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Kipaji:
@bolded

This is where I disagree with the red
pill. At every point of a woman's life, from 15 to 95 years old, she has more s€ xūåI AND relationship options than the vast majority of men around her age. A used-up, washed-up, damaged 40 year old w*0.r£ still has more s£ xūaI and relationship options than the average 40 year old man out there. (They may not be the options she wants, but that's not the point).

The Red pill lies by saying that women will end up alone. That nobody will want them after they waste their youths living the h.0ę lifestyle. But I find that it's not true. Too many men are starved, desperate, and ignorant.

The rèd pill doesn't say that women will end up alone if they refuse to cash in on their 20s. However, it does state that women's smv peaks in their 20s, and their options for commitment generally diminish with age as time matches away from their peak. Shikena!

This is generally true. Even women know this. That's why once most women who want to settle down reach a certain age, they start their chameleon antics to hoodwink an unsuspecting blue-pill guy. They can start going to church and put on a veneer of genuine spirituality. They could even start pandering to the male group they are targeting, usually by saying things or positioning themselves to assume the image they think these guys like.

I won't blame you for what you said because they are a lot of men stuck in the rage phase and who nurse a feeling of revenge towards women for not lowering their standards in their peak years to date them. They hope these women would end up alone and suddenly realise that they should have date them. Lol.

Men must work on themselves and disdain emotionalism. Red pill is just the raw truth about female nature and intersexual dynamics. It is not hate or contempt for women even though there will be very unflattering takes or points (about women) that the conventional mind sees as abhorrent. It's all good.

Kipaji:
What are their physical characteristics?

I see where you are going.

Martinez39s:
I see where you are going.

I see that you know

heartofcity12:
Happy New Year fellas

Happy New Year OG

sabbiboi:
REAL LIFE mehn… The redpill has never been a lie.
I am grateful to be part of this movement.
If you don’t understand women you will suffer, lol.😂
Please, let’s keep this page alive for posterity sake. I believe only nairaland has got a long thread of dosage of red pills and real life tales to back up the stories. So don’t mind some douchebag that comes here to spit rubbish and derail the thread with their myopic views.
I check up here sometimes, take the dose and continue to apply them in life endeavors. Funnily enough, women still win by settling down with a man at the end of their youthful exuberance. It’s just a win-win world for them, maybe, maybe not.

It is a woman's world. But some men no wan gree.

The koko is for every man to guide within his ability, have fewer children, live a healthy lifestyle and enjoy life according to his beliefs and finances. The very fact that today's women can now earn their own money, intentionally control how many children they want, be educated and do things on their own erases whatever advantage men had over them.

Kipaji:
@bolded

This is where I disagree with the red
pill. At every point of a woman's life, from 15 to 95 years old, she has more s€ xūåI AND relationship options than the vast majority of men around her age. A used-up, washed-up, damaged 40 year old w*0.r£ still has more s£ xūaI and relationship options than the average 40 year old man out there. (They may not be the options she wants, but that's not the point).

The Red pill lies by saying that women will end up alone. That nobody will want them after they waste their youths living the h.0ę lifestyle. But I find that it's not true. Too many men are starved, desperate, and ignorant.

And the bold is for the below average woman o. Not to mention an educated lady who has earned a good living and is raising a child as a single mother. That financial independence alone is a dealbreaker.

Young men should focus on their finances rather than whether women will be lonely or not. In fact, studies say it is men who are lonelier than women.

The women have it.

TRADELYN:
Let me share a little.

A good fashion sense starts from your skin health.

The skin is the largest external organ of the human body.
If you want to look fresh, do the following:
1. Detoxify your body every week at least. Lemon and bitter leaf juice is enough.
2. Cut down or get rid of sugar consumption regularly.
3. Take adequate clean water.
4. Take more of nuts, legumes than carbs regularly.
5. Take cod liver oil, liver, chicken or fish from the sea (not farmed fish).
6. Sleep well every night.
7. Cut down on salt as well.
8. Eat plenty fresh greens: vegetables and fruits etc.
9. Avoid sun exposure especially from 10a to 4pm.
10. Apply egg yolk on your face or bathe with waste water used for washing raw rice.

