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Rizzputin:
Yeah your guy went the back door to smash her.

She doesn't know so that's why she's holding back. To her, you think she's still a virgin

Anyways I've seen this happen many times. Been a part of it too.

I've already explained what you should do. However it seems you're not observant enough. They've probably been smashing for a while now.

Yes, I think they have been smashing for a while.

SpencerForbes:
If you feel like smashing, then go ahead. The world is amoral. Just smash and pass. But give your attention to other girls. She’ll get jealous once she finds out you’re hitting girls way outta her league and might even plan the rematch herself.

Now, I don't even feel like giving her any attention again.
She knows I have girls I'm with, she already saw few with me. I'm only pained because I was ignorant something like this is happening.

LifeofDream:
Now, I don't even feel like giving her any attention again.
She knows I have girls I'm with, she already saw few with me. I'm only pained because I was ignorant something like this is happening.

There’s no need to be pained about this. Look at it as 'field practice' and make sure you don't repeat the same mistakes in your next run. The more you put yourself out there, the more you understand how the dating world actually works.

The best thing you did was not sulking or trying to win her back. Moving forward, the rule is simple: try to close the deal by the third meeting. If you can do it sooner, even better. Always suggest locations where things can progress naturally. Choose your meeting spots wisely—somewhere private enough for things to happen. That’s how you sharpen your game and stay ahead. That's also how you build confidence and ensure you aren't the one being outsmarted next time.

LifeofDream:
Now, I don't even feel like giving her any attention again.
She knows I have girls I'm with, she already saw few with me. I'm only pained because I was ignorant something like this is happening.

You are too dull not to even predict this happening (your guy fücking her).
I feel you are now pained & jealous because your guy was very sharp & smashed the pússy that you were simping & acting nice for.

You are more of a cuckold to her & even if she pities you & allow you small, she will compare your guys sex skills with yours & come to the conclusion that you are weak.

In your narration , you insinuated that you have other ladies at your disposal but I feel it is a blatant lie just to console yourself.

You also insinuated that you feel she doesn't know you have seen your guy banging her.
Then in the same vein, you also opined that she stopped sleeping over after saw her with your guy. If you are smart enough you should have known that she knows you have caught her, that's why she stopped sleeping over because she's shy of the fact that you caught them.

I feel you don't have game & your story is riddled with lies to make it look as if you have other options, which you don't.
It seems this girl is your only chance of pússy, that's why you are so concerned & desperate to fúck her

Pornography, prostitutes online and offline,sexual explicit content on social media, women advertising themselves online through sexuality in mode of dressing or speech, women dressed provocately offline in the streets are all to weaken you with lust, delude you that you can have an harem as a poor struggling or average man, waste your attention by making you focus on sexual conquest instead of thinking of your long term ambition of wealth and resources acquisition, it's waste of time it's only top 10% of men that can enjoy women unlimitedly without it becoming a burden to their time, energy and resources, the remaining men would suffer with valuable things lost, these just a warning, focus on goals, purpose, ambition, power as a young man

Testosterones the hormone responsible for konji and sexual urges makes you crave pleasure, dopamine hits, sexual novelty and varieties, harem virtual or physical, you need to keep it under control, it's dangerous because that same hormone is responsible for ambition, conquest, competitive instinct, motivation

You can't be a poor average man and find time for harem deluding yourself you will get to the top by halving your attention on both women and mission

Most men are slaves to women because of uncontrolled testosterones

Loneliness, need for affection/romance/love, need for sex, need for feminine warmth is the reason why men simp and misbehave

Global elites want to use porn, Netflix, video games, social media to keep young ambitious men sedated so that their testosterones would not be channeled ambitiously for power, status, wealth but rather cheap dopamine hits and waste of valuable time

Uptheante:
You are too dull not to even predict this happening (your guy fücking her).
I feel you are now pained & jealous because your guy was very sharp & smashed the pússy that you were simping & acting nice for.

You are more of a cuckold to her & even if she pities you & allow you small, she will compare your guys sex skills with yours & come to the conclusion that you are weak.

In your narration , you insinuated that you have other ladies at your disposal but I feel it is a blatant lie just to console yourself.

You also insinuated that you feel she doesn't know you have seen your guy banging her.
Then in the same vein, you also opined that she stopped sleeping over after saw her with your guy. If you are smart enough you should have known that she knows you have caught her, that's why she stopped sleeping over because she's shy of the fact that you caught them.

I feel you don't have game & your story is riddled with lies to make it look as if you have other options, which you don't.
It seems this girl is your only chance of pússy, that's why you are so concerned & desperate to fúck her

You're very right Boss, I love your bluntness. grin This is one of the reason I posted this here, I love how I'm beginning to see my mistakes from your drops.

