatable.

From your description, it could be a kidney stone. Even very little stone they say, can be painful too.

judewrites:
When a man releases his seed, it comes out with a lot of spiritual energy.

This spiritual energy has a lot of good purposes, but all that be wasted when it's channeled wrongly especially through masturbation.

Then, this should be the same with having casual sex ?

lordwoz:
Then, this should be the same with having casual sex ?

Of course.....

When a man meets a woman sexually, a lot is happening spiritually.

Most people are deceived by the intense pleasure that comes with sex.