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Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by alphonsoolajide(op): 7:45am On Jan 06

A Nigerian lady has reportedly called off her engagement after discovering a Facebook comment made by her fiancé which appeared to justify infidelity, sparking conversations online about values, trust, and red flags in relationships.

The story was shared by Iruoma Chikaodinaka, who took to Facebook to narrate the incident involving her colleague. Eyes Of Lagos reports,

According to Iruoma, her colleague decided to end the relationship after seeing a comment her fiancé made on Facebook, where he reportedly suggested that a man cheating should not be enough reason to end a marriage, as long as he provides for his family.

The comment reportedly alarmed the woman, raising concerns about the man’s beliefs and what the future of the marriage might look like.

Iruoma explained that her colleague’s senior brother came across the comment, took a screenshot, and sent it to her, warning that the relationship was unlikely to succeed if the engagement continued.

She wrote:

“My colleague too returned an engagement ring after she saw the comment of her fiancé saying a man cheating shouldn’t be the reason for a marriage to end as far as he takes care of his family very well, that women like making something out of nothing. My colleague’s senior brother saw the comment, screenshot it and sent it to her, telling her the relationship/marriage will never work.”

Following the advice, the woman reportedly returned the engagement ring and called off the wedding plans.

Iruoma said she shared the story while reacting to another trending relationship issue on social media, where a man reportedly cancelled his wedding after disagreeing with a comment made by his fiancée on the popular “Ada Igbo” story.

The post has since generated widespread reactions, with many social media users debating whether online comments should be treated as serious relationship red flags

https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/01/06/lady-calls-off-engagement-fiance-defended-cheating/

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by Nobody: 7:50am On Jan 06

Someone just farming for likes and engagement.
🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by Akwamkpuruamu: 8:36am On Jan 06

She never tire for her papa house shaa

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by allen113: 8:36am On Jan 06

Fake story

No more characters to add.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by HydraFeeds(m): 8:37am On Jan 06

Enough reason to break up ,even if you cheat ,which is bad enough,you must never admit it publicly or else it will diminish your partner .

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by pocohantas(f): 8:37am On Jan 06*

I like that it is her brother that sent it to her and cautioned her on the downsides of a community husband, because men know the truth, they only hate to hear it from women.

naijapikin2:
Good girl.. just watch as one fo0lish men will come and bash her.

Cheating both ways is wrong.

One of the reasons I'm divorcing my wife...

Interesting part is, if she marries him and complains of cheating tomorrow, same guys bashing her would say she was aware, but married him out of desperation or because of money. While ignoring "good guys".

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by GanagiBitrus: 8:37am On Jan 06

Let him sue her. No be only women sabi sue men for broken marriage promises.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by Fiscus105(m): 8:37am On Jan 06*

How many fiancees that doesn't know their rivals now?

Are we not in era in which girlfriends would know 4 to 7 other girls her boyfriend his dating, infact, she will be boasting, .... I'm the real girl/fiancee, others are just wasting their time.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by naijapikin2(m): 8:38am On Jan 06

Good girl.. just watch as one fo0lish men will come and bash her.

Cheating both ways is wrong.

One of the reasons I'm divorcing my wife...

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by simpleseyi: 8:38am On Jan 06

Very good lady. Very very good

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by simpleseyi: 8:39am On Jan 06

naijapikin2:
Good girl.. just watch as one fo0lish men will come and bash her.

Cheating both ways is wrong.

One of the reasons I'm divorcing my wife...

.
Look at a post from a non foolish man whose wife just dumped but posted here that he is divorcing her

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by GorillaApp(m): 8:39am On Jan 06*

pocohantas:
I like that it is her brother that sent it to her and cautioned her on the downsides of a community husband, because men know the truth, they only hate to hear it from women.

The man dodged a bullet.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by ify2016: 8:39am On Jan 06

The way Some ladies behave eh. Though that's her choice. Background check will shocked you what she has done in the past.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by SixSeven: 8:40am On Jan 06

Story. When the family is not involved in the process, na Facebook ring light dem go de share with us. Whatever happened to family introduction and interaction. Ring ko, lord of the rings ni. We better stop this oyinbo practice and give our children sense about marriage...

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by Klomente: 8:40am On Jan 06

[quote author=alphonsoolajide post=138036441]https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/01/06/lady-calls-off-engagement-fiance-defended-cheating/[/quote People should be careful what they post on the internet, what you think is life today maybe hell for you tomorrow

Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by NothingDoMe: 8:41am On Jan 06

Very very fake story. Just break off engagement just like that? Nah.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by Belurved1(m): 8:41am On Jan 06

If this girl no con see another suitor, she go ves for her brother o.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by Racoon(m): 8:41am On Jan 06

Nice one lady otherwise that is the ordeal waiting for you in his house of moral infidelity

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by pocohantas(f): 8:41am On Jan 06

GorillaApp:
R
The fiance dodged a bullet.

Very true. He should go marry someone else.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by Offpoint1: 8:41am On Jan 06

Will end up marrying a chronic cheater... Women don't like outright true. That's why playboys get more cookies than guys who are real.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by Rilwayne001: 8:43am On Jan 06

Dated a girl that told me checking her phone is a no no, even in marriage.

Na tthere I know say this can’t work.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by 12345baba(m): 8:44am On Jan 06

The lady never ready to marry.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by Peng12345: 8:45am On Jan 06

The sun is not hot

If you believe the above statement then you also believe this story

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by shogosco: 8:46am On Jan 06

Love don't cost a thing

I don't have much character to give. You can ask from the next commentator below me!

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by ppogba: 8:47am On Jan 06

Discovery made.

Marriage cancelled.

So, what is there to discuss on Nairaland?

Na new year be dis oo.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by ElGenio39: 8:47am On Jan 06

Ok, her lost another lady,'s win.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by sandra2025(f): 8:50am On Jan 06

alphonsoolajide:
https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/01/06/lady-calls-off-engagement-fiance-defended-cheating/

I bet you, the lady is not ready for marriage because of ordinary comment. Even her brother that screenshot the comment for her, is also cheating on his girlfriend/wife. Men are polygamous by nature.

The best thing she would've done is to caution her guy and make him reaffirm his love for her. She would soon turn to evening newspaper with a childish mentality.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Engagement After Fiancé Defended Cheating In Facebook Comment by Shedrack777: 8:51am On Jan 06

The fiancee's brother will do the same thing that the fiance comment. but look at him sending it to his sister to avoid him. what's nonsense
She'll still end up marrying someone that will cheat on her that is for sure

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