She know I have girls, she have seen at least two with me. I'm in school area and a student, most of this girls are student and not around except three of us( although we have other couples living around).

She was very easy to laid, still don't know why I fvcked it up. She was those type of churchy girls that want to be exposed.

I would be lying if I said I didn't get the hint she might be with my friend or maybe they dated. I was controlling the dynamics of everything but lose my edge and I can understand it was my mistake. Not even making a simplest excuse. This girl always send her chats with my friend to me. My guy wasn't around then and was trying to manipulate her.(My guy wasn't around for months then). I knew it but I don't want to spoil my guy matter. My mistake was being available for her emotionally without trying to hit, no man should ever try this.

But reverse is the case now, my guy is chopping her low-key while acting nonchalant to her in my presence. I think she fears him and I'm weak to her because I already tolerated a lot. I also sensed my guy already knew me and the girl are very close and he's playing his game very well.


I knew my guy very well, we have been together for over a decades since early teenage years. I know almost everything about him, same thing applies to him also about me. Mere looking at him, I can read his mind and thought. He can read mine too.

The truth is, I was pitying her because she look naive to me forgetting that the naiveness won't last forever. I was bounce back to light few weeks ago when she came back after the semester holiday. I notice some things are off and I'm not wrong. This girl was still trying to get my attention despite being banged by my guy.

My conclusion is, my guy knew she was being fvcked by other guys and quickly acted. I'm even thinking he thought I have fvcked her many times already. This girl was being banged behind my back while I was pitying the pussy, I need a very big knock on my head. smiley Learnt my lesson already.

I have also decided to forget and ignore everything and moved on. I should have done so when I noticed my friend was interested. I initially thought of doing that but she was always on my neck.

I was banned on my other account

Gobengroup:
You're very right Boss, I love your bluntness. grin This is one of the reason I posted this here, I love how I'm beginning to see my mistakes from your drops.

She know I have girls, she have seen at least two with me. I'm in school area and a student, most of this girls are student and not around except three of us( although we have other couples living around).

She was very easy to laid, still don't know why I fvcked it up. She was those type of churchy girls that want to be exposed.

I would be lying if I said I didn't get the hint she might be with my friend or maybe they dated. I was controlling the dynamics of everything but lose my edge and I can understand it was my mistake. Not even making a simplest excuse. This girl always send her chats with my friend to me. My guy wasn't around then and was trying to manipulate her.(My guy wasn't around for months then). I knew it but I don't want to spoil my guy matter. My mistake was being available for her emotionally without trying to hit, no man should ever try this.

But reverse is the case now, my guy is chopping her low-key while acting nonchalant to her in my presence. I think she fears him and I'm weak to her because I already tolerated a lot. I also sensed my guy already knew me and the girl are very close and he's playing his game very well.


I knew my guy very well, we have been together for over a decades since early teenage years. I know almost everything about him, same thing applies to him also about me. Mere looking at him, I can read his mind and thought. He can read mine too.

The truth is, I was pitying her because she look naive to me forgetting that the naiveness won't last forever. I was bounce back to light few weeks ago when she came back after the semester holiday. I notice some things are off and I'm not wrong. This girl was still trying to get my attention despite being banged by my guy.

My conclusion is, my guy knew she was being fvcked by other guys and quickly acted. I'm even thinking he thought I have fvcked her many times already. This girl was being banged behind my back while I was pitying the pussy, I need a very big knock on my head. smiley Learnt my lesson already.

I have also decided to forget and ignore everything and moved on. I should have done so when I noticed my friend was interested. I initially thought of doing that but she was always on my neck.

I was banned on my other account

Lmao. So she's not a virgin. And has been banged by different guys.

Well it will be easy for you to bang her. But that will require a long write up.

Anyways, let's see if you can pull it off

Rizzputin:
Lmao. So she's not a virgin. And has been banged by different guys.

Well it will be easy for you to bang her. But that will require a long write up.

Anyways, let's see if you can pull it off

I feel like she got banged along the way. My guy sensed that when he came back and was very ruthless with her. I realised this late.

I also think my guy already thought I was fvcking her despite him trying to keep whatever relationship they are having from me. The girl once told me my guy think she's attracted to me.

