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It’s happens that we have been together for one year and all of suddenly she move to a new city and location, and in a Space of three or four mon And she meet a new and this is very guy has captured her heartily completely and when I noticed change from her and when she stop visiting me, I confronted her about everything and she opened up to me that she moved on with the new guy. and her reasons is that the new guy take care of her more than I do and he also supported her family and her business more than I do and hence her reason for ending everything and now my question is what to do to get her back?.
in all honesty I love the girl but it’s sad that I was not doing enough to prove my love to her and now I understand how much I love her seeing her with another guy and why the sudden love for the new guy in a space of four months.
What can I do to get her back because this very night she just told me that she move on and from her words i can see that she mean it

Sell all your properties and give her the money. She might change her mind and come back to you. If she doesn't come sell your kidneys and liver and give her the money she would come.

You need sense. Grow up man.

Obviously, as I dey look you, you fit go steal because of a woman

Follow the first adviser and you’re good to go bro .
She loves you and she will understand when you prove to her that way bro

If you start questioning yourself regarding man and woman matter, you’ve already lost.

Ikpeabujo:
It’s happens that we have been together for one year and all of suddenly she move to a new city and location, and in a Space of three or four mon And she meet a new and this is very guy has captured her heartily completely and when I noticed change from her and when she stop visiting me, I confronted her about everything and she opened up to me that she moved on with the new guy. and her reasons is that the new guy take care of her more than I do and he also supported her family and her business more than I do and hence her reason for ending everything and now my question is what to do to get her back?.
in all honesty I love the girl but it’s sad that I was not doing enough to prove my love to her and now I understand how much I love her seeing her with another guy and why the sudden love for the new guy in a space of four months.
What can I do to get her back because this very night she just told me that she move on and from her words i can see that she mean it

eepeepook:
If you start questioning yourself regarding man and woman matter, you’ve already lost.

I love the girl so much but I’m really Confused the love for a new guy in a Space of four months

eepeepook:
If you start questioning yourself regarding man and woman matter, you’ve already lost.

bro I lost nothing. Just that I’m Confused the sudden love for another guy in a space of four months.
Mind you bro, it’s not about money. I’m already blessed not bragging

ajapz:
You need sense. Grow up man.

Obviously, as I dey look you, you fit go steal because of a woman

bro I just want to know if I still have any chance of getting her back.
I can’t steal because of woman and is not about money

No die because of woman o, pls silently forget her. move on

Rhassidy360:
No die because of woman o, pls silently forget her. move on

thanks so much bro but do I still have a chance of getting her back

Ikpeabujo:
bro I just want to know if I still have any chance of getting her back.
I can’t steal because of woman and is not about money

Tell me, why do you want to do that? Are you a simp or physically challenged that you can't get you a better woman who's not all about money?

ajapz:
Tell me, why do you want to do that? Are you a simp or physically challenged that you can't get you a better woman who's not all about money?

in honesty I love the girl so much, try another relationship with a new girl but the vibes is not there

To maintain your masculinity,just wish her good luck.

Never beg or force any ladies into a relationship.

She has a liability mentality, saying you cannot support her and her parents financially.

The problem guys made is they spend on ladies rather than taking care of yourself.

Use this tips, always use you money to by new clothes,dress neat always. I bet you,many free pussy would always comes your way.

ridwintin89:
To maintain your masculinity,just wish her good luck.

Never beg or force any ladies into a relationship.

She has a liability mentality, saying you cannot support her and her parents financially.

The problem guys made is they spend on ladies rather than taking care of yourself.

