Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? - Romance (3)

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Stephen0mozzy: 10:29pm On Jan 16

spiSeyi:
You lied.. a lot of guys are now discouraged even the married ones bcs s*x is what 9 out of 10 babes can bring to the table and s*x is no longer a big deal it's everywhere even getting a child doesn't require any form of martial commitment again all thanks to babay mama ideology.

When you're 70yrs old and can't hold an erection beyond first round, you'll understand that marriage was never really about sex.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by EXPRESSSMAN(m): 10:29pm On Jan 16

Seeplusplus:
Where are the virtuous women? Girls weh de wayward now pass guys aje.

Go to the club, 85% of the people there are girls. What are they doing? Smoking their lives away.

Parents are falling everyday in their responsibilities.

So many prostitutes out there parading themselves as future wives and mothers.
Keeping making excuses. What are you looking for in those places?

An average 23years on the street has about 5 body counts, same cannot be said of an average 25years old boy

Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by ono(m): 10:30pm On Jan 16

We are in trouble folks. Something needs be done urgently to check this ugly trend!

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by EXPRESSSMAN(m): 10:32pm On Jan 16

Seeplusplus:
Where are the virtuous women? Girls weh de wayward now pass guys aje.

Go to the club, 85% of the people there are girls. What are they doing? Smoking their lives away.

Parents are falling everyday in their responsibilities.

So many prostitutes out there parading themselves as future wives and mothers.

An average 23years on the street has about 5 body counts, same cannot be said of an average 25years old boy

Keep making excuses. What are you looking for in those places?

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by SixSeven: 10:32pm On Jan 16

I feel sorry for the men today. Not only has the economy given them a middle finger, it has messed with the minds of the girls of today so marriage as an institution is now affected. Men no longer want responsibility and do not want to be taken advantage of. What's the reward?

SixSeven:
I posted a video in my last comment. One of the reasons I don't bother arguing with women and don't give a damn about whether they think my comment is pandering or not is because with time, women eventually find out the truth. Time is a beautiful patient bride for men but an ugly tortuous truth for women. I need to copyright that. Women also don't like being told the truth, so keep telling them beautiful lies if you want to make them happy.

What happens to these women is that they have to settle. It was never a competition but the system does not favor men initially, it beats them but once you clock 30, things start to change. Men who learned from the beatings will start to look good while women who didn't know time changes yesterday will wake up to the reality of a new dawn. This is why the world always tried to raise the girl child more than the boy child because men can make many mistakes and still recover. A woman's recovery is usually hard if she makes mistakes, so man overtime knew this and wanted to raise her because they knew the future isn't nice, it can be harsh.

It's often too late before women realize in their 40s that the select few men they want are either married or not interested in them because of their age. They are then susceptible to fork boys/men and younger men who are still discovering themselves and not emotionally/financially mature for them. Women know themselves, that's why it's usually difficult for mothers to accept their sons marrying an old woman say 25 yo man vs 40 yo woman. The women know themselves. Women wake up one day later in life to see they are not as beautiful as they thought and newer editions have come out. Attention has gone to the beautyful ones who are born and trending.

A man is never ugly... Buchi Emecheta

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Realdeals(m): 10:38pm On Jan 16

preposterous high and unquenchable taste of ladies today is more of a factor than the man unwillingness.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by MrNipplesLover(m): 10:46pm On Jan 16*

One woman no fit satisfy me (x$xtually)...

For me to stay faithful with one, I never see any w$man wey deserve my faithfulness...

Dem no deserve am...

I'd rather give u belle and not m$rry u...

None of dem w$men deserves being wedded...

None...

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by fitinwell: 10:47pm On Jan 16

Almost all the young ladies are now secret baby mama's ,.. that's the simple fact you can take to the bank but cannot withdraw..

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Faith0(f): 10:47pm On Jan 16

No one intentionally avoids it, its nature

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by lebete3000: 10:48pm On Jan 16

SpaceX:
Women have higher standard now that most men don't qualify for.

With far little too offer than their elders, resulting in the men that meet their standards also not wanting them.
Reason they'll also remain single.
Them go old for Shiloh. undecided

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Archangels2(m): 10:48pm On Jan 16

Get married at your own peril. From experience, it's good when it's good but very bad when it's bad.

I won't say don't get married but know that many men don't find peace in marriages and peace is what you want in the long run

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by aestake: 11:02pm On Jan 16

SpaceX:
Women have higher standard now that most men don't qualify for.

A person who can't take care of herself have a higher standard.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by professore(m): 11:04pm On Jan 16

The women think say na flex when they started sharing their private parts like public toilets, thinking one man will still pay dowry and put them for house, now a lot of them are in their 40s and still single because men see them as objects.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by thomas2024: 11:09pm On Jan 16

GHustler:
Because the holy book supported so.

Do you believe in the Bible?

I bet you’re not an avid reader of the Bible or you are a church goer. Cos if you’re an avid reader of the Bible, you’ll see where the Bible warns of wifing a woman is to getting into trouble.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by BreakingNews21: 11:11pm On Jan 16*

I'm guessing dem know or have heard of the high body counts on many of the females in dey age bracket and want no wahala of the attitudes of these liberated/feminists babes. We won't go into the high probability of many of dem engaging in paid hook-up services. In other words they are too much damaged goods for holy matrimony.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by thomas2024: 11:23pm On Jan 16

BlocksNG:
me I'm not ready to house a used and condemn banny. I dey madt?

