You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? - Romance (2)

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Poll: Should one be allowed to have access to their partners phone with no restrictions?

Yes 66% (4 votes)

No 33% (2 votes)

This poll has ended

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by brunobaba(m): 12:43pm On Jan 06

Guestmale:
Be truthful,is the unclothedness of your partner you have seen and not only seen but entered into not personal property.

It is and should not be touched by another party.

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by brunobaba(m): 12:44pm On Jan 06

Talkisneeded:
Your name is Bruno,why should I expect more…
Just joking tho Mr Fernandez

But i Dey touch your pim pim ,but I can’t touch your phone,Dey play ooo

LOL....My pimpim is my personal property,you need permission to touch it.

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by Konquest: 12:46pm On Jan 06

Dpsychologist:
You Can Touch Everything… Except the Phone?

Let’s be serious for a moment.

You can touch each other’s private parts without blinking.

You can see each other naked.

You can sleep on the same bed, share saliva, sweat, and body heat.

But once phone enter the matter…
Suddenly it’s “respect my privacy”

Ah ah.

So the same hand wey dey enter everywhere is now too holy to hold a phone?
The same eyes wey don see everything are now not “authorised” to see WhatsApp?

Let’s not deceive ourselves.

Privacy is important, yes.
But this selective privacy is funny. Very funny.

If someone can access your body but not your phone, then the phone is hiding more than the body. Simple.

Because phones don’t just carry pictures.
They carry:
• hidden conversations
• emotional affairs
• exes that “don’t mean anything”
• backups of lies

That’s why the phone is guarded like national treasure.

Truth is, many people don’t fear losing privacy.
They fear exposure.

If you truly have nothing to hide, a phone should not cause panic attack.

You may not give full access 24/7, but the moment your partner touches your phone and your spirit leaves your body… something is wrong.

You can’t be naked with someone and still be living double lives.

Either you’re in a relationship or you’re in a performance.

Choose one.

Class dismissed.

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by nick50(m): 12:47pm On Jan 06

Accessing someone's phone without his/her consent is an offence according to Nigerian constitution..respect people's privacy it's as simple as dat

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Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by AMI3(m): 12:57pm On Jan 06

Locking your phone may not mean u are cheating on ur partner.
What about if u are working in a place and your boss send u highly classified information base on trust.
Boom your partner who can not keep such information was with it and tomorrow the partner can use that against u emotionally.

Some information that somebody entrusted u with is not meant to be shared with anybody.

If somebody tells u don't touch my that doesn't mean the person doesn't love u.
It means the person just want to have that little privacy for himself.

U can not tell me that no matter how much u love your partner that u will tell him or her everything about your family members.

So don't get it wrong privacy doesn't mean the person is a cheat.
It means one should respect that one thing.

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Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by stasius: 1:00pm On Jan 06

It is not a must.

You can let him or her in on certain secrets but there are some stuff in your phone that are classified and confidential.

So if I am working in DSS or FBI WITH SOME CLASSIFIED INFO IN MY PHONE I SHOULD ALLOW YOU HANDLE IT AS YOU LIKE AND TREAT INFORMATION YOU FOUND OUT AS YOU Wish? Abi?
EXCEPT FOR INFIDELITY, ASSESS TO PHONE IS STRICTLY PRIVATE AND HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SEEING SOMEONE'S unclothedness. OYA GO AND GIVE ASHAWO YOUR PHONE NA BECAUSE SHE HAS SEEN YOUR unclothedness.

YOUR ANALOGY IS FLAWED!!!

MIND YOU, DEPENDING ON THE NATURE OF YOUR WORK, SOME INFORMATIONS ARE MEANT TO FOLLOW YOU TO YOUR GRAVE! SO STOP THE PSYCHE MANIPULATION!

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Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by Godmind2022(m): 1:01pm On Jan 06

This is unbelievers'world. For real believers, nothing to hide in the phone, absolutely nothing!

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Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by tnerro1(m): 1:04pm On Jan 06

Better leave that phone alone oo for your peace of mind, wetin wan cast go cast at the appointed time. Just Dey enjoy your self to the maximum while it lasts. Happiness is a personal choice.