Come back and thank me after 2 weeks.

that last line what does it do?
Bathing water used for washing rice

emmaodet:
2 of 2

People in general and women in particular will always try to push you beyond your limit or plans, it is up to you to stand your ground.
Humans naturally abuse privilege so it is in your interest to always put yourself first.
Take a person to the car stand and they point at the most expensive car in the stand. Tell them to bring 50% of the money and see them quickly retreat back to nigerian used.
Are you planning a wedding or burial and see people talking about how to make the party a 1 in town event, kill 3 cows blah blah blah until you ask them how much are they contributing and then sanity comes back - ohhhh, don't you know i am a civil servant? na him you come dey budget all these like a footballer?
Years back when i was in a financial mess - failed business, heavily indebted, family expenses etc and during this moment, my car started giving me regular issues, so i decided to dispose it and get a nigerian used car atleast to be mobile pending when i float back.
My wife heavily kicked against it, that over her dead body, she won't enter such a car with me.
That i am very pessimistic and always spoil her prayers. She will be going to church praying for the family to have big big things, i will be thinking small ...Okay now.
She said i should keep the money and work more for like 3 years to get the money for the kind of car she likes ---- i see. In 3 years alot would have happened that i would have dipped my hands in the money. A burial, maybe wedding, naming, school, medical etc anything
That money won't grow rather spent. SO i told her to keep praying while i get this naija used first to be moving around.
The aim is to pressure me. She knows my jumping around on bike and keke within a year will pressure me to suspend every otehr things and prioritize the car.
Afetr getting the car, she was the one to jump in first and when i asked her why she is not waiting for 3 years to get her choice car, reply? she turned the table on me.
That i am not a caring husband. SO i expect her to be walking under the sun and rain using keke while i am driving a car that i don't Love her ... Na sooooooo

Lol...nice one. I agree with you boss

JESHAL007:
A man is always truly alone, no one is coming to save or help you, everyone seeks to exploit you because your masculinity is at stake and you don't want to be ostracised in society, society uses you, government uses you, corporations use you, women uses you

As a man ruthlessly guard your heart, in fact tell yourself to your core, I'm worthless without resources accumulation, that should be the centre of your heart, not women, not romance, not sex but money, your dignity Is tied to it, your survival is tied to it, your health in case of emergency is tied to it, that's your only true love asides a believe in God

God and Money that's all a man has, that's his true best friend

💯. I always said this. As a man...you are all you got.

Happy New Year Redpillers!!🙂🙂🙂

This year we should normalise not folding at the sight of green lights. Ashawo choke for market these days with green light, may God help us.

If you're looking for something serious with a woman, this is important for you to understand. Women are often smarter than we give them credit for. They know all the things men use to judge a woman's value—those are outdated tactics that revamped or repentant whores have used to attract high-value men. They know what you're looking for. Once they decide that it's time to get serious they'll metamorphose into something that men will take serious. There's nothing you can watch out for that's hard for a woman who's determined to use you as her retirement plan.

I say all this to tell you to vet and investigate your woman thoroughly. Even if she idolizes you, shows genuine interest, and does everything else, that doesn't mean she's the one until you've done your due diligence. How she treats you isn't enough—what she does with her life is more important. Women are really good at faking things because they can create a false belief and believe in it themselves. A woman who has hopped on a thousand dicks still believes she should be the life partner of a good man who makes an honest living, as long as she can become what he wants, no matter how long it takes for him to decide. Don't let anybody deceive you, sincere women are rare, there's work to be done.

SOZINN:
If you're looking for something serious with a woman, this is important for you to understand. Women are often smarter than we give them credit for. They know all the things men use to judge a woman's value—those are outdated tactics that revamped or repentant whores have used to attract high-value men. They know what you're looking for. Once they decide that it's time to get serious they'll metamorphose into something that men will take serious. There's nothing you can watch out for that's hard for a woman who's determined to use you as her retirement plan.

I say all this to tell you to vet and investigate your woman thoroughly. Even if she idolizes you, shows genuine interest, and does everything else, that doesn't mean she's the one until you've done your due diligence. How she treats you isn't enough—what she does with her life is more important. Women are really good at faking things because they can create a false belief and believe in it themselves. A woman who has hopped on a thousand dicks still believes she should be the life partner of a good man who makes an honest living, as long as she can become what he wants, no matter how long it takes for him to decide. Don't let anybody deceive you, sincere women are rare, there's work to be done.

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Sincere women don't exist..
Her primal nature thrives on lies,,I've seen alot to assume this..
How she gets the man to commit is throuh selling him an illusion (lies).
Basically, everything with these beings are lies..