Use this tips, always use you money to by new clothes,dress neat always. I bet you,many free pussy would always comes your way.

thanks bro

Ikpeabujo:
✓ It’s happens that we have been together for one year and all of suddenly she move to a new city and location, and in a Space of three or four mon And she meet a new and this is very guy has captured her heartily completely and when I noticed change from her and when she stop visiting me, I confronted her about everything and she opened up to me that she moved on with the new guy. and her reasons is that the new guy take care of her more than I do and he also supported her family and her business more than I do and hence her reason for ending everything and now my question is what to do to get her back?.
in all honesty I love the girl but it’s sad that I was not doing enough to prove my love to her and now I understand how much I love her seeing her with another guy and why the sudden love for the new guy in a space of four months.
What can I do to get her back because this very night she just told me that she move on and from her words i can see that she mean it

Why do you want to get her back when her reason clearly indicates you are definitely not what she wants right now? 🥱🥱

Ikpeabujo:
I love the girl so much but I’m really Confused the love for a new guy in a Space of four months

You love her so much but what true value does this love have to her dreams and her life? Na sex and hormones you dey confuse for love? If love don't gat tangible value to it of what meaning is it? 🥱🥱🥱

Dey play. You’ll soon open another thread about how much you miss her.

Ikpeabujo:
bro I lost nothing. Just that I’m Confused the sudden love for another guy in a space of four months.
Mind you bro, it’s not about money. I’m already blessed not bragging

Beep beep, boop boop. Zip zip, cook cook. Vrrrrn!

Kobojunkie:
Why do you want to get her back when her reason clearly indicates you are definitely not what she wants right now? 🥱🥱

Nigha said he's confused she fell in love with the new guy whom she had only known for less than 4 months . Bro,abeg leave banny matter and focus on your life.

Please don't even bother to do anything to impress her....

Just move on already.....

If she left you for another man who chest her bills, if you take her back, you will have to be going out of your way to sustain all her needs.....

She might ask you to build a house for her parents and if you refuse, she will jump on another preeq that will build her a mud house.

when people deliberately leave your life, be smarter enough to let them go forever.

Mind you after a year that girl is coming back and don't ever accept her.

ManknowThyself:
✓ when people deliberately leave your life, be smarter enough to let them go forever.
Mind you after a year that girl is coming back and don't ever accept her.

Let's stop telling this lie! Studies have shown that it is mainly those who manipulated their way into your lives that usually come back begging to be taken back after leaving you— poeple who never valued you in the first place. Most of the stories Nigerians tell of an ex coming back to beg to be taken back are all lies — tales twisted by pushovers to make themselves seem and feel better than they really felt about what truly transpired. . 🥱🥱🥱

Also, claiming an ex who left came back to beg to be taken back is nothing worth boasting about, as that action —trying to get back with an abandoned ex—typically comes from a place of disrespect, not love or desire. Yeah, if an ex comes back to beg you to take him/her back, it's literally a confession from that ex that you are the current pushover they know to take advantage of until maybe the next mark shows up. 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Let's stop telling this lie! Studies have shown that it is majorly those who manipulated their way into your lives that usually come back after leaving you. Most of the stories Nigerians tell of an ex coming back to beg to be taken back are all lies -- tales twisted by pushovers to make them sound better than they really felt about what truly transpired. . 🥱🥱🥱

Also, claiming an ex who left came back to beg to be taken back is nothing worth boasting about as that action -- trying to get back with an abandoned ex --- typically comes from a place of disrespect, not love or desire. Yeah, if an ex comes back to beg you take him/her back, it's literally a confession that you are the current pushover they know to take advantage of until maybe the next mark shows up. 🥱🥱🥱

please I don’t really understand your point

Kobojunkie:
Let's stop telling this lie! Studies have shown that it is majorly those who manipulated their way into your lives that usually come back after leaving you. Most of the stories Nigerians tell of an ex coming back to beg to be taken back are all lies -- tales twisted by pushovers to make them sound better than they really felt about what truly transpired. . 🥱🥱🥱

Also, claiming an ex who left came back to beg to be taken back is nothing worth boasting about as that action -- trying to get back with an abandoned ex --- typically comes from a place of disrespect, not love or desire. Yeah, if an ex comes back to beg you take him/her back, it's literally a confession that you are the current pushover they know to take advantage of until maybe the next mark shows up. 🥱🥱🥱

LoL

No energy for ambiguity

Ikpeabujo:
please I don’t really understand your point

That girl is no longer in love with you. You have to accept this and move on. Come to terms with what has happened, accept reality of things(how it has happened) and your energy into moving on from this episode in your life.