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Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by 99thEnemy(m): 1:05pm On Jan 06*

Demetrix:
Any lady/guy you are dating that struggles their phone with you upon request, call that relationship off.
Speaking from experience.

What is a relationship that claims to be serious without trust?

The two are still strangers if there is none.

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Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by advanceDNA: 1:05pm On Jan 06

Bimpe29:
This topic is really controversial.

Phone houses a whole lot of data, information, secrets and highly classified information. .

Ehennn.... welldone... FBI, CIA, Interpol, EFCC, carrying highly classified information upadan

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Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by Babtunz: 1:10pm On Jan 06

Demetrix:
Any lady/guy you are dating that struggles their phone with you upon request, call that relationship off.
Speaking from experience.

Including the ones who delete their chat or worse, those who use disappearing messages.

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by Lukuluku69(m): 1:10pm On Jan 06

Dpsychologist:
You Can Touch Everything… Except the Phone?

Let’s be serious for a moment.

You can touch each other’s private parts without blinking.
You can see each other naked.
You can sleep on the same bed, share saliva, sweat, and body heat.

But once phone enter the matter…
Suddenly it’s “respect my privacy”

Ah ah.

So the same hand wey dey enter everywhere is now too holy to hold a phone?
The same eyes wey don see everything are now not “authorised” to see WhatsApp?

Let’s not deceive ourselves.

Privacy is important, yes.
But this selective privacy is funny. Very funny.

If someone can access your body but not your phone, then the phone is hiding more than the body. Simple.

Because phones don’t just carry pictures.
They carry:
• hidden conversations
• emotional affairs
• exes that “don’t mean anything”
• backups of lies

That’s why the phone is guarded like national treasure.

Truth is, many people don’t fear losing privacy.
They fear exposure.

If you truly have nothing to hide, a phone should not cause panic attack.
You may not give full access 24/7, but the moment your partner touches your phone and your spirit leaves your body… something is wrong.

You can’t be naked with someone and still be living double lives.

Either you’re in a relationship or you’re in a performance.

Choose one.

Class dismissed.

This is Deep.

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by ufotunang: 1:12pm On Jan 06

Demetrix:
Any lady/guy you are dating that struggles their phone with you upon request, call that relationship off.
Speaking from experience.

..can you allow your partner to touch your phone and have access to it

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by tpain121: 1:19pm On Jan 06

Dpsychologist:
You Can Touch Everything… Except the Phone?

Let’s be serious for a moment.

You can touch each other’s private parts without blinking.
You can see each other naked.
You can sleep on the same bed, share saliva, sweat, and body heat.

But once phone enter the matter…
Suddenly it’s “respect my privacy”

Ah ah.

So the same hand wey dey enter everywhere is now too holy to hold a phone?
The same eyes wey don see everything are now not “authorised” to see WhatsApp?

Let’s not deceive ourselves.

Privacy is important, yes.
But this selective privacy is funny. Very funny.

If someone can access your body but not your phone, then the phone is hiding more than the body. Simple.

Because phones don’t just carry pictures.
They carry:
• hidden conversations
• emotional affairs
• exes that “don’t mean anything”
• backups of lies

That’s why the phone is guarded like national treasure.

Truth is, many people don’t fear losing privacy.
They fear exposure.

If you truly have nothing to hide, a phone should not cause panic attack.
You may not give full access 24/7, but the moment your partner touches your phone and your spirit leaves your body… something is wrong.

You can’t be naked with someone and still be living double lives.

Either you’re in a relationship or you’re in a performance.

Choose one.

Class dismissed.

who says not allowing someone else to touch your phone is all about infidelity?

Mchewww.

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by Good2go1: 1:26pm On Jan 06

I don't think is good fkr married couple because each couple os supposed to know everything about each other. Incase of emergency or evetuality the other partner is suppose to provide on information that is required.

okomile:
Rules at home

Don't touch my phone and I will not touch you're

Even if it rings,ignore it

Respect boundaries

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by meobizy(m): 1:33pm On Jan 06

I won’t engage in this. I’m out.

