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Re: How Do I Get Her Back by 9jaBloke: 6:08am On Dec 29, 2025

Ikpeabujo:
It’s happens that we have been together for one year and all of suddenly she move to a new city and location, and in a Space of three or four mon And she meet a new and this is very guy has captured her heartily completely and when I noticed change from her and when she stop visiting me, I confronted her about everything and she opened up to me that she moved on with the new guy. and her reasons is that the new guy take care of her more than I do and he also supported her family and her business more than I do and hence her reason for ending everything and now my question is what to do to get her back?.
in all honesty I love the girl but it’s sad that I was not doing enough to prove my love to her and now I understand how much I love her seeing her with another guy and why the sudden love for the new guy in a space of four months.
What can I do to get her back because this very night she just told me that she move on and from her words i can see that she mean it

When you get jilted after you've given your best, don't chase. Conserve your energy and invest it in yourself: Hustle harder, hit the gym, read self help books etc. It is not going to be easy at all but you are better off with someone that loves you for you.

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Re: How Do I Get Her Back by tonymyke4life(m): 7:22am On Dec 29, 2025

Ikpeabujo:
I love the girl so much but I’m really Confused the love for a new guy in a Space of four months

Someone just gave u d best advice and u r still looking for more. Sell all ur properties, urs and maybe ur family inheritance and give to her to start a business or travel to d Bahamas. Trust me, she wud never leave u. This phone you are using to type dis, sell it too. Love is sacrifice. Make some. She'd come back to u. Thank me later

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Re: How Do I Get Her Back by Hypnotise: 9:48am On Dec 29, 2025

Things like this happen because of oneitis, only dating one lady at a time. You suppose to have multiple options or talking to multiple potential partners, like she clearly did. That way, you wouldn’t feel the loss so intensely

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Re: How Do I Get Her Back by Exceed15: 10:30am On Dec 29, 2025

Getting her back I bet it with you that's going to be torture for u. Especially when she admitted she'd prefer the other guy.. MOVE ON

Re: How Do I Get Her Back by ExudeLoveToAll: 11:17am On Dec 29, 2025

Guy come out of this delusional state. You never hear paternity fraud before? A girl that is bought by a higher bidder will give you children that doesn't belong to you let her go. Let's assume she starts dating and then your finances plummets what do you expect? Loyalty? You are a joke

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Re: How Do I Get Her Back by ExudeLoveToAll: 11:21am On Dec 29, 2025

Ikpeabujo:
bro I lost nothing. Just that I’m Confused the sudden love for another guy in a space of four months.
Mind you bro, it’s not about money. I’m already blessed not bragging

You are blessed but to her the guy is more blessed according to her grin

Move on bro, that's how life is. This is the singular reason I don't spend my resources on women, a higher bidder can just come and they would forget all the sacrifices you have made before then, move on that girl is unstable even the new guy would never be ok for her she will ask for more sooner that's life.

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Re: How Do I Get Her Back by Rhassidy360: 12:44pm On Dec 29, 2025

Ikpeabujo:
thanks so much bro but do I still have a chance of getting her back

over 4.5 no sure for you oo

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Re: How Do I Get Her Back by Double0h7(f): 1:18pm On Dec 29, 2025

Ikpeabujo:
thanks so much bro but do I still have a chance of getting her back

There is definitely a chance if you’re willing to do what the current guy is doing for her and more.

Re: How Do I Get Her Back by Diamond098454(f): 2:00pm On Dec 29, 2025

Maybe you normally shout at her, and the other guy maybe too romantic than you.

Everything is not money

Ikpeabujo:
bro I lost nothing. Just that I’m Confused the sudden love for another guy in a space of four months.
Mind you bro, it’s not about money. I’m already blessed not bragging

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Re: How Do I Get Her Back by Diamond098454(f): 2:04pm On Dec 29, 2025

ridwintin89:
To maintain your masculinity,just wish her good luck.

Never beg or force any ladies into a relationship.

She has a liability mentality, saying you cannot support her and her parents financially.

The problem guys made is they spend on ladies rather than taking care of yourself.

Use this tips, always use you money to by new clothes,dress neat always. I bet you,many free pussy would always comes your way.

