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Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by GravityDefier: 1:45pm On Jan 12

Who dey go for this kind worwor girl abeg

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Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by KingOfAmebo(m): 1:57pm On Jan 12

eyesoflagos:

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7593669776245869832?_r=1&_t=ZS-930Sm34UbEi

https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/01/12/today-is-my-wedding-but-i-ran-away-nigerian-woman-sparks-online-debate/

Beautiful girls don't run away from marriages na ugly girls like this one...no be juju be that?

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by Treasure17(m): 1:59pm On Jan 12

Tenses:
Where there's no investment there's no risk. That's why it easy for her to walk away. If she was expected to make financial contributions towards the marriage ceremony she would have open up to the man that the marriage will not work so no need to waste money.

Solid point right here. Reason one man said, women are more loyal to their sacrifices than their feelings.

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Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by ElGenio39: 2:03pm On Jan 12

Good for the guy,he won. This kind ugly problem.

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by Breaker001: 2:12pm On Jan 12

Look at her ugly face. See brown teeth like like brown roofing sheets for Ogbomosho 😂

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by TrainPark: 2:40pm On Jan 12

Sonnobax15:

Apart from the fact that she allowed the young man to waste his money on preparing for a wedding ceremony that was likely not to exceed beyond lintel level,I don't think it's a wise idea for anyone to choose societal pressure over his/her own peace of mind..

But then,I don't completely believe this story......There must be an ex who's unwilling to let go..

Sometimes you just have to blame the persons making decisions to dignify these things to the point of accepting such trash!

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by stuffs2002: 2:47pm On Jan 12

She is already married as long as she has done traditional marriage ceremony.
Even if the marriage did not work, she made a mistake bringing this issue to social media as this will prevent her from getting a serious man to marry in future

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by skydancer: 3:26pm On Jan 12

Double0h7:
I find her actions incredibly childish, because she knew well before the wedding that she didn’t want to marry him, but she waited until the last minute to make that known. I think she wasted many people’s precious time and resources.

If you don't know your fiance well enough to know she could disappear on the wedding day, is there any point entering the marriage? Same person you called quits with before and came back

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by Double0h7(f): 3:30pm On Jan 12*

skydancer:
If you don't know your fiance well enough to know she could disappear on the wedding day, is there any point entering the marriage? Same person you called quits with before and came back

You act like it’s only the man she let down! I’m talking about her family, her guests, people who took time and resources away from themselves to represent her. That’s childish asf! Cancel the wedding in advance or stay and talk to your guests. Running away is not what an adult does.

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Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by Nuklex(m): 3:34pm On Jan 12

eyesoflagos:

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7593669776245869832?_r=1&_t=ZS-930Sm34UbEi

https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/01/12/today-is-my-wedding-but-i-ran-away-nigerian-woman-sparks-online-debate/

if I'm the guy you will pay tire, this is emotional fraud, you knew you don't want him yet made go through stress of wedding preparation and financial stress involved. I will sue you legally and the other way round.

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by Tenses: 4:14pm On Jan 12

Sonnobax15:
. You made solid points and you're a wise man too..

My man, you seasoned words with flattery. Thank you anyway.

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by Laple0541(m): 4:16pm On Jan 12

Later when she starts having problems of getting a man to settle with, she will be blaming innocent Satan. Anyway, I blamed the foolish man that couldn’t see the handwriting clearly on on board.

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by Ezebuddy: 4:17pm On Jan 12

Who "NOSE" tomorrow .

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by Farrason: 4:28pm On Jan 12

Tenses:
Where there's no investment there's no risk. That's why it easy for her to walk away. If she was expected to make financial contributions towards the marriage ceremony she would have open up to the man that the marriage will not work so no need to waste money.

Very on point bro. This is the reason it is very mandatory to get a girl or woman commit or contribute something in a relationship. Otherwise, where she has nothing at stake, she is onto the next bike at the blow of a whistle. But if you check any babe that has truely committed her time, effort, body, money, brain, happiness, even sadness too. Then their heart dey with you. Any girl who is unwilling to commit these... Check her well, she has committed it to somebody else where.

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Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by PencilBox: 4:39pm On Jan 12

Tenses:
Where there's no investment there's no risk. That's why it easy for her to walk away. If she was expected to make financial contributions towards the marriage ceremony she would have open up to the man that the marriage will not work so no need to waste money.

