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emmaodet:
I totally agree with you reason why i do say make people cover their side.
It is a cold world out there

I love these quote plan for the best and prepare for the worst, a wise man see all possibilities in his calculation and is not deluded to relaxing because he has abundance, even the Bible says the rich man cannot sleep

emmaodet:
I totally agree with you reason why i do say make people cover their side.
It is a cold world out there

Going from riches to rag is more painful than going from rag to riches, I understand that luck has a significant role to play to attain such as most men are going to die average or below average, as a man when you get to the top always have insurance, back up, hedges especially if the resources are plenty for you at that time to do that

I attended a wedding febraury this year.
What saddens me is that a man processed UK visa for this lady in late 2023 and spent 15m to get it for her.
He is a UK based man trying to bring a good lady from home (Nigeria) abroad to make his wife.
I don't know how they met - maybe online or connection by friends.
15m in 2023 is roughly 25 to 30m in todays naira value. SO we can have an idea of what that man spent all in the name of Love and relationship.
Guess what?
Immediately the lady got the visa, she broke up with him Right here in Nigeria before even touching London.
This is not a nollywood script rather what happened within my circle.
And as if that is not bad enough, she got engaged and did introduction to a new man she met at the train station in UK just 6 months arriving there.
Can you imagine that?
Just 6 months of breaking up with someone who has spent 15m on you to come into that country and you are already dating and engaged.
People were dancing in the wedding hall because it was a virtual wedding. The couples only joined us online watching through projector while both families were in the hall with their guest, musician, foods and drinks etc
I only pity the new man. Only if he knows what the lady did to the last man before he came in. I am sorry but he better watch his back.

emmaodet:
I totally agree with you reason why i do say make people cover their side.
It is a cold world out there

Most men get to the top are obsessed with sex(women), clubbing, status signalling, show off, bragging, but it's stupid, the main thing is that you should have insurance, anything can happen, capital and liquidity is flowing, accumulate more and more, instead of buying luxury properties and cars for women and families which you can do, rather acquire assets, build cash flow, leverage Network and expand into social circles to expand your wealth, as a man in these lonely world your wealth expansion which serves as your ambition is your only solace and comfort, you and your money, your wealth would never abandon you for anything, and I'm talking from the position if luck favoured you to be at the top 20%, multimillionaire and billionaire

JESHAL007:
As a man your number one priority should be accumulation of resources by whatsoever means possible preferably legal mean so that at least you can hedge yourself in the uncertainty of life, in case on mental illness, incurable disease, terminal disease, expensive treatable disease, valuable property burning, loss of loved ones, business misfortune, policy and regulatory misfortune in business, heartbreak from wive or girlfriends, ungrateful children or family members, spoilt children indulging in drugs and possibly homosexuality, unexpected civil war or violence, you must understand that if calamity or unexpected sorrow befalls you as a man society even family doesn't care about you

Hmmmmmmmmm
You have said it all Jeshal

emmaodet:
I attended a wedding febraury this year.
What saddens me is that a man processed UK visa for this lady in late 2023 and spent 15m to get it for her.
He is a UK based man trying to bring a good lady from home (Nigeria) abroad to make his wife.
I don't know how they met - maybe online or connection by friends.
15m in 2023 is roughly 25 to 30m in todays naira value. SO we can have an idea of what that man spent all in the name of Love and relationship.
Guess what?
Immediately the lady got the visa, she broke up with him Right here in Nigeria before even touching London.
This is not a nollywood script rather what happened within my circle.
And as if that is not bad enough, she got engaged and did introduction to a new man she met at the train station in UK just 6 months arriving there.
Can you imagine that?
Just 6 months of breaking up with someone who has spent 15m on you to come into that country and you are already dating and engaged.
People were dancing in the wedding hall because it was a virtual wedding. The couples only joined us online watching through projector while both families were in the hall with their guest, musician, foods and drinks etc
I only pity the new man. Only if he knows what the lady did to the last man before he came in. I am sorry but he better watch his back.

