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we have been dating for a while now but the fact remains that the stigmatization is too much. People discriminate against her so much

maduxs:
She is a very good girl, what I'm looking at is what is inside her I mean her personality even though she is obese, she gives me peace of mind.

PeacenLove2:
What a great guy you are? You proposed to her and then brought this issue to nairaland. I hope those pictures are not yours. I mean seriously?

Ok, let me try small. If you were an Albino, would it be nice if people didn't think you are good enough to marry? If you don't really mind why are you letting people get in your way of happiness? Yes, you could have albino children but would it be a problem for you? If not, screw the naysayers and follow your heart. Great people are hard to come by and when you find that special person, don't let him/her slip away.

Please take those pictures down if they are really yours.

Oluromantic:
Lemme be frank with you bro as man to man. The bolded is your jackpot for life. Never let go of it. To say the truth, looking at her pics alone, she looks really peaceful. I'm in same shoes with you. I'm a PhD aspirant and a xtain. My fiancee is just a OND holder and a Muslim. Why? Bcus of all the very beautiful girls i have some of which have masters, none is as peaceful as her. Honestly I feel peace of mind like river around her unlike the other ones and I plan to sponsor her bsc thru direct entry. We've been together for 3 yrs and i didn't propose cus I was looking for someone better. Instead I saw better wahala and future troubles waiting to enter as wives before they explode. So I strongly advice you to choose peace of beauty and appearance.

Ignore those girl-posters above me. All they know as women is Love love love. They talk of love like... If you love her, you will just choose her straight away without considering the future or all those things you're listed above. No! Many things comes to the mind of a man when finding love and honestly you mentioned some of them. I've been in ur exact shoes too. I'm the only child of my mom and me n my half-siblings are not close. I need a girl who will take my mom as hers and physically take care of her at old age even if I provide the money. I love my mom so much. Not all girls understand that, especially the so called beautiful ones. So choose right bro.

Chii59:
Nigerians. Always afraid of taking risks. Love is a risk. And what's so wrong about marrying an albino?
All these fear fear make people who have one challenge or disorder give up on love. Because no matter how amazing you are, people will always say "not good enough".

lightangel65i:
Exactly if you love someone, no stupid biological science can get between you, don't listen to what others say its your life they are not living it for you, i cant promise it will be the best scenario or that you wont have ups and downs, but you get to spend your life with someone you love.

Am so PC right now

Chii59:
Pc?

Well you're right. But a lot of us Nigerians fear a lot especially when it comes to marriage.
I love the way these Whites love, they love in spite of debilitating disease, inspite of stage 4 cancer and deadly stuffs like that.
And when they feel the love is no more there, they simply divorce and Co-parent instead of brewing bone-chilling hatred in their hearts for one another.

Life is a risk, love is a risk. If you loose love because of "what will people say?" you're on your own.

lightangel65i:
Exactly.
PC i heard it from a movie it means supporting the minority

Auladimeji:
I heard that the Place looks Pinkish

Auladimeji:
I heard that the Place looks Pinkish

maduxs:
Admin please bring this post to light. I have an albino girlfriend, we have been dating for a while now but the fact remains that the stigmatization is too much. People discriminate against her so much
Every time I'm walking with her people looks at us as if we came from another planets.All my close relations and friends I told about her discouraged me from getting married to her. Everybody is against me, they told me how can I introduce albinism to my lineage.
I understand that she has a very poor visual acuity, she is prone to skin cancer, she will depend on me to get some certain task done especially under sun.
She is a very good girl, what I'm looking at is what is inside her I mean her personality even though she is obese, she gives me peace of mind.
Finally she is also a petrochemical engineer, and very brilliant person though her albinism has been disadvantageous to her from getting a better job. I just proposed to her against all odds even though I'm all alone. Should I go on to marry her? Please I need advice from people with mature minds. Please post this picture of us

Kemimarch16:
If u really love her then go ahead

Petyprincess:
Follow your heart

ZINIBANKS:
Op think am again O
He get why

Chii59:
Bia nwoke why are you still awake. Oya go and sleep osiso!