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Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by BUSHYANUS(op): 8:26pm On Jan 04

There was this married woman who used to call me very often. I wanted to test her if she was getting attached to me so I always said I had to tell her something. Anytime we spoke I would postpone this supposed message and she always asked me about it.One day, she asked me to get an item from her husband for her — when I delivered the item, she took me in her car and asked me about the message I had for her. I asked her to visit me in my house but she declined it and asked me to tell her what I had to tell her there and then.Then all of a sudden, she laughed out loud and asked "why do you love me? I will be hurt if you love me because you are my friend." I smiled and asked why she thought that. She was angry and said what message was it that I was still not able to tell her. I smiled and insisted I could not deliver the message there. She got angry but I asked her to call me anytime she was ready to visit me. For three months she never called me and I didn't call her. She called me on December 12, 2025 and I didn't answer. Today, she sent me a message " hi, if you will not look for me I will. Happy new year. Hope you're doing well?" I havent replied yet.

Did I do anything wrong?Why is she calling me after this long?Was she interested in me?How do I react now?
Should I reply her message? Why? What should I say?

NB: I am not interested in her

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by AqualinaXYZ: 8:31pm On Jan 04

This guy and woman topic

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Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by g0ldenval(f): 8:43pm On Jan 04

im married and text male friends
no big deal

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Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by eepeepook: 9:48pm On Jan 04

Them don recycle this story again? Fourth time I’m reading it. Nairaland ati engagement. I dey observe.

BUSHYANUS:
There was this married woman who used to call me very often. I wanted to test her if she was getting attached to me so I always said I had to tell her something. Anytime we spoke I would postpone this supposed message and she always asked me about it.One day, she asked me to get an item from her husband for her — when I delivered the item, she took me in her car and asked me about the message I had for her. I asked her to visit me in my house but she declined it and asked me to tell her what I had to tell her there and then.Then all of a sudden, she laughed out loud and asked "why do you love me? I will be hurt if you love me because you are my friend." I smiled and asked why she thought that. She was angry and said what message was it that I was still not able to tell her. I smiled and insisted I could not deliver the message there. She got angry but I asked her to call me anytime she was ready to visit me. For three months she never called me and I didn't call her. She called me on December 12, 2025 and I didn't answer. Today, she sent me a message " hi, if you will not look for me I will. Happy new year. Hope you're doing well?" I havent replied yet.

Did I do anything wrong?Why is she calling me after this long?Was she interested in me?How do I react now?
Should I reply her message? Why? What should I say?

NB: I am not interested in her

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Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by FreeSpirited: 10:25pm On Jan 04

Stop the immoral game you are playing.
It will only lead you to committing adultery with that woman. Leave her, stop tempting her. You are the real devil here.
The real devil. Your tactics is a seductive tactics and the fact that she dint call u for 3 months means she doesn't want to act on it, but because you have planted that evil seed of temptation in her with your delay and deflect tactics, shes now being lured to walk into the trap as you already subtly lured her on, she's not a baby. She knows your game. And you know what you are doing. You can't feign ignorance because you are only trying to lay the responsibility of blame on her through your hard to get tactics.
....
Stop it. Never invite her to your house because the chance that you will lay with her is 95-99%. Pls stop
Stop destroying people's marriage and complicating their emotions.
.
As a man quite experienced about these things, if you don't give signal to a married woman they will most time not come directly. And if they are the one giving you signals, turn a blind eye to the signal and reject it, don't act on it, don't play with it, best thing is to avoid such woman even though she's friendly , cut the friendship because it will only lead to one thing. Which is adultery.

