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Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by acmev2(m): 8:59pm On Dec 21, 2025
Diamond098454:
smile smile smile

Too much on your mind? Oohh dear
So, tell me what's on your mind?
Where you got your kind of heart and looks from.

And what it feels like to have you on ma back.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by Diamond098454(f): 9:12pm On Dec 21, 2025
acmev2:
Where you got your kind of heart and looks from.

And what it feels like to have you on ma back.
I don't like talking about my look because it's my major problem.

Some people called me goddess, some call me mami different names from different people

Forget about my look


Have me? Hmmmm hmmmm
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by acmev2(m): 9:18pm On Dec 21, 2025
Diamond098454:
I don't like talking about my look because it's my major problem.

Some people called me goddess, some call me mami different names from different people

Forget about my look


Have me? Hmmmm hmmmm
I'm not people. Okay?
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by Diamond098454(f): 9:19pm On Dec 21, 2025
One out of thousands......? No no no ......

essentialone:
Yes. For one out of thousands. Right?
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by essentialone(op): 9:36pm On Dec 21, 2025
Diamond098454:
One out of thousands......? No no no ......
Ok well no one is able to count all. We only estimate based on current realities observed.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by Kobojunkie: 11:40pm On Dec 21, 2025
Diamond098454:
➜I live alone and i don't bring men into my apartment, I don't go out at night to hustle. The way you guys look down on women is too alarming and this is why some of you make grave mistake in terms of marriage
. Even if you bring men to your apartment or you have many situationships going on for you, what business of his is it? Many of these boys regularly brag about paying a hooker for their needs several times each month. (Not sure how many of them have even seen the space between a woman's legs in their entire lives, mind you.) The fact is, they brag about being promiscuous, yet they have the mouth to put down women who are equally promiscuous as they are? Does that even make sense to you? 🥱🥱🥱

No mind OP oh! He probably envies promiscuous women out there who can get all the sex they want and still keep themselves in a nice place of their own, while he can't pay for all the sex he wants without his account taking a huge hit for it. 🥱🥱

Never apologize for being who you choose to be, or for feeling you need to explain yourself to others. 🥱🥱
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by essentialone(op): 12:16am On Dec 22, 2025
Kobojunkie:
. Even if you bring men to your apartment or you have many situationships going on for you, what business of his is it? Many of these boys regularly brag about paying a hooker for their needs several times each month. (Not sure how many of them have even seen the space between a woman's legs in their entire lives, mind you.) The fact is, they brag about being promiscuous, yet they have the mouth to put down women who are equally promiscuous as they are? Does that even make sense to you? 🥱🥱🥱

No mind OP oh! He probably envies promiscuous women out there who can get all the sex they want and still keep themselves in a nice place of their own, while he can't pay for all the sex he wants without his account taking a huge hit for it. 🥱🥱

Never apologize for being who you choose to be, or for feeling you need to explain yourself to others. 🥱🥱
Well, a man marries. A lady is married. Return to school if that is not clear to you.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by Kobojunkie: 12:18am On Dec 22, 2025
essentialone:
➜Well, a man marries. A lady is married. Return to school if that is not clear to you.
Well, is the man not equally married? huh huh

Abi, did I just post a retort to a literal brainfart? huh
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by Cousin9999: 4:15am On Dec 22, 2025
Men saying gross stuff in here are miserable creatures feeling insecure because they're not thriving. And they actually think no woman should be doing well alone or doing better than them alone. That's why they're making vile accusations.

All I can say is raise your sons properly so that they never become that.

Edit: I didn't realize it was actually a woman saying this nonsense. It's still the same issue; insecurity.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by Uptheante(m):
helinues:
The apartment just Infront of mine, me I am just waking up properly but this lady must have gone to work as early as 7:30am, every morning except if she's on off.

The only time I heard man's voice, they are like 4 men, probably friends.

I can't even count how many hustling ladies I know not to talk of career ladies.

Your exposure about life is just too low
Bro, this lady is telling you the truth.
95% of ladies living alone, either bring men to sleep with them or go out to sleep with men.

Only very few percentage do not engage in such.
That's why many landlords in some parts of Nigeria do not agree to rent their house to single ladies. because they know that such ladies will be bringing different kinds of men to sleep with them thereby constituting nuisance & security threat (some of the men may be armed robbers, kidnappers, cultists, etc).

Single ladies are supposed to live with their parents or a family relation till they get married.

Freedom to live on their own will be exploited by them for waywardness/promiscuity.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by Uptheante(m): 9:16am On Dec 22, 2025
essentialone:
If I tell you where I lived and where I live presently, you won't speak to me about exposure. Make your findings around you or keep mute. I repeat, it has nothing to do with exposure.
You are right on this.
I think this guy is still naive
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by Uptheante(m): 9:17am On Dec 22, 2025
helinues:
It has to do with your exposure bro. You are relaying what you are seeing or experiencing.

There are no genuine career ladies around your environment. Even genuine hustlers self
Do you know how many men come to fúck those your so-called career ladies in their rented house?
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by Uptheante(m): 9:20am On Dec 22, 2025
ogashman:
Before I married my wife, she was staying alone in a different city. So no biggie.

She was living alone and paying her bills while we take turns in visiting each other
Can you swear that you married her as a virgin?

If not, then imagine the number of men that have been fücking her in her rented apartment before you married her grin
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by helinues: 9:21am On Dec 22, 2025
Uptheante:
Do you know how many men come to fúck those your so-called career ladies in their rented house?
But she doesn't depends on that for her living. That's the point. So a man living alone no dey knack?

