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eniteden:
So men should continue marrying/dating broke ass women and prostitutes with over a 100+ body count and shop in their empty watery pot containing left over bones for the dogs ba

They should keep on picking that sales girls, cleaner girls, hawker girl and marry/date them 90% of this days girls are empty headed just like the op who thinks building and making her own money is an evil thing to do, men's money are sweeter so we should date the richer ones.

Awon Gold digger, who go date ur broke brother/sisters

What happens to ambitures men, whats wrong in building together, guy get outa here .

Or did u think that company became big all of a sudden? They eventually started small and trust me there where thousands of employers that stood and build with them.

Omo this your comparism no match at all

Oh yeah guy Bomb dey ur head

Bros what I am saying men show no emotion when it comes to taking a financial path but they want women to be emotional to them when those men have Zero emotions to their places of work. U no get emotion for others but you want that babe to have emotion for you.

Me I have Zero emotions like Victor Osimhen on a football field. I give my mother,Sisters and wife my emotions.

KobolanderSegun:
A man has applied for a job for two companies that do the same thing.

Which job should the man take ?
(A) The one that offers him a higher salary or (B) The one that offers him a lower salary ?

A man vows to stay on a Mobile network then the mobile network has financial issues and the man can no longer browse

Should he
(a) stay without internet
(b) Jilt the mobile network for a more stable ( richer network )

Your Answers Prove Women are morally right to date and Marry The Highest Bidder

Nawa oo
So dating is now full time job🤣
God abeg help our generation

OredoPikin2:
Nawa oo
So dating is now full time job🤣
God abeg help our generation

Where did you read that....... can read you or ?

KobolanderSegun:
A man has applied for a job for two companies that do the same thing.

Which job should the man take ?
(A) The one that offers him a higher salary or (B) The one that offers him a lower salary ?

A man vows to stay on a Mobile network then the mobile network has financial issues and the man can no longer browse

Should he
(a) stay without internet
(b) Jilt the mobile network for a more stable ( richer network )

Your Answers Prove Women are morally right to date and Marry The Highest Bidder

is the employment for life?

TheFreshVanilla:
It doesn’t make any sense applying market logic to human bonds.
✓ If money justifies choice, then men who abandon their wife for richer ladies are morally correct, right?

Why doesn't it make sense when Relationships are transactional? 🥱🥱🥱

2. Nothing of this has to do with morality which from the onset has been a weapon primarily used against the poor, women and children. Morality means absolutely nothing because relationships have always been transactional. 🥱🥱🥱

KobolanderSegun:
She has a RIGHT TO DO WHATEVER SHE WANTS and then live with the consequences of a break up.
Do I have a Rope tighed to her neck like you want to put on women's necks

People have completely lost it. Honestly, who raised you? It’s like you can’t even define morality anymore. And yet, you keep trying so hard to defend your stupidity.

Who is asking you not to marry the highest bidder. .

For me you should. not just you i am looking for the highest. Bidder too i would buy in character peace of mind etc. Evryone have their opinion and what satifies their quest.

Comparing men with sim card.
I can deside to use different sim. Mtn airtel etisalet etc for different purpose in as much as i can huy them.

If airtel is bad i switch to mtn.

If i have the capacity i can buy 2 phone put mtn airtel.

It all about mentality
Reginal choose her choice and state her mind after

Sorry for the lengthy post.

Men go and be the highest bidder and dont drag her down.

Men when you become the highest bidder do as you pleased simple

Kobojunkie:
Why doesn't it make sense when Relationships are transactional? 🥱🥱🥱

2. Nothing of this has to do with morality which from the onset has been a weapon primarily used against the poor, women and children. Morality means absolutely nothing because relationships have always been transactional. 🥱🥱🥱

Transactional in for this generation, this wasn’t the norm

EBEk101:
✓ Transactional in for this generation, this wasn’t the norm

Stop telling lies! Your ancestors transacted relationships for physical benefits, for connections(political) in addition to creating labor for their farms. Relationships have always been transactional. 🥱🥱

EBEk101:
✓ People have completely lost it. Honestly, who raised you? It’s like you can’t even define morality anymore. And yet, you keep trying so hard to defend your stupidity.

There is nothing more ambiguous in its definition that what you refer to as morality. It is actually a meaningless concept really. 🥱🥱🥱

KobolanderSegun:
That's what happens when people are mediocre at their work they make work seem like an unserious thing.

