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There is this student girl I met through Michat.
We started dating.
I believe in establishing people in life.

I discovered this girl is from a poor and idle background.
They are 7.
The first three daughters all married and they didn't goto school or learn work.
Their parents nothing to write home about.
She is the only that struggle to enter university through her POS business.

Her POS folded and she was left with nothing.
Last year I went for a program, I decided to setup a charging and POS. I entrusted the business in her hand to be balancing me weekly and also to support herself through it.

It was one excuse to another. This busines collapsed under 7 months.
Business I used close to 1.5m to open.
I swallowed the loss and moved on.

I discovered she can sew then I encourage her to open shop. I supported her with everything and she started her fashion shop.
I even rented a good apartment for her.
I discovered this girl is really extravagant with money. She can't save.

Last year Dec I gave her 500k with agreement she will be giving me weekly return.
Uptill now 1 naira I never see.
I discovered she and her sisters open whats app family daily contribution.
I was shocked. .
I asked what for.
She said they want to open business for their parents .

Meanwhile this girl has 2 years plus to finish school.
You are contributing to open business for your parents that have not supported you in school from day 1.

I warned her but this fell on her deaf ears.
Now this morning she chatted me that she got her sewing contracts that i should loan her 30k..
This is the girl I invested just 500k in her business this dec on agreement to be giving me weekly return and she never give me 1kobo from it.
Now you are chatting me for 30k loan. ..

And this is the girl I intend to marry.
I have just zero my mind off her to look for better person.

Guys it is a very big error to invest in a student from poor family.

I just learnt my lesson.

Na only you dey see marriage with her....But to her, you're just a mere poverty alleviation scheme..

"...student girl I met through Michat...this girl is from a poor and idle background...her pos business...rented a good apartment for her....this girl is really extravagant...the girl I intend to marry"




Couldn't stop LAUGHING over here.

Baba "invested" over #2 MILLION on a hookup girl that other guys FORK for #10K.

Lol, sorry for your loss but you have a scammer as a potential partner. Use your head before you run dry for life.

Namaster:
"...student girl I met through Michat...this girl is from a poor and idle background...her pos business...rented a good apartment for her....this girl is really extravagant...the girl I intend to marry"




Couldn't stop LAUGHING over here.

Baba "invested" over #2 MILLION on a hookup girl that other guys FORK for #10K.

He come here dey talk say na her background be the issue...ontop hk girl wey him wan turn wife😅

plsdisvirginme:
There is this student girl I met through Michat.
We started dating.
I believe in establishing people in life.
I discovered this girl is from a poor and idle background.
They are 7.
The first three daughters all married and they didn't goto school or learn work.
Their parents nothing to write home about.
She is the only that struggle to enter university through her pos business.
Her pos folded and she was left with nothing.
Last year I went for a program , I decided to setup a charging and pos.
I entrusted the business in her hand to be balancing me weekly and also to support herself through it.
It was one excuse to another.
This busines collapse under 7 months.
Business I use close to 1.5m to open.
I swallowed the loss and move on .
I discovered she can sew then I encourage her to open shop.
I supported her with everything and she started her fashion shop.
I even rented a good apartment for her.
I discovered this girl is really extravagant with money.
She can't save.
Last year Dec I gave her 500k with agreement she will be giving me weekly return.
Uptill now 1 naira I never see.
I discovered she and her sisters open whats app family daily contribution.
I was shocked. .
I asked what for.
She said they want to open business for their parents .
Meanwhile this girl has 2 years plus to finish school.
You are contributing to open business for your parents that have not supported you in school from day 1.
I warned her but this fell on her deaf ears.
Now this morning she chatted me that she got her sewing contracts that i should loan her 30k..
This is the girl I invested just 500k in her business this dec on agreement to be giving me weekly return and she never give me 1kobo from it.
Now you are chatting me for 30k loan. ..
And this is the girl I intend to marry.
I have just zero my mind off her to look for better person.
Guys it is a very big error to invest in a student from poor family.
I just learnt my lesson

Sense is really not your friend ..despite all preachings of last year..you still made this mistake..
In life..if you cannot hold someone accountable financially the first time...there should be no 2nd time...
Don't date students..don't invest in any woman till she becomes your wife or fiancée at least..

You better turn back before it's too late

You dey waste your resources and time.



Run🏃 now wey the regret never magnify!