See it's painful, but the other alternative which is very risky is locking up your heart and paying cheap prostitutes for sex which is expensive and cause diseases if you are not careful not saying your girlfriend can't give you disease but how can you win as a man, please let's ponder on these and ask ourselves what do we stand to gain from women, remember it's sex that driving us consciously and subconsciously, how can we win these gender war, what I know is that love and romance is a facade these age as women have abundance and harem of men so they can't fall in love deeply like us, how can we play these games with the least emotional and financial investment, women would always be costly if not in monetary terms but in valuable time, emmaodet how can we win

JESHAL007:
Most men get to the top are obsessed with sex(women), clubbing, status signalling, show off, bragging, but it's stupid, the main thing is that you should have insurance, anything can happen, capital and liquidity is flowing, accumulate more and more, instead of buying luxury properties and cars for women and families which you can do, rather acquire assets, build cash flow, leverage Network and expand into social circles to expand your wealth, as a man in these lonely world your wealth expansion which serves as your ambition is your only solace and comfort, you and your money, your wealth would never abandon you for anything, and I'm talking from the position if luck favoured you to be at the top 20%, multimillionaire and billionaire

To me, i think the general rule of thumb is to always live atleast 50% your annual income since ost men won't be billionaires anyway.
You earn 12m per year? then all your expenses for the year shouldn't be more than 6m max.

This way, you will always have a disposable income to invest and grow slowl year-on-year which allows you to increase your standard of living

emmaodet:
To me, i think the general rule of thumb is to always live atleast 50% your annual income since ost men won't be billionaires anyway.
You earn 12m per year? then all your expenses for the year shouldn't be more than 6m max.

This way, you will always have a disposable income to invest and grow slowl year-on-year which allows you to increase your standard of living

Thank you sir
It's just getting that capital and making prudent choice with it,it's easier said than done because in the moment some men feel invincible, some are moved by konji thinking with their penis and being controlled by their girlfriends or wives which makes their spending chaotic to meet up with their libido demands, some which is the worst hold unto delusional religious beliefs that they are serving a divine being who would protect them from any uncertain danger Into the future

Love these your advice
It's you and your money
Be rational have disposable capital for investments and plan for the worst

emmaodet:
To me, i think the general rule of thumb is to always live atleast 50% your annual income since ost men won't be billionaires anyway.
You earn 12m per year? then all your expenses for the year shouldn't be more than 6m max.

This way, you will always have a disposable income to invest and grow slowl year-on-year which allows you to increase your standard of living

Women would always cost us something, side chicks , wives, girlfriends, but we should stop seeing them from an emotional lense, lovey Dovey, we should be very cold in our core and remember that intrinsically no matter the sweetness of the romance, if unexpected misfortune and uncertainty befalls us it would turn sour even if you married a good woman, see job in the Bible, then what do men have for themselves genuinely that can give them ultimate joy, resources accumulation, money, try to maximise it to infinity capacity if you are chanced to be a millionaire or multimillionaire, scale it, money is our only true love in these cold and uncaring world especially as a man, you aren't respected without it and treated like dung, hedge yourself, hedge yourself,hedge yourself, accumulate, accumulate, accumulate

emmaodet:
To me, i think the general rule of thumb is to always live atleast 50% your annual income since ost men won't be billionaires anyway.
You earn 12m per year? then all your expenses for the year shouldn't be more than 6m max.

This way, you will always have a disposable income to invest and grow slowl year-on-year which allows you to increase your standard of living

Please sir how can we win with regards to women as we pursue our ambition of wealth accumulation, should we be monogamous, monogamous with side chicks, monogamous with prostitutes, patronise only prostitutes, watch porn and masturbate only, be polygamous, cut off totally from women sexually and romantically, everything has its pros and cons, I need matured advice for young ambitious men who don't have enough experience in the game as they are still in their 20's

Wealth accumulation and expansion is the only source of comfort for a man in these uncaring world

