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The relationship was built on lies. She lies a lot. And also acts suspicious. This is why I'm doubting if I'm responsible for her pregnancy.

The first day I asked her out, and the second time we were seeing ever, I got home, we began

How won't you know if you are the one responsible for a pregnancy? Did you use protection? Did you pour in?

But why did you go ahead with the relationship even with what you discovered?

My advise dock (end) the ship (relationship) and let the passenger(her) disembark (go) with all luggage (lies) and baggage (drama)..Do this for your health sanity and safety

HacheNoire:
You should be checking for the prices of baby food and diapers at this point.

I personally will advice that you go with Enfamil and Huggies! Those will be a good start up for your first child.

With regard to Antenatal, I will suggest you make her enroll as soon as possible and start making plans to buy all other necessary items.

Also, avoid buying gender based item. Wait for the gender to be determined before you start purchasing those.

Start thinking of make and female names you adore. I will suggest you name her after your mum, and if it’s a boy, you can name him after your Dad.

Rise up to the stage and start attending to house chores. She doesn’t need to be stressed at this point.

What if he doesn't want her to have the baby?

Do the right thing. Denie it not sure the spelling is correct but you know what am saying

And no be you impregnate am , Yes Or No

READING THIS YOUR CONFESSION... IT'S VERY OBVIOUS THAT YOU ARE A CONFAM SIMP

REALITY IS THAT YOU ARE NOT YET A MAN AND SHE SEES THIS

WHAT I REALLY FIND SO FOOLISH ABOUT YOU IS THE FACT THAT YOU KNOW VERY WELL THAT SHE FOKS AROUND YET YOU STILL FOKED HER RAW

IF YOU DOUBT THE PREGNANCY IS YOURS YOU CAN ALWAYS DO A DNA TEST

HER BEING PREGNANT IS THE LEAST OF YOUR WORRIES RIGHT NOW CAUSE THERE'S A HIGH PROBABILITY THAT SHE HAS HIV AND SHE HAS PASSED IT ON TO YOU SINCE SHE IS A CONFAM DISTRIBUTOR

All these long epistle on top woman head.
I thought u guys said women were no good?

Hold on for atleast a month then go for an ultrasound..


It's faintly positive ..

Aleem26:
Na still same guy...with the same story

I told this asshole that she was soon going to pin pregnancy on him. He didn't believe me. This one won self destruct by force.

I feel sorry for you

What are you into? As in, what you currently do

Do not tell me you are any of these:

Office assistant, dispatch rider, hustler, handwork person, low-key freelancer, office driver, uber or bolt driver, tailor, barber, private security or marketer. People in these profession always have issues with men. They can go at great length to please their girl friend.

DeclanR:
I'm really confused right now.
I met a lady I thought we would build our lives together, but later on, I noticed she isn't worth it.
She's not someone to Trust. The relationship was built on lies. She lies a lot. And also acts suspicious. This is why I'm doubting if I'm responsible for her pregnancy.

The first day I asked her out, and the second time we were seeing ever, I got home, we began chatting, she began making demands on me that she was hungry and craving for Draw soup and Semo to eat. I ignored her. I didn't send anything.
A month after, I learnt she's a single mother.

Again, she did abortion and denied it. Of course I wasn't responsible for it, since I was yet to sleep with her. I saw that she used her phone to search about "Abortion pills" on Facebook A.I. she claimed a friend of hers used her own phone to search it. I requested for the friend's number & called. But the friend denied it. The friend said she has an Android phone, so if she wanted to type such, she would do so with her phone and not on someone else's phone. My babe was seriously sick at that point & couldn't go to work for a week. She was throwing saliva everywhere. It was later she claimed she was on a 6-Month family planning. Why would a single lady be on family planning?
Again, I can't touch her phone. Her phone is a privacy. But same lady came into my house, grabbed my torchlight phone and began reading my messages and going through my contacts. I caught her, I asked, and she said "Is it not just a torchlight phone. What's in there?
Whenever she's with me, she won't pick her calls and wouldn't allow me see who the caller's are. I complained. She moved from that to switching off her phone and claiming that her battery was low, but immediately we part ways, her phone miraculously gets ON without having to charge it first. I complained, she again moved to putting the phone on flight mode, I still caught her. The last one was Barring all incoming calls. I was always ahead of her, so I could always catch off guard. Her reason for all these, according to her, was because she doesn't want incoming calls to disrupt or disturb the moments we are together.
She will post pictures of clothes on her WhatsApp status and ask her contacts viewing same Status to buy same clothes for her. I saw this as an attempt to invite guys into her DM. All these are signs of a disloyal girlfriend. And each time I complain, she says I complain too much.
The last straw was when I accidentally saw her call log & noticed that a particular caller was always calling her, she even calls the caller most times. I confronted her and she said there is nothing going on between her and the caller and that the caller is a married man with kids. She went further to say that the man has being so helpful to her and that if she's in danger or need today, the man will always come through for her, even before me, her guy. I was so so shocked. That moment, I politely sent her outta my house. Her friend started calling and apologizing on her behalf. But I told her I wouldn't be able to continue with the relationship due to this act and several other acts which I consider inimical and detrimental to my mental health.
Before now, each time we had issues, she would message me saying " I'm praying I don't get pregnant".
I'm really sad that it has resulted in pregnancy and I'm not the one to suggest abortion. If in th end, I discover she's actually pregnant, she will have to keep it. But we can't cohabit. I'll take full responsibilities.
She hates to apologize whenever she's wrong. Since the moment she noticed I loved her and I had no other lady aside from her, she began to misbehave. Always making senseless financial demands on me. Rude and disrespectful.

