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Body Count Rules Does Not Apply To All Women - Our NJA Men Take Accountability

VeraAg:
When I hear about this stupid body count rule it’s usually saying that “we need women to have a body count of 0-3, everyone else is considered to be an olosho.” Oh really? Oh really??


Well during the Christmas holiday in Abuja, I reconnected with some of my friends growing up and on of them was a biracial girl. I have heard girls whisper about a different one being very promiscuous back in school and not held to the same standard as everyone else. All the Nigerian guys in school wanted to try her and she wanted to. It was judged at first, but the guys started to take their turns with her and it was only the fully black girls that were left judging her.

Now for my biracial friend, this is when I learnt that good girl truly no dey pay. She is 22 years old but told me her body count is 30! She isn’t a runz girl or into the hookup business. She is simply sleeping with as many men as she likes, and she has a huge entitlement attitude to accompany that.

Yet the serious boyfriends she gets back to back ehn? She is the one that doesn’t want to settle until she is in her late twenties. All the guys want to try her, and she wants to equally fun and isn’t stopping anytime soon.

I’m very sure she is getting herself a good husband, probably one that knows her past because the way men simp for her even when she says it with her full chest how much experience she has had, it will shock any black girl. She has a queue of men who want to take her seriously yet I’m seeing normal black girls of darker skin get called the worst names nonstop for even loosing their virginity before marriage.

They can’t have an entitlement mindset and will most likely do the emotional labor and everything else when and if they get married.

I’m glad that some black women are realizing before marriage that what Nigerian men say is bogus. And I bet you this biracial woman isn’t going to end up single and alone. Black men what do you have to say about this

😂😂😂 did you have to add "this Biracial" to prove your point? Sorry to burst your bubbles, a lot of men do not give a bleep about you and your ilk. I for one couldn't give a hoot if you're half caste or light skinned.

Anyway, there are also foolish men who would still end up with women with skewed logic such as yours.

Tenrack:
😂😂😂 did you have to add "this Biracial" to prove your point? Sorry to burst your bubbles, a lot of men do not give a bleep about you and your ilk. I for one couldn't give a hoot if you're half caste or light skinned.

Anyway, there are also foolish men who would still end up with women with skewed logic such as yours.

Lol. I am asking a question from what I observed. My friend is the half caste one and she is not following the rules that the rest of us follow. I am not necessarily attacking anyone, just asking questions is all.

You didn’t even answer the question sef.

wait until she is ready to settle down

VeraAg:
Lol. I am asking a question from what I observed. My friend is the half caste one and she is not following the rules that the rest of us follow. I am not necessarily attacking anyone, just asking questions is all.

You didn’t even answer the question sef.

oh sorry. I didn't even read. I just breezed through. 😂 I see your posts are mostly about men preferences concerning light skinned and dark skinned. First off ,, are you dark skinned or light skinned and what ever prompted the topic?


To answer your question, to compare yourself with another would be the sabotaging yourself on the long run. The fact that you feel based on the perception she's fed you that she's at an advantage is very wrong. Good girl dey pay. If you toll that path, there's no guarantee that you'll receive a similar reward. For now it may look like she's winning, over 30 today counts? Lol. Trust me, she'll get the repercussions sooner rather than later.


Live your life in a way that you're at peace with your soul and your inner man. If you want to do copy copy, you might regret it. Find yourself a man who values you, and believes in you. Trust me it's not hard to find.


The problem with you females is your olojukokoro, you always feel like you deserve way better even when you know you're lacking seriously. There are a lot of men who don't cheat, and would wife you only if you calm down and observe. I'm sure there are more than enough flooding your DMS now. But you guys always go for comfort first, or your feelings even when the guy doesn't seem to be that into you.

Ladies need to do better.

Tenrack:
oh sorry. I didn't even read. I just breezed through. 😂 I see your posts are mostly about men preferences concerning light skinned and dark skinned. First off ,, are you dark skinned or light skinned and what ever prompted the topic?


To answer your question, to compare yourself with another would be the sabotaging yourself on the long run. The fact that you feel based on the perception she's fed you that she's at an advantage is very wrong. Good girl dey pay. If you toll that path, there's no guarantee that you'll receive a similar reward. For now it may look like she's winning, over 30 today counts? Lol. Trust me, she'll get the repercussions sooner rather than later.