All I have gotten from your numerous stories with your sirchiboy and Co monikers is that you are obsessed with looking for a industrious woman to settle down with, someone that will be working and making money for you and the family while you relax and not do much.
You think it's to have capital, when you don't have a business mindset and know how, you will lose all the businesses, even your Uber business you stopped within one year and that wasn't because of a woman.

My own is, you either start learning trading or find a 9 - 5 work and do, doesn't matter what it is, this will change your mentality.

Always looking for a hustling woman that you want to marry and work her as slave to be giving you money weekly while you relax, you will not see it.
So focus on improving yourself and making it out yourself.

Sandralight:
All I have gotten from your numerous stories with your sirchiboy and Co monikers is that you are obsessed with looking for a industrious woman to settle down with, someone that will be working and making money for you and the family while you relax and not do much.
You think it's to have capital, when you don't have a business mindset and know how, you will lose all the businesses, even your Uber business you stopped within one year and that wasn't because of a woman.

My own is, you either start learning trading or find a 9 - 5 work and do, doesn't matter what it is, this will change your mentality.

Always looking for a hustling woman that you want to marry and work her as slave to be giving you money weekly while you relax, you will not see it.
So focus on improving yourself and making it out yourself.

Am I surprised this is coming from a woman? Hell no!!! I'm not surprised....

Women will always be in support of their fellow women,even when it's crystal clear that she's moving in the wrong direction

From the gibberish you just wrote up there,one thing that I deduced from all of it is that a woman shouldn't be supportive to her man,the man whom she intend to spend the rest of her life with That it's a taboo for a woman to be accountable to her man,I mean the same man who has invested so much on her? . But don't you think that being accountable to oneself comes from the ideas, experiences and lessons of being accountable to someone at a time? . If she couldn't manage the small business she had got at this moment,what makes you think she would be able to manage a mega business should the opportunity present itself before her?

Honestly,I blame your female neighbors and any other female who may be under you,or be looking up to you as her role model cuz you're the type of woman who will be deriving pleasure from leading your fellow women astray...

Hope you’re investing in your family too

Namaster:
"...student girl I met through Michat...this girl is from a poor and idle background...her pos business...rented a good apartment for her....this girl is really extravagant...the girl I intend to marry"




Couldn't stop LAUGHING over here.

Baba "invested" over #2 MILLION on a hookup girl that other guys FORK for #10K.

I don’t just understand how most of them reason sometimes….i don’t know if it’s low self esteem or something else entirely

Please, don't be angry o, how many of your siblings have you established before financially? Have you ever given any of your siblings up to 500k to start something? If the answer is no then it means you're a very wicked person and Satan is using this girl to pay u back for ur wickedness. Some of you that are fun of funding women all in the name of relationships are the ones that'll come online to lament how your siblings are disturbing you for financial assistance and will always use this quote that nobody owes us anything but will always become foolish when it concerns prick and toto things.

If this wasn't made up, then read what you wrote from third person POV... Love has nothing to do with it. You self ronu now!

Sonnobax15:
Am I surprised this is coming from a woman? Hell no!!! I'm not surprised....

Women will always be in support of their fellow women,even when it's crystal clear that she's moving in the wrong direction

From the gibberish you just wrote up there,one thing that I deduced from all of it is that a woman shouldn't be supportive to her man,the man whom she intend to spend the rest of her life with That it's a taboo for a woman to be accountable to her man,I mean the same man who has invested so much on her? . But don't you think that being accountable to oneself comes from the ideas, experiences and lessons of being accountable to someone at a time? . If she couldn't manage the small business she had got at this moment,what makes you think she would be able to manage a mega business should the opportunity present itself before her?

Honestly,I blame your female neighbors and any other female who may be under you,or be looking up to you as her role model cuz you're the type of woman who will be deriving pleasure from leading your fellow women astray...

Dude the Op other monikers are Sirchiboy, ibtxxo and etc, if you spend time in nairaland you will see his different stories and how he is 46 years old and have nothing to show for it, to me it's obvious he is looking for a woman that will hustle for him while he wait around.
I grow up in Delta state and I have seen so many men like that depending on their wives while they lazy around.

I have no problem for women supporting their husband as long as the husband is also hustling too, I will support my partner because I believe when 2 partners works together the home is run smoothly.
My advice was for specifically the OP because all he does is complain and complain

Hmmmmm it's her boyfriend nothing wrong if he chose to help

Sonnobax15:

Na only you dey see marriage with her....But to her, you're just a mere poverty alleviation scheme..