If she misbehaves and I confront her, she'll get aggressive and defensive, she'll slam my door, take her bag and leave. There was a day she did this, I was running after her to give her transport fare, I was even without a shirt, I was trying to wear my shirt while running after her, I began calling her name to stop and wait for me, but she ignored me in fact, she never looked Back. I felt so embarrassed in the public.
There's no quality In her that suggests she's good. There are so many shortcomings of hers which I can't write here.

I intend inviting her over and conducting this test again, at least, twice. Then take her to the hospital and do it again to know the duration of the pregnancy. I only just started sleeping with her towards the end of November. I slept with her last, two weeks ago and we dated for five months.

you be funny person. When we chatted on WhatsApp I told you to let that girl go. I told you that she was going to soon pin pregnancy on you. You didn't listen. See yourself now? Shebi we agreed that you'd free her. Omo guy why you dey do like say you be pikin?

Modified. Going back to our chat you even claimed to have blocked her. Omo enjoy your misery. I took the time out to explain everything I went through so you no go fall maga. You still messed up. Omo.

I feel sorry for you

What are you into? As in, what you currently do

Do not tell me you are any of these professions:

Office assistant, dispatch rider, hustler, handwork person, low-key freelancer, office driver, uber or bolt driver, tailor, barber, private security or marketer. People in these profession always have issues with women. They can go at great length to please their girl friend why behaving like mugu

DeclanR:
I'm really confused right now.
I met a lady I thought we would build our lives together, but later on, I noticed she isn't worth it.
She's not someone to Trust. The relationship was built on lies. She lies a lot. And also acts suspicious. This is why I'm doubting if I'm responsible for her pregnancy.

The first day I asked her out, and the second time we were seeing ever, I got home, we began chatting, she began making demands on me that she was hungry and craving for Draw soup and Semo to eat. I ignored her. I didn't send anything.
A month after, I learnt she's a single mother.

Again, she did abortion and denied it. Of course I wasn't responsible for it, since I was yet to sleep with her. I saw that she used her phone to search about "Abortion pills" on Facebook A.I. she claimed a friend of hers used her own phone to search it. I requested for the friend's number & called. But the friend denied it. The friend said she has an Android phone, so if she wanted to type such, she would do so with her phone and not on someone else's phone. My babe was seriously sick at that point & couldn't go to work for a week. She was throwing saliva everywhere. It was later she claimed she was on a 6-Month family planning. Why would a single lady be on family planning?
Again, I can't touch her phone. Her phone is a privacy. But same lady came into my house, grabbed my torchlight phone and began reading my messages and going through my contacts. I caught her, I asked, and she said "Is it not just a torchlight phone. What's in there?
Whenever she's with me, she won't pick her calls and wouldn't allow me see who the caller's are. I complained. She moved from that to switching off her phone and claiming that her battery was low, but immediately we part ways, her phone miraculously gets ON without having to charge it first. I complained, she again moved to putting the phone on flight mode, I still caught her. The last one was Barring all incoming calls. I was always ahead of her, so I could always catch off guard. Her reason for all these, according to her, was because she doesn't want incoming calls to disrupt or disturb the moments we are together.
She will post pictures of clothes on her WhatsApp status and ask her contacts viewing same Status to buy same clothes for her. I saw this as an attempt to invite guys into her DM. All these are signs of a disloyal girlfriend. And each time I complain, she says I complain too much.
The last straw was when I accidentally saw her call log & noticed that a particular caller was always calling her, she even calls the caller most times. I confronted her and she said there is nothing going on between her and the caller and that the caller is a married man with kids. She went further to say that the man has being so helpful to her and that if she's in danger or need today, the man will always come through for her, even before me, her guy. I was so so shocked. That moment, I politely sent her outta my house. Her friend started calling and apologizing on her behalf. But I told her I wouldn't be able to continue with the relationship due to this act and several other acts which I consider inimical and detrimental to my mental health.
Before now, each time we had issues, she would message me saying " I'm praying I don't get pregnant".
I'm really sad that it has resulted in pregnancy and I'm not the one to suggest abortion. If in th end, I discover she's actually pregnant, she will have to keep it. But we can't cohabit. I'll take full responsibilities.
She hates to apologize whenever she's wrong. Since the moment she noticed I loved her and I had no other lady aside from her, she began to misbehave. Always making senseless financial demands on me. Rude and disrespectful.

