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Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by udder: 8:59pm On Dec 19, 2025
maasoap:
I don't think HIV or hepatitis B is overrated. And not many guys and ladies take STIs seriously at the initial stage until it's late
Both are overrated regarding their epidemic impact.
STDs are child’s play compared most diseases but anything related to sex gets more attention.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by pigmania: 9:03pm On Dec 19, 2025
always247:
the guy is married. he has been treating stubborn malaria and typhoid for so long until recently they discovered its hiv
Huh? I hope he has not infected his wife oh.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 9:04pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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You are the one that came up with the fantastic 99%. Dont you think you should back that up.
As for me, I know from experience that that is simply not true.

The truth is closer to women being every bit as horr.ny as men/ indeed in many cases much more - however cultural practices the world over tend to permit men to express their sexual liberty with greater abandon. This does not mean that women do not get down as actively - they are simply quite often more discreet owing to cultural norms.
I'm talking from my personal experience

I have been in a tough situation still i managed to resist which if it was a guy he wouldn't have come out without messing up
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DiarisGodoo: 9:06pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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You are the one that came up with the fantastic 99%. Dont you think you should back that up.
As for me, I know from experience that that is simply not true.

The truth is closer to women being every bit as horr.ny as men/ indeed in many cases much more - however cultural practices the world over tend to permit men to express their sexual liberty with greater abandon. This does not mean that women do not get down as actively - they are simply quite often more discreet owing to cultural norms.
It is not cultural anything, it is BIOLOGY! A woman necessarily has to be very selective who she sleeps with because sex has enormous consequences for her compared to men. This in turn tamps down her sexuality. A man can have countless children. A woman can only have a few. In human inbuilt drive to pass on our genes, a man needs QUANTITY of partners to guarantee his genes are passed on, while a woman needs QUALITY!

DeepSight:
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Thats just you and thats just that situation. Please dont assume we gentlemen do not walk away from unspeakable and irresistible temptation all the time. It happens.

By experience, I am talking of experience of the world, and of observation of people, not just myself.
See above
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 9:07pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
I'm talking from my personal experience

I have been in a tough situation still i managed to resist which if it was a guy he wouldn't have come out without messing up
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Thats just you and thats just that situation. Please dont assume we gentlemen do not walk away from unspeakable and irresistible temptation all the time. It happens.

By experience, I am talking of experience of the world, and of observation of people, not just myself.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 9:09pm On Dec 19, 2025
DiarisGodoo:
It is not cultural anything, it is BIOLOGY! A woman necessarily has to be very selective who she sleeps with because sex has enormous consequences for her compared to men. This in turn tamps down her secuality. In human inbuilt drive to pass on our genes, a man can have countless children. A woman can only have a few. A man needs quantity of partners to guarantee his genes are passed on, while a woman needs quality!
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Its too bad if you dont understand the cultural dimension as I explained it.
Fact is, the most serious sex addicts are women.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 9:10pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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Thats just you and thats just that situation. Please dont assume we gentlemen do not walk away from unspeakable and irresistible temptation all the time. It happens.

By experience, I am talking of experience of the world, and of observation of people, not just myself.
men men hmmmmmm men can not say no
What are you saying? Guys can't see good and classy food and reject it
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 9:12pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
men men hmmmmmm men can not say no
What are you saying? Guys can't see good and classy food and reject it
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Here, you ignore the fact that we also have specs. What looks great to one man is trash to another.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DiarisGodoo: 9:20pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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Its too bad if you dont understand the cultural dimension as I explained it.
Fact is, the most serious sex addicts are women.
There'd always be outliers
But if so, what happened to your cultural. Even In societies where there is no cultural sexual taboo against women, men are still the ones who chase sex while women withhold it. Hence prostitution is called the oldest profession - it was there even before society!
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 9:21pm On Dec 19, 2025
DiarisGodoo:
There'd always be outliers
But if so, what happened to your cultural. Even In societies where there is no cultural sexual taboo against women, men are still the ones who chase sex while women withhold it. Hence prostitution is called the oldest profession - it was there even before society!
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Alright, so who are those randy men having sex with?
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DiarisGodoo: 9:23pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
men men hmmmmmm men can not say no
What are you saying? Guys can't see good and classy food and reject it
Very, very hard for a healthy red blooded man to say no to sex with a female he finds attractive unless the consequences are just too dire.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by maasoap(m):
udder:
Both are overrated regarding their epidemic impact.
Laughing. If you have lost a loved one to hepatitis B induced liver cirrhosis, your simplistic opinion would change. Or, if you have families who are dependent on antiretroviral drug for the rest of their lives, your unpopular conviction would change.

STDs are child’s play compared most diseases but anything related to sex gets more attention.
We're not doing comparison here as different individuals are faced with different challenges. Cancer is bad but untreated syphilis is equally bad
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 9:30pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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Here, you ignore the fact that we also have specs. What looks great to one man is trash to another.
are you really sure that your gender have spec? I don't think so
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 9:31pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
are you really sure that your gender have spec? I don't think so
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Hahahahahahahahahaha!

