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emmaodet:
Your happiness must come from within not external.
It must be internal.
List out things you will like to be doing regularly and work around it.
For me - i like going to the gym, swimming, cinemas, mini vacations, tours/events and i built my happiness around these.
All can be substituted for a cheaper alternative.
And while doing all these, i easily pick-up relationship with women if i want. It comes naturally from the activities i am doing anyway.
Also, a lunch or dinner with ladies occasionally is refreshing ( doesn't need to be expensive please)
You can meet up with a bottle of coke/hollandia yogurt and a pie. It doesn't have to bore a hole in your pocket.
And you gist, talk and laugh just like how you would have done with a male friend in a bar/beer parlour

emmaodet:
I attended a wedding febraury this year.
What saddens me is that a man processed UK visa for this lady in late 2023 and spent 15m to get it for her.
He is a UK based man trying to bring a good lady from home (Nigeria) abroad to make his wife.
I don't know how they met - maybe online or connection by friends.
15m in 2023 is roughly 25 to 30m in todays naira value. SO we can have an idea of what that man spent all in the name of Love and relationship.
Guess what?
Immediately the lady got the visa, she broke up with him Right here in Nigeria before even touching London.
This is not a nollywood script rather what happened within my circle.
And as if that is not bad enough, she got engaged and did introduction to a new man she met at the train station in UK just 6 months arriving there.
Can you imagine that?
Just 6 months of breaking up with someone who has spent 15m on you to come into that country and you are already dating and engaged.
People were dancing in the wedding hall because it was a virtual wedding. The couples only joined us online watching through projector while both families were in the hall with their guest, musician, foods and drinks etc
I only pity the new man. Only if he knows what the lady did to the last man before he came in. I am sorry but he better watch his back.

Rizzputin:
This is a great point. I've made this remark in the past many times.

The best way to learn about women is to copy/study/follow guys around you that are great women. Their mannerisms, vibes, words etc. Nothing will teach you faster than this.

When I started, while studying about pick up from my mentors... i went out with guys i knew that were doing well with women. Combined both what i studied with what they did and now I'm way better than all of them.

In fact, some of them are like "Bro teach me na. How did you just get good so fast" it was simple: I studied AND observed.

But there are TWO VERY IMPORTANT THINGS TO NOTE:


>>>>1) You have to know what you're looking out for.
A big reason guys will have friends that do great with women but still fail is because they have no clue about what works.

They dont what to copy OR why he's doing what he's doing. That's why after studying, YOU MUST practice. No amount of book reading will help you if you dont practice yourself

That way, you can compare what you're doing to what he's doing. For example, when he says a particular thing in a situation you've seen before ... your brain registers how and what he said. So when you see it again, you can test it

Seduction is A SKILL. If you dont treat it like one, you'll never get good


>>>>>>2) The women your friend is smashing have to be really good looking.

Each time I tell guys this they're quick to tell me: "Yes they're fine" BUT when I see the girls I'm always disappointed. No matter how much these guys promised me I wont be disappointed lol.

The reason for this is because you want to train your subconscious to enjoy beautiful women.

When I was really broke, the most common phrase my guys told me was "Guy you like going for things wey big pass you"

While they went for average women, I went for the hottest all the time.

You want to get used to beautiful women so you can see how NOT special they are

Lorayne:
I think learning these skills will help greatly only If you attractive.

Doesn't apply to unattractive men

Rizzputin:
You mentioned "attractive" . I believe you're referring to physical attraction.

When I started, I was slim af, broke as hell, and far from what you'd call attractive. Yet I STILL smashed loads of girls.

How? I focused on other attractive qualities women are drawn to.

You see, while physical attractiveness is helpful, women like other attractive qualities. When you display this, she FEELS it.

The only thing I'll say is that if you're physically unattractive, you have to seduce women differently from a good looking guy.

JESHAL007:
Growing up, I overheard my mum and other women saying that if a man can be sexually disciplined and master himself in that aspect, majority of his troubles with women have been solved. Thinking about this myself, I can tell you that sexual discipline will help you a lot, especially in your red pill journey and overcoming many female manipulations; it becomes obvious when you realise that the strongest weapon women have in breaking down your defences and controlling you is their sexuality and many men, great and ordinary, have fallen to this.