JESHAL007:
Thank you sir
It's just getting that capital and making prudent choice with it,it's easier said than done[b] because in the moment some men feel invincible, some are moved by konji thinking with their penis and being controlled by their girlfriends or wives which makes their spending chaotic to meet up with their libido demands[/b], some which is the worst hold unto delusional religious beliefs that they are serving a divine being who would protect them from any uncertain danger Into the future

Love these your advice
It's you and your money
Be rational have disposable capital for investments and plan for the worst

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At the bolded ....
Ti idi ba baje, toni idi lo n da ..... When your buttocks get damaged/destroy, you ONLY will be the one to feel the pains and discomforts that comes with it. Not your wife nor family nor friends, all they will just keep telling you is to endure.
Agbara o ni owun ni ile wo, onile ni o ni gba fun ........the flood doesn't care to bring down any house in it's way, it is the landlord that has to be reasonable to create a channel/gutter for it not to destroy his hard earned built house.

Lastly, person wey dey use another person water no go value am until him start to dey fetch him own water.
He wants to flush the toilet - he uses 2 buckets.
wash plates? he uses 2 bucket. mop the floor? he uses 1 bucket
BUT when he starts fetching his own water into a storage drum and someone starts using it just like him, he starts screaming
Why did you use 2 buckets to flush? why not 1 small bucket? do you know what it takes to fetch water from a well and store?
You are very wasteful
What happens to using half bucket to wash the plates.
Half bucket is enough to clean the room, are you mopping a whole building?
He buys a padlock and locks the drum

emmaodet:
To me, i think the general rule of thumb is to always live atleast 50% your annual income since ost men won't be billionaires anyway.
You earn 12m per year? then all your expenses for the year shouldn't be more than 6m max.

This way, you will always have a disposable income to invest and grow slowl year-on-year which allows you to increase your standard of living

I have been giving optimistic advice for men who are favoured by time and chance to be the lucky 20% what If you end up at best average after all your efforts, how can you find happiness and cope with loneliness, rich or poor we are always alone as men, how can one learn to live with it and accept these painful reality whether we choose to engage with women and possibly start a family but we will always interact with our extended family especially our siblings and parents, what can we do to find joy with ourselves and I'm not talking about getting romance and sex from women, a man living life on his own terms regardless of life outcome, a truly satisfied man regardless of his status, let's have these deep discussion

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People in general and women in particular will always try to push you beyond your limit or plans, it is up to you to stand your ground.
Humans naturally abuse privilege so it is in your interest to always put yourself first.
Take a person to the car stand and they point at the most expensive car in the stand. Tell them to bring 50% of the money and see them quickly retreat back to nigerian used.
Are you planning a wedding or burial and see people talking about how to make the party a 1 in town event, kill 3 cows blah blah blah until you ask them how much are they contributing and then sanity comes back - ohhhh, don't you know i am a civil servant? na him you come dey budget all these like a footballer?
Years back when i was in a financial mess - failed business, heavily indebted, family expenses etc and during this moment, my car started giving me regular issues, so i decided to dispose it and get a nigerian used car atleast to be mobile pending when i float back.
My wife heavily kicked against it, that over her dead body, she won't enter such a car with me.
That i am very pessimistic and always spoil her prayers. She will be going to church praying for the family to have big big things, i will be thinking small ...Okay now.
She said i should keep the money and work more for like 3 years to get the money for the kind of car she likes ---- i see. In 3 years alot would have happened that i would have dipped my hands in the money. A burial, maybe wedding, naming, school, medical etc anything
That money won't grow rather spent. SO i told her to keep praying while i get this naija used first to be moving around.
The aim is to pressure me. She knows my jumping around on bike and keke within a year will pressure me to suspend every otehr things and prioritize the car.
Afetr getting the car, she was the one to jump in first and when i asked her why she is not waiting for 3 years to get her choice car, reply? she turned the table on me.
That i am not a caring husband. SO i expect her to be walking under the sun and rain using keke while i am driving a car that i don't Love her ... Na sooooooo

A man is always truly alone, no one is coming to save or help you, everyone seeks to exploit you because your masculinity is at stake and you don't want to be ostracised in society, society uses you, government uses you, corporations use you, women uses you