Friedrich Nieztche even said it "Her great art is the lie" 😹

SOZINN:
If you're looking for something serious with a woman, this is important for you to understand. Women are often smarter than we give them credit for. They know all the things men use to judge a woman's value—those are outdated tactics that revamped or repentant whores have used to attract high-value men. They know what you're looking for. Once they decide that it's time to get serious they'll metamorphose into something that men will take serious. There's nothing you can watch out for that's hard for a woman who's determined to use you as her retirement plan.

I say all this to tell you to vet and investigate your woman thoroughly. Even if she idolizes you, shows genuine interest, and does everything else, that doesn't mean she's the one until you've done your due diligence. How she treats you isn't enough—what she does with her life is more important. Women are really good at faking things because they can create a false belief and believe in it themselves. A woman who has hopped on a thousand dicks still believes she should be the life partner of a good man who makes an honest living, as long as she can become what he wants, no matter how long it takes for him to decide. Don't let anybody deceive you, sincere women are rare, there's work to be done.

this is what I am currently experiencing. A retired olosho is trying very hard to lure me into marriage, quoting verses from quran to me about how God wants us to be forgiving and dont judge people by their past.

[quote author=always247 post=138114291]this is what I am currently experiencing. A retired olosho is trying very hard to lure me into marriage, quoting verses from quran to me about how God wants us to be forgiving and dont judge people by their past.
[/quote]Better don't slack or she'll outsmart you and eat you raw.

Tonnyray:
Belated birthday wishes bro.
At 19 I had no social life. With the advantage of hindsight I know it was good for me. Consider yourself lucky bro.
Cut off social media or better still tame it if you want to make tremendous progress in life. I see too many young folks totally consumed and destroyed by it already. The most heart wrenching thing I see these days is full grown bearded men in their late 20's totally sold to the dopamine bursts from pixels on their phones. There are 3 in my organization that our HR has identified and queried at least once. I have personally penciled one for termination by end of the year. He's in my department. Productivity zero. Initiative zero. Contributory value zero. Yet this guy will forever be glued to viewing videos on tiktok, statuses and instagram in the office. I have invited him for a hangout on 2 different occasions to help him however I can. Tried so hard to make him realize that the society we live in has zero tolerance for men who don't got their sh!t together. A babe can get away with plenty of such crap, some "cool" dude will still wife her up, as a guy you simply can't. All my entreaties were to no avail. As far as I'm concerned I need to act in the best interest of the organization now. He's a goner. The shock therapy of losing a N200k/month job might be all that's needed to rewire his cerebral cortex.

Why did I go into all this? You need a real life my guy. Your generation is just as blessed as it is cursed. Blessed with all the wherewithal to succeed right at your fingertips, as in just clicks away. Cursed with distractions on distractions on distractions. The choice is ultimately yours. Define your values. Define your goals.
Sign up on LinkedIn not instagram or tiktok or twitter or any of these hopeless apps that are wired to serve as distractions. That is my candid advice. Start taking necessary online personal and professional development courses.
Network with people in your chosen career path. Find mentors. Follow people that have made positive impact in society. Forget about "celebrities and entertainment stars" they are a curse to your generation. Focus only on people who have walked the paths you seek. Who have achieved meaningful things.
Money is good but do not let it be a major motivation just yet. If you put in the next 5-10 years into learning the right things, you'd have set yourself up for a lifetime of earning the wow $$$. The goal is to make money even in your sleep. Even I am on this quest my brother.
Meet real people, play down online dalliances, but be very, I mean extremely choosy who you allow into your space. Only people that will positively impact you and aid your trajectory in life.
I could go on and on but this is it in a nutshell.
I wish you the best bro.
Many more years to celebrate.

Selah.

@JESHAL007

For close to a week, I haven't been able to reach you. I have tried calling. Hope all is well?

Kipaji:
@bolded

This is where I disagree with the red
pill. At every point of a woman's life, from 15 to 95 years old, she has more s€ xūåI AND relationship options than the vast majority of men around her age. A used-up, washed-up, damaged 40 year old w*0.r£ still has more s£ xūaI and relationship options than the average 40 year old man out there. (They may not be the options she wants, but that's not the point).

The Red pill lies by saying that women will end up alone. That nobody will want them after they waste their youths living the h.0ę lifestyle. But I find that it's not true. Too many men are starved, desperate, and ignorant.

at 15 women have options than men, but at 40 men have more options than women.

