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Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by lilsmart(m): 12:17pm On Dec 22, 2025
Wettin you dey talkhuh?
Help yourself make sense of this
Fiscus105:
Yes, marital life is very important, Ur workaholicm will surely sent you to early grave if you fail to have good wife/husband
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Justiceleague1: 12:17pm On Dec 22, 2025
If you love yourself,go for the working class....the other one will call and call and send messages for money for every little thing...and op,both and all women are good in bed
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Emma1Oj(m): 12:20pm On Dec 22, 2025
correctyourself:
This Monday morning does this topic worth discussing?
Did you bring topic that is worth discussing?

You pple keeps castigating what you can't do.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Johnson5258: 12:26pm On Dec 22, 2025
Yes. For the sake of those planning to settle down next year. My opinion is blue. She can be thought what she doesn't have but the red will never understand and would probably be too entitled.

correctyourself:
This Monday morning does this topic worth discussing?
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Kingdavid579(m): 12:29pm On Dec 22, 2025
As it stands, Lady B can improve skills can be upgraded, income can be created, intimacy can be worked on.

But Lady A can decline income can dry up, pressure can rise, attitude can change.

Marriage is not about who is best today, but who you can survive with tomorrow.

So the real question is:
Can you handle her worst, not just enjoy her best
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by fyneboi79(m): 12:33pm On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
I will humbly keep searching because both ladies come with unpardonable deficiencies.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Amarachieze(m): 12:34pm On Dec 22, 2025
What do you mean by "can pray" ? If you mean godly lady in contrast to wordly one then the broke godly lady is good to go. This is because an ungodly woman is maritally dangerous. Otherwise a broke-lazy-in-bed 👩 is a no option
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by ufotunang: 12:37pm On Dec 22, 2025
Olachase:
Make I no lie the two of them carry back
Wetin your eyes dey find for their back ?🙄
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by ufotunang: 12:40pm On Dec 22, 2025
Oblongata:
The thing no balance at all!

Only one woman dey broke, jobless and lazy in bed!

Na liability be that one na!🤷🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️
But she can make hair styles...so she will be good as a hair dresser...salon
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Btruth: 12:43pm On Dec 22, 2025
correctyourself:
This Monday morning does this topic worth discussing?
I tire oooo. When they are billing left & right for Christmas now self. 3 days to Christmas ⛄
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Bahamas95(m): 12:48pm On Dec 22, 2025
None, I don't involve myself in anything that would stress me.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by iLegendd(m): 12:52pm On Dec 22, 2025
Working class = cheats a lot.

Lazy in bed? Cool, we'll cheat on you with working class.

Final choice is the broke one that can cook. Thank goodness a wise African man is entitled to multiple wives.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by ultraviolet27(f): 12:53pm On Dec 22, 2025
Are african men not polygamous in nature anymore?then marry the 2 women
On the flip side you as the husband with the A working class lady can get a paid cleaner or cleaners to come clean the house thrice a week though and about cooking she can outsource that to a cook or a chef employed!!
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by JimD(m): 12:55pm On Dec 22, 2025
Can cook and clean shouldn't be a negotiable. Without it, problems are waiting to happen. "Lazy in bed" is good because you can always turn her into a freak if you know what you are doing.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by MossLuv: 12:55pm On Dec 22, 2025
I will marry B, and keep A, as side chick
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Lamasta(m): 1:01pm On Dec 22, 2025
I would have said A but cannot cook and clean tells that she will be very dirty which is a very big no for me but I will rather go for another option that have both qualities even at a minimum
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by bluefilm: 1:01pm On Dec 22, 2025
What kind of stupid nonsense is this nonsense? lipsrsealed

Nonsense lipsrsealed
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Lamasta(m): 1:02pm On Dec 22, 2025
Justiceleague1:
If you love yourself,go for the working class....the other one will call and call and send messages for money for every little thing...and op,both and all women are good in bed
Hope you are ready to entertain her dirtiness and inability to know how to cook
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by folake4u: 1:09pm On Dec 22, 2025
As a man, I choose the one with big bumbum. undecided
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by ManknowThyself(m): 1:12pm On Dec 22, 2025
abidragon:
No all women can cook oooo
LoL that's not a complete woman and shame to womanhood.

The first quality of a good woman is cooking
The second is cleaning.

No matter how rich you are, never allow your house help clean your matrimonial bedroom, cook for your husband and kids. Doing that as a woman, shows you exposing your home deliberately.

That's why some women lost their homes to house help, they became of no use than a boss wife.

If you need house help for cleaning and cooking for your workers.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by boxypane: 1:17pm On Dec 22, 2025
None
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by peleson1: 1:22pm On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.


What kind of wicked options be this na?! Ehn




Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by press9jatv(m): 1:28pm On Dec 22, 2025
Fiscus105:
Sister A.
WORKING CLASS LADY.
FINANCIAL SUPPORTIVE.
CANNOT COOK/CLEAN.
GOOD IN BED.





Sister B.

JOBLESS LADY BUT CAN MAKE HAIR.
BROKE,BUT CAN PRAY.
CAN COOK & CLEAN.
LAZY IN BED.


For me I will go for sister A and cover up for her shortcomings
Prayer is habits that can be inculcated, and maid will be hired for cleaning.
I will pick sister A
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by kiddaz: 1:34pm On Dec 22, 2025
C = She can cook and clean, supportive however way she can, not idle, respectful and full of life, gives me peace and something to run home to every fvckn time!
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Kadigan: 1:45pm On Dec 22, 2025
Jobless and Still lazy in Bed??
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Trymeee: 2:13pm On Dec 22, 2025
Will go for the two, thanks.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by twilliamx(m): 2:13pm On Dec 22, 2025
The yansh have it...at least they didn't mention disloyal.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Hotguy27: 2:22pm On Dec 22, 2025
Forget about this topic, if you're very active, do not marry someone who is not good on bed. The partner will frustrate your life.
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by Abbeytoy(m): 2:24pm On Dec 22, 2025
I wake from dead when everything failed and hope lost.

Prayer won't pay bills
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by kaywhy09(m): 2:26pm On Dec 22, 2025
More like making choices between useful and useless.

How's that comparable huh
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by 99thEnemy(m): 2:27pm On Dec 22, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
How can you be jobless,and the same time be lazy in bed? angry.

Then,of what use are to me if you as a banny should possess such qualities? angry

Prayers alone without being backed by work is worthless..

I choose the one on white abeg.
grin grin grin
Re: As A Man, Which Of These 2 Ladies You Will Go For If You Are Looking For A Wife? by essentialone(m): 2:34pm On Dec 22, 2025
I prefer Sister A.
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