The Bible says " Whatsoever your hand findeth to do "((( do it with all your heart and might "))

Look at Michael Jordan who wrote in a love letter to his teen mate girlfriend " I love you after basketball ".

Basketball never
Divorced him and took his money,.... His first wife did

Before God gave Adam Eve he told Adam " Tend the Garden "

Work is more important than Marriage. Where is money going to come from to move the relationship forward? School fees nko ?

To begin with, how old are you first?

EBEk101:
People have completely lost it. Honestly, who raised you? It’s like you can’t even define morality anymore. And yet, you keep trying so hard to defend your stupidity.

You are the one turning morality into slavery. If my wife wants the next door neighbor good for her.

Enjoy yourself with him and our relationship is over. Does Morality mean I should beat her into submission ?
Even you you are free to throw your phone away or smash it on the floor

Go ahead and smash your phone on the floor you a free to. But you choose not to. Did anyone force you not to smash your phone? You made your choices, weighed the benefits and consequences. So in dating women should be free to do as they like and achieve what they consider benefits that come with consequences

thomas2024:
To begin with, how old are you first?

Old enough to know what lies between those ears is emptiness

KobolanderSegun:
A man has applied for a job for two companies that do the same thing.

Which job should the man take ?
(A) The one that offers him a higher salary or (B) The one that offers him a lower salary ?

A man vows to stay on a Mobile network then the mobile network has financial issues and the man can no longer browse

Should he
(a) stay without internet
(b) Jilt the mobile network for a more stable ( richer network )

Your Answers Prove Women are morally right to date and Marry The Highest Bidder

Why should it only be women? Men too should go for highest bidder . Would you rather live in squalor or live in affluence? Likewise will you date a poor girl or rich girl?

KobolanderSegun:
A man has applied for a job for two companies that do the same thing.

Which job should the man take ?
(A)
Your Answers Prove Women are morally right to date and Marry The Highest Bidder

Actually, evolutionary biology supports women's hypergamy. The issue is: women now take up half of the available jobs while maintaining their focus/eyes on the top-earning men. You cannot take up half of what the men use to advance themselves, yet position yourself to men in the top-tier, and at the same time complain that there is a "shortage of quality men".

EBEk101:
Transactional in for this generation, this wasn’t the norm

Marriage has ALWAYS been a transaction from time immemorial. Love in marriage is a farce.

KobolanderSegun:
You are the one turning morality into slavery. If my wife wants the next door neighbor good for her.

Enjoy yourself with him and our relationship is over. Does Morality mean I should beat her into submission ?
Even you you are free to throw your phone away or smash it on the floor

Go ahead and smash your phone on the floor you a free to. But you choose not to. Did anyone force you not to smash your phone? You made your choices, weighed the benefits and consequences. So in dating women should be free to do as they like and achieve what they consider benefits that come with consequences

Since when did freedom mean the absence of responsibility? Yes, everyone can make choices, but morality is about recognizing that some choices are destructive, not just to yourself but to others. Comparing marriage to smashing a phone is shallow. a phone doesn’t have trust, loyalty, or commitment tied to it. If you believe morality is simply do whatever you want and face the consequences, then you’re reducing relationships to transactions instead of bonds built on respect. True freedom isn’t about indulging every impulse, it’s about choosing what sustains trust and dignity and which I doubt you have any left given what you just typed.

EBEk101:
Since when did freedom mean the absence of responsibility? Yes, everyone can make choices, but morality is about recognizing that some choices are destructive, not just to yourself but to others. Comparing marriage to smashing a phone is shallow. a phone doesn’t have trust, loyalty, or commitment tied to it. If you believe morality is simply do whatever you want and face the consequences, then you’re reducing relationships to transactions instead of bonds built on respect. True freedom isn’t about indulging every impulse, it’s about choosing what sustains trust and dignity and which I doubt you have any left given what you just typed.

You take relationships too seriously..... So seriously that you can't see You have a Relationship with your phone, you have a relationship with your phone company. If you had no relationship those things would be very far from you. Do you yet understand or must I use a million words?

KobolanderSegun:
You take relationships too seriously..... So seriously that you can't see You have a Relationship with your phone, you have a relationship with your phone company. If you had no relationship those things would be very far from you. Do you yet understand or must I use a million words?

