₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
It is always the poverty-ridden entities going around claiming they took care of women. How much do you give or pay her for all she does that you believe in your delusion that you take care of her? 🥱🥱🥱

go ask your papa

Tenrack:
ask your papa

He was not poverty-ridden, hence such talk never emanated from his mouth, and for good reason. Na poverty-ridden men dey always talk of how dem take care of women.

NiRfreak:
Who also get worried and hopes his sisters gets married off the street to a good man in no distant time? And not suffer the dreaded husband search syndrome of 30+ ladies.. Imagine that your innocent god fearing little sister

Omo how time flies, those sweet little sisters of 16, 17 of yesterday are now hitting 30. Looks unreal. Already graduates, one has Msc

Although they are doing well job wise for themselves paying their own bills, but I see myself praying for them to get good husband. Am I the only one having this feeling as a brother. More like I've started counting time for them.
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God abeg o, favour my sisters, They are too young for husband wahala abeg. Even at 29/30 , in my eyes they still feel young and naive.
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Please where are you from.I'm 39years single and in search of a good woman to settle down with

NiRfreak:
Who also get worried and hopes his sisters gets married off the street to a good man in no distant time? And not suffer the dreaded husband search syndrome of 30+ ladies.. Imagine that your innocent god fearing little sister

Omo how time flies, those sweet little sisters of 16, 17 of yesterday are now hitting 30. Looks unreal. Already graduates, one has Msc

Although they are doing well job wise for themselves paying their own bills, but I see myself praying for them to get good husband. Am I the only one having this feeling as a brother. More like I've started counting time for them.
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God abeg o, favour my sisters, They are too young for husband wahala abeg. Even at 29/30 , in my eyes they still feel young and naive.
.

Please where are you from.I'm 39years old single and in search of a good woman to sette down with.

pocohantas:
Congrats on that. I am really happy for you because we grow and evolve.

Sadly, your sisters have to wait for other guys to brace up and change their mentality. Tell them to join Nairaland and pick from the pool of eligible bachelors you identified here.

I wouldn't do this

Any bachelor who cannot choose a mate/bride from within his own environment is (usually) hiding something...

Sirianese:
I wouldn't do this

Any bachelor who cannot choose a mate/bride from within his own environment is (usually) hiding something...

This is not always the case. Some guys simply don't know how to woo women and as such need to be match-made with ladies.

Jman06:
This is not always the case. Some guys simply don't know how to woo women and as such need to be match-made with ladies.

Very valid point, I must admit

But such men are in the tiniest minority

Jman06:
Honestly, at 29/30 yo, their chances of finding good husbands have become limited as no decent young man with his masculinity intact would want to wife any lady above 27yo.

Their best baits is to search from among widowers, single dads and polygamous men. That's the consequences of not setting one's priorities right and hooking up a decent man when they were much younger. They must have been deceiving themselves that they could get a man whenever they want to marry

This is the best comment so far and most accurate description of what happened! Oil dey your head.

kenodrill:
Please where are you from.I'm 39years old single and in search of a good woman to sette down with.

Mail -------------> wifelymail@gmail.com

Jman06:
Honestly, at 29/30 yo, their chances of finding good husbands have become limited as no decent young man with his masculinity intact would want to wife any lady above 27yo.

Their best baits is to search from among widowers, single dads and polygamous men. That's the consequences of not setting one's priorities right and hooking up a decent man when they were much younger. They must have been deceiving themselves that they could get a man whenever they want to marry

Okoto meow talk!

This is why I have stopped taking social media rants seriously! All the "decent" ladies I know with good jobs both in Nigeria and abroad got married in their thirties. ALL It's actually the ones involved in runs that married early.

Okoto meow post! Good people are marrying every Saturday. Which kind okpata yarn be this?

Jman06:
I personally won't marry any lady who is above 25years old. I'll rather marry an illiterate girl between 18 and 25 yo than marry any old lady. I have my marital goals clearly spelt out and I don't need a lady above 25 to achieve those goals regardless how rich or educated she is

Again, this is why everyone on social media needs to sieve out what they read. It's not every post, tweet or video you believe hook, line and sinker.

People's posts are reflections of their exposure, education levels, financial status and general outlook of life.

NiRfreak:
Funny thing is we men are quick to generalize that any woman above 26/27 should not be considered again, I used to be so, but on a closer reflection, if I meet a lady of my sisters age, edu, outlook, character, job, religious & dating history, I will gladly marry her even if she's 30.
The reality of my sisters now makes me understand that not all 29 or 30 year old are Bad or Ashana...... But to know 29/30 year old who are still okay is the problem.... unless you talk and relate to understand their psyche

Stop listening to these people. Most are illiterates, poorly educated and have limited exposure.

See how their illiteracy works: they say would-be wives shouldn't be liabilities, yet they want to marry 20 year olds. Tell me, how many 20 year olds in Nigeria have graduated and begun working? How many 20 year olds have built thriving businesses enabling them to sustain themselves as adults?