If she misbehaves and I confront her, she'll get aggressive and defensive, she'll slam my door, take her bag and leave. There was a day she did this, I was running after her to give her transport fare, I was even without a shirt, I was trying to wear my shirt while running after her, I began calling her name to stop and wait for me, but she ignored me in fact, she never looked Back. I felt so embarrassed in the public.
There's no quality In her that suggests she's good. There are so many shortcomings of hers which I can't write here.

I intend inviting her over and conducting this test again, at least, twice. Then take her to the hospital and do it again to know the duration of the pregnancy. I only just started sleeping with her towards the end of November. I slept with her last, two weeks ago and we dated for five months.

Imagine dey try. A girl with these rubbles was laid by without protection. O big you don't even love yourself. Abeg go for STD first and co firm you are safe before any other thing. What is this?

duduade:
To the real owner of this story,

After going through all these you still continue doing it without protection with her... After the advice given to you was to disembark ... Anyway at 27 you still young

You be real simp of 2025

You need deliverance

Invite her again, give her PT test strips to go to the toilet and run it again... Go to hospital and run it ...
Anyway just know that you need to be saving money for DNA sha

Mod
I knew the first part of the story was familiar 😂 😂 So the single mother finally hook you... You are a big big muumuu

A single mom tht could not hook the father of her first child.

Just that the guy is so inexperienced.

She’s right you complain a lot, you are sprunged and nothing anyone here will say will make a damn difference, you go still do wetin you wan do.

DeclanR:
I'm really confused right now.
I met a lady I thought we would build our lives together, but later on, I noticed she isn't worth it.
She's not someone to Trust. The relationship was built on lies. She lies a lot. And also acts suspicious. This is why I'm doubting if I'm responsible for her pregnancy.

The first day I asked her out, and the second time we were seeing ever, I got home, we began chatting, she began making demands on me that she was hungry and craving for Draw soup and Semo to eat. I ignored her. I didn't send anything.
A month after, I learnt she's a single mother.

Again, she did abortion and denied it. Of course I wasn't responsible for it, since I was yet to sleep with her. I saw that she used her phone to search about "Abortion pills" on Facebook A.I. she claimed a friend of hers used her own phone to search it. I requested for the friend's number & called. But the friend denied it. The friend said she has an Android phone, so if she wanted to type such, she would do so with her phone and not on someone else's phone. My babe was seriously sick at that point & couldn't go to work for a week. She was throwing saliva everywhere. It was later she claimed she was on a 6-Month family planning. Why would a single lady be on family planning?
Again, I can't touch her phone. Her phone is a privacy. But same lady came into my house, grabbed my torchlight phone and began reading my messages and going through my contacts. I caught her, I asked, and she said "Is it not just a torchlight phone. What's in there?
Whenever she's with me, she won't pick her calls and wouldn't allow me see who the caller's are. I complained. She moved from that to switching off her phone and claiming that her battery was low, but immediately we part ways, her phone miraculously gets ON without having to charge it first. I complained, she again moved to putting the phone on flight mode, I still caught her. The last one was Barring all incoming calls. I was always ahead of her, so I could always catch off guard. Her reason for all these, according to her, was because she doesn't want incoming calls to disrupt or disturb the moments we are together.
She will post pictures of clothes on her WhatsApp status and ask her contacts viewing same Status to buy same clothes for her. I saw this as an attempt to invite guys into her DM. All these are signs of a disloyal girlfriend. And each time I complain, she says I complain too much.
The last straw was when I accidentally saw her call log & noticed that a particular caller was always calling her, she even calls the caller most times. I confronted her and she said there is nothing going on between her and the caller and that the caller is a married man with kids. She went further to say that the man has being so helpful to her and that if she's in danger or need today, the man will always come through for her, even before me, her guy. I was so so shocked. That moment, I politely sent her outta my house. Her friend started calling and apologizing on her behalf. But I told her I wouldn't be able to continue with the relationship due to this act and several other acts which I consider inimical and detrimental to my mental health.
Before now, each time we had issues, she would message me saying " I'm praying I don't get pregnant".
I'm really sad that it has resulted in pregnancy and I'm not the one to suggest abortion. If in th end, I discover she's actually pregnant, she will have to keep it. But we can't cohabit. I'll take full responsibilities.
She hates to apologize whenever she's wrong. Since the moment she noticed I loved her and I had no other lady aside from her, she began to misbehave. Always making senseless financial demands on me. Rude and disrespectful.