The brutal reality is that there is virtually nothing you can do to make a woman attracted to you. If a woman categorized you as a sexually unattractive man after meeting you, no amount of game, Redpill sense, or masculine frame is going to change it. The best thing to do is to forget about her and keep it moving. Trying to win her over with "dating drills" and Redpill game is a waste of time, or worse, a self-inflicted humiliation

Aside reproductive and sexual advantage, polygamy is detrimental to men (because now we're in a modern age, less offsprings can do the job of ancestral survival). As the number of mates increases for a man, his resources reduces. Monogamy which involves one woman is stressful for a man not to even talk of multiple women. What about the resulting offsprings? Controlling children of different women is a tug of war, no peace in that home.

Every woman whether poor or rich, low or high value always have a plan B. If your busybody is too much they will exit. It is men that always think women will stay no matter what...till death do us part. Modern day women are now bold enough to exit once they sense any discomfort, unlike men that will want to make the relationship work. But is this fair? No! But is it reality? Yes!

When Ubunja said an 18 yr old girl knows more about the sexual industry than a 81 yrs old man, he wasn't joking

For all the "cook and bond with your wife" statements by men,, you'll never hear women say "pay rent and bond with your husband" lol. Women will tell you "you have only one job! Do it!!"
Women are cold with the game. Men need to be too.

sex first everything else after.

Guys kill me by how they make the grandest plans for a woman they don't even want to touch. Like how does that even work? Cause to the woman you're just another guy she knows. Nothing special.

The girl you have the biggest plans for must be that girl you're screwing like a hoe, whose puccy you're plowing and whom you're even impregnating. That's the girl who can be loyal to your vision. That's how you keep her invested. You take so much from her that for her to leave it will seem like a waste of her time, energy and body. #SunkCostFallacy

True. The moment you see a girl that you like and you make up your mind to get her, you've already started the game at a losing score: You 0, the Girl 1.

Its not that it's a crime to like someone but by liking her you're already more invested than she is because she feels ZERO emotions for you while you're on fire for her. You're already chasing.

Betas give women love to get sex in return. Alphas give sex to get love in return.
As an Alpha always start your relationships from sex. SEX FIRST, LOVE AFTER. You don't love a girl hoping she let's you fucc, you fucc her hoping she falls in love.
This is your method because it puts all the power in your hands by getting a woman more invested than you.

Leave the "love first, sex after" format for the Betas.

Be like the guy below. This is what we mean by "Let the woman do the chasing".

Men don't NEED sex. A man won't die if he doesn't have sex. In accordance with tenets of self-improvement, a man must reach a level where his sexual desires, which will always be there, cannot influence him against his will and always dictate for him. Such a level is possible as every man is ultimately responsible for his actions even when Hot. Can a man stay for many decades without having sex with a woman? Yes. If I can do it, what's anyone's excuse?

A colleague of mine at work lost his job early last year and since then he has been at home.
He has seen shege.
Before then, he was doing very very fine.
One of the organizers and sponsors of his town's beauty pageant ceremony.

In whatever we do, always cover your side because when shit hits the fan - Love will go, women will go, friends will go and family will disrespect and mock you.

emmaodet:
In whatever we do, always cover your side because when shit hits the fan - Love will go, women will go, friends will go and family will disrespect and mock you.

Romance is a facade
Loyalty is extremely rare
A man is always alone( rich or poor), wealth just buys fake love
Men should learn to ruthlessly put themselves first and seek out their own interests because if whatsoever reason they seize to be useful or provide value even if it's conditions outside their control like sickness they would be left to die

JESHAL007:
Romance is a facade
Loyalty is extremely rare
A man is always alone( rich or poor), wealth just buys fake love
Men should learn to ruthlessly put themselves first and seek out their own interests because if whatsoever reason they seize to be useful or provide value even if it's conditions outside their control like sickness they would be left to die

I totally agree with you reason why i do say make people cover their side.
It is a cold world out there

emmaodet:
I totally agree with you reason why i do say make people cover their side.
It is a cold world out there

As a man your number one priority should be accumulation of resources by whatsoever means possible preferably legal mean so that at least you can hedge yourself in the uncertainty of life, in case on mental illness, incurable disease, terminal disease, expensive treatable disease, valuable property burning, loss of loved ones, business misfortune, policy and regulatory misfortune in business, heartbreak from wive or girlfriends, ungrateful children or family members, spoilt children indulging in drugs and possibly homosexuality, unexpected civil war or violence, you must understand that if calamity or unexpected sorrow befalls you as a man society even family doesn't care about you

emmaodet:
I totally agree with you reason why i do say make people cover their side.
It is a cold world out there

A man have things in his favour should always seek to accumulate more so that he can have infinite supply of resources or relative fall back safe landing cushion in case life happens which it can, don't just live in the moment be dominated by pleasure or success, let it get into your head thinking you are invincible