These people are illiterates!

SuperOnyi:

You're not alone. But you know what's sad? I can't type now but it's sad. The powers that be are using these lUnatics and lesbians parading as feminists to destroy the concept of marriage. People still marry but a lot of us are losing the scope of what marriage actually is, a lot of us do not even think of marriage anymore or give it the reverence it once had.

Once the devil wants to destroy something, he find a dUMb bItCH with no brain. It hurts the most when you actually have sisters that this virus might affect. I have sisters, female friends, and daughters. I have women that want me but I don't find relationship appealing.

These Nigerian "feminists" are destroying the one thing that draws a man to a beautiful woman — feminity. You might not see the result of this social media madness now but give it time. It's slowly germinating... That is why I keep preaching about the stupidity of man-hating that has been disguised as feminism.

Nigerian females and males have screwed up mentality and only time can tell if they can stand each other. Sometimes, I felt sorry for my son and daughters, strong men created the peace we enjoy today, until the weak men and women who want what they never worked for came around.

I partly agree with your thoughts. The social media anti-men rhetoric between 2015 - 2022 really changed how both genders viewed and interacted with themselves. It's the teens and adolescents I sympathise with as they will have traumatic views towards the opposite sex even before any encounter because of their older siblings/relatives and online narratives.

Nevertheless, people are still marrying, at least in Nigeria. So nothing spoil.

NiRfreak:
Your right, I used to say I can't marry anything less than 26, but the case study of my sisters makes me want to give a chance to ladies of 28-29-30 to prove their worth, see what's upstairs and their view of life and marriage in general.

As it becomes difficult to see lady of 29/30 who still have manageable history so it's becoming more difficult to see ladies of less than 26 who has not Commoditize and hyper sexualized themselves in this era of Snapchat. Badoo, Yahoo boy etc. .... Since we know sexual history of a woman matters a lot in long term relationship/marriage

Again, this is why you need to sieve everything you read/consume on social media. Shey e don affect you now to the extent you're changing words?

This is why extremism has never been a good thing. All the bad narrative will one day hit home. So, how do you defend your sisters when you held similar views which now affect them? How do you align with people whose views you espoused, but now reject simply because your sisters are affected? So suddenly your sisters have become good women because they're 30 and unmarried, but other 30 year old ladies were bad?

When I talk say make una dey go better schools, you people disagree only to attend poorly run British universities run by lovey-dovey woke administrators.

Kobojunkie:
He was not poverty-ridden, hence such talk never emanated from his mouth, and for good reason. Na poverty-ridden men dey always talk of how dem take care of women.

Okay

Hi

Gerrard59:
Again, this is why everyone on social media needs to seive out what they read. It's not every post or tweet or video you believe hook, line and sinker.

People's posts are reflections of their exposure, education levels, financial status and general outlook of life.

I have my reasons for my preferences and trust me, it's a valid one

Emmabyte:
Nigeria men they japa to go find money and truth been told APC and Tinubu is the cause tell me how can you bring in terrorist from across Africa to come and kill Nigeria just because of 2015 election maybe one aboke from north for done come marry one, Op abi you no want aboke husband for your sisters

Since they have something doing according to you they will be fine. Am out of here 🚶🚶🚶

That's the major reason many who love to marry are yet to get married - the economy nosedived since 2015.

Gerrard59:
Okoto meow talk!

This is why I have stopped taking social media rants seriously! All the "decent" ladies I know with good jobs both in Nigeria and abroad got married in their thirties. ALL It's actually the ones involved in runs that married early.

Okoto meow post! Good people are marrying every Saturday. Which kind okpata yarn be this?

If you are not married yet, then look for those kinds of old ladies to marry while I stick to my own preferences. The end justifies the means!

Walai:
Stop all this talk of wedding going on. I am in the event management industry and I can tell you for free that weddings have dropped over 50% since 2015. Infact this December season used to be everyday wedding, sometimes we manage 10 weddings in a single day, today getting a wedding event is scarce. Just one wedding per Saturday and you are jubilating. Do you know we have millions of unmarried ladies out there?

In which region are you based? If there are millions of unmarried ladies out there, there are equally millions of unmarried men.

The terrible Nigerian economy by Buhari and Tinubu are the root causes.

Sirianese:
I wouldn't do this

Any bachelor who cannot choose a mate/bride from within his own environment is (usually) hiding something...

;Dwhen na useless hungry girls full everywhere? Who wants burden in their lives?

Walai:
Stop all this talk of wedding going on. I am in the event management industry and I can tell you for free that weddings have dropped over 50% since 2015. Infact this December season used to be everyday wedding, sometimes we manage 10 weddings in a single day, today getting a wedding event is scarce. Just one wedding per Saturday and you are jubilating. Do you know we have millions of unmarried ladies out there?