No free pussy anywhere

Stop talking down on women

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Re: How Do I Get Her Back by Kobojunkie: 3:32pm On Dec 29, 2025

Hypnotise:
Things like this happen because of oneitis, only dating one lady at a time. You suppose to have multiple options or talking to multiple potential partners, like she clearly did. That way, you wouldn’t feel the loss so intensely

Nonsense? We all know people who dated more than one individual at a time only to have it backfire with them being left with the most desperate date, usually the one who they don't really like that much still clinging. That is more of less something to be ashamed of and not something to boast or tell others of, if you ask me..🥱🥱😁

Yes, dating someone you don't even like that much because you are afraid of what happened to OP happening to you is pathetic. 🥱🥱

Re: How Do I Get Her Back by Cum4me(m): 3:37pm On Dec 29, 2025

Simp simp ode wake up

Re: How Do I Get Her Back by Kobojunkie: 3:41pm On Dec 29, 2025*

Cum4me:
Simp simp ode wake up

So-called simps are so many times better.. they seem to be individuals with better emotional and social intelligence than the average men out there. 😗😗😗

Op is here tackling, rather than avoiding dealing with, his emotions head on..if that makes him a simp, it means he is on the right part to becoming a better human being.🥱🥱🥱

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Re: How Do I Get Her Back by ridwintin89(m): 4:07pm On Dec 29, 2025

Diamond098454:
No free pussy anywhere

Stop talking down on women

Lol 😆😆,women that turn relationship to employment opportunity.

That is why single mother is everywhere.

Mens are not fools.

You you bill me anyhow, you will collect.

Dont forget ladies or women can sex a man without spending a dime.

Get money,look good,buy car.respect yourself.

Free pussy would surely attach to you

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Re: How Do I Get Her Back by Kobojunkie: 4:18pm On Dec 29, 2025

ridwintin89:
Lol 😆😆,women that turn relationship to employment opportunity.
That is why single mother is everywhere. Mens are not fools. You you bill me anyhow, you will collect. Dont forget ladies or women can sex a man without spending a dime.Get money,look good,buy car.respect yourself. Free pussy would surely attach to you

Wrong! Single mothers are every where literally for the fact that women refused to value themselves...realize that their life and that of their unborn children should be worth more than a mere dick occasionally available with no benefits. 🥱🥱🥱

If more women made themselves scarce to dicks looking for a hole without consequence, the number of single mothers(and single fathers) would drop significantly. If more women loved themselves, then way more women would be willing to get pregnant for any man unwilling to adequately compensate them for the sacrifices and commitment to the process. And if even more women were to love their children too, there would be even less births altogether since women would then not wish to have kids with just anything out there with a dick and change. 🥱

Daughters need to be raised to center themselves and their lives above men and religion/tradition. 🥱🥱

Re: How Do I Get Her Back by eepeepook: 4:32pm On Dec 29, 2025

Our resident chat bot dey find engagement badly. Nobody send am. Such a laughable situation. Soon people will give themselves sense — however, many newcomers appear every other week. It will receive new combatants. How one man chooses to waste his life creating AI debates will always surprise me. At the very least he’s putting enough effort for five people every day.

Re: How Do I Get Her Back by AKWATGOLD1(m): 4:38pm On Dec 29, 2025

@Ikpeabujo, Did you want to listen to frank truth, you cannot please woman after all you have tried your best according to your income. Please let her go. Almighty God shall use your good intention to replace her with better lady.

Ikpeabujo:
It’s happens that we have been together for one year and all of suddenly she move to a new city and location, and in a Space of three or four mon And she meet a new and this is very guy has captured her heartily completely and when I noticed change from her and when she stop visiting me, I confronted her about everything and she opened up to me that she moved on with the new guy. and her reasons is that the new guy take care of her more than I do and he also supported her family and her business more than I do and hence her reason for ending everything and now my question is what to do to get her back?.
in all honesty I love the girl but it’s sad that I was not doing enough to prove my love to her and now I understand how much I love her seeing her with another guy and why the sudden love for the new guy in a space of four months.
What can I do to get her back because this very night she just told me that she move on and from her words i can see that she mean it

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Re: How Do I Get Her Back by Kobojunkie: 6:39pm On Dec 29, 2025*

AKWATGOLD1:
@Ikpeabujo, Did you want to listen to frank truth, you cannot please woman after all you have tried your best according to your income. Please let her go. Almighty God shall use your good intention to replace her with better lady.

