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Well I chase success for my own benefit not to share my harvests with unknown women who are clearly around to parasite.

AlphaBoy:
I’ve been seeing this narrative online, especially from Gehgeh, where he says once a man becomes successful or starts making money, plenty girls will suddenly want to sleep with him or be his girlfriend.
According to him, success attracts women automatically, even without effort. Some people agree strongly with this, while others say it’s an exaggeration or hyped up

So do you think success truly makes women chase men? .

Every chase is for some reasons

I see some people in the comment trying to separate a man rom his financial value.
The truth is you can't as far women are concerned.

Money is the primary thing that attracts a woman to a man because money solves problems. Then comes other things such as character, beauty etc.

Even cuppy wey she and her papa get money dey only go for rich guys.
Tiwa nko? Na rich boys wey fit give her boat ride she dey find.
Women love comfort and comfort can only be provided with money. Tommysparks says so.

Kobojunkie:
There are a type of girls that may chase you — prey on you for obvious reason—, but to say that women(generally) chase you as in truly desire you when you become rich? Nah! That only happens in the delusions of men who have low self-esteem issues. 🥱🥱🥱

Story, no go hustle,if 10 girls stand on the road and a Range Rover came at the same time as a corolla, the whole 10 of them will jump in the range rover if given the chance.
If you have a duplex girls will love that over you who is renting a sefcon.
Will a girl opt to go to Ikorodu instead of banana island?

budaatum:
No, I don't think "success truly makes women chase men".

What I do think is the supposed success of many men and the corresponding finances it puts in their pockets is what some women chase, while fooling the men it is them that are being chased. And once those women have taken all those men have, which incidentally is easy to do by flashing t¹t at him, they not only stop chasing those men, they abandon those men too.

You are trying to apply science where it does not apply.

I see many tongue twisting themselves just to sound woke and enlightened...At OP, money attracts women 100+1% of the time especially Nigerian women.
When money attracts a lot of them, you can then wisely select one with divine wisdom and understanding.

Don't be fooled...

Kobojunkie:
There are a type of girls that may chase you — prey on you for obvious reason—, but to say that women(generally) chase you as in truly desire you when you become rich? Nah! That only happens in the delusions of men who have low self-esteem issues. 🥱🥱🥱

Yeah majority women. Don't judge from one standpoint.
I was very disappointed when I got to know this. It's like that in many damaged society, the ladies are in serious business for survival and not for love.
Now I don't have a problem with that, let's just enjoy ourselves and move on.

Kobojunkie:
There are a type of girls that may chase you — prey on you for obvious reason—, but to say that women(generally) chase you as in truly desire you when you become rich? Nah! That only happens in the delusions of men who have low self-esteem issues. 🥱🥱🥱

Every narrative is sbaped from personal experience. A backlog of relationship mishaps have taken you to realms of delusions, denials and hate.

When you have money, you'll have many friends; both male and female. All of the "many" friends are flocking around you for their personal gains and nothing more....

Everyone of them will use whatever they have to get what they want from you.
Some will be extremely nice towards you to earn your trust.
Some will offer you excitement and satisfaction including S3x.
Some are looking for your weak points to exploits it.
Some ladies only want to make at least a baby with you.... They will consummate their agenda in the future.... Ask 2baba and Whizzy about these kind of ladies

This topic is very deep especially for rich, young and naive niggas.

very true. attention tripled when i left nigeria

Bro that's y u have to work hard to make it,even actress marrying poor guys on movie don't try that on real life,that's y Reginald and moyol giv in to those guys, normally poor guys can only dream but can't have it,imagine somadina has such money Reginald go use her clear eye enter that even if her mama want so,bro money attract ladies,not just ladies even ladies with potential and have something doing not leech,that's y wen you travel out of foreign land and took pics u will see number of dm, from girls way no send u wen are in Nigeria, hustle bro,even dangote no fit or otedola no go fit giv out her daughter to any kind of personality

Yes ooo! Even mothers will be struggling and fighting to collect your contacts for their daughters

Kobojunkie:
There are a type of girls that may chase you — prey on you for obvious reason—, but to say that women(generally) chase you as in truly desire you when you become rich? Nah! That only happens in the delusions of men who have low self-esteem issues. 🥱🥱🥱

Lolz, be poor and let check it out.

Not only women, quality men too will want to be your friends when you are rich. Nothing in this contemporary world better than being wealthy.

Is it true that if you have bananas monkeys will chase after you?

Kobojunkie:
There are a type of girls that may chase you — prey on you for obvious reason—, but to say that women(generally) chase you as in truly desire you when you become rich? Nah! That only happens in the delusions of men who have low self-esteem issues. 🥱🥱🥱

u wey d live on nairaland
nothing to do
Over 40 don d chop u finish small small

Yes that's true because like

Wizzy baby you will get MAYA, like

Davido you will get FIRE and like

Tiwa savage they will beg you MALO.

