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Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Prince16:
Same way Adam's taste of women (Eve) was poor, right??
If the average man understands the meaning of the wise saying: "weaker vessel", nothing they do will ever disappoint you.

Having absolute trust in the loyalty of the average woman can be likened to trusting a goat never to eat your vegetable.
Skj13777:
Your taste is women is poor
They are homosapiens loyal only to their emotions - ie, they make decisions based on how they feel in the present moment.

If she tells you "I love you" at 3.00pm, she probably meant it; but once you leave and another man steps in her presence by 4.00pm and makes her feel good, she'll shift her love to him!
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by lezz(m):
Females don't have boundaries. They mirror the person in their lives.

It is better once they leave the care of their father, they should move into their husband's house
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Kobicove(m): 3:47pm On Jan 15
Thundafireseun:
This case is normal…. I travelled to Abuja on a business trip and asked my girlfriend to help hold my HOUSE KEY …

A friend of mine who was transferred from Lagos to Asaba asked me if he could stay in my house and I said he could collect my key from my girlfriend…

I realized later that my friend was lashing my girlfriend in my own house 😳…..

Case 2 …. I had one girl that wasn’t my serious girl my friend asked if he could toast my girl.. I said yes because we were not serious about our relationship….
I gently walked away into my room so he could make his moves… When I walked back into my living room less than 5 minutes later my friend was lashing this girl in my palor 😳😳😳
You make poor choices in selecting women
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by TheStoriesOfMan: 3:48pm On Jan 15
lenghtinny:
Another perfect example of what Ubunja has been preaching since 2017….

Na why I no fit blame guys wey Dey clear their ex apartment when they part ways….

Such actions comes from a place of pain angry
Ubunja na OG for this space. I miss his teachings.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Tenrack: 3:49pm On Jan 15
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Men will never learn..

Since I placed my banny in my shop,I've been noticing how she has been glowing angry. Omoh,na once I use style tell her say make she go find another work do angry

Since then,na me come dey glow angry

Nigerian bannies wey be Merlin when it comes to relationship scam angry

People wey God create for fun,na those kind people you expect me to take serious angry. No way angry
oh small small your mouth don dey change. So that your babe you no come trust am again. grin
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Rutherinspace: 3:51pm On Jan 15
Thundafireseun:
I pity you….

If you think women are different from others
He's correct. You attract your like. Women are different just as men are different. Your mother, sisters and other female relatives are different from others. Imagine the kind of friends that you have. He wants to sleep with a women he's meeting for the first time, is he a prostitute? That's very absurd.
That's the reason why you also attract such kind of women, because you have irresponsible friends.
When you move with the right people, possess self control, and be focused. You will meet the right kind of women.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by fabolouz1(m): 3:53pm On Jan 15
This things need maturity. Paying a rent for a girl doesn't stop other males for visiting her. before you met her , she knew other guys and unless shes engaged to you , i don't see anything wrong here.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by monerozi5590: 3:57pm On Jan 15
Thundafireseun:
This case is normal…. I travelled to Abuja on a business trip and asked my girlfriend to help hold my HOUSE KEY …

A friend of mine who was transferred from Lagos to Asaba asked me if he could stay in my house and I said he could collect my key from my girlfriend…

I realized later that my friend was lashing my girlfriend in my own house 😳…..

Case 2 …. I had one girl that wasn’t my serious girl my friend asked if he could toast my girl.. I said yes because we were not serious about our relationship….
I gently walked away into my room so he could make his moves… When I walked back into my living room less than 5 minutes later my friend was lashing this girl in my palor 😳😳😳
Case 1. That one no be friend oh and the girl sef no try.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Sonnobax15(m): 3:57pm On Jan 15
Tenrack:
oh small small your mouth don dey change. So that your babe you no come trust am again. grin
I no trust am again bro angry
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Tenrack: 3:57pm On Jan 15
Thundafireseun:
I pity you….

If you think women are different from others
lmao. I be won type this thing. But you beat me to it. For him mind e dey follow classy women ,🤣🤣🤣😂 body go tell am las las
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Ebubu6: 3:59pm On Jan 15
Thundafireseun:
This case is normal…. I travelled to Abuja on a business trip and asked my girlfriend to help hold my HOUSE KEY …

A friend of mine who was transferred from Lagos to Asaba asked me if he could stay in my house and I said he could collect my key from my girlfriend…

I realized later that my friend was lashing my girlfriend in my own house 😳…..