If she misbehaves and I confront her, she'll get aggressive and defensive, she'll slam my door, take her bag and leave. There was a day she did this, I was running after her to give her transport fare, I was even without a shirt, I was trying to wear my shirt while running after her, I began calling her name to stop and wait for me, but she ignored me in fact, she never looked Back. I felt so embarrassed in the public.
There's no quality In her that suggests she's good. There are so many shortcomings of hers which I can't write here.

I intend inviting her over and conducting this test again, at least, twice. Then take her to the hospital and do it again to know the duration of the pregnancy. I only just started sleeping with her towards the end of November. I slept with her last, two weeks ago and we dated for five months.

That girl is not yours. She belongs to the street and has been on the street for a long time

You cannot change her but she can destroy you


What you just describe is a classical Lagos Street girl. You also find them on the streets of Port Harcourt and other large Cities

These girls are always single when you approach them but they have more boyfriends that you have fingers

I got disgusted at some point reading this & had to stop.

Una dey date oo

From the write up, the girl is definitely an Olosho, a hook up girl and runs girl. Y would you even get entangled with a chronic liar and a cheat in the first place? Maybe na because of her tow tow and physique. If you eventually marry this girl she go kill u Aje!

Ladies use pregnancy to extort guys of money, don't fall it. She even said what we are going to do. She expect you to agree to abortion so that she will collect abortion money to finish off detty December. Be wise.

And didn't you say she has been searching for how to abort using AI. Probably not your child if she's truly pregnant. Seems this your babe got this her format from my ex or they know each other. Baba, run for your life.

Oisagbai78:
From the write up, the girl is definitely an Olosho, a hook up girl and runs girl. Y would you even get entangled with a chronic liar and a cheat in the first place? Maybe na because of her tow tow and physique. If you eventually marry this girl she go kill u Aje!

I can't believe he is still asking for advice.

Silentgroper:
Hold on for atleast a month then go for an ultrasound..


It's faintly positive ..

That girl wants to collect abortion money to travel and have fun with the father of her child for crossover.

duduade:
To the real owner of this story,

After going through all these you still continue doing it without protection with her... After the advice given to you was to disembark ... Anyway at 27 you still young

You be real simp of 2025

You need deliverance

Invite her again, give her PT test strips to go to the toilet and run it again... Go to hospital and run it ...
Anyway just know that you need to be saving money for DNA sha

Mod
I knew the first part of the story was familiar 😂 😂 So the single mother finally hook you... You are a big big muumuu

How is 27 year old young?
Someone in his late 20s?

You Dey notice things like this, still you Dey chook your pr!ck… with no protection o

Nna ehn, kundus to you and yours

HacheNoire:
You should be checking for the prices of baby food and diapers at this point.

I personally will advice that you go with Enfamil and Huggies! Those will be a good start up for your first child.

With regard to Antenatal, I will suggest you make her enroll as soon as possible and start making plans to buy all other necessary items.

Also, avoid buying gender based item. Wait for the gender to be determined before you start purchasing those.

Start thinking of make and female names you adore. I will suggest you name her after your mum, and if it’s a boy, you can name him after your Dad.

Rise up to the stage and start attending to house chores. She doesn’t need to be stressed at this point.

very calm devilish adviser

pook:
That girl wants to collect abortion money to travel and have fun with the father of her child for crossover.

She fit dey whyne op ..


E get how Dem dey do am this days..

Just go do scan to really confirm..

I enjoy your very creative writing style OP.

