₦airaland Forum

Charis15:
On Sunday the 21st day of December 2025 I left my home that faithful day and embarked on a trip to my village. That was our family thanksgiving day, so missing out was not an option. I arrived at the park around 12noon and I was so in a hurry to meet up because they will start 12 till around 3pm. When I got to the park at koka in Asaba heading towards Kwale, though I will stop before Kwale but there is no straight Car to my village that's why I have to board with them, but they needed 5 more persons to complete the vehicle and that's not an option for me, so I went to the vehicle going to Warri/Ughelli because they just needed two more persons. When I got to that sienna I saw something that captivated me and change my whole sense of reasoning, A handsome, tall, fair and spotless man. OMG am I lusting? I lost my gaze for a few seconds. I think it's called love at first sight. I regain my cool and I told driver please shout louder so we can move and this man/guy said to me why don't you pay for the extra 🪑? I was just 🤔 what to answer. He said " them no dey chop woman money", I chuckled and then he said, " I will pay for the extra sit for you because you are in a hurry", chai see caring man. And I jumped and gave him hi five. But fortunately for him, a guy came and completed the sit so we kicked off. We had some talks about the situation of the country and the west. He told me what happened when he went for training in Amsterdam, Dubai etc.
Now I believe a guy should show interest first no matter what. He didn't ask for my contact and I said good, I'm a woman and I have dignity. So neither will I ask.
When I got to my junction, I highlighted and waved him., Immediately that car drove off, I was full of regrets and until now my heart isn't settled. I know I'm in Love. But how can I love a total stranger like this?
Now the pain I feel is like a broken heart for love that never bloomed.
I have never felt like this about anyone before.
I don't know his name , no contact, I don't even know if he likes me or maybe he is married, yet I feel so much pain for not being able to communicate him thereafter.
Now I feel at ease discussing it here.

dawnomike:
I understand how you feel... You will get over it.

Charis15:
On Sunday the 21st day of December 2025 I left my home that faithful day and embarked on a trip to my village. That was our family thanksgiving day, so missing out was not an option. I arrived at the park around 12noon and I was so in a hurry to meet up because they will start 12 till around 3pm. When I got to the park at koka in Asaba heading towards Kwale, though I will stop before Kwale but there is no straight Car to my village that's why I have to board with them, but they needed 5 more persons to complete the vehicle and that's not an option for me, so I went to the vehicle going to Warri/Ughelli because they just needed two more persons. When I got to that sienna I saw something that captivated me and change my whole sense of reasoning, A handsome, tall, fair and spotless man. OMG am I lusting? I lost my gaze for a few seconds. I think it's called love at first sight. I regain my cool and I told driver please shout louder so we can move and this man/guy said to me why don't you pay for the extra 🪑? I was just 🤔 what to answer. He said " them no dey chop woman money", I chuckled and then he said, " I will pay for the extra sit for you because you are in a hurry", chai see caring man. And I jumped and gave him hi five. But fortunately for him, a guy came and completed the sit so we kicked off. We had some talks about the situation of the country and the west. He told me what happened when he went for training in Amsterdam, Dubai etc.
Now I believe a guy should show interest first no matter what. He didn't ask for my contact and I said good, I'm a woman and I have dignity. So neither will I ask.
When I got to my junction, I highlighted and waved him., Immediately that car drove off, I was full of regrets and until now my heart isn't settled. I know I'm in Love. But how can I love a total stranger like this?
Now the pain I feel is like a broken heart for love that never bloomed.
I have never felt like this about anyone before.
I don't know his name , no contact, I don't even know if he likes me or maybe he is married, yet I feel so much pain for not being able to communicate him thereafter.
Now I feel at ease discussing it here.

Charis15:
On Sunday the 21st day of December 2025 I left my home that faithful day and embarked on a trip to my village. That was our family thanksgiving day, so missing out was not an option. I arrived at the park around 12noon and I was so in a hurry to meet up because they will start 12 till around 3pm. When I got to the park at koka in Asaba heading towards Kwale, though I will stop before Kwale but there is no straight Car to my village that's why I have to board with them, but they needed 5 more persons to complete the vehicle and that's not an option for me, so I went to the vehicle going to Warri/Ughelli because they just needed two more persons. When I got to that sienna I saw something that captivated me and change my whole sense of reasoning, A handsome, tall, fair and spotless man. OMG am I lusting? I lost my gaze for a few seconds. I think it's called love at first sight. I regain my cool and I told driver please shout louder so we can move and this man/guy said to me why don't you pay for the extra 🪑? I was just 🤔 what to answer. He said " them no dey chop woman money", I chuckled and then he said, " I will pay for the extra sit for you because you are in a hurry", chai see caring man. And I jumped and gave him hi five. But fortunately for him, a guy came and completed the sit so we kicked off. We had some talks about the situation of the country and the west. He told me what happened when he went for training in Amsterdam, Dubai etc.
Now I believe a guy should show interest first no matter what. He didn't ask for my contact and I said good, I'm a woman and I have dignity. So neither will I ask.
When I got to my junction, I highlighted and waved him., Immediately that car drove off, I was full of regrets and until now my heart isn't settled. I know I'm in Love. But how can I love a total stranger like this?
Now the pain I feel is like a broken heart for love that never bloomed.
I have never felt like this about anyone before.
I don't know his name , no contact, I don't even know if he likes me or maybe he is married, yet I feel so much pain for not being able to communicate him thereafter.
Now I feel at ease discussing it here.

Tenrack:
lmao. You're not in love. Quit deceiving yourself. Na Dubai and Amsterdam wey you hear dey make you even more interested. I'm pretty sure you have a bf currently. I fear who no fear Una. I can imagine how many things have ran through your mind, how you're gonna have babies for him and elope with him to Europe. Lol wake up abeg.