Live your life in a way that you're at peace with your soul and your inner man. If you want to do copy copy, you might regret it. Find yourself a man who values you, and believes in you. Trust me it's not hard to find.


The problem with you females is your olojukokoro, you always feel like you deserve way better even when you know you're lacking seriously. There are a lot of men who don't cheat, and would wife you only if you calm down and observe. I'm sure there are more than enough flooding your DMS now. But you guys always go for comfort first, or your feelings even when the guy doesn't seem to be that into you.

Ladies need to do better.

You said it all

nnamdi640:
You said it all

abinna. Them get advantage wey dem dey use their own hand turn into disadvantages. Then later dem go say men are scum.

I should take accountability that you sheepishly open your legs waaah like Airtel broadband for every dik and harry? Hell no.
Body counts matter to all men. No man is going to tell you to stop fukin and it's all fun till you're ready to settle down.
Call me insecure or not a real man, but eh body counts matters. No responsible man wants bonni blue kind of woman as their wife or mother to their kids.

Tenrack:
oh sorry. I didn't even read. I just breezed through. 😂 I see your posts are mostly about men preferences concerning light skinned and dark skinned. First off ,, are you dark skinned or light skinned and what ever prompted the topic?


To answer your question, to compare yourself with another would be the sabotaging yourself on the long run. The fact that you feel based on the perception she's fed you that she's at an advantage is very wrong. Good girl dey pay. If you toll that path, there's no guarantee that you'll receive a similar reward. For now it may look like she's winning, over 30 today counts? Lol. Trust me, she'll get the repercussions sooner rather than later.


Live your life in a way that you're at peace with your soul and your inner man. If you want to do copy copy, you might regret it. Find yourself a man who values you, and believes in you. Trust me it's not hard to find.


The problem with you females is your olojukokoro, you always feel like you deserve way better even when you know you're lacking seriously. There are a lot of men who don't cheat, and would wife you only if you calm down and observe. I'm sure there are more than enough flooding your DMS now. But you guys always go for comfort first, or your feelings even when the guy doesn't seem to be that into you.

Ladies need to do better.

What prompted me to ask this questions is from my observations. Dark skin girls get called names from childhood while lighter girls are given compliments and if some decided to be messing around with a guy or two, they were rarely called out. I totally understand what is being said here about not comparing my life to others, I was heated at the moment of posting this.

marlow1962:
I should take accountability that you sheepishly open your legs waaah like Airtel broadband for every dik and harry? Hell no.
Body counts matter to all men. No man is going to tell you to stop fukin and it's all fun till you're ready to settle down.
Call me insecure or not a real man, but eh body counts matters. No responsible man wants bonni blue kind of woman as their wife or mother to their kids.

Someone said I should wait until we are older to see what happens to my friend. I will do that.

Tenrack:
abinna. Them get advantage wey dem dey use their own hand turn into disadvantages. Then later dem go say men are scum.

thats why i asked what you guys thought first

VeraAg:
What prompted me to ask this questions is from my observations. Dark skin girls get called names from childhood while lighter girls are given compliments and if some decided to be messing around with a guy or two, they were rarely called out . I totally understand what is being said here about not comparing my life to others, I was heated at the moment of posting this.

This is the most bogus bs I have ever heard/ read. Did you grow up in a cave or what

kiddaz:
This is the most bogus bs I have ever heard/ read. Did you grow up in a cave or what

are you a man? and if i grew up in a cave how the hell do i know caveman?

VeraAg:
thats why i asked what you guys thought first

just do you. The kind regret wey go knack her later ehn. She won't even share with you. Karma has a way of leveling the playing field. Continue being the good lass that you are (that's if youre telling us the truth o). You'll attract good men.

VeraAg:
What prompted me to ask this questions is from my observations. Dark skin girls get called names from childhood while lighter girls are given compliments and if some decided to be messing around with a guy or two, they were rarely called out. I totally understand what is being said here about not comparing my life to others, I was heated at the moment of posting this.

lol. Vera, you're funny. Really funny. Do you know that dark skinned girls are a treasure?
.I for one, I have never been attracted to light skinned let alone Biracial girls. I don't even look at them twice. Don't be like that. Your dark skin/ebony skin is the best thing you could ever ask for. I promise you. Lol don't be thinking that dark skinned girls arent in demand. That's a flawed way of thinking.