As a man ruthlessly guard your heart, in fact tell yourself to your core, I'm worthless without resources accumulation, that should be the centre of your heart, not women, not romance, not sex but money, your dignity Is tied to it, your survival is tied to it, your health in case of emergency is tied to it, that's your only true love asides a believe in God

God and Money that's all a man has, that's his true best friend

JESHAL007:
Please sir how can we win with regards to women as we pursue our ambition of wealth accumulation, should we be monogamous, monogamous with side chicks, monogamous with prostitutes, patronise only prostitutes, watch porn and masturbate only, be polygamous, cut off totally from women sexually and romantically, everything has its pros and cons, I need matured advice for young ambitious men who don't have enough experience in the game as they are still in their 20's

Don't use the word "Win'' - it shows you are putting yourself under pressure to act rather just be yourself and approach relationship on a relax mode.
If it works, fine.
If not, just fine.
About your question - the answer is personal because as our faces, names, date of birth and death differs, so is our decision making.
For me, i prefer monogamous with prostitute. Different people with different decisions based on their taste, circumstance or situation.
While monogamous with a side chick looks okay, the down side is that your chances of casting is very very high.
She will always call you when you don't want or like - i just call to hear your voice or i missed you.
She may likely send a nude pix and the phone may be with your wife or kid then.
You will likely be passwording your phone or literarily walking with it around the house not wanting to keep your sight away from it.
All these will be causing frictions in the house, occasional quarrels or your wife being unsecured.

JESHAL007:
Please sir how can we win with regards to women as we pursue our ambition of wealth accumulation, should we be monogamous, monogamous with side chicks, monogamous with prostitutes, patronise only prostitutes, watch porn and masturbate only, be polygamous, cut off totally from women sexually and romantically, everything has its pros and cons, I need matured advice for young ambitious men who don't have enough experience in the game as they are still in their 20's

@CaveAdullam, Martinez39s, Skepticus or ubunja and other knowledgeable redpillers, I want you guys to construct an essay on these because it has life and death implications for young men in their 20's and 30's, it can be a long essay or it can be in parts,please we all are affected by women to certain degree interacting with them or not, please help us dissect the pros and cons of the following above based on you guys understanding, it would contribute immensely to these thread and help we frequent readers,

emmaodet:
Don't use the word "Win'' - it shows you are putting yourself under pressure to act rather just be yourself and approach relationship on a relax mode.
If it works, fine.
If not, just fine.
About your question - the answer is personal because as our faces, names, date of birth and death differs, so is our decision making.
For me, i prefer monogamous with prostitute. Different people with different decisions based on their taste, circumstance or situation.
While monogamous with a side chick looks okay, the down side is that your chances of casting is very very high.
She will always call you when you don't want or like - i just call to hear your voice or i missed you.
She may likely send a nude pix and the phone may be with your wife or kid then.
You will likely be passwording your phone or literarily walking with it around the house not wanting to keep your sight away from it.
All these will be causing frictions in the house, occasional quarrels or your wife being unsecured.

Thank you sir

JESHAL007:
I have been giving optimistic advice for men who are favoured by time and chance to be the lucky 20% what If you end up at best average after all your efforts, how can you find happiness and cope with loneliness, rich or poor we are always alone as men, how can one learn to live with it and accept these painful reality whether we choose to engage with women and possibly start a family but we will always interact with our extended family especially our siblings and parents, what can we do to find joy with ourselves and I'm not talking about getting romance and sex from women, a man living life on his own terms regardless of life outcome, a truly satisfied man regardless of his status, let's have these deep discussion

Your happiness must come from within not external.
It must be internal.
List out things you will like to be doing regularly and work around it.
For me - i like going to the gym, swimming, cinemas, mini vacations, tours/events and i built my happiness around these.
All can be substituted for a cheaper alternative.
And while doing all these, i easily pick-up relationship with women if i want. It comes naturally from the activities i am doing anyway.
Also, a lunch or dinner with ladies occasionally is refreshing ( doesn't need to be expensive please)
You can meet up with a bottle of coke/hollandia yogurt and a pie. It doesn't have to bore a hole in your pocket.
And you gist, talk and laugh just like how you would have done with a male friend in a bar/beer parlour

One thing guys should know now is, no lady f..ucks just one guy! Redpilled O, Pink pilled O, it doesn't matter now!