Sirmwill:
These kind of situations lead to broken homes and broken hearts,eternal frustration and unending regrets

I tell people
There is really nothing like "Love at first sight"
You can NEVER like a person:girl or guy,at first sight
You only liked her curves or height or complexion or face freshness or hair or his height or complexion or his car or his expensive clothes or his manner of speaking
And NOT THE PERSON
Loving someone takes days,
It takes weeks
Months,
Years
Decades
Ask people who lasted till their old age in marriage.
When the money, curves, skin, everything goes away, where would the love be?

Btw
You have hormones that want you to procreate to maintain the human population and further develop Ecological systems
This makes people think they are in love

SisterAnn:
Na wa for you oo

Someone cannot fall in love in peace again?

Charis15:
Lol
I also belonged to that school of thought that believes that there is nothing like love at first sight.
Wait till it happens to you.
Life is deep and unpredictable.

Sirmwill:
These kind of situations lead to broken homes and broken hearts,eternal frustration and unending regrets

I tell people
There is really nothing like "Love at first sight"
You can NEVER like a person:girl or guy,at first sight
You only liked her curves or height or complexion or face freshness or hair or his height or complexion or his car or his expensive clothes or his manner of speaking
And NOT THE PERSON
Loving someone takes days,
It takes weeks
Months,
Years
Decades
Ask people who lasted till their old age in marriage.
When the money, curves, skin, everything goes away, where would the love be?

Btw
You have hormones that want you to procreate to maintain the human population and further develop Ecological systems
This makes people think they are in love

Tenrack:
if he wasn't looking presentable and appeared like a struggling guy, you won't even flinch. Make Una take am easy abeg.

Tenrack:
lmao. You're not in love. Quit deceiving yourself. Na Dubai and Amsterdam wey you hear dey make you even more interested. I'm pretty sure you have a bf currently. I fear who no fear Una. I can imagine how many things have ran through your mind, how you're gonna have babies for him and elope with him to Europe. Lol wake up abeg.

Tenrack:
"Love" romantic love is no more. Let's be honest. Everything has been transactionalized. People who still believe in romantic love are setting themselves up for a very huge disappointment.

Charis15:
Well currently I don't have a boyfriend.
I have been celibate for over a year and I'm okay. I have every good thing of life you can think of believe me.
I have a guy in UAE pleading for me to join him but I declined because I'm not attracted to him.
I give more when I'm in a relationship.
I'm not those 2k abi 20k girls

SisterAnn:
Oga speak for yourself. The lady says she's in love and I believe her.

Tenrack:
Okay

SisterAnn:
👹

Mikocake:
Una no dey everly get love at first sight or crush on barrow pushers and artisans, na always good looking and well to do men. Infactuation at its peak

Tenrack:
lmao. You're not in love. Quit deceiving yourself. Na Dubai and Amsterdam wey you hear dey make you even more interested. I'm pretty sure you have a bf currently. I fear who no fear Una. I can imagine how many things have ran through your mind, how you're gonna have babies for him and elope with him to Europe. Lol wake up abeg.

Double0h7:
You’re the grinch of Xmas 🤣🤣🤣

Tenrack:
lmao. You're not in love. Quit deceiving yourself. Na Dubai and Amsterdam wey you hear dey make you even more interested. I'm pretty sure you have a bf currently. I fear who no fear Una. I can imagine how many things have ran through your mind, how you're gonna have babies for him and elope with him to Europe. Lol wake up abeg.

Charis15:
On Sunday the 21st day of December 2025 I left my home that faithful day and embarked on a trip to my village. That was our family thanksgiving day, so missing out was not an option. I arrived at the park around 12noon and I was so in a hurry to meet up because they will start 12 till around 3pm. When I got to the park at koka in Asaba heading towards Kwale, though I will stop before Kwale but there is no straight Car to my village that's why I have to board with them, but they needed 5 more persons to complete the vehicle and that's not an option for me, so I went to the vehicle going to Warri/Ughelli because they just needed two more persons. When I got to that sienna I saw something that captivated me and change my whole sense of reasoning, A handsome, tall, fair and spotless man. OMG am I lusting? I lost my gaze for a few seconds. I think it's called love at first sight. I regain my cool and I told driver please shout louder so we can move and this man/guy said to me why don't you pay for the extra 🪑? I was just 🤔 what to answer. He said " them no dey chop woman money", I chuckled and then he said, " I will pay for the extra sit for you because you are in a hurry", chai see caring man. And I jumped and gave him hi five. But fortunately for him, a guy came and completed the sit so we kicked off. We had some talks about the situation of the country and the west. He told me what happened when he went for training in Amsterdam, Dubai etc.
Now I believe a guy should show interest first no matter what. He didn't ask for my contact and I said good, I'm a woman and I have dignity. So neither will I ask.
When I got to my junction, I highlighted and waved him., Immediately that car drove off, I was full of regrets and until now my heart isn't settled. I know I'm in Love. But how can I love a total stranger like this?
Now the pain I feel is like a broken heart for love that never bloomed.
I have never felt like this about anyone before.
I don't know his name , no contact, I don't even know if he likes me or maybe he is married, yet I feel so much pain for not being able to communicate him thereafter.
Now I feel at ease discussing it here.

Charis15:
Lol
I also belonged to that school of thought that believes that there is nothing like love at first sight.
Wait till it happens to you.
Life is deep and unpredictable.

oglalasioux:
Sorry, OP. The guy might have wanted to ask for your phone number but decided to respect himself. Women these days bill for giving out ordinary phone number not to talk of asking for phone number during Xmas season.

SixSeven:
He could even be married. Men who know their worth know what to avoid.

Seun what's in this reply that needs bot banning me?