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muyico:
I gat the man blame
Body no be firewood

He should have found someone else.

So many red flags here.
Feel so sorry for the man.
I can help recover the sold properties if you can prove ownership, but it will be a long battle.
Wherever that man is, I hope he recovers.

Sonnobax15:

My fellow dear men, our bannies ex boyfriends are majorly our problem these days.

How? Why should you, a man care about such mundane matters?

What exactly do you want or expect from today's woman? Do you as a man believe you'll only get it by becoming a "married man?"

What's the gain of a man in all these relationships with women?

As for the OP, how on earth did the woman have access to the papers of his property to sell it of gbanjo price? Even if the account sounds somehow, e fit happen as some men no geh sense. Woman wey don born before, wey you meet online, you go come trust such strange principality with ya important documents?

They should goan sidon one place abeg...

g0ldenval:
i love when men are desperate
playing them gives me so much joy

Another damaged entity

Of all the beautiful women in Owerri, na second hand olosho he settled for? Ok nau. Eye don clear

Seeing Owerri and student----was enough for me.

At times, we fail to accept how our people really are, from whatever tribe. At least, better he found out early.

The girl's plan was to get abroad, bring her ex or baby father into the UK, and kick out the UK man.

Very sad.

kingthreat:
Japa with them na problem.
Japa leave them na still problem.
Men are reconsidering marriage these days because they stand to lose if it goes south.

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Marriage is over rated and the peace of a single life is greatly underestimated.

Thank God she didn't sell the house itself, the guy should pick it from there...or was it a rented apartment?

correctguy101:
How? Why should you, a man care about such mundane matters?

What exactly do you want or expect from today's woman? Do you as a man believe you'll only get it by becoming a "married man?"

What's the gain of a man in all these relationships with women?

As for the OP, how on earth did the woman have access to the papers of his property to sell it of gbanjo price? Even if the account sounds somehow, e fit happen as some men no geh sense. Woman wey don born before, wey you meet online, you go come trust such strange principality with ya important documents?

They should goan sidon one place abeg...

Not the property. She cleared the property in the house. I guess TVs, sofas, freezers, etc.

The lady na Anini in disguise.

Dude, the guy you quoted is not supporting women here.

He is saying that modern woman don't want to take responsibility. If as a man you fall victim, women and most men will still find a way to blame you. My opinion and yours won't change it. In 9ja of now, the victim takes the blame. We don sink very low.

Every dude should look after himself, because he is on his own,

alphonsojidebab:
UK-Based Nigerian Man Devastated as Wife Allegedly Sells His Properties, Disappears With Ex-Lover


https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/01/05/uk-based-nigerian-man-devastated-as-wife-allegedly-sells-his-properties-disappears-with-ex-lover/

Don't worry. The man she ran away with will eventually show her pepper - Then you will hear, men are scum, men are this and that....
Man, relax, it's her loss in the end.

g0ldenval:
i love when men are desperate
playing them gives me so much joy

Abeg dey help us teach dem lessons. Bitter lessons

olaiya2007:
Na why u need to do your due diligence b4 u marry any girl & not be blindfolded by love

As a simple rule, if it is worth hiding, it is also worth not entering.

We shouldn't sugar coat this scenario.. the signs have always been there but he chose to ignore.. He's a dumb ass simp!

alphonsojidebab:
UK-Based Nigerian Man Devastated as Wife Allegedly Sells His Properties, Disappears With Ex-Lover


https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/01/05/uk-based-nigerian-man-devastated-as-wife-allegedly-sells-his-properties-disappears-with-ex-lover/

I have said it countless times, if you are married to a single mother, in which her ex husband is still much alive, hail and hearty. Sorry is your second name.

I have no pity to spare for a man that dates a single mother. Whatever the single mother serve am, make him use earl grey tea wash am down.

Authoreety:
Umunwanyi....


I no know why this people's reasoning is just wierd

For real Bro.

Chikarata2020:
But marrying someone u just meet for only 6 months is kind of risky. The woman was just there for her selfish interest

Even the one uve dated for 7 yrs still has its own risk.

When a man agrees to marry, he puts himself in a position of disadvantage automatically!

symbianDON:
Something she's going to regret doing VERY VERY soon. The ex is a guyman who is simply using her as a launch pad....when he's got what he wants from her, he'll dump her like he did in the past cos he already knows she ain't loyal. Sometimes, women think men are fo.ols.

Unfortunately some men are. This particular man is a big fo.ol

djseanjohn77:
Don't worry. The man she ran away with will eventually show her pepper - Then you will hear, men are scum, men are this and that....
Man, relax, it's her loss in the end.

And the properties she already sold off?

WE ALWAYS WARN THESE FOOLS TO LEAVE SINGLE MOTHERS ALONE, BUT YOU ALWAYS THINK YOU'RE
DIFFERENT
SPECIAL
AND SMARTER.
Good for him
I love it when people learn their lessons the hard way.
You left all the millions of single girls in UK, to come and marry a Nigerian girl! A Nigerian single mother
Chai!
Unbelievable

kingthreat:
Japa with them na problem.
Japa leave them na still problem.
Men are reconsidering marriage these days because they stand to lose if it goes south.

They stand to lose regardless.

Sonnobax15:

My fellow dear men, our bannies ex boyfriends are majorly our problem these days.

Why shld a man be so pussiy-hypnotised?

How do men feel proud marrying a woman that other guys have baangd?

TOPCRUISE:
This sums up a danger of marrying a single mother. You know she was a single mother but you married her without doing diligent investigation on what led to their separation and if she still loves the father of her child.

Single mother, single babe o... all join abeg

You meet a tiktok girl
Knew she was a single mother
Married her after one month of physically meeting her
Left her in Nigeria
Hanty? Your brother is a very stupid man.

Dancebreaker:
Not the property. She cleared the property in the house. I guess TVs, sofas, freezers, etc.

The lady na Anini in disguise.

Dude, the guy you quoted is not supporting women here.

He is saying that modern woman don't want to take responsibility. if as a man you fall victim, women and most men will still find a way to blame you. My opinion and yours won't change it. In 9ja of now, the victim takes the blame. We don sink very low.

Every dude should look after himself, because he is on his own,

I see....

Your last statement is on point.

Some people are cursed to be poor for life.

That's definitely going to be the lot of the "errand boy."

I doubt the adulterer would fair any better.

Single mom again 😆😂 At this point men should do well to avoid them. You that you're thinking you're wise because she's not billing you yet, continue soon your eyes go clear. You think say you wise pass her baby daddy? All of us men go learn by force. Single moms are not even fit to be associated with. By single moms I mean women who bore their children out of wedlock. Before you misinterprete my post.