At 15, girl can date age range 15-45 yrs old
But 15 years old boy can only date girl of 15yrs, in which many of such girl will even reluctant to agree. They prefer older guys.

But at 40yr for man, that is prime age, you can date numerous females. From 15 -50 years, while woman of 40 will be willing to date age range 40-60, infact, many would have been married and born, which will also contribute to limitations of options.

Have you noticed that most males are big and draw attention in their natural states, and most females are very basic in the scheme of natural aesthetics?

Humans aren't different, but something unprecedented happened:

Women learnt how to modify clothing to provoke; they use makeup to draw even more attention.

Men are stronger, so she learnt how to indirectly use that strength. She can be anything, but that path is similar to doing work when a free slave can do it for you. It's șchtuppiďty to do it yourself when someone else can.

A women will become anything she thinks you like, just to catch you in her nest. After that, she switches when you're balls deep.

Normally, I'd advice you study any woman you want to have anything with in her ground state, but truth is that you won't catch her in that state when she's still hunting you (the potential slave). Instead just understand that she's "the ultimate manipulator of reality". They've bent reality because they can, unlike any other animal specie.

In the end, every man is just a pehnis, and every woman, a vahgina. You know one man, you know all men; you know one woman, you know all women.

If you choose to "study" her, she'll give you the exact outcome you're looking for. So don't waste your time. Just understand that when your eyes are closed and your nose closed, and you put only you pehnis inside a vahgina, it feels roughly the same for every women, and that's her ground state.

Her being a master of slaves, is her ground state.

Her being the bender of reality, is her ground state.

Her being the king of male manipulation, is her ground state.

Her being able to (and definitely will) switch on you, is her ground state.

Animals survive, that's what we do. She would have had no seat on the table if she didn't develop those skills. JUST MAKE SURE YOU UNDERSTAND THESE, ELSE YOU'LL FIND YOURSELF UNDER THE TABLE EATING THE CRUMBS OF THE BREAD YOU PROVIDED. And if that happens, don't feel bad. It's the new reality Just "man up" I guess. You're doing well, honestly.

Gerrard59:
It is a woman's world. But some men no wan gree.

The koko is for every man to guide within his ability, have fewer children, live a healthy lifestyle and enjoy life according to his beliefs and finances. The very fact that today's women can now earn their own money, intentionally control how many children they want, be educated and do things on their own erases whatever advantage men had over them.

feminism freed men

always247:
this is what I am currently experiencing. A retired olosho is trying very hard to lure me into marriage, quoting verses from quran to me about how God wants us to be forgiving and dont judge people by their past.

Discovering the motivation behind her efforts to entice you is essential for grasping the dynamics of the game.

Rizzputin:
You're not the only one experiencing this. Most guys on this thread and in red pill deceive themselves with books and quotes thinking they're making progress.

Unfortunately seduction is about real world experience. Nothing beats staying in the trenches of seduction to find what works.

For you, you became a bf/husband material to her. So she most likely encouraged him to keep it a secret. This way she doesn't ruin her chances of care from you.

And it's not about being ruthless. In fact, ruthlessness doesn't work long term.

You want to put yourself and your mission first. Once you do that, words like "wicked" "stubborn" "I hate you" will start flowing from women's mouths to you along with bjs and sex.

I've always told guys to drop the bf/husband material route. And go hard on being seen as fwb or fb material

That's how you win long term.

Anyways, there are still more lessons to learn. More wahala to see. Just man up and embrace them

It will all pay off. Soon you'll have a deep sense of calm knowing you get women anywhere and in in any place and in any situation

how do you do this with a girl you just met? How do you gravitate her towards that please (using real life scenarios) thanks.

Nmjkjjjk

JESHAL007:
True. The moment you see a girl that you like and you make up your mind to get her, you've already started the game at a losing score: You 0, the Girl 1.

Its not that it's a crime to like someone but by liking her you're already more invested than she is because she feels ZERO emotions for you while you're on fire for her. You're already chasing.

what should a man do in this case? Don't chase and hope she comes to you? Please enlighten us

olioxx:
Real World Experience:

Here is what I do, if you have followed my post here you'll know that what has always worked for me is the eye contact, see I'll first look at the girl I want to approach. I will look at her so she knows I'm looking at her, then I'll let her know I'm looking at her bum(I won't go for breast initially, as it's a little creepy), but you can never go wrong looking at her jiggling bum.