Na how una dey reason self
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by Uptheante(m): 9:22am On Dec 22, 2025
Kobicove:
What is wrong with a single career lady who lives alone entertaining her boyfriend in her apartment?

Don't single guys entertain their girlfriends in their apartments?

Your problem is that you lack exposure!
It is obviously you that lack exposure that you believe most single career ladies have men coming to fúck them in their apartment.

You are too naive about the ways of women bro
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by Uptheante(m): 9:23am On Dec 22, 2025
Diamond098454:
I live alone and i don't bring men into my apartment, I don't go out at night to hustle

The way you guys look down on women is too alarming and this is why some of you make grave mistake in terms of marriage
Who is your neighbor here that can vouch for your statement?
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by Uptheante(m): 9:26am On Dec 22, 2025
helinues:
But she doesn't depends on that for her living. That's the point. So a man living alone no dey knack?

Na how una dey reason self
Is it right for a lady to be fúcked around as long she doesn't depend on that for her living?

You are talking about men, are men held by the same standard in the society?
Why is virginity always stressed on women not men?
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by helinues: 9:27am On Dec 22, 2025
Uptheante:
Is it right for a lady to be fúcked around as long she doesn't depend on that for her living?

You are talking about men, are men held by the same standard in the society?
Why is virginity always stressed on women not men?
What gives men the right to Bleep that women can't?
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by Uptheante(m): 9:30am On Dec 22, 2025
helinues:
What gives men the right to Bleep that women can't?
What gives women right to demand for a rich/well to do man for a relationship or marriage even though they themselves are broke?
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by helinues: 9:31am On Dec 22, 2025
Uptheante:
What gives women right to demand for a rich/well to do man for a relationship or marriage even though they themselves are broke?
Is it a must for men to obey the request?
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by dhiqson(m): 9:48am On Dec 22, 2025
grin grin


I just love the fact here that
Most men have convinced themselves that a woma staying alone means she's well and truly intact
One up there was talking about exposure grin grin grin exposure my hairy balls!

As much as there are ladies who stay alone and they're principled in not entertaining guys late at night or whatnot
I can tell u for a fact that the opposite of such is rampant


Shey career ladies no de get konji?
Or what's the line btw exposure and exploring sexual freedom
Unago just dey gba de talk..


Once i see a lady staying alone
My guy
My antennas are up!
I know wassup
Buh let's all be clowning here
cheesy
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by ogashman(m): 10:01am On Dec 22, 2025
Uptheante:
Can you swear that you married her as a virgin?

If not, then imagine the number of men that have been fücking her in her rented apartment before you married her grin
Lol.....she wasn't frolicking with men....I know that for sure...cos her phone was tapped. I receive all her WhatsApp messages.


Moreover,it is childish to use virginity as the only criterion for marriage. Very childish.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by Kobicove(m): 10:26am On Dec 22, 2025
Uptheante:
It is obviously you that lack exposure that you believe most single career ladies have men coming to fúck them in their apartment.

You are too naive about the ways of women bro
Na wetin this one dey talk sef?! huh
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by Uptheante(m): 10:43am On Dec 22, 2025
ogashman:
Lol.....she wasn't frolicking with men....I know that for sure...cos her phone was tapped. I receive all her WhatsApp messages.


Moreover,it is childish to use virginity as the only criterion for marriage. Very childish.
Is it only through WhatsApp that she can communicate with men?
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by essentialone(op): 11:00am On Dec 22, 2025
Uptheante:
You are right on this.
I think this guy is still naive
Thank you.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by ogashman(m): 2:37pm On Dec 22, 2025
Uptheante:
Is it only through WhatsApp that she can communicate with men?
99% of the time, Whatsapp exposes cheaters in Nigeria because it is the easiest medium of communication.


If they started chatting on either Facebook, Twitter or Instagram, they would definitely move to Whatsapp.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by essentialone(op): 3:22pm On Dec 22, 2025
Uptheante:
Bro, this lady is telling you the truth.
95% of ladies living alone, either bring men to sleep with them or go out to sleep with men.

Only very few percentage do not engage in such.
That's why many landlords in some parts of Nigeria do not agree to rent their house to single ladies. because they know that such ladies will be bringing different kinds of men to sleep with them thereby constituting a nuisance & security threat (some of the men may be armed robbers, kidnappers, cultists, etc).

Single ladies omen are supposed to live with their parents or a family relation till they get married.

Freedom to live on their own will be exploited by them for waywardness/promiscuity.
God bless you for saying the bitter truth. Meanwhile, I am a guy and not a lady. Sorry for that mix-up.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by essentialone(op): 3:24pm On Dec 22, 2025
Uptheante:
Do you know how many men come to fúck those your so-called career ladies in their rented house?
This guy dey burst my brain back to back by saying the obvious Truth.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by essentialone(op): 3:24pm On Dec 22, 2025
Uptheante:
Can you swear that you married her as a virgin?

If not, then imagine the number of men that have been fücking her in her rented apartment before you married her grin
He is being naive to an obvious Truth.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by essentialone(op): 3:25pm On Dec 22, 2025
helinues:
But she doesn't depends on that for her living. That's the point. So a man living alone no dey knack?

Na how una dey reason self
So now you are shifting the goal post. Go back to the main topic and see where you veered off from.
Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by essentialone(op): 3:26pm On Dec 22, 2025
Uptheante:
It is obviously you that lack exposure that you believe most single career ladies have men coming to fúck them in their apartment.

You are too naive about the ways of women bro
Tell him more. He does not understand a thing at all.
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