Forget what anyone might say, mastering yourself sexually is very possible. It doesn't mean you won't feel the urges, but such mastery simply consists in knowing that you are always in full control of your decisions despite the urges you feel.

JESHAL007:
See it's painful, but the other alternative which is very risky is locking up your heart and paying cheap prostitutes for sex which is expensive and cause diseases if you are not careful not saying your girlfriend can't give you disease but how can you win as a man, please let's ponder on these and ask ourselves what do we stand to gain from women, remember it's sex that driving us consciously and subconsciously, how can we win these gender war, what I know is that love and romance is a facade these age as women have abundance and harem of men so they can't fall in love deeply like us, how can we play these games with the least emotional and financial investment, women would always be costly if not in monetary terms but in valuable time, emmaodet how can we win

JESHAL007:
Please sir how can we win with regards to women as we pursue our ambition of wealth accumulation, should we be monogamous, monogamous with side chicks, monogamous with prostitutes, patronise only prostitutes, watch porn and masturbate only, be polygamous, cut off totally from women sexually and romantically, everything has its pros and cons, I need matured advice for young ambitious men who don't have enough experience in the game as they are still in their 20's

emmaodet:
If am to make a suggestion, I will say the easier way of getting sex is to move with a guy that easily bed women without using money.
I have 1 or 2 guys like that around me.
I don't know how they do it Agboola and Femi sleep with women like someone changing boxers.
They go to the bank, they will collect number.
Inside the cab, somehow they will strike conversation and collect number.
Just name it - church, school, street, anywhere.
Believe me, they will bed atleast 50% of them within a week.
A woman sent her younger sister to Agboola's wife. Unfortunately she didn't meet her at home and just by the door side, Agboola initiated conversation with her and within minutes banged the lady.
It was not premeditated, not planned by both.
Infact, as at that morning, there wasn't any plans of meeting her nor knowing her.
The Lady's aunt will not even think such will happen within that period nor will Agbo wife think of such.
These guys are just the messi and Ronaldo of women.
Add money to them and you have monsters ravaging women round the street.
If you move with such men, naturally you will pick up some traits from them and improve your skills with women

Gobengroup:
You're very right Boss, I love your bluntness. grin This is one of the reason I posted this here, I love how I'm beginning to see my mistakes from your drops.

She know I have girls, she have seen at least two with me. I'm in school area and a student, most of this girls are student and not around except three of us( although we have other couples living around).

She was very easy to laid, still don't know why I fvcked it up. She was those type of churchy girls that want to be exposed.

I would be lying if I said I didn't get the hint she might be with my friend or maybe they dated. I was controlling the dynamics of everything but lose my edge and I can understand it was my mistake. Not even making a simplest excuse. This girl always send her chats with my friend to me. My guy wasn't around then and was trying to manipulate her.(My guy wasn't around for months then). I knew it but I don't want to spoil my guy matter. My mistake was being available for her emotionally without trying to hit, no man should ever try this.

But reverse is the case now, my guy is chopping her low-key while acting nonchalant to her in my presence. I think she fears him and I'm weak to her because I already tolerated a lot. I also sensed my guy already knew me and the girl are very close and he's playing his game very well.


I knew my guy very well, we have been together for over a decades since early teenage years. I know almost everything about him, same thing applies to him also about me. Mere looking at him, I can read his mind and thought. He can read mine too.

The truth is, I was pitying her because she look naive to me forgetting that the naiveness won't last forever. I was bounce back to light few weeks ago when she came back after the semester holiday. I notice some things are off and I'm not wrong. This girl was still trying to get my attention despite being banged by my guy.

My conclusion is, my guy knew she was being fvcked by other guys and quickly acted. I'm even thinking he thought I have fvcked her many times already. This girl was being banged behind my back while I was pitying the pussy, I need a very big knock on my head. smiley Learnt my lesson already.

I have also decided to forget and ignore everything and moved on. I should have done so when I noticed my friend was interested. I initially thought of doing that but she was always on my neck.

I was banned on my other account

LifeofDream:
I don't know why I'm being banned whenever I try to give an update on this 👆..

Anyways, I hit already but need an advise on something..