You think it's for no reason women snap pictures by posing with her bum?

Stare at it, look at it, admire it.

Then when you approach her, please don't start with "you are beautiful" instead compliment her cloth, tell her you found her interesting and you'll like to know her better.


If you are in a shop or public place, after the whole looking thing ask her about a particular product you want to buy and if she recommends you buy it or fake that you don't know a particular place if she can describe.
Regarding getting her number at this stage, the truth is it's dicey. Sometimes she will give you wrong number, so what I do to ease any tension is to say maybe next week I'll see you around, since I stay in the neighborhood.
That way no much tension.

But no lies it helps to be tall, handsome and with nice voice. Also if you can just change all your cloth(tops) to grey or black .... For pants, you can go with dark blue trousers or shorts. Those colors you can't go wrong.

thanks Man. Appreciate this.

Nyascobar1414:
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Sincere women don't exist..
Her primal nature thrives on lies,,I've seen alot to assume this..
How she gets the man to commit is throuh selling him an illusion (lies).
Basically, everything with these beings are lies..

Friedrich Nieztche even said it "Her great art is the lie" 😹

It's not that their every word or action constitutes deception, but rather that there's consistently an ulterior motive at play, even when they manage to persuade others otherwise. When they appear most uncertain or disoriented, that's precisely when they're operating with the greatest clarity of purpose. Once you identify their hidden objectives and draw insights from others' experiences or your own observations, you can actually anticipate their subsequent actions and leverage this understanding for strategic benefit.

So, let me share one of the advantages of experience. Some things we read here can never be fully understood or implemented without experiencing the "horror" of women first-hand. 😂I’ve experienced women and know how "corny" they can be, my brain is on high alert.

A few months ago, I noticed this new girl liking my pictures and videos on TikTok. She was checking my profile from time to time. I wondered who she was, so I checked her profile, realized she was attractive, and sent her a DM. She replied very fast. I asked how she was doing, she replied, and then I actually forgot about her. To be honest, I really did forget because I was very busy.

Around November, I noticed she was still checking my profile and liking my pictures. I also saw her reposts/reshare a lot, maybe it was the algorithm. I checked her profile again and noticed she had posted some new pictures. Damn, she is hot, for real. I figured, why not go back? So, I messaged her again. She replied almost immediately and we started to vibe like we’d known each other for a long time. It was cool, man.

I thought, "This girl is really into me," because she seemed obsessed. I stylishly asked what her "spec" in a guy was, and she described me: dark skin, etc. That was cool for me because the game just got easier. I figured at this point, I could just lay back and let her do the work.

It reached a point where she suggested taking things to another level, and was like, "Let’s give it a try." I didn't want to play hard to get since she was giving me the green light. But I told her straight up, "Okay, but I won’t be spending any money on you because I have other things to focus my funds on."
She said that was fine, that she can wait till I am stable enough. We continued vibing; I gave her a grace period and didn’t see any "billing" coming from her side.

To be honest, I am not emotionally invested in her; I even view the s***x aspect as secondary now, like a bonus. The truth is, I just enjoy her company because I’m at a stage where I hardly socialize, it's just me at home grinding. I don’t know if you guys understand where I am coming from, but it just isn’t love.

The girl has taken this relationship quite far too; she has started discussing marriage, sending me wedding videos, and a lot more. I can’t give all the details here, but I can tell she is already imagining settling down with me.

She’s a student, by the way. She said she wanted to visit me. I told her that after school, I moved back to my parents' place last year, but I offered to lodge her in a hotel. She was okay with it, but one thing led to another and it ended up not working out. It’s all on me. Also, when we were talking about her visiting recently, she mentioned coming on Thursday and leaving on Sunday.

Now, this is where it gets interesting. On Thursday night, she didn’t chat with me or even reply to any of my reels on TikTok. At that moment, I knew something was fishy. I didn’t say a word and just continued with my life. Then, I noticed she didn’t come online on all social media on Friday. Based on my past experiences, I knew something was up, but I gave her the benefit of the doubt and decided to call her just in case something had happened to her.

Well, it rang once, then the call ended, and after that, the line wouldn’t go through. I just burst out laughing. I knew instantly that she went to see another guy and blocked me so I couldn't reach her.

