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Before you jump into arguments, kindly read my post well and understand fully.

For centuries , society has pushed one narrative: women are emotional, women are weak, women can’t handle pressure.


But if we pause and observe reality without ego, without gender wars an uncomfortable question comes up:

What if much of what men accuse women of… is actually also true about men?

Let’s break it down, calmly.

Men say women are emotional.
Yet men start wars, commit crimes of passion, destroy families over ego, and spiral into violence when disrespected. That’s not logic, that’s unmanaged emotion.

Men say women can’t handle rejection.
Yet many men can’t handle “no,” can’t handle criticism, can’t handle being out-earned, and can’t handle losing control. Rejection pushes some men into rage, bitterness, or self-destruction.

Women are said to be weak but they endure alot of pain. Women endure pregnancy, childbirth, emotional labour, social pressure, and still function daily. Meanwhile, many men crumble under financial stress, job loss, or perceived disrespect sometimes permanently.

I know life of a man is very hard and frustrating but men die far more than women.

Men say women are too dependent.
Yet many men define their entire identity by external validation: money, status, sexual access, power. Take those away, and a high number of men are “lost.”

What i observed so far that men are just good at hiding emotions not devoid of them. Emotional suppression is not strength. Avoidance is not discipline. Silence is not stability.

Here’s the hard truth : Men are not “naturally logical.” They are trained to hide emotions more and not process them. And what you don’t process controls you.

This isn’t an attack on men or glorification of women . It’s a wake-up call.

True strength is emotional regulation. True leadership is self-awareness. True masculinity is accountability, not projection.

If men pointing fingers at women for traits they refuse to examine in themselves, growth will never happen.

So maybe the real question isn’t: “Why are women like this?”

But: “Why are we afraid to look in the mirror?”

Let's see things in a different perspective.
I want to ask again. Are women actually the weak vessel?

Source by Dpsychologist

I have always said that that statement "weaker vessel" is a Lie and a deceit meant to make men more fullysh.

Women are as strong as men it is just like comparing Benz with BMW or Honda with Toyota or Audi with Volkswagen.

Fact of life!!!!!!!!

All humans have feelings, feelings birth emotions and your ability to control it make you a man or more of a woman.

Women are emotional than men in life, From God creation till date.

The challenges of life is beautiful with God. We are all built different to our elastic capacity from birth. That's why no competition in destiny, no matter the situation you face in life must be successful as far you in line with the plan of God for destiny.

Men are not expected to do things with emotions and feelings but clarity.
The logic of the world, taught men reactions to keep the status, validation and need to impress people.


The only sure way to live a happy and discipline life is without emotions and feelings.

All you need is clarity.

Clarity is when you ball with who you are.

Others are pride when you ball with what you are.


In a nutshell

A woman balling with who she is, is stronger than the man balling with what he is.

One is strong with clarity the other weak with emotions and feelings.



As a man being too emotional makes you weak in all aspects of life.

Be brave nothing new under the sun.

Women are just physically weaker

So pregnancy is what makes women strong?

Women body are fragile and can't be compared to men unless weak men.

Women naturally are fearful. A full grown woman can run for cockroach or rat.

Bendeco02:
So pregnancy is what makes women strong?

Women body are fragile and can't be compared to men unless weak men.

Women naturally are fearful. A full grown woman can run for cockroach or rat.

Because they are thought that way. Its just a basic training since when we were kids, women are never told to be brave.

Can OP also say women go to wars.

Flimsy argument on something way obvious.

moreso, weaker doesn't mean Men aren't weak.

simple English causing misunderstanding.

In academics many of them are breaking barriers. In the other room they have broken many men. Even the men testify by the statement something must kill a man when they want to go down on them.
They may be weak physically but they are strong in significant areas

Hmmmm, well I disagree with a number of things especially this "Men are not “naturally logical." Like are you kidding me, it's even an understatement to say women are "not naturally logical" women act more on feelings/emotions than logic, they are so invested in their personal feelings that they don't care about anything else, they want the world to revolve around their feelings.

It makes it quite difficult to understand them sometimes, I've never seen anyone complain about not being able to understand a man before.

Of course, not that men don't have feelings/emotions, they are not just as invested in it as women are.

Women of this generation are different anyway

Growing up is realizing that a lot of proverbs are actually SCAM

That is how they said

" What a man can do a woman can do it better"

But in a house filled with 8 girls
They still call gateman to help them kill 1 rat

Women are supposed to kill rat better than us

Goodmarlian:
Women are just physically weaker

Physical weakness is subjective though.

I doubt you can beat anyone of the top 10 professional UFC women division fighters in the world. You vs anyone of them. You know who my money is on lol.

What if, “women are the weaker vessel” is a fallacy we have been cleverly sold by women to avoid jobs/situations they don’t to be involved with: like going to war

Since feminism was birthed the tides has changed. They have not only grown wings even horns

men are built with stronger and more bones.

humans are just higher animals.

you can't cheat nature unless altered by science.

We are not really weak. We are being

We are not really weak. We are being marginalized

That pregnancy wey other animals dey born in peace with no noise na wetin weak vessels human being women go dey use make noise. Ofc they are so fragile and weak

Dpsychologist:
Source by Dpsychologist

Do you even know the meaning of emotional?
Going to war and commiting crime are rational acts more than they are emotional.

Also the fact that women endure pregnancy doesn't mean that they are not biologically weaker.

Women are not the weak vessel.Their power is not from brute force,but through subtlety. A woman that has fully mastered the art of manipulation is more dangerous than a physically strong man. Na who no Sabi woman dey see them as innocent and weak.

Women are not a vessel let alone being weak. Do you know the amount of strength required to carry and give birth to a child? Some women even have up to four children. Any religion that refers to women as weak vessels must be a dumb religion, not worthy to be taken seriously. My dear mother was one of the strongest individuals I have the privilege to know, and I never saw any weakness in her.

Learn from what Eve did to Adam. They still carry that apple at d back of the phone.

Society have produced a generation of weak men so much that they now think men and women are same. Till date, the U.S elite force, SEAL do not involve women as the training is too intense for women.
Women can just get in their monthly circle and react out of proportion.

It is what it is....


E no dey change

No! They are the stonger Vessel.
Case closed and no need for debate/Ph.D thesis

Emu4life:
No! They are the stonger Vessel.
Case closed and no need for debate/Ph.D thesis

Don't mind them. Always wanna do equality

The bible says in 1 Pet 3:7

Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with your wives with understanding, giving honor unto the wife as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers be not hindered.

Bible said weaker vessels but you want to debate it. Continue.

Physically yes but mentally not so sure

Weaker vessel ko! Cunny vessel ni!

kayyyy44:
Physically yes but mentally not so sure

Vessels is always used in terms of physical, any other interpretation or dimension is inconsequential

Harddiskng:
Physical weakness is subjective though.

I doubt you can beat anyone of the top 10 professional UFC women division fighters in the world. You vs anyone of them. You know who my money is on lol.

What if, “women are the weaker vessel” is a fallacy we have been cleverly sold by women to avoid jobs/situations they don’t to be involved with: like going to war

What's this one saying like this, why not compare any male UFC fighter to the strongest female UFC fighter,

How can you compare an untrained man to a trained woman, of course the point of training is to increase strength, so naturally women who undergo special training (though initially weaker than men) would gain strength comparable or superior to the average man, but what if the man now also begins training, no woman would be his match.

So no, strength/weakness isn't subjective.

Abeg rest make we hear word