Don't pour energy in hoping that she will one day come back to you. If that ever happens-- if she ever comes running back to you claiming she is sorry and all those other nonsense you see on Nollywood-- it means she sees you as a pushover....nothing good about that. Any person that runs back claiming they made a mistake in leaving you or abandoning you does not do so out of love for you but desperation ---an urge to salvage a bad situation the best they can. That never ends well for anyone that takes them back in that situation. 🥱🥱🥱

Most pushovers eventually go on to become bitter after being used and abused by men/women who they thought loved them at one point. Don't end up used and abuses by those you date of invest your feelings in. When it ends, let it naturally end. 🥱🥱🥱

ManknowThyself:
LoL
No energy for ambiguity

Ambiguity is what it will seem to someone would rather not see. 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Ambiguity is what it will seem to someone would rather not see. 🥱🥱🥱

😂 😂

Lol

No energy for ambiguity

At least she's a good lady she told you she prefers the other guy because he brings more ro her table than you


If it were those from the greedy world, they would have been acting like you both are still dating and chopping your little donations 😂

My advice to you
Disembark from this journey. She has moved on..

Ikpeabujo:
I love the girl so much but I’m really Confused the love for a new guy in a Space of four months

if a man comes along and suddenly she switches because he does things for her.

Understand that the love is not for the person but for what the person is doing.

Understand this deeply bro.

There's always going to be someone willing to do more for a girl, especially in her prime.

Most times, these demands will gently grow out of your means and as they do, so does her love grow out of your means.

Now do you want to be stuck up in such a circle where you're forever running out of breath to meet up with her ever growing list of demands?

Please pity yourself. It's painful. It'll be painful because it'll take you a while to move on. While you see her clearly settling in.

Even more so, you'll find yourself constantly worrying about what she doing with the new guy and how they could be doing it right now and stuff.

A lot of us have been there. And let me tell you, e no easy.

But it's better to let go. Even if she comes back today, it'll never be the same again.

You think it'll be the same but it'll never be the same.

I'm not going to say "just move on". There is no just move on especially when you really loved your girl.

What I'm going to say is understand that things have changed. Always tell yourself that.

Yes, she's with the bigger man now. Yes she has won and he has won. Accept that you lost. Accept that you're the loser. A sore loser.

But will you keep begging for scrumbs or will you actually try to better your life and set up yourself for the next person to come.

There's always another girl. They are all the same trust me. They will come and will always be lookin outside to see if they can get better options.

Be the better option. Start building. You can't be spending the money you should be investing at this stage to impress a girl.

She'll still just leave anyways once you're dried up.

So, at the moment, don't think revenge. Don't wish her bad. Don't wish to take her back. Don't wish to get over her. Don't wish to forget her.

Just understand that she's not the better option or the best for you even if it feels like it.

Start putting in the work to better your life.

Ikpeabujo:
I love the girl so much but I’m really Confused the love for a new guy in a Space of four months

Why? Because you feel your hormonal delusions which you call love ..fueled merely by chemicals rushing back and forth in your brain...should be all that is necessary to overcome her desire for another man whom she has determined to be of more benefit to her than you? 🥱🥱🥱

Let me let you in on a little secret. Hormone-induced love means and amounts to nothing if not backed with tangible benefits -- of measurable value. If the person you are in a relationship with is not able to achieve their individual dreams and desires — no matter how ridiculous or small --- all while you can achieve/pursue your goals and desires, what that means is that you are not of benefit to that person and you don't love that person— you truly don't like that person but like using that person for your benefit. Love is not mere words but action, and an action that benefits both individuals in the relationship, not just one. 🥱🥱🥱

Train don go you still dey Wait for am, look for another one na

ayoncox:
Train don go you still dey Wait for am, look for another one na

That us a bad idea. He is still feeling from what happened to him --- literally pining for her return --, yet you are already advising him to look for another one? Are you folks so allergic to your own company that you feel you need to jump into the next relationship without at least giving yourself the chance to stew and grow from the lessons life had prepared for you to from the previous? 😩😩😩😩