Last year, I can't count how many married women gave me green light but I intentionally avoided it or acted dumb to it.....Many of them I cut ties when I realised my presence creates tension in them or makes them want to show subtle green light. I dint act on it... I try to distance myself... I dint take their number, and if I have their number , I dint message them unnecessarily.
.
You are a young man, what destroys a man the most is sexual sin. It's grave. It's real. Don't joke with your life and future. You've only got one. You can't escape from the repercussion if you try it. I know what I'm saying. The game may be fun and exhilarating, if you try it you can never be blameless

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Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by chatinent: 10:57pm On Jan 04

Conji-inspired fable.

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by BUSHYANUS(op): 11:21pm On Jan 04

chatinent:
Conji-inspired fable.

Not a fable

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by duduade(m): 6:52am On Jan 05

If you dey find sugar mummy
Just say it with your chest

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Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by Baronthecelebri(m): 8:41am On Jan 05

Sleep with her na, what are you waiting for

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by Bittersweetnig(m): 8:51am On Jan 05

BUSHYANUS:
There was this married woman who used to call me very often. I wanted to test her if she was getting attached to me so I always said I had to tell her something. Anytime we spoke I would postpone this supposed message and she always asked me about it.One day, she asked me to get an item from her husband for her — when I delivered the item, she took me in her car and asked me about the message I had for her. I asked her to visit me in my house but she declined it and asked me to tell her what I had to tell her there and then.Then all of a sudden, she laughed out loud and asked "why do you love me? I will be hurt if you love me because you are my friend." I smiled and asked why she thought that. She was angry and said what message was it that I was still not able to tell her. I smiled and insisted I could not deliver the message there. She got angry but I asked her to call me anytime she was ready to visit me. For three months she never called me and I didn't call her. She called me on December 12, 2025 and I didn't answer. Today, she sent me a message " hi, if you will not look for me I will. Happy new year. Hope you're doing well?" I havent replied yet.

Did I do anything wrong?Why is she calling me after this long?Was she interested in me?How do I react now?
Should I reply her message? Why? What should I say?

NB: I am not interested in her

This year you will kpai if you don't remove hand from married woman matter.

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by Belurved1(m): 9:18am On Jan 05

You're about to embark on a self-destruct journey in 2026.

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Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by BUSHYANUS(op): 9:35am On Jan 05

Belurved1:
You're about to embark on a self-destruct journey in 2026.

Ah why

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by Talkisneeded(m): 11:01am On Jan 05

You and women talks sha

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by drnoel: 11:16am On Jan 05

BUSHYANUS:
There was this married woman who used to call me very often. I wanted to test her if she was getting attached to me so I always said I had to tell her something. Anytime we spoke I would postpone this supposed message and she always asked me about it.One day, she asked me to get an item from her husband for her — when I delivered the item, she took me in her car and asked me about the message I had for her. I asked her to visit me in my house but she declined it and asked me to tell her what I had to tell her there and then.Then all of a sudden, she laughed out loud and asked "why do you love me? I will be hurt if you love me because you are my friend." I smiled and asked why she thought that. She was angry and said what message was it that I was still not able to tell her. I smiled and insisted I could not deliver the message there. She got angry but I asked her to call me anytime she was ready to visit me. For three months she never called me and I didn't call her. She called me on December 12, 2025 and I didn't answer. Today, she sent me a message " hi, if you will not look for me I will. Happy new year. Hope you're doing well?" I havent replied yet.

Did I do anything wrong?Why is she calling me after this long?Was she interested in me?How do I react now?
Should I reply her message? Why? What should I say?

NB: I am not interested in her

Na play play butterfly dey enter forest!!

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by Pious101: 11:25am On Jan 05

g0ldenval:
im married and text male friends
no big deal

Did u even read d OP message. U see a single guy flirting with a married woman and no big deal here.
The audacity of the OP to even invite a married woman to his home.
I don't blame the OP, it's d married woman who gave the OP the effrontery I blame.
Even wanting to test a married woman if she is attached to u? As what? Instead of u to flee U want to test, for what purpose?