'The Many Contentious Issues I Am Having With My Girlfriend' - Romance - Nairaland
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You are one of her surviving means, but you are the biggest giver, never trust a single mother

muyico:
Congratulations 👏🎉 to you
Accept ur fate

💯 Simp. Simping into 2026

DeclanR:
I'm really confused right now.
I met a lady I thought we would build our lives together, but later on, I noticed she isn't worth it.
She's not someone to Trust. The relationship was built on lies. She lies a lot. And also acts suspicious. This is why I'm doubting if I'm responsible for her pregnancy.

The first day I asked her out, and the second time we were seeing ever, I got home, we began chatting, she began making demands on me that she was hungry and craving for Draw soup and Semo to eat. I ignored her. I didn't send anything.
A month after, I learnt she's a single mother.

Again, she did abortion and denied it. Of course I wasn't responsible for it, since I was yet to sleep with her. I saw that she used her phone to search about "Abortion pills" on Facebook A.I. she claimed a friend of hers used her own phone to search it. I requested for the friend's number & called. But the friend denied it. The friend said she has an Android phone, so if she wanted to type such, she would do so with her phone and not on someone else's phone. My babe was seriously sick at that point & couldn't go to work for a week. She was throwing saliva everywhere. It was later she claimed she was on a 6-Month family planning. Why would a single lady be on family planning?
Again, I can't touch her phone. Her phone is a privacy. But same lady came into my house, grabbed my torchlight phone and began reading my messages and going through my contacts. I caught her, I asked, and she said "Is it not just a torchlight phone. What's in there?
Whenever she's with me, she won't pick her calls and wouldn't allow me see who the caller's are. I complained. She moved from that to switching off her phone and claiming that her battery was low, but immediately we part ways, her phone miraculously gets ON without having to charge it first. I complained, she again moved to putting the phone on flight mode, I still caught her. The last one was Barring all incoming calls. I was always ahead of her, so I could always catch off guard. Her reason for all these, according to her, was because she doesn't want incoming calls to disrupt or disturb the moments we are together.
She will post pictures of clothes on her WhatsApp status and ask her contacts viewing same Status to buy same clothes for her. I saw this as an attempt to invite guys into her DM. All these are signs of a disloyal girlfriend. And each time I complain, she says I complain too much.
The last straw was when I accidentally saw her call log & noticed that a particular caller was always calling her, she even calls the caller most times. I confronted her and she said there is nothing going on between her and the caller and that the caller is a married man with kids. She went further to say that the man has being so helpful to her and that if she's in danger or need today, the man will always come through for her, even before me, her guy. I was so so shocked. That moment, I politely sent her outta my house. Her friend started calling and apologizing on her behalf. But I told her I wouldn't be able to continue with the relationship due to this act and several other acts which I consider inimical and detrimental to my mental health.
Before now, each time we had issues, she would message me saying " I'm praying I don't get pregnant".
I'm really sad that it has resulted in pregnancy and I'm not the one to suggest abortion. If in th end, I discover she's actually pregnant, she will have to keep it. But we can't cohabit. I'll take full responsibilities.
She hates to apologize whenever she's wrong. Since the moment she noticed I loved her and I had no other lady aside from her, she began to misbehave. Always making senseless financial demands on me. Rude and disrespectful.

If she misbehaves and I confront her, she'll get aggressive and defensive, she'll slam my door, take her bag and leave. There was a day she did this, I was running after her to give her transport fare, I was even without a shirt, I was trying to wear my shirt while running after her, I began calling her name to stop and wait for me, but she ignored me in fact, she never looked Back. I felt so embarrassed in the public.
There's no quality In her that suggests she's good. There are so many shortcomings of hers which I can't write here.

I intend inviting her over and conducting this test again, at least, twice. Then take her to the hospital and do it again to know the duration of the pregnancy. I only just started sleeping with her towards the end of November. I slept with her last, two weeks ago and we dated for five months.

My brother, with own experience, mind you, you are not the owner of that pregnant o. So, don't take what isn't yours please. And she only wanted to force it on you. Moreover, you need deliverance abeg. So, that you won't get broke always,since you had slept on someone else pregnancy. You can chat me up on 09055654526.

You goofed big time. You know she lacks the quality of a good girl and you went ahead to knackered her.

You weren't diligent and disciplined enough.

Anyway, you really need to go to the hospital for another PT and prenatal DNA.

Omo...I no envy you o

But wiser men above me have given you better advice.

The only thing I can say that you are a little but careful and that's something to be said in relation to girl's. But then still be careful so that she doesn't end DORIS-OGALA-ING YOU 😎