Bad economy, poverty, rising cost of living and maintaining a family is a major reason in Africa. Another reason (for those who have the money) is the need for freedom. Some guys don't want to be tied down all in the name of marriage. They just want to make money and enjoy thier lives. Some guys that get married did so due to pressure from family and society.

emmaodet:
1 of 2

At the bolded ....
Ti idi ba baje, toni idi lo n da ..... When your buttocks get damaged/destroy, you ONLY will be the one to feel the pains and discomforts that comes with it. Not your wife nor family nor friends, all they will just keep telling you is to endure.
Agbara o ni owun ni ile wo, onile ni o ni gba fun ........the flood doesn't care to bring down any house in it's way, it is the landlord that has to be reasonable to create a channel/gutter for it not to destroy his hard earned built house.

Lastly, person wey dey use another person water no go value am until him start to dey fetch him own water.
He wants to flush the toilet - he uses 2 buckets.
wash plates? he uses 2 bucket. mop the floor? he uses 1 bucket
BUT when he starts fetching his own water into a storage drum and someone starts using it just like him, he starts screaming
Why did you use 2 buckets to flush? why not 1 small bucket? do you know what it takes to fetch water from a well and store?
You are very wasteful
What happens to using half bucket to wash the plates.
Half bucket is enough to clean the room, are you mopping a whole building?
He buys a padlock and locks the drum

emmaodet:
2 of 2

People in general and women in particular will always try to push you beyond your limit or plans, it is up to you to stand your ground.
Humans naturally abuse privilege so it is in your interest to always put yourself first.
Take a person to the car stand and they point at the most expensive car in the stand. Tell them to bring 50% of the money and see them quickly retreat back to nigerian used.
Are you planning a wedding or burial and see people talking about how to make the party a 1 in town event, kill 3 cows blah blah blah until you ask them how much are they contributing and then sanity comes back - ohhhh, don't you know i am a civil servant? na him you come dey budget all these like a footballer?
Years back when i was in a financial mess - failed business, heavily indebted, family expenses etc and during this moment, my car started giving me regular issues, so i decided to dispose it and get a nigerian used car atleast to be mobile pending when i float back.
My wife heavily kicked against it, that over her dead body, she won't enter such a car with me.
That i am very pessimistic and always spoil her prayers. She will be going to church praying for the family to have big big things, i will be thinking small ...Okay now.
She said i should keep the money and work more for like 3 years to get the money for the kind of car she likes ---- i see. In 3 years alot would have happened that i would have dipped my hands in the money. A burial, maybe wedding, naming, school, medical etc anything
That money won't grow rather spent. SO i told her to keep praying while i get this naija used first to be moving around.
The aim is to pressure me. She knows my jumping around on bike and keke within a year will pressure me to suspend every otehr things and prioritize the car.
Afetr getting the car, she was the one to jump in first and when i asked her why she is not waiting for 3 years to get her choice car, reply? she turned the table on me.
That i am not a caring husband. SO i expect her to be walking under the sun and rain using keke while i am driving a car that i don't Love her ... Na sooooooo

emmaodet:
To me, i think the general rule of thumb is to always live atleast 50% your annual income since ost men won't be billionaires anyway.
You earn 12m per year? then all your expenses for the year shouldn't be more than 6m max.

This way, you will always have a disposable income to invest and grow slowl year-on-year which allows you to increase your standard of living

As a man you should be thinking of retirement and saving 50% of your income is advisable and a better advise is also to save 25% in a currency which as potential of not depreciating fast then invest other 25% probably in stock market or trade with it. Old age is not nice for men. Most times unmarried men have it better than Old age because we have ungrateful kids nowadays, bad wives who manipulate their kids to forget their father.