I am sure she will message me on Sunday and start telling me a story about her phone being damaged, forgetting that she was originally supposed to be visiting me from Thursday to Sunday a few weeks back. Which is the same Thursday to Sunday her phone went off this week, meaning she was def with someone.

If I were as naive as I was years ago, I would have been worried, thinking something had happened to her, and I would have started blowing up her phone. But because I’ve experienced a similar script with a woman in the past, I just knew.
Honestly, the younger guys should get out there and experience women for themselves. Otherwise, you will see the warnings that the "red pill" teaches you and either ignore them or cover them up with an excuse.

JESHAL007:
The only privileges you have as an alpha redpiller are the following:
1) she breaks her rules for you, but she makes rules for simps.
2) she will be your sex freak and do stuffs with you in the bedroom that she wouldn't do with a beta simp.
3) she won't mistreat or disrespect you like she does to simps, and she will be the one chasing you around.
4) you make her wet, simps don't.

Outside these, the pùssy is not yours. Other men will have their share. I am saying this not to cause an argument but for your own safety as a fellow "brethren" in the red pill.

Honestly.

emmaodet:
I attended a wedding febraury this year.
What saddens me is that a man processed UK visa for this lady in late 2023 and spent 15m to get it for her.
He is a UK based man trying to bring a good lady from home (Nigeria) abroad to make his wife.
I don't know how they met - maybe online or connection by friends.
15m in 2023 is roughly 25 to 30m in todays naira value. SO we can have an idea of what that man spent all in the name of Love and relationship.
Guess what?
Immediately the lady got the visa, she broke up with him Right here in Nigeria before even touching London.
This is not a nollywood script rather what happened within my circle.
And as if that is not bad enough, she got engaged and did introduction to a new man she met at the train station in UK just 6 months arriving there.
Can you imagine that?
Just 6 months of breaking up with someone who has spent 15m on you to come into that country and you are already dating and engaged.
People were dancing in the wedding hall because it was a virtual wedding. The couples only joined us online watching through projector while both families were in the hall with their guest, musician, foods and drinks etc
I only pity the new man. Only if he knows what the lady did to the last man before he came in. I am sorry but he better watch his back.

The funny thing is, most guys think this kind of incident only happens in Nollywood movies.

It's pathetic, and I genuinely feel sorry for the previous guy in this story who spent millions doing a visa for her. If only he had understood the true nature of women.

That bolded part caught my attention: you said you pity the new man and that he better watch his back.

Well, the only reason he needs to watch his back is if he’s also spending millions on her like her ex did. But if he’s spending little or nothing to keep her around, then he has nothing to worry about.

Most men think women are evil or bad people. That’s not true. Women are simply following their feminine nature. The real problem is that many men are not living according to their true masculine nature.

Look, God designed male-female sexual dynamics a certain way. His plan is for men and women is... to desire each other, mate, and multiply.

As a man, you will meet two types of women:

1. The woman who has genuine, raw desire for you.
2. The woman who does not.

There's nothing in-between.

Here’s the hard truth: your desire for her doesn’t matter nearly as much as her desire for you.

It’s funny, and sad… how most men foolishly believe that if they really want a woman, they can use money and financial provision to make her desire them. That’s completely wrong. That’s trying to cheat God’s design for sexual attraction. And when you try to cheat the system, you pay the price… usually in the form of her cheating, exploiting you, or dumping you.

If a woman has no genuine raw desire for you, but you still commit to her thinking your money will keep her, here are the three possible outcomes:

1. She uses you until she gets what she wants (money, business setup, visa, property, etc.), then dumps you immediately. Example: the lady who got her UK visa, broke up with the guy before even landing in London.

2. She stays until you hit a financial low point and can’t provide like before… then she leaves.

3. She stays for the money and comfort, but cheats on you with a man she actually desires sexually.

Here’s the truth: when a woman has no real desire for a man, having sex with him feels disgusting to her deep down. It feels like eating bitterleaf or drinking strong agbo when you’re sick. She squeezes her face inside, even if she’s smiling outside.

But women are masters at pretending. She’ll fake enjoyment in bed just to keep accessing your money. Then, to satisfy her real sexual needs, she’ll cheat with men she genuinely desires.

Look at some recent Nigerian celebrity breakups:
- Ciara Chapman divorcing Sabinus
- AY Makun splitting with his wife Mabel
- Regina Daniels and Ned Nwoko separation.

These women are all very beautiful and attractive. But one thing you probably didn’t notice: they never had genuine raw desire for those men from the start. Those men thought money could lock the women down.

