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FreeIgboho:
Just don't get too close to your mates you are doing better than. Be friends with your mates doing better than you (if you can stand the depression). They'll never poison you but it's not fun

Well, I don't imagine myself going to lagos and not going out with my friends. But I mean its crazy world

jiggyman:
Well, I don't imagine myself going to lagos and not going out with my friends. But I mean its crazy world

If you're doing better than them just be careful. Especially if you're still trying to break out of that pack

Mrfixitt:
Stop yarning trash. The level of evil perpetrated in Africa is never seen any where in the world.. You're a kid who has never seen anything if you argue this

Because Hitler didn't kill millions and all the evil colonialist didn't kills million and mutilated thousands across Africa. Dey play. Don't get me started on the millions that were captured and taken into slavery by your white saints.

Mrfixitt:
Black people can't go far as a people because of their evil minds.

It is usually good to start by quoting your own part for good context before generalizing.

FreeIgboho:
Just don't get too close to your mates you are doing better than.

This;

Be friends with your mates doing better than you (if you can stand the depression). They'll never poison you but it's not fun

Then this. Why should his friends who are better than him associate with him whereas he should not associate with his friends he is better than?

Low trust society. So much fear everywhere.

Gerrard59:
This;


Then this. Why should his friends who are better than him associate with him whereas he should not associate with his friends he is better than?

Low trust society. So much fear everywhere.

Because they don't have his awareness from this advice.
Besides, I didn't say he should not associate with them, I said he should not get too close to them!

** BTW one of the hidden secrets of success is to be genuinely happy for your mate doing better than you. But it's very hard because you know everybody will be comparing you and them!