Namaster:
"...student girl I met through Michat...this girl is from a poor and idle background...her pos business...rented a good apartment for her....this girl is really extravagant...the girl I intend to marry"




Couldn't stop LAUGHING over here.



Baba "invested" over #2 MILLION on a hookup girl that other guys FORK for #10K.

Hey............. Be a gentleman

1.5m

500k
She is your girlfriend nothing wrong investing in her

If you can gave her above money

What is 30k

Give it to her

God will reward you

When they tell u to learn street OT una go talk say , I'm chasing money I want to leave woman, u don't know studying woman is part of life course u need to take and the earlier the better, u are probably dating an hookup girl that is being fuccked 10k by small guys way below u but u are here forming lover responsible man , see ur life? As a confirm guy u will know an hookup girl within a few minutes of intaracting with them even by merely see her whatsapp profile I'm not even talking about the pics, now u have learned the hard way

Na this type of client my cousins dem Dey find

Africans like to enmeshed themselves in poverty.

If i were u,I would look for someone that is better than me financially and date for marriage and stop following this kind of liability.

Is like u hate your life. If u truly like yourself,go and look for someone better and not a student.

Leave students alone...she doesn't take u serious but sees u as a source of income and nothing more.

Be careful...this isn't love.

You met her on michat. I rest my case

OP is a troll.

Waste of bandwidth.

You already know your answer bro! Don't waste your time and ours

Sandralight:
Dude the Op other monikers are Sirchiboy, ibtxxo and etc, if you spend time in nairaland you will see his different stories and how he is 46 years old and have nothing to show for it, to me it's obvious he is looking for a woman that will hustle for him while he wait around.
I grow up in Delta state and I have seen so many men like that depending on their wives while they lazy around.

I have no problem for women supporting their husband as long as the husband is also hustling too, I will support my partner because I believe when 2 partners works together the home is run smoothly.
My advice was for specifically the OP because all he does is complain and complain

Do you have strong evidence to back up or I get you arrested.
You are an isoko or Urbobo girl

Ibtxxo:
Do you have strong evidence to back up or I get you arrested.
You are an isoko or Urbobo girl

Chike rest we don dey this nairaland for close up to 10 years I don know you from years and years ago

No be you be the jobless guy that hardly feed some days ago. Yeye dey smell.

There is this student girl I met through Michat.
We started dating.
I believe in establishing people in life.

I discovered

plsdisvirginme:
There is this student girl I met through Michat.
We started dating.
I believe in establishing people in life.

I discovered this girl is from a poor and idle background.
They are 7.
The first three daughters all married and they didn't goto school or learn work.
Their parents nothing to write home about.
She is the only that struggle to enter university through her POS business.

Her POS folded and she was left with nothing.
Last year I went for a program, I decided to setup a charging and POS. I entrusted the business in her hand to be balancing me weekly and also to support herself through it.

It was one excuse to another. This busines collapsed under 7 months.
Business I used close to 1.5m to open.
I swallowed the loss and moved on.

I discovered she can sew then I encourage her to open shop. I supported her with everything and she started her fashion shop.
I even rented a good apartment for her.
I discovered this girl is really extravagant with money. She can't save.

Last year Dec I gave her 500k with agreement she will be giving me weekly return.
Uptill now 1 naira I never see.
I discovered she and her sisters open whats app family daily contribution.
I was shocked. .
I asked what for.
She said they want to open business for their parents .

Meanwhile this girl has 2 years plus to finish school.
You are contributing to open business for your parents that have not supported you in school from day 1.

I warned her but this fell on her deaf ears.
Now this morning she chatted me that she got her sewing contracts that i should loan her 30k..
This is the girl I invested just 500k in her business this dec on agreement to be giving me weekly return and she never give me 1kobo from it.
Now you are chatting me for 30k loan. ..

And this is the girl I intend to marry.
I have just zero my mind off her to look for better person.

Guys it is a very big error to invest in a student from poor family.

I just learnt my lesson.

That family will leech you to death. I don't know how you people see fire and want to put your hands in it hoping not to get burnt
You will cry hot bitter tears if you ain't careful.

Namaster:
"...student girl I met through Michat...this girl is from a poor and idle background...her pos business...rented a good apartment for her....this girl is really extravagant...the girl I intend to marry"




Couldn't stop LAUGHING over here.

Baba "invested" over #2 MILLION on a hookup girl that other guys FORK for #10K.

E get wan song like this i hear one time, it goes like this;

Enter Cubana, wetin my eyes see, my mouth no fit talk
See my life, i don go love ***