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by Dpsychologist(op): 1:37pm On Jan 06

tpain121:
who says not allowing someone else to touch your phone is all about infidelity?

Mchewww.

Why are you sounding emotional like a woman

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by lenghtinny(m): 1:39pm On Jan 06

You can as well give a hooker unrestricted access to your phone since you’ve seen each other’s unclothedness using the Op’s logic….

Relationship these days is more of “ the more you look, the less you see”, so just hope for the best but prepare for the worst.

If you come Dey look for the worst by yourself, anything wey your eye see, make you take am like that angry

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Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by lenghtinny(m): 1:42pm On Jan 06

Good2go1:
I don't think is good fkr married couple because each couple os supposed to know everything about each other. Incase of emergency or evetuality the other partner is suppose to provide on information that is required.

Not even the genes of identical twins are 100% alike

Even your parents are not allowed to know everything about you, not to talk of someone you don’t share a direct bloodline with

If you don’t gerrit, forget abourrit

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Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by Nobody: 1:44pm On Jan 06

In a relationship, not everything needs to be laid bare; some things are better kept private—think of it like Samson’s secret. Even the most intimate connection requires boundaries. Sex isn't a free pass to ignore consent or privacy. If I want to see something on your phone, I’ll ask, and if you agree, that’s fine. Just because you're intimate with someone doesn't mean their right to personal space disappears.

Let’s be honest: very few people are truly loyal these days. If you go searching through a phone, don't be shocked when you find exactly what you were afraid of. Constant snooping is just a sign of insecurity. If she’s not your wife, why the stress? Unless there’s a ring on her finger, leave the detective work alone—it only leads to unnecessary heartbreak.

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by MarketDispatch: 1:47pm On Jan 06

Demetrix:
Any lady/guy you are dating that struggles their phone with you upon request, call that relationship off.
Speaking from experience.

200%

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by MarketDispatch: 1:50pm On Jan 06

brunobaba:
It is and should not be touched by another party.

If you like don't check. They will call Sugar daddy "my uncle"' for you

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by ridwintin89(m): 2:20pm On Jan 06

okomile:
Rules at home

Don't touch my phone and I will not touch you're

Even if it rings,ignore it

Respect boundaries

Lol,if I cannot touch your phone forget marriage.

I cannot raise a bastard

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Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by QVicky10(f): 2:23pm On Jan 06

All this privacy this and that.
Even my normal friends have their fingerprint enabled on my phone and mine on theirs, talkless more of relationship.

It is far better to remain single than to stay in a relationship where you dont trust the partner you are with.

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Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by Akin4tado(m): 2:24pm On Jan 06

Lmao. Private part is a personal property but its being explored by partners. Whats mere phone??

brunobaba:
The phone is a personal property and should be seen as such.

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by Demetrix: 2:29pm On Jan 06

Babtunz:
Including the ones who delete their chat or worse, those who use disappearing messages.

Excatly!

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by brunobaba(m): 2:29pm On Jan 06

MarketDispatch:
If you like don't check. They will call Sugar daddy "my uncle"' for you

Very true,unfortunately.

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by Demetrix: 2:30pm On Jan 06

ufotunang:
..can you allow your partner to touch your phone and have access to it

Yes, when I make up my mind to date or marry.

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by Fonyen: 3:02pm On Jan 06

Op Na just bittered feminist.

Before u touch a partner don't u take permission, don't you get consent.

Every one deserves a part of their life they can deslcide not to let anyone know but una deluded head dey always think it's about relationships.

Useless and Baseless post

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by TheFreshVanilla: 3:30pm On Jan 06

This does not apply to everyone.

Re: You Can Touch Everything… Except The Phone? by AfonjaPriest: 4:26pm On Jan 06

My 4 wives do not pry into my phone to see anything.
What do they want to see?
To see if I'm chasing a lady?
When they are more than one?
That's not jealousy, that's being a busybody.
At any rate, I check their phones to be sure none is playing hanky-panky behind my back.
As a principle, I don't trust anything, not even my women!

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