Now these women are walking away after securing the bag: Sabinus paying child support to his UK wife. And trust me Regina Daniels and Mabel Makun are walking away with assets, wealth, connections. Women are not foolish.

That marriage or relationship was just a business and wealth accumulation strategy.

When they leave, they play the victim card: “he cheated,” “domestic violence,” or whatever accusations they can put on the Man just to look innocent while portraying the man as the villain. But the truth is… They’ve milked what they wanted and are now free to enjoy the men they actually desire.

Lesson for every man reading this:
If you notice a woman doesn’t have genuine raw desire for you, walk away early. Don’t invest time, money, or commitment thinking your provision or “good personality” will change how she feels. It won’t.

Your money can buy her presence and cooperation. But only genuine desire gets her real passion, loyalty, and respect.

Choose wisely, kings.

dreamxhaser:
So, let me share one of the advantages of experience. Some things we read here can never be fully understood or implemented without experiencing the "horror" of women first-hand. 😂I’ve experienced women and know how "corny" they can be, my brain is on high alert.

A few months ago, I noticed this new girl liking my pictures and videos on TikTok. She was checking my profile from time to time. I wondered who she was, so I checked her profile, realized she was attractive, and sent her a DM. She replied very fast. I asked how she was doing, she replied, and then I actually forgot about her. To be honest, I really did forget because I was very busy.

Around November, I noticed she was still checking my profile and liking my pictures. I also saw her reposts/reshare a lot, maybe it was the algorithm. I checked her profile again and noticed she had posted some new pictures. Damn, she is hot, for real. I figured, why not go back? So, I messaged her again. She replied almost immediately and we started to vibe like we’d known each other for a long time. It was cool, man.

I thought, "This girl is really into me," because she seemed obsessed. I stylishly asked what her "spec" in a guy was, and she described me: dark skin, etc. That was cool for me because the game just got easier. I figured at this point, I could just lay back and let her do the work.

It reached a point where she suggested taking things to another level, and was like, "Let’s give it a try." I didn't want to play hard to get since she was giving me the green light. But I told her straight up, "Okay, but I won’t be spending any money on you because I have other things to focus my funds on."
She said that was fine, that she can wait till I am stable enough. We continued vibing; I gave her a grace period and didn’t see any "billing" coming from her side.

To be honest, I am not emotionally invested in her; I even view the s***x aspect as secondary now, like a bonus. The truth is, I just enjoy her company because I’m at a stage where I hardly socialize, it's just me at home grinding. I don’t know if you guys understand where I am coming from, but it just isn’t love.

The girl has taken this relationship quite far too; she has started discussing marriage, sending me wedding videos, and a lot more. I can’t give all the details here, but I can tell she is already imagining settling down with me.

She’s a student, by the way. She said she wanted to visit me. I told her that after school, I moved back to my parents' place last year, but I offered to lodge her in a hotel. She was okay with it, but one thing led to another and it ended up not working out. It’s all on me. Also, when we were talking about her visiting recently, she mentioned coming on Thursday and leaving on Sunday.

Now, this is where it gets interesting. On Thursday night, she didn’t chat with me or even reply to any of my reels on TikTok. At that moment, I knew something was fishy. I didn’t say a word and just continued with my life. Then, I noticed she didn’t come online on all social media on Friday. Based on my past experiences, I knew something was up, but I gave her the benefit of the doubt and decided to call her just in case something had happened to her.

Well, it rang once, then the call ended, and after that, the line wouldn’t go through. I just burst out laughing. I knew instantly that she went to see another guy and blocked me so I couldn't reach her.

I am sure she will message me on Sunday and start telling me a story about her phone being damaged, forgetting that she was originally supposed to be visiting me from Thursday to Sunday a few weeks back. Which is the same Thursday to Sunday her phone went off this week, meaning she was def with someone.

If I were as naive as I was years ago, I would have been worried, thinking something had happened to her, and I would have started blowing up her phone. But because I’ve experienced a similar script with a woman in the past, I just knew.
Honestly, the younger guys should get out there and experience women for themselves. Otherwise, you will see the warnings that the "red pill" teaches you and either ignore them or cover them up with an excuse.

You're totally right… Younger or less experienced men really need to get out there and rack up real-world interactions with women. No amount of redpill theory can replace it.

