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| Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by kolafolabi(op): 2:02pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
Every December 31st, a familiar ritual unfolds across Nigeria. Roads stay busy late into the night, churches overflow, mosques are filled, and many Nigerians make deliberate efforts to ensure they “cross over” into the New Year within a place of worship. For many, being in church or mosque as the clock strikes midnight on January 1 is seen as spiritually significant, almost compulsory. But the question remains: does crossing over in church or mosque really matter? For believers, crossing over is symbolic. It represents gratitude for survival through the outgoing year and hope for divine protection, favour, and guidance in the year ahead. In a country weighed down by economic hardship, insecurity, and uncertainty, faith provides comfort and reassurance. However, spirituality should not be reduced to a single night. Faith, whether Christian or Muslim, is meant to be lived daily through integrity, discipline, compassion, and responsibility. Spending January 1 in a place of worship does not automatically guarantee success or protection, just as missing a crossover service does not condemn anyone to misfortune. Interestingly, while Nigerians passionately debate and prioritise crossover services, major national issues often pass with little public scrutiny. From January 1, new tax policies are set to take effect, beginning with systems like the National Revenue Service (NRS). These policies will directly affect livelihoods, businesses, and household income, yet there is little public conversation, resistance, or demand for accountability. This contrast is troubling. We are quick to defend religious practices but slow to question governance, policy decisions, and economic reforms that shape daily survival. Many who passionately fill religious centres are also victims of corruption, poor leadership, and weak institutions, yet silence prevails where collective civic action is most needed. My take is simple: crossing over only matters when faith translates into consciousness, courage, and responsibility. Religion should not be an escape from reality or a shield for corruption. True faith should empower citizens to question injustice, demand transparency, and live ethically, both in private and in public life. Ultimately, the New Year does not reward where you stood at midnight. It responds to awareness, preparation, and action. Whether one crosses over in a church, a mosque, at home, or at work, what truly matters is how one lives from January 1 onward. Faith without accountability is ritual. Religion without responsibility becomes noise. Hope without action changes nothing. Thank you.
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| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by Bruno3000(m): 8:18pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
Ño it doesn't. Be grateful every day. |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by 12345baba(m): 9:29pm On Dec 31, 2025*. Modified: 9:53pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
It doesn't and will never matter. God dey ur house. |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by oluwaseyi0: 9:29pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
just like birtday it doesn't matter but it's a fun day |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by Smartjeezy01(m): 9:29pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
Happy new year to you all. All the platforms give back to the people with lot of goodies but nairaland case is different. 😂😂😂 Na joke o |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by kolafolabi(op): 9:30pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
It’s unnecessary and misleading, turning faith into mere ritual rather than genuine belief and moral living. Happy New Year in Advance. |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by Smartjeezy01(m): 9:30pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
Nigerian are very funny people especially the drunk ones at the cross over night. |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by Kingsasian(m): 9:30pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
Doesn't matter, it is between you and your God |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by dermmy(m): 9:31pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
I am in my house. Just finished cooking rice. I won chop make I go sleep after. |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by Jennyclay(f): 9:31pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
Happy new year in advance dear Nairalanders |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by Tayorshd87(m): 9:31pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
Happy new year in advance
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| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by buttlover(m): 9:32pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
It's a popular thing done by humans so it is accepted as the right thing to do. But I'm on my bed still trying to figure out how to be saving money in my box. 2026 might be a year of banklessness. |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by Dimuche: 9:32pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
It doesn't matter. Just a mare ritual. Some will still not make it beyond that 1st January despite crossing over in church or mosque. |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by BigYash: 9:32pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
The one when dey vex me pass na those that will be shouting RESOLUTION. Before mid day of that 1st ,them don still go back to their old ways |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by Holluwhakemmy(f): 9:34pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
Yes it matters to commit the new year journey into the hard of God. Happy New year in advance |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by femi4: 9:35pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
It is irrelevant Its man made...you can cross over anywhere. If you are lazy or can't work smart, you will still be poor in 2026 |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by 9jaBloke: 9:36pm On Dec 31, 2025*. Modified: 3:59am On Jan 01 |
Not to me. Well, different strokes. Worshipping God in spirit and in truth matters more. 2025 was my year of thanksgiving 🙏🙏 2026, my year of praise 🙌🤸♂️💃🕺🎶 |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by Goodadvice01(m): 9:37pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
Not at all. Na bandwagon effect dey worry Nigerians |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by 89green: 9:38pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
If you crossover for mosque, you dey waste your time cos Islaam doesn't recognise all these unnecessary stuffs. By the way, what's the difference between tonight and tomorrow 🤔 |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by RollinTNDA: 9:38pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
The only thing that matters in crossover night is the pastors bank account. First fruit of the year First sacrifice of the year First tithe of the year. First seed of the year First thanksgiving of the year First offering of the year. Pastor will collect it immediately you crossover
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| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by orikoku: 9:39pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
No different from other days. |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by WesKiz: 9:40pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
Watin concern Muslim with cross over abi u dey m*d ni which one be cross over Abi na cross river Muslim don’t celebrate new year so if u dey talk cross over and the river no drag Muslim name enter am If u see any Muslim with cross river night abeg those one na Christian wey dey pretend to be Muslim all of them na una member ok Say no to new year and say no to Xmas |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by Goldbw122(m): 9:41pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
It does not matter ooo me just dey house like this oooo.. |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by helinues: 9:41pm On Dec 31, 2025*. Modified: 10:12pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
Sorry I don't have energy to burn or make myself vulnerable all in the name of cross over night Modified: Moreover, we already celebrated the new year just some mins ago. Already in new year, na to stay focus remain |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by Hellisreal70: 9:41pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
It matters if you are a genuine born again child of God. You need to commit your ways in the new year into the hands of God. The times and days in this end time are full of evil, and Jesus Christ says that it is only those that are protected by God that are safe from all evil. Look at what just happened at great insurance building when it is only few hours to new year, also what happened to AJ friends. Every creatures of God needs God. |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by Goldbw122(m): 9:41pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
89green:Is just another day... I don't know why they are hyping everything . 🤔 |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by McDoe(m): 9:42pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
I will do my crossover at home. Infact, that gives me a greater concentration and it reinforces my belief in my Creator. Crossover has become a ritual to bloat the purses of worship houses and their pastors |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by Gadaffi9ja(m): 9:42pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
If u like go cross over for shrine, it changes nothing, alaye you got double ur hustle ni o |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by Uchesis: 9:43pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
Tayorshd87:Some girls go sleep for their boyfriend house this night after crossing-over for church. The tax-man go still collect him tax from tomorrow whichever way you "crossed-over" ![]() |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by Tayorshd87(m): 9:46pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
Uchesis:I dey tell you bro 😂😆 Infact some na prayer warrior for church yet na him boyfriend house him dey sleep |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by Flexyup: 9:46pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
Some people cross over in their various ancestral shrines apeasinng their altars. I am & will always cross over in my own altar that's my church. |
| Re: Does Crossing Over In Church Or Mosque Really Matter? by Angelfrost(m): 9:46pm On Dec 31, 2025 |
Lol... How many times are we going to thrash this matter?!! Well, the answer is simple: It matters to those it matters to, and doesn't matter to those it doesn't matter to. No one is wrong... You do what feels right with you. |
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