Please! Now you are saying men are less than human.

Come on.

Everyone does have specs.

Even those who prefer goats and camels.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DiarisGodoo: 9:31pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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Alright, so who are those randy men having sex with?
That's why there have always been prostitutes and almost all have always been women.
Even Joseph saying no to his bosses wife was a big story. If a servant girl had resisted Potipher there'd have been no story
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 9:32pm On Dec 19, 2025
maasoap:
Laughing. If you have lost a loved one to hepatitis B induced liver cirrhosis, your simplistic opinion would change. Or, if you have families who dependent on antiretroviral drug for the rest of their lives, your unpopular conviction would change.


We're not doing comparison here as different individuals are faced with different challenges. Cancer is bad but untreated syphilis is equally bad
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He said regarding their "epidemic impact."
Crucial distinction.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by maasoap(m): 9:33pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
habaaa....... Avoiding the truth? How because i don't really get you
What I meant is that men are hardly in control of all what you listed when we see what we wanted cheesy but they should just make sure that they don't joke with protection. It's like telling today's teenagers to zip up which is the best but we know that we should be equally teaching them how to protect themselves
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 9:35pm On Dec 19, 2025
DiarisGodoo:
That's why there has always been prostitutes and almost all have always been women.
Even Joseph saying no to his bosses wife was a big story. If a servant girl had resisted Potipher there'd have been no story
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Leave Joseph.
The point is if you say men are randy, you must factor who and who they get in the sack with, even if we grant rapes and transactional sex as an aside.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by maasoap(m): 9:35pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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He said regarding their "epidemic impact."
Crucial distinction.
I don't think an individual who is afflicted with these STIs would be happy to know that his disease is not epidemic. When was this topic about epidemic? That's off point
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 9:35pm On Dec 19, 2025
maasoap:
What I meant is that men are hardly in control of all what you listed when we see what we wanted cheesy but they should just make sure that they don't joke with protection. It's like telling today's teenagers to zip up which is the best but we know that we should be equally teaching them how to protect themselves
yes, you are right but you guys should try and control your third leg
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 9:36pm On Dec 19, 2025
maasoap:
I don't think an individual who is afflicted with these STIs would be happy to know that his disease is not epidemic. When was this topic about epidemic?
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Well just pointing out what he said.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 9:36pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
yes, you are right but you guys should try and control your third leg
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Same goes for women.
No offense but you dont come across as though you have seen much of the world.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by maasoap(m): 9:37pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
yes, you are right but you guys should try and control your third leg
The thing is the one controlling majority of us. Make I lie to you?
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DiarisGodoo: 9:38pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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Leave Joseph.
The point is if you say men are randy, you must factor who and who they get in the sack with, even if we grant rapes and transactional sex as an aside.
With women of course, whom most of the time they PAY, in cash or kind!

maasoap:
The thing is the one controlling majority of us. Make I lie to you?
grin grin
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 9:39pm On Dec 19, 2025
DeepSight:
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Hahahahahahahahahaha!

Please! Now you are saying men are less than human.

Come on.

Everyone does have specs.

Even those who prefer goats and camels.
hahaha hahaha
You won't understand
Men don't even know what they want

Forget your gender abeg
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DiarisGodoo: 9:41pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
hahaha hahaha
You won't understand
Men don't even know what they want

Forget your gender abeg
Mrn know what they want alright - pussy preferably attached to a pretty woman.😅
It is woman that don't know what they want!
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by udder: 9:41pm On Dec 19, 2025
zedman1:
From your description, it could be a kidney stone. Even very little stone they say, can be painful too.
Saw it with my 2 eyes when it came out. it was 100% cum.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 9:42pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
hahaha hahaha
You won't understand
Men don't even know what they want

Forget your gender abeg
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I, an old man, an infamous former night crawler, will not understand?
No go assume oh.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by Diamond098454(f): 9:43pm On Dec 19, 2025
DiarisGodoo:
Very, very hard for a healthy red blooded man to say no to sex with a female he finds attractive unless the consequences are just too dire.
honestly speaking

You really understand what I'm talking

Except there's a clouse about that food

That serious clouse is the only thing that will make him not to eat that forbidden fruit
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 9:44pm On Dec 19, 2025
DiarisGodoo:
With women of course, whom most of the time they PAY, in cash or kind!


grin grin
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Thats on account of a certain power and cultural dynamic which is changing as women become more empowered and liberated.
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DiarisGodoo: 9:44pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
honestly speaking

You really understand what I'm talking

Except there's a clouse about that food

That serious clouse is the only thing that will make him not to eat that forbidden fruit
What is "clouse"
Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by DeepSight(m): 9:44pm On Dec 19, 2025
Diamond098454:
honestly speaking

You really understand what I'm talking

Except there's a clouse about that food

That serious clouse is the only thing that will make him not to eat that forbidden fruit
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Note he said "with a female he finds attractive."
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