That’s exactly the problem, you’re trivializing human relationships by comparing them to objects or service providers. A phone company doesn’t require loyalty, trust, or emotional commitment. marriage or partnership does. Reducing morality / relationship to what you have with your phone strips away the very values that make human bonds meaningful. If you can’t see the difference between a contract with a company and a commitment to a spouse, then you’ve already proven my point. you’ve lost the ability to define morality in any serious way.

KobolanderSegun:
A man has applied for a job for two companies that do the same thing.

Which job should the man take ?
(A) The one that offers him a higher salary or (B) The one that offers him a lower salary ?

A man vows to stay on a Mobile network then the mobile network has financial issues and the man can no longer browse

Should he
(a) stay without internet
(b) Jilt the mobile network for a more stable ( richer network )

Your Answers Prove Women are morally right to date and Marry The Highest Bidder

After they will deny that they are into hook up...

EBEk101:
That’s exactly the problem, you’re trivializing human relationships by comparing them to objects or service providers. A phone company doesn’t require loyalty, trust, or emotional commitment. marriage or partnership does. Reducing morality / relationship to what you have with your phone strips away the very values that make human bonds meaningful. If you can’t see the difference between a contract with a company and a commitment to a spouse, then you’ve already proven my point. you’ve lost the ability to define morality in any serious way.

mU st be the biggest idealist on earth. Human beings have from time immemorial trivialized their relationships with each other. Look at the rate of murder, look at rape. Look at war. How often do people smash their phones on the ground ? There will be like 60,000 murders around the world to one phone smasher

KobolanderSegun:
If you took out the time to read the extremely short Topic you will see I never spoke about Marriage, I spoke about dating and getting married there was no reference to married life.
What is the difference between working for a company and getting married ? There is absolutely no difference because the two are about work and commitment and relationships with people.
When I work a job I am commiting my time, mind and body to that company, when a woman is in a relationship she is commiting her time, mind, energy, emotions and her body to you

If you don't have any ideas left in your head to create a thread on nairaland, just buy one basket of melon, and start peeling them. I've never seen such an empty thread and response like this before.

CodeTemplarr:
is the employment for life?

Is marriage for life ?

then why do people separate or get divorced.?

And those who think it is for life allow their abuse partners to kill them......since it is for life

Two different life scenarios, the comparison has no substance

KobolanderSegun:
Is marriage for life ?

then why do people separate or get divorced.?

And those who think it is for life allow their abuse partners to kill them......since it is for life

Employment terms favour employers but marriage is much more balanced n mutual.

KobolanderSegun:
mU st be the biggest idealist on earth. Human beings have from time immemorial trivialized their relationships with each other. Look at the rate of murder, look at rape. Look at war. How often do people smash their phones on the ground ? There will be like 60,000 murders around the world to one phone smasher

My question to you is, are you saying murder, rape, and war are the norm we should accept?

KobolanderSegun:
A man has applied for a job for two companies that do the same thing.

Which job should the man take ?
(A) The one that offers him a higher salary or (B) The one that offers him a lower salary ?

A man vows to stay on a Mobile network then the mobile network has financial issues and the man can no longer browse

Should he
(a) stay without internet
(b) Jilt the mobile network for a more stable ( richer network )

Your Answers Prove Women are morally right to date and Marry The Highest Bidder

@kobojunkie, Come and help your Brother: Kobolander
his confused!

KobolanderSegun:
So women should stay with a broke ass man ? When are men going to stay with broke ass companies ?

So you will keep on shopping at a supermarket that has empty shelves like the one in Lekki and ikeja when there are supermarkets with full shelves.
Stop spreading lies and delusion

Benita, when you say broke ass man, I hope that you are rich before broke shaming men o. Not that you too are broke from a poor family and be looking for rich men to tie down and use as an escape route from poverty o.

OvertheTop:
@kobojunkie, Come and help your Brother: Kobolander
his confused!

Simple Text and don't get it ? Why na. Emptiness between the ears ?

TheFreshVanilla:
You’re still forcing a comparison that doesn’t hold. Even if you say you’re talking about dating, the analogy is still flawed. By your logic, if your babe sees a guy with an amg benz who makes more money than you, it would make sense for her to dump you just because you can’t afford to buy her a car? Is that really what you’re saying?

That Segun is not a guy. That user is impersonating men on nairaland. This is one of her accounts she uses to impersonate.