Talking from experience 👌.

Who no like better thing na
Even if you are as fugly as a Shrek
The minute money 🤑 dey you become wanted

You only need to read about King Solomon to know. 300 wives and 700 sidechicks no be play

It is your success that they want. Not you

1000percent true. Check people like Kevin Hart, Ngolo Kante and one other Senegalese player like that

It's a normal thing for a man or woman to aim higher in life... But both must engage their energies towards success.
Who wants a life of mediocrity?...you must love yourself to love others.
Success is not personified... Anyone can be successful. All human love success. It's like a magnet.

Some people have money and don't show it to avoid fake attractions.

It's normal, but it will be hard for you to know who truly loves you

The idea that "women run after successful men" while "unsuccessful men run after women" implies women are passive pursuers of high-value men and low-value men desperately chase any woman. Evidence partially supports the first part but contradicts the second.

Kobojunkie:
There are a type of girls that may chase you — prey on you for obvious reason—, but to say that women(generally) chase you as in truly desire you when you become rich? Nah! That only happens in the delusions of men who have low self-esteem issues. 🥱🥱🥱

You lied. You are not being truthful to yourself. I know you are good with words, you use them to twist narrative and I see what you just did. I clap for your double standard. Tell me any woman that’s not hyper hypergamous in nature and woman that’s not attracted to a powerful and successful man (high-value man)?

AlphaBoy:
I’ve been seeing this narrative online, especially from Gehgeh, where he says once a man becomes successful or starts making money, plenty girls will suddenly want to sleep with him or be his girlfriend.
According to him, success attracts women automatically, even without effort. Some people agree strongly with this, while others say it’s an exaggeration or hyped up

So do you think success truly makes women chase men? .

That is largely true,by the time the ladies notice you getting a nice ride,good clothes,decent abode n sign of cash been thrown around,they begin to hover around you, it's just like pouring sugar where there are no ants, within a short period of time the ants will miraculously appear,in the film of the 80s titled SCARFACE,the lead actor Tony MONTANA made a profound statement,he said,'in this world you need to get the money, when you get the money,the women would keep coming",you can experiment it if. You are successful,get yourself a fine car,get good clothes n accessories, don't be randy but just make yourself visible n watch the reaction of the ladies around you.

AlphaBoy:
I’ve been seeing this narrative online, especially from Gehgeh, where he says once a man becomes successful or starts making money, plenty girls will suddenly want to sleep with him or be his girlfriend.
According to him, success attracts women automatically, even without effort. Some people agree strongly with this, while others say it’s an exaggeration or hyped up

So do you think success truly makes women chase men? .

No human being living on earth, be it in New York, Adelaide, Beijing, Tokyo, Paris, etc should ask this question.


Even the Holy Bible said money answereth all things. It went further to say that money is a defense.


People eliminate people, do ritual, kidnap others, lie, betray, backstab others and trick others just to make money and you are here asking if being financially successful attracts women to men? You should answer the question yourself.


If your own sister brings home a broke guy as her would be husband and another of your sisters brings home another guy that came to your house in a convoy of exotic cars, brought so many goodies and bought your parents a car and gave you a 1million naira as New Year gift, tell me which of the suitors would you advice your sister to go for?



In theory, women will tell you they will never fall for a man's wealth, in practical, you will see the truth.

Women hate it when you tell them their sins or mistakes or follies, stop bringing topics like this online, just hustle and make money and find out yourself please.



Next!

symbianDON:
You only need to read about King Solomon to know. 300 wives and 700 sidechicks no be play

It's 700 wives and 300 side chicks

Behind every successful man there's a woman even if she doesn't loves him but loves his money.

One cripple wey get small money don collect my guy babe before🤣

thomas2024:
You lied. You are not being truthful to yourself. I know you are good with words, you use them to twist narrative and I see what you just did. I clap for your double standard. Tell me any woman that’s not hyper hypergamous in nature and woman that’s not attracted to a powerful and successful man (high-value man)?

Don't blame the lady you quoted for her response, it's a typical response to this meaningless question.


Why would any sensible human being living on earth ask this kind of careless question to start with?


Generally, women hate it when you tell them their mistakes or follies, you don't do that, all these boys are just shooting themselves on the leg.


Who doesn't like success and financial riches? Even the guy asking this question, doesn't he like to see successful young men more than broke guys?


This is common sense na.


How do you want Monkey to admit that it likes Banana?



How do you expect ladies to come to public domain like this and admit that they all like financially rich guys? If they admit that, same guys asking this dumb question will turn around to blame the same ladies that they are all gold diggers that only want financially successful guys.


He should hustle and become financially successful and find out if women would like him or not, sighs