This thing you talk reminds me of one my female friends wey I see when I go house during festive period. That babe don marry now and e don born three pikin. Back then for our area, she dey fvck around. The funniest part be say I know most of the guys wey dey pass her around and none of them fit marry her. Na another innocent guy come finally put am for house.

I still remember one particular time when I pass behind a guy window wey dey knack this babe, I peep and see them and come dey hear her voice of “Lagbaja stop”😂😂😂 That memory still dey crack me up till today 😂😂 I pity men wifing these people these days

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by ravensckar(m): 11:26pm On Jan 16

wunmi590:

Marriage is not child's plays, the Tinubu economy has even made matter worst, slot of single who are even earning well are not considering marriage for now, they are even saving up to jakpa....

My friend we graduated together is earning almost 800k monthly, he will be 40 this year, he's not even thinking of marriage for now, rather than to jakpa, as he's still saving up, as he wants to go for school route..

The beauty of all of it is that LAS LAS, he will marry. cheesy

Why can he not face his warrant early on in life and enjoy his freedom later? There's a Yoruba proverb that says; "won ni kini yi, kini e ni, o ni o n looko, bi o ba lo, bi o ba de, oo ba nibe". This roughly translates to: you were informed of your responsibility, you said you're going to the farm. Whenever you return from the farm, you'll still meet your responsibility waiting for you. huh

Tell your friend I said he's whyning himself! cheesy

Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by AmishaCandra: 11:27pm On Jan 16

Don't ask Nairaland members for contact details (email, phone, bbpin) or investments.

Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by GravityDefier: 11:33pm On Jan 16

I want to gather the whole money in the world first.
Single life sweet especially when you are single but not single. If you really know what I mean. Why buy the cows when the milk are free grin

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by RPG2020(m): 11:45pm On Jan 16

Married is a scam

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by bobogogo: 11:48pm On Jan 16

Kimo21:
E good like that…make them carry their standard enter menopause while we enjoy our hard earned resources without stress in the meantime.

Hahahahaha...

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Adufeamos: 11:58pm On Jan 16

Biko help me ask them ooo..... yeye pple.

Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Jayboiii: 12:32am On Jan 17

mmadu4:
Marriage is overrated.in the next decade to come you will find out why

Hmm time will tell..u won't always be this strong..you think ur money will give you caregivers who are compassionate in ur lonely old age...u will understand its allabout the money and you will be treated as shit..ur valuables stolen and God help you you don't meet a murderer in form of a helper when u are frail.

Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Meedon: 12:45am On Jan 17

GHustler:
Young man you need to reproduce

This world full of suffering bringing kids to this world is a harm

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by wazobeer: 1:10am On Jan 17

There are many reasons depending on the individual and the location you're talking about.

For a lot of Nigerian guys, especially those who are trying to build from scratch, without prior family wealth, most guys just wanna fix their finances first before considering marriage, cos have you seen how Nigerian ladies talk down on "broke men"? How do you settle down on 150k salary? A lot of graduates still earn below 100k/month, so tell me how you wanna think of settling down with such ridiculous income? - this is just pure economics.

For some others, they just aren't ready, take it or leave it. A guy can have good finances, doesn't drink or smoke and doesn't womanize and still prefers to stay single - I think a lot of millennials are in this category cos they've seen it all and they're becoming better versions of themselves, by getting close to God and developing themselves.

What being single for years has taught me is that peace, even while sometimes lonely, is better than chaotic company. Men and women should learn to enjoy their single lives, cos whether we like it or not, not everyone will get married and this isn't a curse.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Sucre6: 1:42am On Jan 17

Wickedtruths:
Kindly limit your generalisation to the less fortunate men in ya family.

You dey mind the simppp?

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by EmekaBlue(m): 2:07am On Jan 17

I know say one day one day I go marry

Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Hhh4444: 2:47am On Jan 17

Meedon:
This world full of suffering bringing kids to this world is a harm

You reason like me...with the evil being perpetrated in the world,it makes zero sense to bring children to suffer. I wish everyone can see the world for what it is and stop giving birth so the whole system of suffering crumbles.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by pocohantas(f): 2:47am On Jan 17

I love how it is 99.9% men answering for themselves and they have gotten exhausted in 3 pages. No woman jumping on their posts to ageshame or marriage-shame them. Now direct it to women and watch logical people in action. They will suddenly find the energy to talk for 15 pages.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Hhh4444: 2:54am On Jan 17

From my experience so far with Nigerian women,I will boldly say that these women don't deserve relationship talk more of marriage. Do not take them seriously,I repeat do not take them seriously. Date or wife these women at your peril. Fvck as many as you can but never give them your commitment.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Kaczynski: 2:56am On Jan 17

Marriage is nothing but a legally binding contract that turns emotional dependency into a financial liability. let me break it down for you in terms even your BIOS could understand; why would i voluntarily install bloatware on my life? relationships are just inefficient resource allocation; time, money, sanity, all wasted on debugging someone else’s emotional stack traces. my kernel runs fine solo mfw you’re out here compiling dependencies for a shared life that’ll inevitably segfault.

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Re: Single Men Above 30,why Have You Avoided Marriage? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 3:01am On Jan 17

To be honest, I have travelled far and wide and from my experience, there is nothing sweet about marriage ,just to dey pay Bill's and Bill's.the best is to give birth to one or 2 kids .you dont need to be tied in a marriage to do that.ordinary gf wey I get I feel so suffocated when she comes to spend few days with me.my privacy is invaded.omo,na then i know say i no wan marry.i need freedom to do whatever i like abeg ,no be to keep woman for house dey pay Bill's up and down.me and my guys who are married go enta club and their wife will be calling them to come home.why me dey free as a bird.

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