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Poll: Which truth challenges our assumptions the most? in this story?
Survival strips away dignity and softness
58% (114 votes)
Desire collapses when illusion fades influence actions
10% (20 votes)
Bodies shaped by poverty, stress, and neglect
12% (24 votes)
The gap between fantasy and lived reality
18% (37 votes)
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| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by Originalsly: 11:01am On Jan 07 |
I'm left wondering if the writer was sheltered all his life in a church or in some small remote village. He seems to be absolutely clueless about brothels and believe his findings are restricted to Nigeria only. Apparently he was expecting the prostitutes to show affection .... and was shocked that were only about getting down to business and be paid.... purely transactional ...zero emotional. How does he not know prostitution is the oldest occupation? ... and what to expect of prostitutes? He even expected them to smell like roses after the clothes were dropped. Guess he got hit hard in the face with a rotten fish scent . Naive guy....hope he took STD test. |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by marlow1962(m): 11:13am On Jan 07 |
Kaczynski:E dy Build aq, put girls, then collect your weekly remittance ![]() |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by samylinks: 11:16am On Jan 07 |
na true. he have uniqueexperience. SultanOfPuna: |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by sandra2025(f): 11:16am On Jan 07 |
Ganicus676:You sabi the game. Nah so. Oshere no get joy. It's better to have a girlfriend than an olosho for ashawo quarters. |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by Oracleee: 11:18am On Jan 07 |
Ganicus676:Seems you're talking from experience. |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by Streamz: 11:20am On Jan 07 |
SultanOfPuna:Na Ai write am |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by MarketDispatch: 11:35am On Jan 07 |
[quote author=Dpsychologist post=138049312]I approached one of those brothel ladies to do a project with her. She told me she can't do anything until she talks to her madam. That was when I discovered that there are particular madams that bring those ladies from other states to Lagos to come and sleep with men in brothels to make money for the madam |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by vislabraye(m): 11:36am On Jan 07 |
Kaczynski:Brothels make a lot of money. Just find a good location (Not a residential), just one lungu somewhere. |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by vislabraye(m): 11:43am On Jan 07 |
Inshame3:I tell you. They are all the same thing but they have different names. Hookup babes maynot be finer. |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by poweredcom(m): 11:43am On Jan 07 |
Wotowotoman:Dude u r just getting me annoyed but anyway keep it up one day na one day |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by andrealallor(f): 11:43am On Jan 07 |
Dpsychologist:It is the oldest profession but needs proper regulation. |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by Wotowotoman: 11:45am On Jan 07 |
poweredcom:Ogbeni, na simple question I ask you as a person wey dey frequent brothels on a regular. Answer the question jor ![]() |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by Dpsychologist(op): 11:47am On Jan 07 |
anonimi:Of all the things on this post. You focused on the image. |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by Dpsychologist(op): 11:50am On Jan 07 |
Originalsly:Why are you get worked up at just a post. |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by Originalsly: 12:06pm On Jan 07 |
Dpsychologist:Worked up? ...you read wrong bro! ...the opposite is true. I be more amazed at how simple minded so many people are 25 years into the 21st century with information at their fingertips. I now seriously question if common sense is somewhat compromised by the vaccines we take...the foods we eat or some other way. I'm just amazed .... clueless. |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by Greystone: 12:08pm On Jan 07 |
BeginsAtHome:It's the ease of transaction I think. If a man feels konji and has no scruples with prostitutes, he can simply go there, negotiate and get laid within minutes. Most people wud cringe at the idea, but to him wasting time scoping a babe and convincing her to sleep with him just sounds like a long and expensive process wen he can get sex by just paying for it. |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by TechBaron: 12:08pm On Jan 07 |
Kaczynski:You know exactly what to do. |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by jnrbayano(m): 12:08pm On Jan 07 |
JuanDeDios:I didn't lie. Where is the lie na? ![]() |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by Chinnems(m): 12:12pm On Jan 07 |
Dpsychologist:The way you've put this together shows lots of effort and thought Your words, though honest aren't condescending, accusatory, or vindictive Great piece. Really great piece. |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by BeginsAtHome(f): 12:12pm On Jan 07 |
Greystone:Better than rape, incest and pedophilia. Some of the "usefulness" of prostitutes I guess. |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by Ganicus676: 12:15pm On Jan 07 |
sandra2025:When girlfriends these days come dey worse pass olosho? Who una wan deceive? |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by Greb(f): 12:15pm On Jan 07 |
The harsh reality and tough survival in Nigerian brothels is very difficult and it's a survival of the fittest and where the strongest thrive and the weakest struggle and suffer but life must go on |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by Dpsychologist(op): 12:16pm On Jan 07 |
Originalsly:I wonder how people go about life being condescending to others. |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by blesdman(m): 12:18pm On Jan 07 |
princepee:De play. It is the actors that determine quality. Right now, all food stuff are being sold as groceries in big supermarkets |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by JuanDeDios: 12:54pm On Jan 07 |
jnrbayano:Didn't lie ke. Your mom was beating you for lying: changing 9 to 90 But you were guilty of another lie: changing 0 to 90. |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by derico(m): 1:04pm On Jan 07 |
Ndokwa Hotels should be applauded for raising the bar. And social media, for decentralising the system. 👏 |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by whippersnapper(m): 1:11pm On Jan 07 |
Inshame3:but there are girls who want sxx from you without paying them. Especially those ajebo girls who hardly go out to taste gbola. |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by LordIsaac(m): 1:33pm On Jan 07 |
What's your research design and sample size? Did you get IRB approval? ![]() |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by Deepspirituals: 1:40pm On Jan 07 |
49cents:Yeah ..Before ...But Now ...More Immprovement is Needed |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by Hoodrat(m): 1:50pm On Jan 07 |
Isaiah 24:4 The earth mourneth and fadeth away, the world languisheth and fadeth away, the haughty people of the earth do languish. 5 The earth also is defiled under the inhabitants thereof; because they have transgressed the laws, changed the ordinance, broken the everlasting covenant. |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by AngelicBeing: 2:18pm On Jan 07 |
Kaczynski:And l will get you arrested and detained for 600 years ooooooooo |
| Re: What A Nigerian Brothel Reveals About Money, Power, And Human Behavior by AngelicBeing: 2:20pm On Jan 07 |
anonimi:Shots Fired from Algerian desert and it has hits it's intended targets nawaooo hahaha 😂 |
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