Let's stop lying to the individuals out there regarding these things. There is no god almighty out there playing games with people's minds in this. There are, instead, people looking for others to bond with on some level, and each person has the right to seek out only those who would at least benefit them the most. That is what relationships — whether platonic or romantic — literally are.🥱🥱🥱

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Re: How Do I Get Her Back by Ikpeabujo(op): 7:00pm On Dec 29, 2025

Kobojunkie:
So-called simps are so many times better.. they seem to be individuals with better emotional and social intelligence than the average men out there. 😗😗😗

Op is here tackling, rather than avoiding dealing with, his emotions head on..if that makes him a simp, it means he is on the right part to becoming a better human being.🥱🥱🥱

thanks so much. Your words really encourage me because you seem to understand better,
Honestly I don’t see any simp attitude in my post

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Re: How Do I Get Her Back by Ikpeabujo(op): 7:05pm On Dec 29, 2025

eepeepook:
Our resident chat bot dey find engagement badly. Nobody send am. Such a laughable situation. Soon people will give themselves sense — however, many newcomers appear every other week. It will receive new combatants. How one man chooses to waste his life creating AI debates will always surprise me. At the very least he’s putting enough effort for five people every day.

honestly bro i don’t understand your point.
But if you are referring me bot or my post as Ai creation. You are wrong.
I have been here still 2015 and always active but I don’t post when I don’t have some serious

Re: How Do I Get Her Back by Kobojunkie: 7:08pm On Dec 29, 2025

Ikpeabujo:
thanks so much. Your words really encourage me because you seem to understand better,
Honestly I don’t see any simp attitude in my post

According to Jaime Diman -- CEO of JP Morgan Chase -- some of the best soft skills to have in this new world are strong emotional and social skills. Channel your energy towards building those skills and you will not regret it. 🤔🤔

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Re: How Do I Get Her Back by zyzxx(m): 7:13pm On Dec 29, 2025

Gbadugbakun:
Sell all your properties and give her the money. She might change her mind and come back to you. If she doesn't come sell your kidneys and liver and give her the money she would come.

you spoke my mind

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Re: How Do I Get Her Back by Cum4me(m): 8:10pm On Dec 29, 2025

zyzxx:
you spoke my mind

u swear some guy too mumu. His not even ashamed to disgrace his ancestors. Girl wen another guy dey knack like dry fish.

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Re: How Do I Get Her Back by davillian(m): 10:04pm On Dec 29, 2025

Ikpeabujo:
It’s happens that we have been together for one year and all of suddenly she move to a new city and location, and in a Space of three or four mon And she meet a new and this is very guy has captured her heartily completely and when I noticed change from her and when she stop visiting me, I confronted her about everything and she opened up to me that she moved on with the new guy. and her reasons is that the new guy take care of her more than I do and he also supported her family and her business more than I do and hence her reason for ending everything and now my question is what to do to get her back?.
in all honesty I love the girl but it’s sad that I was not doing enough to prove my love to her and now I understand how much I love her seeing her with another guy and why the sudden love for the new guy in a space of four months.
What can I do to get her back because this very night she just told me that she move on and from her words i can see that she mean it

guy move
if not you would be milked

Re: How Do I Get Her Back by Kobojunkie: 10:46pm On Dec 29, 2025

Ikpeabujo:
➜thanks so much. Your words really encourage me because you seem to understand better,
Honestly I don’t see any simp attitude in my post

. There is nothing wrong with being a simp; it is finding someone who pours into you as much as you pour into them ... your equal... that makes relationships all worthwhile and to that requires a lot of emotional and social intelligence backed by self-love(the healthy kind, of course). 🥱🥱🥱

Re: How Do I Get Her Back by zyzxx(m): 6:52pm On Dec 30, 2025

Cum4me:
u swear some guy too mumu. His not even ashamed to disgrace his ancestors. Girl wen another guy dey knack like dry fish.

I wonder oo my brother o.

Who force lov in this age!

Someone that suppose to go and do thanksgiving, cook for his neighbors that God saved him.

Foolish boy

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