Case 2 …. I had one girl that wasn’t my serious girl my friend asked if he could toast my girl.. I said yes because we were not serious about our relationship….
I gently walked away into my room so he could make his moves… When I walked back into my living room less than 5 minutes later my friend was lashing this girl in my palor 😳😳😳
You have very terrible male friends who can sleep with your wife
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Tenrack: 3:59pm On Jan 15
Sonnobax15:
I no trust am again bro angry
grin grin remember I warn you that time. 🤣🤣 women no be am. Just bleep them and forge ahead. Give one wey beta small belle. Pay am off.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Sonnobax15(m): 4:00pm On Jan 15
Tenrack:
grin grin remember I warn you that time. 🤣🤣 women no be am. Just bleep them and forge ahead. Give one wey beta small belle. Pay am off.
Na my target this year be that bro angry

Women na scallywags bro angry
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Tenrack: 4:03pm On Jan 15
SpencerForbes:
I still don’t understand why heartbreak stories always make me happy😂😂😂
me too. I don learn. Love na for fools. 😂😂I go continue to preach. If dem like make dem hear. "My woman is different" hand go touch you.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Kalulu44: 4:04pm On Jan 15
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Men will never learn..

Since I placed my banny in my shop,I've been noticing how she has been glowing angry. Omoh,na once I use style tell her say make she go find another work do angry

Since then,na me come dey glow angry

Nigerian bannies wey be Merlin when it comes to relationship scam angry

People wey God create for fun,na those kind people you expect me to take serious angry. No way angry
You go everly take one serious
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Kalulu44: 4:06pm On Jan 15
ponlear:
The guy na mumu. I am VERY happy he learned the hard way
This shit happens everyday, people post them, we read them and some people will still make the same mistake.

Even after reading this, some people will still rent a house for some dumb girl today, next week and forever!!!

Awon dodoyo
If there's no more thief then police work is useless. So every bad side in life must continue irrespective of how many people have heard about it
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Tenrack: 4:12pm On Jan 15
Rutherinspace:
He's correct. You attract your like. Women are different just as men are different. Your mother, sisters and other female relatives are different from others. Imagine the kind of friends that you have. He wants to sleep with a women he's meeting for the first time, is he a prostitute? That's very absurd.
That's the reason why you also attract such kind of women, because you have irresponsible friends.
[When you move with the right people, possess self control, and be focused. You will meet the right kind of women.
indeed. My BF sing pass this tune na. For him own case e Sabi women matter die. Babe of seven years wey e date. Wey do a lot for am as well, spend on am broke up with him. I told him that she's already seeing another guy, Baba no believe say another guy dey the picture. They were squatting together and na thr babe get the place. He left her and returned later to take some of his stuff.


Only to meet another guy there wey no even fine or tall reach am. The dude just get money and connections sort of. This girl lashed out at him for showing up without consent. She later reported him to the police. Had him tortured and arrested and lied that he was blackmailing her with nudes.

She lied that my guy beat her up. True they had a scuffle around 2013. When he hit her with anger. Do you know this girl had that picture saved in her gallery all this time? She showed to the police. Dem beat and torture my guy. He has to bail himself with 150k.

This one na real life story. Na my person e happen to. If you know as him and this girl tighr you no go ever believe say she go fit do such. Me I'm still shocked till now.

You can never be relaxed around women of these days. They are only loyal to their feelings. If you like no hear. Go dey put hope for one girl.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Peng12345: 4:14pm On Jan 15
Skj13777:
Your taste is women is poor
Don't overrate women besides some guys are gifted with persuading
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Tonnyray: 4:18pm On Jan 15
Skj13777:
Your taste is women is poor
More like horrendous.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Tonnyray: 4:20pm On Jan 15
Rutherinspace:
He's correct. You attract your like. Women are different just as men are different. Your mother, sisters and other female relatives are different from others. Imagine the kind of friends that you have. He wants to sleep with a women he's meeting for the first time, is he a prostitute? That's very absurd.
That's the reason why you also attract such kind of women, because you have irresponsible friends.
When you move with the right people, possess self control, and be focused. You will meet the right kind of women.
You have sense.
Well said.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by KingDashx(m): 4:24pm On Jan 15
Simp spotted.
You go learn soon.
fabolouz1:
This things need maturity. Paying a rent for a girl doesn't stop other males for visiting her. before you met her , she knew other guys and unless shes engaged to you , i don't see anything wrong here.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Nobody: 4:25pm On Jan 15
Tenrack:
me too. I don learn. Love na for fools. 😂😂I go continue to preach. If dem like make dem hear. "My woman is different" hand go touch you.
Honestly, Burna Boy said it best: sooner or later, everyone go taste how their “titanic romantic love” go end 😂
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by eagleonearth(m): 4:36pm On Jan 15
Thundafireseun:
This case is normal…. I travelled to Abuja on a business trip and asked my girlfriend to help hold my HOUSE KEY …

A friend of mine who was transferred from Lagos to Asaba asked me if he could stay in my house and I said he could collect my key from my girlfriend…

I realized later that my friend was lashing my girlfriend in my own house 😳…..