Low-experienced guys overanalyze everything. They believe there's always a “reason” behind a woman’s behavior towards him.

Examples:

- If she agrees to hang out, he believes the reason is because his seduction game is fire, that his teasing worked.

- If she doesn’t reply to his text, he will be devastated. He thinks: “Damn! I bleeped up, I texted too soon. I should’ve waited two days. I said the wrong thing. I’m an idiot.”

That’s how low-experienced guys think.

There’s a quote from my old mentor that used to confuse the hell out of me. He said: “The more experienced you are, the less control you have.”

At first I thought it was bullshit. Shouldn’t more experience mean more control?

But after hundreds and thousands of interactions with new women, I finally got it. Women’s behavior is full of contradictory patterns that no amount of “game” or even “redpill” can fully predict or control.

On the negative side:

I’ve had women all over me: touching, giggling, saying “You’re exactly my type”.... then vanish into thin air for no absolute reasons.

On the positive side:

I’ve had women criticize me, give cold or negative reactions initially, then suddenly flip, drag me home, and desperately begging me to pound them.

I’ve had “good church girls” who act like saints around other men but eagerly drop their panties for me… even on their period.

I’ve slept with women who swore they loved their boyfriends with all their heart… yet cheated with me without a second thought.

All these contradictions killed something in me. That’s why I’m almost bored or soulless when talking to women. I’m not excited or anxious anymore because I’ve let go of the illusion of control.

You can’t control what contradicts itself.

Women are deeply contradictory beings.

Beginners try to force control and make women’s behavior consistent.
Experienced men accept the chaos and flow with it.

The moment you know you’re truly experienced is when:

- You don’t feel special or superior when a woman chooses you.

- You don’t feel no atom hurt or rejected when a woman ignores or rejects you.

Pukkalolo:
The funny thing is, most guys think this kind of incident only happens in Nollywood movies.

It's pathetic, and I genuinely feel sorry for the previous guy in this story who spent millions doing a visa for her. If only he had understood the true nature of women.

That bolded part caught my attention: you said you pity the new man and that he better watch his back.

Well, the only reason he needs to watch his back is if he’s also spending millions on her like her ex did. But if he’s spending little or nothing to keep her around, then he has nothing to worry about.

Most men think women are evil or bad people. That’s not true. Women are simply following their feminine nature. The real problem is that many men are not living according to their true masculine nature.

Look, God designed male-female sexual dynamics a certain way. His plan is for men and women is... to desire each other, mate, and multiply.

As a man, you will meet two types of women:

1. The woman who has genuine, raw desire for you.
2. The woman who does not.

There's nothing in-between.

Here’s the hard truth: your desire for her doesn’t matter nearly as much as her desire for you.

It’s funny, and sad… how most men foolishly believe that if they really want a woman, they can use money and financial provision to make her desire them. That’s completely wrong. That’s trying to cheat God’s design for sexual attraction. And when you try to cheat the system, you pay the price… usually in the form of her cheating, exploiting you, or dumping you.

If a woman has no genuine raw desire for you, but you still commit to her thinking your money will keep her, here are the three possible outcomes:

1. She uses you until she gets what she wants (money, business setup, visa, property, etc.), then dumps you immediately. Example: the lady who got her UK visa,
Here’s the truth: when a woman has no real desire for a man, having sex with him feels disgusting to her deep down. It feels like eating bitterleaf or drinking strong agbo when you’re sick. She squeezes her face inside, even if she’s smiling outside.

But women are masters at pretending. She’ll fake enjoyment in bed just to keep accessing your money. Then, to satisfy her real sexual needs, she’ll cheat with men she genuinely desires.

Look at some recent Nigerian celebrity breakups:
- Ciara Chapman divorcing Sabinus
- AY Makun splitting with his wife Mabel
- Regina Daniels and Ned Nwoko separation.

These women are all very beautiful and attractive. But

If I'm not mistaken, Sabinus was dating the lady before he "blow". Moreover, he has been grinding and behind the scenes for other then reigning celebrities in the region like Duncan Mighty and Nigga Raw. AY has always been accused of being a notorious cheat, which he should have tackled with polygamy considering his cultural origins. Basket Mouth also got divorced. Where am I getting to? I don't really think it's a geninue desire thing, which is an essential factor in relationships/friendships, especially in the long term, but life changes whether in physical appearance, finances or ideologies.

Today's women have drastically changed, whether for the good, bad or ugly.