₦airaland Forum

Antichristian2:
Why not let your husband marry more wives!

The surrugate mother is actually the birth mother!

You are only an egg donor while your hubby the sperm donor!

Lanretoye:
How can someone have 8miscarriages?…I don’t trust some women sha.one woman can be terminating her babies for her own personal reasons,he should just marry another woman abeg.the woman that carries the baby is the mother

geoworldedu:
The child will look like his or her biological parents. The surrogate mother is just a container housing the foetus. Nothing more, nothing less.

geoworldedu:
The child will look like his or her biological parents. The surrogate mother is just a container housing the foetus. Nothing more, nothing less.

UkoAnnang:


Surrogacy should be considered a crime
Though in a her case, after five miscarriages.

nlfpmod:

'After eight miscarriages I chose surrogacy'
Influencer and entrepreneur Nancy Umeh has spent the past year sharing her journey of welcoming her third child through surrogacy.⁣

Watch the full episode of The Conversation 👉https://t.co/tlTPSEZyv8 on Youtube pic.twitter.com/srVGflccVO

— BBC News Africa (@BBCAfrica) January 6, 2026

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Watch the full episode of The Conversation
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZHZ30YDJdzQ?si=wyhHNATKjdejD4Rt

DMCY:
The resemblance is too much even tho we no sabi the woman

Antichristian2:
Yes, but a non-relative is still the child's birth mother!

advanceDNA:
.....Na nature you dey follow talk nothing more nothing less ?? ....sometimes, nature will humble you with wicked biological outcomes

geoworldedu:
Na lie

UkoAnnang:


Surrogacy should be considered a crime
Though in a her case, after five miscarriages.

kpankpangolo:
It doesn’t work like that. Money falls out regarding surrogacy. Classes for handling pregnancy are not cheap. Supplements for the mother are not cheap. Maternity gowns, nko? Not cheap. I don’t have children and I have an idea of the sum required for a safe nine months.

kpankpangolo:
“No money in the country. No money in the country.” Somehow, people are able to afford surrogacy.

Antichristian2:
Why not let your husband marry more wives!

The surrugate mother is actually the birth mother!

You are only an egg donor while your hubby the sperm donor!

omoredia:
Chai! Make man no marry this kind woman oo. I cant deal abeg

Konquest:
That's indeed a very brilliant option (which people should be open to using instead of being insular in thinking) since she is just 36. For a woman in terms of fertility, 36 is getting late unless you freeze your viable eggs. The older a woman gets from her late 20s right into her 40s, the faster the chromosomal damages which occur in her FAST-diminishing or limited supply of eggs. To make matters WORSE, men also have chromosomal damages or mutations in the sperm as we age, so this isn't a female problem. Fertilizing the eggs in-vitro before implantation in the womb can ALSO help to detect any of the chromosomal abnormalities.

These genetic and chromosomal mutations lead to autism, Down Syndrome, Edwards Syndrome, Patau Syndrome, Turner Syndrome, and Klinefelter Syndrome, and other chromosomal abnormalities affecting development.

So, it's BETTER to freeze your own eggs (for woman) or sperm (for men) at an accredited fertility clinic if you want more children and then use the viable eggs and sperms to have your own biological baby via a surrogate mother (who might do it for free if she is your close relative like your sister or mother, OR you pay the surrogate mother a fee of over N1.5 million in some geographical locations in Nigeria to take care of her maternal expenses and more for 9 months. According to a British Broadcasting Corporation (BBC) documentary I listened to back in the early 2000s, in India alone, there's a thriving "surrogate mother" ecosystem for Europeans and others to use at a cheaper cost to have their own babies which some Indian women acting as surrogate mothers have used to lift themselves up the social and economic ladder by buying cows to produce milk, build new houses, and send their own biological kids to school).

Antichristian2:
Why not let your husband marry more wives!

The surrugate mother is actually the birth mother!

You are only an egg donor while your hubby the sperm donor!

occfx:
One wrong abortion fit don tear womb. If you are a growing girl child, secure your womb by all means. Avoid premarital sex before 20 with or without condoms, e get why.

Antichristian2:
I can't imagine paying someone to carry my baby to term and deliver it.

She should just stop get pregnant and accept another wife!

Na Selfishness sha!

MarkNsukkaBread:
Most women don't like to consider this option

franchasng:
What's the essence of having a large family? And if you truly desire a large family, must you birth them all, can't you adopt some children from the millions of orphan kids scattered all over Nigeria and give them a good life?

Antichristian2:
I can't imagine paying someone to carry my baby to term and deliver it.

She should just stop get pregnant and accept another wife!

Na Selfishness sha!

franchasng:
What's the essence of having a large family? And if you truly desire a large family, must you birth them all, can't you adopt some children from the millions of orphan kids scattered all over Nigeria and give them a good life?

Gerrard59:
A woman who has experienced 8 miscarriages should, in my opinion, be subjected to further medical research to know why she had 8 of them. What were the possible causes? Are they genetic? Who else in her lineage has experienced such difficulties during pregnancy? Through this research, we can determine possible causes and solutions before it continues.

kpankpangolo:
“No money in the country. No money in the country.” Somehow, people are able to afford surrogacy.

dalass:
Congratulations. The baby resemble the surrogate mother sha