Gheghe was right after all grin

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by Kobojunkie: 4:58pm On Jan 12

Precious201010:
✓ This one no get sense at all, the real marriage is the traditional marriage, so for her information she's already married to that man...
✓ Why allow the man and his family to waste money and invite guest all over just for her to run away...

The man should arrest her and make her refund for all the expenses.... And if she doesn't have money to pay back, she should be sent to Kaduna prison with hard labour.

That's actually not true at all. If thye traditional marriage has yet to be registered in the customary courts, it is merely a glorified boyfriend/gal friend relationship. 🥱🥱🥱

It is sort of like the Islamic Niqah or your church marriages, they are not legally binding until they are registered in the courts. So many people find this out late too. 🥱🥱🥱

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by Kobojunkie: 5:00pm On Jan 12

Flangelo12:
Did someone pummel her face or na so e be?

Go ask her father abs mother, the same ones we go query of your own face . 🥱🥱

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by iknopro(m): 5:50pm On Jan 12

I know this gal very well for my area for lagos

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by kiddaz: 5:56pm On Jan 12

See person face sef. God save the guy future generations grin

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by sexy74(m): 6:14pm On Jan 12

eyesoflagos:

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7593669776245869832?_r=1&_t=ZS-930Sm34UbEi

https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/01/12/today-is-my-wedding-but-i-ran-away-nigerian-woman-sparks-online-debate/

so she think sey she don win abi, her popularity of sorrow just start.

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by Olumaeme: 6:17pm On Jan 12

This is the major problem with men. Stop doing odogwu, let the woman also contribute to the relationship.

Nobody leaves a relationship they have equally invested or they have invested substantially. They cannot abandon it because they will think of where and how they will start again.

She ran away and happy to post it. She didn't have the decency to post it online.

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by AfDapone: 6:27pm On Jan 12

The introduction she did is the real deal. Wedding ceremony is just public announcement.

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by EmpressTitan: 8:04pm On Jan 12

Men are the price crew over to you.
These Gen Z women dey press una neck?
Laughing in Gen Z sipping mojito... cheesy

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by Clementz0(m): 8:31pm On Jan 12

This is a graduate of gehghe university certified, wisdom na water up up way boss

Tenses:
Where there's no investment there's no risk. That's why it easy for her to walk away. If she was expected to make financial contributions towards the marriage ceremony she would have open up to the man that the marriage will not work so no need to waste money.

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by objobj: 8:39pm On Jan 12

Flangelo12:
Did someone pummel her face or na so e be?

Na so the face be. The guy sef try for that kind face

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Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by Xpol: 8:39pm On Jan 12*

Precious201010:
This one no get sense at all, the real marriage is the traditional marriage, so for her information she's already married to that man...

Why allow the man and his family to waste money and invite guest all over just for her to run away...

The man should arrest her and make her refund for all the expenses.... And if she doesn't have money to pay back, she should be sent to Kaduna prison with hard labour.

To refund the man's expenses is what only concern me too. If the man takes her to court he will surely win.

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Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by BeeNG3: 7:04am On Jan 13

IKA ni e. o de ma gbesan e, because u did it delibrately.

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by skedy1(m): 7:40am On Jan 13

Tenses:
Where there's no investment there's no risk. That's why it easy for her to walk away. If she was expected to make financial contributions towards the marriage ceremony she would have open up to the man that the marriage will not work so no need to waste money.

Wisdom!

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by Fiscus105(m): 7:45am On Jan 13

Precious201010:
This one no get sense at all, the real marriage is the traditional marriage, so for her information she's already married to that man...

Why allow the man and his family to waste money and invite guest all over just for her to run away...

The man should arrest her and make her refund for all the expenses.... And if she doesn't have money to pay back, she should be sent to Kaduna prison with hard labour.

Has "INTRODUCTION" now marriage?

Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by Kobicove(m): 8:00am On Jan 13

Flangelo12:
Did someone pummel her face or na so e be?

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Re: “today Is My Wedding, But I Ran Away” — Nigerian Woman Sparks Online Debate by razzydoo(m): 12:04pm On Jan 13

Them go fire this one rocket from the other side. Just watch. Ode

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