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by Pious101: 11:29am On Jan 05

BUSHYANUS:
There was this married woman who used to call me very often. I wanted to test her if she was getting attached to me so I always said I had to tell her something. Anytime we spoke I would postpone this supposed message and she always asked me about it.One day, she asked me to get an item from her husband for her — when I delivered the item, she took me in her car and asked me about the message I had for her. I asked her to visit me in my house but she declined it and asked me to tell her what I had to tell her there and then.Then all of a sudden, she laughed out loud and asked "why do you love me? I will be hurt if you love me because you are my friend." I smiled and asked why she thought that. She was angry and said what message was it that I was still not able to tell her. I smiled and insisted I could not deliver the message there. She got angry but I asked her to call me anytime she was ready to visit me. For three months she never called me and I didn't call her. She called me on December 12, 2025 and I didn't answer. Today, she sent me a message " hi, if you will not look for me I will. Happy new year. Hope you're doing well?" I havent replied yet.

Did I do anything wrong?Why is she calling me after this long?Was she interested in me?How do I react now?
Should I reply her message? Why? What should I say?

NB: I am not interested in her

Let it be know to u that u re the channel Devil want to use to destroy that home....keep on with ur game . What goes around, comes around. I'm pretty sure u will get married one day and some how ur wife would be attached to male friend. U want to test a married woman, u don't have respect for the institution of marriage. Some of ona go just one dey put curse for ona head

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by tnerro1(m): 11:46am On Jan 05

Part of my new resolution be say na new holes I wan explor this year, all old holes have become old, new holes are what I want now, I don collect two numbers for magic land yesterday. Hope to explore at Least one new hole this week 😋😋😋

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Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by Exceed15: 11:48am On Jan 05

Stay away from married woman. The end is death o.

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by Julibet: 11:53am On Jan 05

FreeSpirited:
Stop the immoral game you are playing.
It will only lead you to committing adultery with that woman. Leave her, stop tempting her. You are the real devil here.
The real devil. Your tactics is a seductive tactics and the fact that she dint call u for 3 months means she doesn't want to act on it, but because you have planted that evil seed of temptation in her with your delay and deflect tactics, shes now being lured to walk into the trap as you already subtly lured her on, she's not a baby. She knows your game. And you know what you are doing. You can't feign ignorance because you are only trying to lay the responsibility of blame on her through your hard to get tactics.
....
Stop it. Never invite her to your house because the chance that you will lay with her is 95-99%. Pls stop
Stop destroying people's marriage and complicating their emotions.
.
As a man quite experienced about these things, if you don't give signal to a married woman they will most time not come directly. And if they are the one giving you signals, turn a blind eye to the signal and reject it, don't act on it, don't play with it, best thing is to avoid such woman even though she's friendly , cut the friendship because it will only lead to one thing. Which is adultery.

Last year, I can't count how many married women gave me green light but I intentionally avoided it or acted dumb to it.....Many of them I cut ties when I realised my presence creates tension in them or makes them want to show subtle green light. I dint act on it... I try to distance myself... I dint take their number, and if I have their number , I dint message them unnecessarily.
.
You are a young man, what destroys a man the most is sexual sin. It's grave. It's real. Don't joke with your life and future. You've only got one. You can't escape from the repercussion if you try it. I know what I'm saying. The game may be fun and exhilarating, if you try it you can never be blameless

Dude please, he didn't go to the altar and take an oath of exclusiveness with the woman. While a young man shouldn't lay with a married woman the married woman should protect her marriage by fleeing all appearances of evil.