Go to local government and see how people do weddings everyday, apart from Sunday, you people should desisting from illusion that people not married again, meanwhile, you shouldn't forget, wedding or no wedding, people still getting co-habitated and having kids as married couples.

If you and Ur goons are unable to married, does it stop thousands of others not to marry?

[quote author=NiRfreak post=137852330]Mail -------------> wifelymail@gmail.com[/quote





Ok.sending you a mail now

Gerrard59:
Again, this is why you need to sieve everything you read/consume on social media. Shey e don affect you now to the extent you're changing words?

This is why extremism has never been a good thing. All the bad narrative will one day hit home. So, how do you defend your sisters when you held similar views which now affect them? How do you align with people whose views you espoused, but now reject simply because your sisters are affected? So suddenly your sisters have become good women because they're 30 and unmarried, but other 30 year old ladies were bad?

When I talk say make una dey go better schools, you people disagree only to attend poorly run British universities run by lovey-dovey woke administrators.

You think people attack and critical of others because of education background? You too is not different from those you are attacking.

...... many people are just wailing and attacking just to proof relevant and some may want to proof a point.

Only a fool, takes social media rants seriously.

NiRfreak:
Who also get worried and hopes his sisters gets married off the street to a good man in no distant time? And not suffer the dreaded husband search syndrome of 30+ ladies.. Imagine that your innocent god fearing little sister

Omo how time flies, those sweet little sisters of 16, 17 of yesterday are now hitting 30. Looks unreal. Already graduates, one has Msc

Although they are doing well job wise for themselves paying their own bills, but I see myself praying for them to get good husband. Am I the only one having this feeling as a brother. More like I've started counting time for them.
.
God abeg o, favour my sisters, They are too young for husband wahala abeg. Even at 29/30 , in my eyes they still feel young and naive.
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Stop worrying about them, they are very ok not been married even at that age.

They are better of being single than trapped and unhappy in marriages especially one with children.

By the way, there is no such thing as a "good husband" , you have to take the good with the bad. No such thing as a good wife either.

You appear to have a lot of time on your hands, even though your heart is in the right place, thinking these things at length. My suggestion is to spend that time knowing how best you can be a rock for them when they inevitably get married and start facing the usual issues.

Kobojunkie:
He was not poverty-ridden, hence such talk never emanated from his mouth, and for good reason. Na poverty-ridden men dey always talk of how dem take care of women.

You asked how much the guy would be paying his wife for her services.

First, was your dad paying your mom for being married to him?

Secondly, if a man must pay a woman for basic house chores, which he can do himself, will the woman also pay him for rent, feeding, school fees of children, security fees, entertainment, and black tax?

NiRfreak:
Betnaija is an evil everyman must fight . The worst devil not worth depending on

@always247 please take note. Ps: if you do it for a living it's not worth depending on.

And this is how you people start pressuring women into marriage and making some make terrible choices. Who said there is a deadline for women of any age to marry? Same una go say marriage only benefits women and not men, and same una go still dey pressure them to go and marry.

NiRfreak:
Who also get worried and hopes his sisters gets married off the street to a good man in no distant time? And not suffer the dreaded husband search syndrome of 30+ ladies.. Imagine that your innocent god fearing little sister

Omo how time flies, those sweet little sisters of 16, 17 of yesterday are now hitting 30. Looks unreal. Already graduates, one has Msc

Although they are doing well job wise for themselves paying their own bills, but I see myself praying for them to get good husband. Am I the only one having this feeling as a brother. More like I've started counting time for them.
.
God abeg o, favour my sisters, They are too young for husband wahala abeg. Even at 29/30 , in my eyes they still feel young and naive.
.

Hook me up with your sister thats 30 pls.

Does she reside around Lagos cuz i am based in Lagos and 35.

Diamond098454:
hahaha hahaha hahaha🤣🤣🤣🤣 Tenrack

Good morning........ Tell me about your night

Was it sweet or good?

This one you re giving Tenrack purple light....we re watching you.

NiRfreak:
Who also get worried and hopes his sisters gets married off the street to a good man in no distant time? And not suffer the dreaded husband search syndrome of 30+ ladies.. Imagine that your innocent god fearing little sister

Omo how time flies, those sweet little sisters of 16, 17 of yesterday are now hitting 30. Looks unreal. Already graduates, one has Msc

Although they are doing well job wise for themselves paying their own bills, but I see myself praying for them to get good husband. Am I the only one having this feeling as a brother. More like I've started counting time for them.
.
God abeg o, favour my sisters, They are too young for husband wahala abeg. Even at 29/30 , in my eyes they still feel young and naive.
.

Matchmake with your friends or boys from good background in your area.Good men are hard to find these days.

Caaz:
This one you re giving Tenrack purple light....we re watching you.

caaz is that purple💜 light wow.... I thought it was green🟢 light

Caaz:
This one you re giving Tenrack purple light....we re watching you.

I Neva recover from my heart ache. Fret not ma. 😭🤣