Men must be wise.

JESHAL007:
A man is always truly alone, no one is coming to save or help you, everyone seeks to exploit you because your masculinity is at stake and you don't want to be ostracised in society, society uses you, government uses you, corporations use you, women uses you

As a man ruthlessly guard your heart, in fact tell yourself to your core, I'm worthless without resources accumulation, that should be the centre of your heart, not women, not romance, not sex but money, your dignity Is tied to it, your survival is tied to it, your health in case of emergency is tied to it, that's your only true love asides a believe in God

God and Money that's all a man has, that's his true best friend

Money is for long term plans but on the short term, if you play your card well, you don't need money to get sex.
Sex happens everyday. Sex is more of physical appeal, sweet mouth to a large extent than money.
You can use money to get sex too and you can use the first method above

If am to make a suggestion, I will say the easier way of getting sex is to move with a guy that easily bed women without using money.
I have 1 or 2 guys like that around me.
I don't know how they do it Agboola and Femi sleep with women like someone changing boxers.
They go to the bank, they will collect number.
Inside the cab, somehow they will strike conversation and collect number.
Just name it - church, school, street, anywhere.
Believe me, they will bed atleast 50% of them within a week.
A woman sent her younger sister to Agboola's wife. Unfortunately she didn't meet her at home and just by the door side, Agboola initiated conversation with her and within minutes banged the lady.
It was not premeditated, not planned by both.
Infact, as at that morning, there wasn't any plans of meeting her nor knowing her.
The Lady's aunt will not even think such will happen within that period nor will Agbo wife think of such.
These guys are just the messi and Ronaldo of women.
Add money to them and you have monsters ravaging women round the street.
If you move with such men, naturally you will pick up some traits from them and improve your skills with women

emmaodet:
If am to make a suggestion, I will say the easier way of getting sex is to move with a guy that easily bed women without using money.
I have 1 or 2 guys like that around me.
I don't know how they do it Agboola and Femi sleep with women like someone changing boxers.
They go to the bank, they will collect number.
Inside the cab, somehow they will strike conversation and collect number.
Just name it - church, school, street, anywhere.
Believe me, they will bed atleast 50% of them within a week.
Add money to them and you have monsters ravaging women round the street.
If you move with such men, naturally you will pick up some traits from them and improve your skills with women

I have a friend like that. The way he does it, I dey ask am to start a masterclass, and I will be his first student.

I don't know about your friends, but mine is handsome and can rizzle women within minutes. The way he does it eh, I have asked, "bros you get sugar for mouth?", "bro, how do you do this thing?" He is too good man. I have another, but he is from a well-to-do family, is somewhat popular and smokes, so I believe these make things easier. But the earlier do isn't from an upper-middle-class family but he is so good.

My verdict on both guys? They are generally friendly and smile a lot. So much to learn.

What I realised is that guys like Rollo Tomassi, Aaron Clarey and the rest who are honest, when you ask them about marriage. They either tell you to never get married or they wish they didn't. They advise you to just pass your gene to whom you see fit, probably a lady you met who you feel she's going to be a good mother. After birthing your child, take good care of your children. Whatever she does after is her choice.

You don't have to stay under the same roof with a woman.

emmaodet:
If am to make a suggestion, I will say the easier way of getting sex is to move with a guy that easily bed women without using money.
I have 1 or 2 guys like that around me.
I don't know how they do it Agboola and Femi sleep with women like someone changing boxers.
They go to the bank, they will collect number.
Inside the cab, somehow they will strike conversation and collect number.
Just name it - church, school, street, anywhere.
Believe me, they will bed atleast 50% of them within a week.
A woman sent her younger sister to Agboola's wife. Unfortunately she didn't meet her at home and just by the door side, Agboola initiated conversation with her and within minutes banged the lady.
It was not premeditated, not planned by both.
Infact, as at that morning, there wasn't any plans of meeting her nor knowing her.
The Lady's aunt will not even think such will happen within that period nor will Agbo wife think of such.
These guys are just the messi and Ronaldo of women.
Add money to them and you have monsters ravaging women round the street.
If you move with such men, naturally you will pick up some traits from them and improve your skills with women

This is a great point. I've made this remark in the past many times.