Case 2 …. I had one girl that wasn’t my serious girl my friend asked if he could toast my girl.. I said yes because we were not serious about our relationship….
I gently walked away into my room so he could make his moves… When I walked back into my living room less than 5 minutes later my friend was lashing this girl in my palor 😳😳😳
what is the definition of a friend according to you? Why do you call these category of people friends?
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Kwinesther: 4:40pm On Jan 15
Thundafireseun:
I pity you….

If you think women are different from others
So you mean your mother and sisters are also cheats? Wow kiss
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Prince16: 4:44pm On Jan 15
Sometimes, those girls 'come prepared'!
Waist beads, incisions on tongues/nipples/vagína, cooking food for you with their menses etc.

Theirs' is the female versions of yahoo plus!
Once u jam them, otilo!
KingDashx:
Omo I no dey pity simps at at all
I know person wey use 2M wey CL pay am go lodge girl just 3 days ago buy every thing for the girl, and the girl get 3 kids for different men, money don finish the guy put hand for jaw yesterday like person wey him mama die🤣🤣🤣

Me wey dey single, so I no know wetin I dey do Abi, Omo my money dey reach me well well.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Tenrack: 4:46pm On Jan 15
Sonnobax15:
Na my target this year be that bro angry

Women na scallywags bro angry
🤣🤣🤣🤣 na learning curve for everybody. Sooner men realise this, the better for them. Dem go start to help themselves more because they stand to gain a whole lot.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Rutherinspace: 4:57pm On Jan 15
Tenrack:
indeed. My BF sing pass this tune na. For him own case e Sabi women matter die. Babe of seven years wey e date. Wey do a lot for am as well, spend on am broke up with him. I told him that she's already seeing another guy, Baba no believe say another guy dey the picture. They were squatting together and na thr babe get the place. He left her and returned later to take some of his stuff.


Only to meet another guy there wey no even fine or tall reach am. The dude just get money and connections sort of. This girl lashed out at him for showing up without consent. She later reported him to the police. Had him tortured and arrested and lied that he was blackmailing her with nudes.

She lied that my guy beat her up. True they had a scuffle around 2013. When he hit her with anger. Do you know this girl had that picture saved in her gallery all this time? She showed to the police. Dem beat and torture my guy. He has to bail himself with 150k.

This one na real life story. Na my person e happen to. If you know as him and this girl tighr you no go ever believe say she go fit do such. Me I'm still shocked till now.

You can never be relaxed around women of these days. They are only loyal to their feelings. If you like no hear. Go dey put hope for one girl.
I'm not refuting the experience of your friend. Men and women disappoint in relationships. Most of the men that complain about women are not better than the women they complain about. You can imagine his friend having sex with a women the first day and in his house. How can he attract responsible women? I have men and female friends but I seldom hear of infidelity because I control my circle of friends. Most of my friends are married or in healthy relationships. If I should count 10, about 1 goes south.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Bimpe29(m): 5:05pm On Jan 15
Thundafireseun:
This case is normal…. I travelled to Abuja on a business trip and asked my girlfriend to help hold my HOUSE KEY …

A friend of mine who was transferred from Lagos to Asaba asked me if he could stay in my house and I said he could collect my key from my girlfriend…

I realized later that my friend was lashing my girlfriend in my own house 😳…..

Case 2 …. I had one girl that wasn’t my serious girl my friend asked if he could toast my girl.. I said yes because we were not serious about our relationship….
I gently walked away into my room so he could make his moves… When I walked back into my living room less than 5 minutes later my friend was lashing this girl in my palor 😳😳😳
Truly, experience is the best teacher. I don't envy you bro. 😂
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by lightwind(m): 5:07pm On Jan 15
fabolouz1:
This things need maturity. Paying a rent for a girl doesn't stop other males for visiting her. before you met her , she knew other guys and unless shes engaged to you , i don't see anything wrong here.

I no say women go like this lame comment.

This your 2 likes, na women get them.

$
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by JoeEeL(m): 5:07pm On Jan 15
runningriot:
As a man always have it in mind your kindness, love and affection are never recipe to make woman love you. You might buy house for her she will bring in another landlord. You might buy a car for her and she will take one dirty pilot to be cruising the car so invest in yourself first and doing so to any girl there should be limit even if her loyalty must be secured.
U spoilt everything with loyalty
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Malawian(m): 5:07pm On Jan 15
GOFRONT:
A Simp and his money are soon parted..
Otumba Shakespeare - 1781
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