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by kelechi50: 12:28pm On Jan 05

Are you sure you are not the one op is referring to.

g0ldenval:
im married and text male friends
no big deal

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by Samade7: 1:10pm On Jan 05

BUSHYANUS:
There was this married woman who used to call me very often. I wanted to test her if she was getting attached to me so I always said I had to tell her something. Anytime we spoke I would postpone this supposed message and she always asked me about it.One day, she asked me to get an item from her husband for her — when I delivered the item, she took me in her car and asked me about the message I had for her. I asked her to visit me in my house but she declined it and asked me to tell her what I had to tell her there and then.Then all of a sudden, she laughed out loud and asked "why do you love me? I will be hurt if you love me because you are my friend." I smiled and asked why she thought that. She was angry and said what message was it that I was still not able to tell her. I smiled and insisted I could not deliver the message there. She got angry but I asked her to call me anytime she was ready to visit me. For three months she never called me and I didn't call her. She called me on December 12, 2025 and I didn't answer. Today, she sent me a message " hi, if you will not look for me I will. Happy new year. Hope you're doing well?" I havent replied yet.

Did I do anything wrong?Why is she calling me after this long?Was she interested in me?How do I react now?
Should I reply her message? Why? What should I say?

NB: I am not interested in her

I pity ur life

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by Samade7: 1:12pm On Jan 05

g0ldenval:
im married and text male friends
no big deal

Only an irresponsible married woman continue to chat with different men, except if it is for business purposes.

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by Diamond098454(f): 2:18pm On Jan 05

Samade7:
Only an irresponsible married woman continue to chat with different men, except if it is for business purposes.

What about married man that keeps calling and chatting with a single girl? Is he also irresponsible?

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by Sandralight(f): 2:22pm On Jan 05

What exactly do you want??
She is married so nothing can happen, just forget about her or even block her, don't be a homewrecker.

Even if she is interested in you, it's falls on you to have the moral high ground

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by AKWATGOLD1(m): 3:56pm On Jan 05

She wanted to use you to catch cruise before but you have display your maturity to her now. She now wanted you badly. You did not do anything bad. You are on right track

BUSHYANUS:
There was this married woman who used to call me very often. I wanted to test her if she was getting attached to me so I always said I had to tell her something. Anytime we spoke I would postpone this supposed message and she always asked me about it.One day, she asked me to get an item from her husband for her — when I delivered the item, she took me in her car and asked me about the message I had for her. I asked her to visit me in my house but she declined it and asked me to tell her what I had to tell her there and then.Then all of a sudden, she laughed out loud and asked "why do you love me? I will be hurt if you love me because you are my friend." I smiled and asked why she thought that. She was angry and said what message was it that I was still not able to tell her. I smiled and insisted I could not deliver the message there. She got angry but I asked her to call me anytime she was ready to visit me. For three months she never called me and I didn't call her. She called me on December 12, 2025 and I didn't answer. Today, she sent me a message " hi, if you will not look for me I will. Happy new year. Hope you're doing well?" I havent replied yet.

Did I do anything wrong?Why is she calling me after this long?Was she interested in me?How do I react now?
Should I reply her message? Why? What should I say?

NB: I am not interested in her

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by CHIEFCHICKEN: 4:30pm On Jan 05

g0ldenval:
im married and text male friends
no big deal

Hahaha so that's the Bambiala always trolling me on your page😂
Lips like Ponmo

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by silibaba: 4:33pm On Jan 05

AqualinaXYZ:
This guy and woman topic

Guy wey no get level.

Married Woman chat am na big deal?

All this genZ

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by marlow1962(m): 4:46pm On Jan 05

This is to tell you how low and cheap a woman can be, even if she's married to the best man in the world. Fellas always check your spouse phone and don't condone any form of cheating, just like the one that said she keeps male friends and it's no big deal, imagine huh

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by sacajawea(m): 7:36pm On Jan 05

You don't deserve Her.
How I wish she sees who you are clearly-Truely/Finds a better deserving Lover.

Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by Samade7: 8:37pm On Jan 05

Diamond098454:
What about married man that keeps calling and chatting with a single girl? Is he also irresponsible?

All are irresponsible.

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Re: Married Woman Texts Me Again, Advise by Diamond098454(f): 9:16pm On Jan 05

Samade7:
All are irresponsible.

Good one

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