The best way to learn about women is to copy/study/follow guys around you that are great women. Their mannerisms, vibes, words etc. Nothing will teach you faster than this.

When I started, while studying about pick up from my mentors... i went out with guys i knew that were doing well with women. Combined both what i studied with what they did and now I'm way better than all of them.

In fact, some of them are like "Bro teach me na. How did you just get good so fast" it was simple: I studied AND observed.

But there are TWO VERY IMPORTANT THINGS TO NOTE:


>>>>1) You have to know what you're looking out for.
A big reason guys will have friends that do great with women but still fail is because they have no clue about what works.

They dont what to copy OR why he's doing what he's doing. That's why after studying, YOU MUST practice. No amount of book reading will help you if you dont practice yourself

That way, you can compare what you're doing to what he's doing. For example, when he says a particular thing in a situation you've seen before ... your brain registers how and what he said. So when you see it again, you can test it

Seduction is A SKILL. If you dont treat it like one, you'll never get good


>>>>>>2) The women your friend is smashing have to be really good looking.

Each time I tell guys this they're quick to tell me: "Yes they're fine" BUT when I see the girls I'm always disappointed. No matter how much these guys promised me I wont be disappointed lol.

The reason for this is because you want to train your subconscious to enjoy beautiful women.

When I was really broke, the most common phrase my guys told me was "Guy you like going for things wey big pass you"

While they went for average women, I went for the hottest all the time.

You want to get used to beautiful women so you can see how NOT special they are

pook:
What I realised is that guys like Rollo Tomassi, Aaron Clarey and the rest who are honest, when you ask them about marriage. They either tell you to never get married or they wish they didn't. They advise you to just pass your gene to whom you see fit, probably a lady you met who you feel she's going to be a good mother. After birthing your child, take good care of your children. Whatever she does after is her choice.

You don't have to stay under the same roof with a woman.

Rollo and Aaron are not the people you should learn about relationships and marriage from

There are other guys that love being married

Gerrard59:
I have a friend like that. The way he does it, I dey ask am to start a masterclass, and I will be his first student.

I don't know about your friends, but mine is handsome and can rizzle women within minutes. The way he does it eh, I have asked, "bros you get sugar for mouth?", "bro, how do you do this thing?" He is too good man. I have another, but he is from a well-to-do family, is somewhat popular and smokes, so I believe these make things easier. But the earlier do isn't from an upper-middle-class family but he is so good.

My verdict on both guys? They are generally friendly and smile a lot. So much to learn.

He doesnt need to start masterclass lol. Just observe what he's doing and replicate yours.

If you've studied a great book on seduction and have been practicing, it will be easy for you to connect the dots

The worst part is: He can't even teach you even if he wanted to.

Most of these guys have no clue what they're doing or why what they're doing works.

If you ask them they'll tell you: "omo I'm just being myself" "I'm just vibing and having fun"


I don't need to tell you how unreliable that is. That's why wanting them to teach you is a waste of time. Unless it's a very very specific situation

But teaching you how to be good with women? Waste of time. It's your duty to read, practice yourself INTENSIVELY, observe, connect the dots and combine.

emmaodet:
A colleague of mine at work lost his job early last year and since then he has been at home.
He has seen shege.
Before then, he was doing very very fine.
One of the organizers and sponsors of his town's beauty pageant ceremony.

I feel really bad for him. What he is going through is what happens to any man who loses his edge in life (you know what I mean). Experiences like this are painful, but it will make him strong and knowledgeable about how life and people work. He is just learning what sharp guys like us already know.

This is why on the WhatsApp group, we spoke about procreating pragmatically and have some things in order before going to get married. Your woman can be sweet like an angel in the sweet times, but if you get stuck in the rough times, you will see a different beast. It is well. I hope he rises again.