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After all my suffering in the university and upon graduation no work, I managed start up a business that is yielding fruit after 4 years of hardworking, someone will come and set me ablaze in name of marriage. Someone that I am footing all her bills including starting a business for her.

Odingo1:
➜After all my suffering in the university and upon graduation no work, I managed start up a business that is yielding fruit after 4 years of hardworking, someone will come and set me ablaze in name of marriage. Someone that I am footing all her bills including starting a business for her.

You are responsible for getting yourself to safety when you are in a threatening situation. Paying her bills does not change this fact. So, you need to decide whether you are ready to get away from possible danger and choose yourself over this marriage. 🥱🥱

There are some poison that kills small small, your enemy won't die until the next 3 year , you will just fall sick, and people will think your enemy died of natural death ...

You open a lab for her which means she's a medical student. You are living with what will kill you last last. If everything you've said is true and you didn't add anything to it.

What she showed you is preamble ... Once she has a child , if the child is a male child forget it , you are gone .

Odingo1:
I need an opinion, I live in 1 bedroom room flat, room and parlour with dining of 800k per year, the landlord recently increased it to 1m but my wife insisted that we move to another room and parlour that is smaller and far from town only that the house have POP design at 1.6 million. I told her that the place we are staying is better and we can save 600k then unprovoked she said she have finished making arrangements with the other house that I must pay the money that day. To my greatest surprise she started physically pushing me around, bring out our wedding pictures and throw on it the bed and went to kitchen looking for kitchen knife. She was looking for kitchen knife but couldn’t take it finally but went for a lighter and threatened to use fuel and lit 🔥 the house. She bring out all my bag and ask me leave the house or she will smash all my belongings including labtops and phone. Is a shock to me, yet to recover. Note I am a sole provider in the union, she contribute nothing, I gave her monthly upkeep of 120k, I take care of every Damm expenses in the house. I started a lab business for her with 3 m. The marriage is about 10 months, no kid yet. We have not have major issues except minor issues which we resolve.
I haven’t involved families yet, I want see opinions first, mod pls front page.

Sirchiboy:
Bird of the same feather.
I pity that innocent man that will keep you in the house in the name of a wife

See mentality


People are making money in oil sector and this one is in NL talking about marriage

My goals is in Petroleum products Marketing COMPANY (PPMC)

Not marriage

Pity yourself

everythingtall3:
There are some poison that kills small small, your enemy won't die until the next 3 year , you will just fall sick, and people will think your enemy died of natural death ...

You open a lab for her which means she's a medical student. You are living with what will kill you last last. If everything you've said is true and you didn't add anything to it.

What she showed you is preamble ... Once she has a child , if the child is a male child forget it , you are gone .

Hmm nawaoo, what will make someone go to such an extent after being good to the person. Is well sha, I have to quit. I did not add anything, rather I cut the story short. I struggled hard to retrieve the lighter from her hand because she is attempting to go for the fuel in the Gen tank.

Diamond098454:
See mentality


People are making money in oil sector and this one is in NL talking about marriage

My goals is in Petroleum products Marketing COMPANY (PPMC)

Not marriage

Pity yourself

You have declear war.
Get ready for it

Diamond098454:
So you remember Diamond💎💎 because of my controversial comments
But forgot to wish me happy new year

Mcslize

You're blessed.

Odingo1:
I need an opinion, I live in 1 bedroom room flat, room and parlour with dining of 800k per year, the landlord recently increased it to 1m but my wife insisted that we move to another room and parlour that is smaller and far from town only that the house have POP design at 1.6 million. I told her that the place we are staying is better and we can save 600k then unprovoked she said she have finished making arrangements with the other house that I must pay the money that day. To my greatest surprise she started physically pushing me around, bring out our wedding pictures and throw on it the bed and went to kitchen looking for kitchen knife. She was looking for kitchen knife but couldn’t take it finally but went for a lighter and threatened to use fuel and lit 🔥 the house. She bring out all my bag and ask me leave the house or she will smash all my belongings including labtops and phone. Is a shock to me, yet to recover. Note I am a sole provider in the union, she contribute nothing, I gave her monthly upkeep of 120k, I take care of every Damm expenses in the house. I started a lab business for her with 3 m. The marriage is about 10 months, no kid yet. We have not have major issues except minor issues which we resolve.
I haven’t involved families yet, I want see opinions first, mod pls front page.

my dear, say no more.

Follow my advise, leave the house and do it urgently.

Don't say a single word to her. Before you leave, try and record some of her actions and even say how she threatened you with arson. Now leave the house and move to a close friend or better still an hotel, block her line and make sure she is not allowed in your office.

Let her take care of herself for two weeks , watch and see if her brain will reset within this two weeks, if she is remorseful, forgive her , warn her sternly , limit some things and move on but if she is not , guy you are on your own. You never marry me that.

I love marriages but not to the extent of you losing your life to one crazy woman. What is now the essence of that marriage ?

Adaisback:
my dear, say no more.

Follow my advise, leave the house and do it urgently.

Don't say a single word to her. Before you leave, try and record some of her actions and even say how she threatened you with arson. Now leave the house and move to a close friend or better still an hotel, block her line and make sure she is not allowed in your office.

Let her take care of herself for two weeks , watch and see if her brain will reset within this two weeks, if she is remorseful, forgive her , warn her sternly , limit some things and move on but if she is not , guy you are on your own. You never marry me that.

I love marriages but not to the extent of you losing your life to one crazy woman. What is now the essence of that marriage ?

Thanks for your advice, well noted, I doubt if she can change because if she mellow down at any other provocation she can attack, that is my headache now, I have forgiven her but how can someone hold lighter in her hand threatening to light someone up with fuel over disagreement.

Odingo1:
Thanks for your advice, well noted, I doubt if she can change because if she mellow down at any other provocation she can attack, that is my headache now, I have forgiven her but how can someone hold lighter in her hand threatening to light someone up with fuel over disagreement.

give her space like I said earlier , send no money during this time and watch her reaction. What you see or notice during this period will automatically give you the push or stop button. You will not lose your life for trying to be a good husband

Adaisback:
give her space like I said earlier , send no money during this time and watch her reaction. What you see or notice during this period will automatically give you the push or stop button. You will not lose your life for trying to be a good husband

Ok let me do that because I am still funding her that is why she felt that what she did doesn’t have weight. I have try to engage her for her to explain to me the reason why she did that, she only told me that she have already apologised that I am the one that allow the devil by rejecting her proposal.

Odingo1:
Ok let me do that because I am still funding her that is why she felt that what she did doesn’t have weight. I have try to engage her for her to explain to me the reason why she did that, she only told me that she have already apologised that I am the one that allow the devil by rejecting her proposal.

you did no wrong dear. You are on the right this time around and apology is not enough as she is still claiming right