I'm also dark skinned, and Lord knows I'm loving it like mad. One lady calls me ororo because my face is always shining lol.

VeraAg:
What prompted me to ask this questions is from my observations. Dark skin girls get called names from childhood while lighter girls are given compliments and if some decided to be messing around with a guy or two, they were rarely called out. I totally understand what is being said here about not comparing my life to others, I was heated at the moment of posting this.

Just so you know, I've never for once in my life complimented a light skinned woman. I don't find them attractive in any way. Even the busty ones (I'm a boobs man btw)

Tenrack:
lol. Vera, you're funny. Really funny. Do you know that dark skinned girls are a treasure?
.I for one, I have never been attracted to light skinned let alone Biracial girls. I don't even look at them twice. Don't be like that. Your dark skin/ebony skin is the best thing you could ever ask for. I promise you. Lol don't be thinking that dark skinned girls arent in demand. That's a flawed way of thinking.

I'm also dark skinned, and Lord knows I'm loving it like mad. One lady calls me ororo because my face is always shining lol.

Wow, that made my day. Thank you

I like dark skin men back. The ones I went to secondary school with were just cruel. They would come unsolicitated and ridicule me to my face. They made it clear what they thought of my skin complexion without me asking, even when we looked similar.

Tenrack:
Just so you know, I've never for once in my life complimented a light skinned woman. I don't find them attractive in any way. Even the busty ones (I'm a boobs man btw)

That is good to know...

Tenrack:
just do you. The kind regret wey go knack her later ehn. She won't even share with you. Karma has a way of leveling the playing field. Continue being the good lass that you are (that's if youre telling us the truth o). You'll attract good men.

Thank you for the encouraging words. This was the kind of energy I was looking for.

VeraAg:
Wow, that made my day. Thank you

I like dark skin men back. The ones I went to secondary school with were just cruel. They would come unsolicitated and ridicule me to my face. They made it clear what they thought of my skin complexion without me asking, even when we looked similar.

lmao. "Back in secondary school" that's what you called it ba. They were still kids doing kids stuff. Black women are th prettiest out there I promise you. You just don't know it yet, but your melanin skin is a treasure. Don't let anybody gaslight you into thinking otherwise.

Or you think "the blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice" post is just for show?

Nne you're absolutely gorgeous. Let no man or woman tell you otherwise.

Tenrack:
oh sorry. I didn't even read. I just breezed through. 😂 I see your posts are mostly about men preferences concerning light skinned and dark skinned. First off ,, are you dark skinned or light skinned and what ever prompted the topic?


To answer your question, to compare yourself with another would be the sabotaging yourself on the long run. The fact that you feel based on the perception she's fed you that she's at an advantage is very wrong. Good girl dey pay. If you toll that path, there's no guarantee that you'll receive a similar reward. For now it may look like she's winning, over 30 today counts? Lol. Trust me, she'll get the repercussions sooner rather than later.


Live your life in a way that you're at peace with your soul and your inner man. If you want to do copy copy, you might regret it. Find yourself a man who values you, and believes in you. Trust me it's not hard to find.


The problem with you females is your olojukokoro, you always feel like you deserve way better even when you know you're lacking seriously. There are a lot of men who don't cheat, and would wife you only if you calm down and observe. I'm sure there are more than enough flooding your DMS now. But you guys always go for comfort first, or your feelings even when the guy doesn't seem to be that into you.

Ladies need to do better.

Hmmm hmmm hmmm

Having a body count of 3,is still ok compared to having 20plus body counts..Why will a girl have 20plus body counts eh??..That’s a VETERAN in opening of legs..

Tenrack:
lmao. "Back in secondary school" that's what you called it ba. They were still kids doing kids stuff. Black women are th prettiest out there I promise you. You just don't know it yet, but your melanin skin is a treasure. Don't let anybody gaslight you into thinking otherwise.

Or you think "the blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice" post is just for show?

Nne you're absolutely gorgeous. Let no man or woman tell you otherwise.

I guess things change as we get older. Thank you again

VeraAg:
I guess things change as we get older. Thank you again

exactly. Discard that thinking. No women fine reach black women.

Set awon afobo tore 😂