Rizzputin:
Don't misspell words. Use smash or bang or medical parts or slangs like penis or blockos

JESHAL007:
@CaveAdullam, Martinez39s, Skepticus or ubunja and other knowledgeable redpillers, I want you guys to construct an essay on these because it has life and death implications for young men in their 20's and 30's, it can be a long essay or it can be in parts,please we all are affected by women to certain degree interacting with them or not, please help us dissect the pros and cons of the following above based on you guys understanding, it would contribute immensely to these thread and help we frequent readers,

CaveAdullam:
1. The problem is that many men who have come to the reality about female nature allow it to corrode their hearts with hatred or outright disdain for women. As a result of maltreatment in the hands of the woman they thought they loved, ignorance, or naivety.

2. A man and woman are destined by nature to live together. Nothing can change that evolutionary and biological predisposition. It's a must!

3. Knowledge of female nature makes it easier for you when dealing with women. If you still have symptoms of hate or anything related, it means the truth has not settled in your heart.

4. Take note: how you play the game of life is solely dependent on you. But the endgame of life is death.
So, in retrospect, there's no wrong or right way in living your life, because at the end of life is death, and after death, nothing. Provided you live a life not detrimental to your existence, legacy, and community at large.

5. The woman you choose or how you relate with women is dependent on you. Your purpose. Your ambition. Your vision. And how you play along the lines of morality and the conventional lens society used to see and judge us.

6. You can be promiscuous, monogamous, polygamous, playboy, and anything in between. Nothing wrong provided nobody is harmed and that's how you love to play your game.

7. However, as a man who's interested in a woman, you have not yet reached that stage of female domination if you have not been able to INSPIRE DEVOTION FROM THE WOMAN YOU ARE DEALING WITH.

Whether you are fucking one or multiple women, at a point in your life, you need to experience what GENUINE DESIRE from a woman entails. You need to be in a relationship where a woman is truly CRAZY IN LOVE WITH YOU AND ADDICTED TO YOU.

This is more than you fucking her at will. No. It's more than sex. It's about living rent-free in her psychology, emotions, her soul, and body. While she desires to please you every fucking time and day. Like your existence is her joy and purpose.

Unfortunately, the majority of men can never experience this. Damn!

8. Don't allow anybody to tell you otherwise. Such women exist and are in abundance. It depends on the kind of man that you are and the knowledge of female nature you have. And how far you're willing to go or wait to have such a woman.

Because the woman you choose is a reflection of you.

9. A woman devoted to you will inspire you to greatness. A woman can't stop you from growing if you know what you are doing + she's a well-refined woman.

Women are difficult to deal with for the average man because the average man doesn't know anything about female nature.

If you are a good man and will not settle for less, you'll meet a good woman and refine her to your taste. Your ambitions in life still remain intact and keep manifesting.

Happy New Year.

emmaodet:
If am to make a suggestion, I will say the easier way of getting sex is to move with a guy that easily bed women without using money.
I have 1 or 2 guys like that around me.
I don't know how they do it Agboola and Femi sleep with women like someone changing boxers.
They go to the bank, they will collect number.
Inside the cab, somehow they will strike conversation and collect number.
Just name it - church, school, street, anywhere.
Believe me, they will bed atleast 50% of them within a week.
A woman sent her younger sister to Agboola's wife. Unfortunately she didn't meet her at home and just by the door side, Agboola initiated conversation with her and within minutes banged the lady.
It was not premeditated, not planned by both.
Infact, as at that morning, there wasn't any plans of meeting her nor knowing her.
The Lady's aunt will not even think such will happen within that period nor will Agbo wife think of such.
These guys are just the messi and Ronaldo of women.
Add money to them and you have monsters ravaging women round the street.
If you move with such men, naturally you will pick up some traits from them and improve your skills with women

Kipaji:
What are their physical characteristics?

emmaodet:
Physical characteristics of what bro?

sabbiboi:
REAL LIFE mehn… The redpill has never been a lie.
I am grateful to be part of this movement.
If you don’t understand women you will suffer, lol.😂

Please, let’s keep this page alive for posterity sake. I believe only nairaland has got a long thread of dosage of red pills and real life tales to back up the stories. So don’t mind some douchebag that comes here to spit rubbish and derail the thread with their myopic views.

I check up here sometimes, take the dose and continue to apply them in life endeavors.

Funnily enough, women still win by settling down with a man at the end of their youthful exuberance. It’s just a win-win world for them, maybe, maybe not.