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Dpsychologist:
You Can Touch Everything… Except the Phone?

Let’s be serious for a moment.

You can touch each other’s private parts without blinking.
You can see each other naked.
You can sleep on the same bed, share saliva, sweat, and body heat.

But once phone enter the matter…
Suddenly it’s “respect my privacy”

Ah ah.

So the same hand wey dey enter everywhere is now too holy to hold a phone?
The same eyes wey don see everything are now not “authorised” to see WhatsApp?

Let’s not deceive ourselves.

Privacy is important, yes.
But this selective privacy is funny. Very funny.

If someone can access your body but not your phone, then the phone is hiding more than the body. Simple.

Because phones don’t just carry pictures.
They carry:
• hidden conversations
• emotional affairs
• exes that “don’t mean anything”
• backups of lies

That’s why the phone is guarded like national treasure.

Truth is, many people don’t fear losing privacy.
They fear exposure.

If you truly have nothing to hide, a phone should not cause panic attack.
You may not give full access 24/7, but the moment your partner touches your phone and your spirit leaves your body… something is wrong.

You can’t be naked with someone and still be living double lives.

Either you’re in a relationship or you’re in a performance.

Choose one.

Class dismissed.

Truly, the value you bring determines a lot of things. BRING REAL VALUE and you will successfully implement the necessary reasonable rules and boundaries that women say they can never take or stand. These boundaries are for your self-protection and sanity. Women control sex mainly. Men control long term commitment.

My rules are clear and as much as you hear women come here to claim superwomen, please pay no attention to them. Online people come to rant and mouth off how they dont and wont accept this and that....

My dating rules are simple. YOU CAN NOT TOUCH MY PHONE, BUT I WILL TOUCH AND HAVE ACCESS TO YOURS. Simple.

If you do not accept this, then I have nothing to do with you. You can only do shakara for low self-esteem, sex starved men. In all my dating life, I have not seen a lady who said ''No, I dont accept this rule''. NOT ONE!!! This boundary and all other critical boundaries like posting thirst traps on social media, doom-scrolling all day, etc.

Bring Value. Real Value. They will comply. And if they lie that they would comply and fail to do so, do not hold back to ensure full consequences.

opeldavid:
This issue is deep.

There are things you really don't wanna know for the sake of peace and your mental health.

why would you want to spend your life with such a person bruh? Lmao.

Talkisneeded:
Your name is Bruno,why should I expect more…
Just joking tho Mr Fernandez


But i Dey touch your pim pim ,but I can’t touch your phone,Dey play ooo

folks just funny for here. Na dem dey end up with woman wey go sell their properties abscond with their lover.

tnerro1:
Better leave that phone alone oo for your peace of mind, wetin wan cast go cast at the appointed time. Just Dey enjoy your self to the maximum while it lasts. Happiness is a personal choice.

at the appointed time when you as a man don spend all your resources ontop one prostitute finish?

Truth be told. It's only those that have something to hide that denied their partners from touching their phones.

Demetrix:
Any lady/guy you are dating that struggles their phone with you upon request, call that relationship off.
Speaking from experience.

God bless you

My wife knows my password and do have free access to my phone likewise I to hers, that does not stop me from doing what I want to do, I do with respect and honor codedly . Relationship is mutual respect.

Omeyi
Will rather die
Dan allow u touch her phone

Tenrack:
at the appointed time when you as a man don spend all your resources ontop one prostitute finish?

Bro if you dey spend and wetin you dey get in returns no reach, abeg find another business relationship

Demetrix:
Yes, when I make up my mind to date or marry.

....so you have not dated a girl before?

ufotunang:
....so you have not dated a girl before?

Just once, the rest na just close Bleep buddies.

The one I know will delete all chats and leave phone available like say nothing dey. Person dey see rubbish for woman hand shaaa.

Demetrix:
Just once, the rest na just close Bleep buddies.

.so did you all them to have access to your phone

ufotunang:
.so did you all them to have access to your phone

No sir they don't, I as well do not have access to theirs and I don't care.

Demetrix:
No sir they don't, I as well do not have access to theirs and I don't care.

.na just to chop and go you do to them?🙄

ufotunang:
.na just to chop and go you do to them?🙄

Not just that, feelings dey involved from their end but no dating.

Demetrix:
Not just that, feelings dey involved from their end but no dating.

.feelings in the other room 🙄

APC brannnnlesss rat go see wonder...were

helinues:
Privacy should be respected in a relationship.

I don't have anything to hide on my phone, I dont even use lock self but that doesn't mean my partner can just access my phone anyhow without asking for permission

Some informations/details about some things might not be mature to tell anyone including partner. That's the privacy part of my own phone

Dpsychologist:
You Can Touch Everything… Except the Phone?

Let’s be serious for a moment.

You can touch each other’s private parts without blinking.
You can see each other naked.
You can sleep on the same bed, share saliva, sweat, and body heat.

But once phone enter the matter…
Suddenly it’s “respect my privacy”

Ah ah.

So the same hand wey dey enter everywhere is now too holy to hold a phone?
The same eyes wey don see everything are now not “authorised” to see WhatsApp?

Let’s not deceive ourselves.

Privacy is important, yes.
But this selective privacy is funny. Very funny.

If someone can access your body but not your phone, then the phone is hiding more than the body. Simple.

Because phones don’t just carry pictures.
They carry:
• hidden conversations
• emotional affairs
• exes that “don’t mean anything”
• backups of lies

That’s why the phone is guarded like national treasure.

Truth is, many people don’t fear losing privacy.
They fear exposure.

If you truly have nothing to hide, a phone should not cause panic attack.
You may not give full access 24/7, but the moment your partner touches your phone and your spirit leaves your body… something is wrong.

You can’t be naked with someone and still be living double lives.

Either you’re in a relationship or you’re in a performance.

Choose one.

Class dismissed.

That thing you de find inside the phone, e de inside. Lol

They're different school of thoughts on this.
However, they're some data that are highly classified (don't get me wrong).
A Bossom friend's privacy he entrusted you with, could be in there via chats or other channels. It could be health related, family related, his or her past, etc.

Don't compare sexuality with equipment or device like a phone!

Lets try the new poll feature on Nairaland by taking a survey.


From the poll result majority says one should check their partners phone.

Whatever she does ..


Bank apps are off limit ..